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Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by CaptMarvel(m): 10:35pm On Dec 19, 2022
That's pathetic.

Has bad as he maybe, he just made him look worse. The person he's writing that to is not even there to answer, na outsiders go just they shame for all of them in that family.

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Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Danniedpastor(m): 10:35pm On Dec 19, 2022
Lagos2Berlin:
Are you sure you're not writing out of guilty conscience? undecided

For his children to have written such about him, it says a lot about how he lived his life. . . Don't blame the children, they must have been deeply hurt.

I have seen fathers that will blow money on women and strangers outside while leaving their children hungry and lacking basic things. If you're a father, try to take care of your home. What's bad is bad.
A girl once told me that the day she have access to a gun,she will kill her father.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Danniedpastor(m): 10:36pm On Dec 19, 2022
Lagos2Berlin:
Are you sure you're not writing out of guilty conscience? undecided

For his children to have written such about him, it says a lot about how he lived his life. . . Don't blame the children, they must have been deeply hurt.
I have seen fathers that will blow money on women and strangers outside while leaving their children hungry and lacking basic things. If you're a father, try to take care of your home. What's bad is bad.
A girl once told me that the day she have access to a gun,she will kill her father.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by TenQ: 10:37pm On Dec 19, 2022
EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/
Lets see the legacy these children would leave for their own children.

The stop clock is on!
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Danniedpastor(m): 10:37pm On Dec 19, 2022
Lagos2Berlin:
Are you sure you're not writing out of guilty conscience? undecided
For his children to have written such about him, it says a lot about how he lived his life. . . Don't blame the children, they must have been deeply hurt.
I have seen fathers that will blow money on women and strangers outside while leaving their children hungry and lacking basic things. If you're a father, try to take care of your home. What's bad is bad.
A girl once told me that the day she have access to a gun,she will kill her father.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 19, 2022
Danniedpastor:
A girl once told me that the day she have access to a gun,she will kill her father.
Eyaa, I pray God heals her heart o... It is well.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by linearity: 10:37pm On Dec 19, 2022
Oluneutral:
I like the honesty/truthfulness of the children.
How do you know they are honest?

I do not think, it is prudent to conclude on the veracity of any issue, after just listening to only a single viewpoint.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Doyou2019: 10:38pm On Dec 19, 2022
Lagos2Berlin:
Oh so madrid deny endsars killing that year? Na wa o... Why him go talk that kind thing na... undecided
You really no know the level of wickedness these APC urchins can unlock in the name of helping their principals win elections.
You have no idea.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Emmanuel909090: 10:39pm On Dec 19, 2022
huh
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 19, 2022
Doyou2019:
You really no know the level of wickedness these APC urchins can unlock in the name of helping their principals win elections.
You have no idea.
Na wa o... May God help us. I pray 2023 is the year we get it right. I am not campaigning for anyone, but I will vote with my conscience.

God bless Nigeria.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Looter100: 10:48pm On Dec 19, 2022
madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.
Blood means nothing bro.We are just humans and family is an association,anyone fit dissociatehuhlearn okay
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by pepigeorge(m): 10:50pm On Dec 19, 2022
I am 100% sure
madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Actuarydeji(m): 10:50pm On Dec 19, 2022
Na Dem! I am very glad that I am Yoruba man, I am very sure that no Yoruba guy will write this rubbish concerning his late parent. It is a pity!!
EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 19, 2022
Chee59:
If my siblings will let me, I know I can give my father this exact kind of writeup.
This African tradition of respecting old people NO MATTER WHAT is a demonic tradition that needs to be destroyed.
My own father never cared if my panties were torn or I had cloth to cover my na_kedness.
I genuinely shed a tear after reading this piece and I hope and pray for your heart to heal.

All the memories I have about my dad is that of a father that prioritized the general wellbeing of his 5 sons and his wife even while on his dieing bed.

Lost him sometimes in February 2022 and still grieve once in a while over his demise after I had already planned visiting Nigeria with my family to see him.

Be the best parent that one can ever be to your kids or once you start having them.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Kisico: 10:51pm On Dec 19, 2022
Quite unusual. Those man's children are not smiling at all. But is it really right for them to say that about their demised Dad whether true or not?
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by K9blunt(f): 10:53pm On Dec 19, 2022
misan1977:
He brought u kids into this world at least, stupid shidren
Did the kids ask their dad to bring them into this world?
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by nwajesus12(m): 10:57pm On Dec 19, 2022
JORDAN202:
HEY


ANY CHILD THAT COULD WRITE SUCH FOR ANY DEAD PARENT, IS A WICKED ASSHOLE.

YOU WERE AN ADULT WHEN HE WAS STILL ALIVE, YET YOU DID NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO CONFRONT HIM.

IF YOUR STORY IS TRUE, YOU SHOULD HAVE CONFRONTED THE MAN BEFORE HE DIED SO THAT HE CAN EXCERCISE HIS RIGHT TO REPLY.

MAY YOUR OWN CHILDREN DO THE SAME OR WORSE TO YOU UPON YOUR DEATH.
fool
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Fuckyoumod: 10:59pm On Dec 19, 2022
madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.
guy, please I want to advise you.

