My father was good to outsiders, but never really gave us any special treatment as his children. However, when we grew older we began to understand that he was building alliances and making connections for us. Now, a lot of the people that he helped come through for us, his children, in so many ways. I am grateful!

That Is Bratislava's Dad. This is the reason she is always bitter.

MC Oluomo donates Branded vehicles to Tinubu/Shettima campaign organisation

Watch video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCGNZSbQx_I

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

Those cover ups only created a conducive atmosphere for wickedness to thrive.
How can a man be kind to outsiders, generous to outsiders yet can't pay children schoolfees? Can't buy books, uniform, nothing? Can't give his wife money for food? But can give the last 1 kobo in his pocket to a church member or a distant relative?
Let me not talk.

Only a fool feeds others while his kids starve, while they praise your generosity, they at the same time laugh at your foolishness.

Roboto11:


They don't appear to have been homeless.

If they were not left to be sick, he educated them, he has done his bit.

In pursuing those things - a home, education and health he therefore did the others.

Mr. Man, from what you're writing, I think you're being disturbed by your conscience. If you're that type of father, please change your ways. Stop defending someone whose children know more than you.

No child will write such about his father unless he truly left a lifetime scar in their hearts. Please learn to be responsible to your family. It's the best thing you can do with your life.

a good father leave inheritance to his children and children children

Yeeb0s and lack of hometraining na 5 & 6.

What a eulogy



But why do some fathers act very kind to outsiders and neighbours but so corrosive to their immediate family?

Those neighbours find it hard to believe if you narrate the ordeal to them

Nice one.

1st priority of a father are his children, wife. Then others in the family.

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

Him just dey play,
Dey play

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

hmmmmm

Lagos2Berlin:


Mr. Man, from what you're writing, I think you're being disturbed by your conscience. If you're that type of father, please change your ways. Stop defending someone whose children know more than you.

No child will write such about his father unless he truly left a lifetime scar in their hearts. Please learn to be responsible to your family. It's the best thing you can do with your life.

Just as you think there are bad fathers, so can one have terrible kids.

He that did not provide for his house, especially his own immidiate family betray faith and worse than an infidel. Says the world of God.

This is what will be said of APC and some useless individuals in our seats of power who has rendered the upcoming generations useless and unproductive because of their evil greediness.

Bunch of eaters of leftovers!

abobote:
Ungrateful children, bringing them to the world should be a legacy, and he gave them education which gave them the audacity to express themselves arrogantly

He might be brainwashed by the mother.Although some parents dey fall hands sha.

JORDAN202:
HEY


ANY CHILD THAT COULD WRITE SUCH FOR ANY DEAD PARENT, IS A WICKED ASSHOLE.

YOU WERE AN ADULT WHEN HE WAS STILL ALIVE, YET YOU DID NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO CONFRONT HIM.

IF YOUR STORY IS TRUE, YOU SHOULD HAVE CONFRONTED THE MAN BEFORE HE DIED SO THAT HE CAN EXCERCISE HIS RIGHT TO REPLY.

MAY YOUR OWN CHILDREN DO THE SAME OR WORSE TO YOU UPON YOUR DEATH.

Living in self denial, as Mindlog said.
The days of this kin eye service manipulation are so gone. This generation no send your feelings.

They should move on with their life, and they should try to leave a good legacy for their future children.

Is 'sperrrm-donation' not a good enough legacy?

jaxxy:
Meaning?? Didn't he send them to school and teach them morals or was he an absentee dad?

He may even be worse than absentee dad, at least absentee are absent and you can easily forget about them

What about dad that you can see but will carry all his money for concubine younger than his daughter

Children at home can't eat but baba is providing steadily for womanfriend's children


Imagine sending your hungry and out of school children to give food and money to your concubine children owned by another man, this is real life event I'm telling you

donpapa:
They should go and face their lives too so that there kids won’t say the same about them

Some children of the first wife wrote this .

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

Why always blame men
Sometimes it’s the mothers fault
You guys will see a street thug that drinks beer non stop,a cultist, sags etc & you eventually prefer to sleep with someone like that over a boring doctor for example because the rough dangerous guy is fun, thrilling, exciting.
We’ve seen this pan out too many times with women
Hybristophilia is no new thing
You guys make stupid decisions & then blame men for it
If a woman refuses to pick a responsible provider for her unborn children then it’s solely her fault because women control who gets in their body
Plus I thought women are capable of doing anything a man can, why didn’t their mom take up the responsibilities
Most women brainwash their children until they are grown to truly understand the family dynamics

Man was just a humble tailor himself.

May be the child was brainwashed by his mother.

Lagos2Berlin:


Are you sure you're not writing out of guilty conscience?

For his children to have written such about him, it says a lot about how he lived his life. . . Don't blame the children, they must have been deeply hurt.

I have seen fathers that will blow money on women and strangers outside while leaving their children hungry and lacking basic things. If you're a father, try to take care of your home. What's bad is bad.

I am from polygamous background. My dad left no will

What if we were not united? There would have been lots of rancor and bitterness. He died as an octogenarian so had ample time to do write one.

This one no good o, the man no try the children self no try

JORDAN202:
HEY


ANY CHILD THAT COULD WRITE SUCH FOR ANY DEAD PARENT, IS A WICKED ASSHOLE.

YOU WERE AN ADULT WHEN HE WAS STILL ALIVE, YET YOU DID NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO CONFRONT HIM.

IF YOUR STORY IS TRUE, YOU SHOULD HAVE CONFRONTED THE MAN BEFORE HE DIED SO THAT HE CAN EXCERCISE HIS RIGHT TO REPLY.

MAY YOUR OWN CHILDREN DO THE SAME OR WORSE TO YOU UPON YOUR DEATH.

leave the fools.

EBMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

For the children to write these words about their father baffles me.

If they can come up with thoughts like these, I believe he would have educated them, which is best legacy a parent can give his children.

There are lots of fatherless and motherless children who are doing well without parents.

spencekat:
May be the child was brainwashed by his mother.

This is what most women do until the child grows up
Manipulate & brainwash

Flat headed child of curse, if your father was good to outsiders, it's very obvious he was more than good to you his children at home.

The only problem was you were a very lazy child who expected the poor man to do everything for you and he wanted you to be a man who can fight for himself, hence the reason you saw him as a bad father.

faceLAGOS:
I’m shenking my dad’s burial.

vawulence lord

E no good o

yinkeys:

This is what most women do until the child grows up
Manipulate & brainwash

Women can use emotions to brainwash some of their children.Just that fathers of the old,never displayed sentiments/emotions/romance in dealing with their children.