When God starts blessing you with kids, cherish them, try your best for them, be a father to them. Make sacrifices for them as a father, train and nurture them. Believe me you will never regret you did.

But if you hate them and careless about them.

Don't blame anybody!

When a man fails to show love and care to his kids, Such men deserve worse.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Nobody:
Kisico:
Quite unusual. Those man's children are not smiling at all. But is it really right for them to say that about their demised Dad whether true or not?
In the society were I domicile, such heart-felt expression is considered to be therapeutic for the healing of the mind and the closure the kid's needs to move on.

If you see some brutal wills made by some rich parents that gave away all their wealth to different organizations such as research institutes and scholarships without living anything to their kids, you will be shocked to your bone marrow.

I have seen a few based on my profession and my perspective about life has significantly changed.

Just do your best and leave a life of contentment.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by PDJT: 11:00pm On Dec 19, 2022
Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!
-This is 21st century. Please make sure you don't enter the new year with this female dependency on men for food and survival. Being a woman doesn't mean being disable.

-Meanwhile, Rest in Peace to the gentleman. As for the illegitimate boy who wrote that rubbish about the dead, he will be a laughing stock in the community. I know Asaga, Ohafia, Ohafia LGA.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by emonis88: 11:01pm On Dec 19, 2022
No father il hate his children, unless he suspected they were not his, so the person who wrote that should go ask his mother if that man was his true father. But I guess she won't still tell them d Truth.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Justpassingby45(m): 11:01pm On Dec 19, 2022
I can never write this to my father anytime or day he die despite I have not gotten up to 20k from him from the day I was born til today and this didn't stop me from buying lands in 2 different state plus buying from East. Do you think its easy being a father
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Bobbiee: 11:08pm On Dec 19, 2022
My father was one such man. Horrible men who can't take care of children should be castrated before they're allowed to breed. They always want to further their line but are lazy and unwilling to shoulder the responsibility.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Kobojunkie: 11:10pm On Dec 19, 2022
donpapa:
They should go and face their lives too so that there kids won’t say the same about them smiley
Acceptance of the facts—choosing not to live in denial of it— that what they experienced was not in any way acceptable is the very first step. And these kids have taken a big step in the right direction at this point. undecided
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by vickydevoka(m): 11:11pm On Dec 19, 2022
Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!
To be a man is not easy. Once you get problem with your wife you are finished in life. I will advise all men to love their wife beyond anybody on this world. Just your wife is enough. Every other thing will fall in place. Your children will like you automatically. You will live long and happy after.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Shancca: 11:21pm On Dec 19, 2022
Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!
What you don't know is bigger than you. Your submissions are based on mere assumptions. Until you interact with the children of the deceased, you have no moral compass to judge him.

Raising a child not to talk of children is not typing on nairaland. I could remember complaining to my childhood friend how my dad couldn't pay my school fees back in the days. The truth is that my dad had nothing but I always think he has. But now, I am better informed. My maturity coupled with being married has thought me a lot about life.

I can only say that the children of the deceased are very ungrateful to God and their deceased father. May God show them light when the time is ripe.
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Isabi4lov: 11:37pm On Dec 19, 2022
You will surely be remembered by what you've done here on earth , charity begins at home but to some people it begins with strangers..
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Kobojunkie:
Shancca:
What you don't know is bigger than you. Your submissions are based on mere assumptions. Until you interact with the children of the deceased, you have no moral compass to judge him. Raising a child not to talk of children is not typing on nairaland. I could remember complaining to my childhood friend how my dad couldn't pay my school fees back in the days. The truth is that my dad had nothing but I always think he has. But now, I am better informed. My maturity coupled with being married has thought me a lot about life.
I can only say that the children of the deceased are very ungrateful to God and their deceased father. May God show them light when the time is ripe.
Stop that nonsense. The decision to birth another soul into this already hard world is one that should not be made by one who is incapable of adequately providing for the said soul. Children are a responsibility that only those who are able to meet up with the demand should take on. The child is not to blame when he or she points out the fact that the parents were ill-prepared for the responsibility that is he/she. Any parent who births children into this world without first ensuring they are capable and equipped for such responsibility, to begin with, is not only irresponsible but a blemish to parents in general. undecided
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Kobojunkie: 11:47pm On Dec 19, 2022
Justpassingby45:
I can never write this to my father anytime or day he die despite I have not gotten up to 20k from him from the day I was born til today and this didn't stop me from buying lands in 2 different state plus buying from East. Do you think its easy being a father
Is it easy to be the child of a father who cannot provide for the child he chose to bare into this world then? undecided
Re: You Left Us No Single Legacy - Sad Children Write On Their Late Dad's Biography by Kobojunkie: 11:49pm On Dec 19, 2022
Kisico:
Quite unusual. Those man's children are not smiling at all. But is it really right for them to say that about their demised Dad whether true or not?
Nothing unusual about their experience at all. Only they were bold enough to shed all foolishness to face the facts as they present themselves. Too many Nigerians live and exist in denial, mostly out of fear that by telling the truth, something bad will happen to them not realizing that by living in denial, they guarantee a repeat in the cycle of foolishness — they themselves end up no different than their parents before them, the reason many now believe there are generational curses on them when the problem is born of their own foolishness. undecided
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