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I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

This almost answers your question OP but I advise you don’t Bleep her, let her sweat to be with you and still don’t Bleep her, they feel so stupid if that happens.

LedRock:
This almost answers your question OP but I advise you don’t Bleep her, let her sweat to be with you and still don’t Bleep her, they feel so stupid if that happens.

I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

That's how most of you end up with a second wife

Wotoporiously Speaking

She dey play mind games bro, she wants to Bleep with your head by stalking you and your wife to see if you will text or call her and in the process she can come in and do a lot of damages via your ignorance to see her games like am telling you now, she's bitter you moved on with life and you're with someone else and probably having Peace of mind.

Your wife and your ex who fine pass? If it's your wife then she's pained to the bone marrow, women are intimidated by their fellow women especially when they got more class and integrity than them, you never can tell how unlucky she feels even with all the iphone and new shit, if she's still stalking you then something still dey miss for her life..know this and know Peace.

Keep ignoring her stupid ass forever, the day you approach or answer her that's the day your trouble will begin, as long as she's not physically stalking you try stay put and be observing until proven guilty.

And try tell your wife not to engage her in any form at all, make she just dey dia dey fool herself

A word is enough for the wise one's

Don't call her
Just ignore her like she doesn't exist

You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering

She needs one more night
All Naija girls are like that tho even your current wife

Silence is golden
Silence is best way to treat fools

Don't fight a woman-you'd only be doing something she enjoys.

Keep her in a forever suspense
Ignore her: Big dogs don't bark!

Oesophagus99:
Silence is golden
Silence is best way to treat fools

Don't fight a woman-you'd only be doing something she enjoys.

Keep her in a forever suspense
Ignore her: Big dogs don't bark!

How minna?

funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

While at that, your new wife might also be doing same shit to her ex too.
Women are fun of doing that shit. They always want to have a taste of what they missed.

TheBTCinvestor:
How minna?

So peaceful as always. Usd to Liv here?

Paying school fees??
.... is like some of you no dey hear word..

Did u date, engage and marry ur wife within dat one Yr after breaking up or u were dating both of them and finally decided to let go of one and settle down with d other??

kkash:
Did u date, engage and marry ur wife within dat one Yr after breaking up or u were dating both of them and finally decided to let go of one and settle down with d other??

I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever

Oesophagus99:
So peaceful as always. Usd to Liv here?

No. I heard bandits are many there. Pls stay safe

I hope you are not sponsoring this your current wife ,next time. go for already made product, however what I admire is how you moved on easily despite investing so much on her ,most men no go gree . Training woman who isn't your sister is stupidity

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously Speaking

She dey play mind games bro, she wants to Bleep with your head by stalking you and your wife to see if you will text or call her and in the process she can come in and do a lot of damages via your ignorance to see her games like am telling you now, she's bitter you moved on with life and you're with someone else and probably having Peace of mind.

Your wife and your ex who fine pass? If it's your wife then she's pained to the bone marrow, women are intimidated by their fellow women especially when they got more class and integrity than them, you never can tell how unlucky she feels even with all the iphone and new shit, if she's still stalking you then something still dey miss for her life..know this and know Peace.

Keep ignoring her stupid ass forever, the day you approach or answer her that's the day your trouble will begin, as long as she's not physically stalking you try stay put an be observing until proven guilty.

And try tell your wife not to engage her in any form at all, make she just dey dia dey fool herself

A word is enough for the wise one's

Even if his wife no Fine, it is his choice and peace of mind .Op like he should marry a stalk illiterate, your Ex have nothing on you.
I see it childish at the Bolded… She is pained your wife is been crowned the Queen .

Just try and settle with her by either getting her a good man or better still marry her as 2nd wife. All d. Best

4ward4:
Even if his wife no Fine, it is his choice and peace of mind .Op like he should marry a stalk illiterate, your Ex have nothing on you.
I see it childish at the Bolded… She is pained your wife is been crowned the Queen .

Wotoporiously speaking

It was a rhetorical question.......I used it to explain the situation on the part of Op's ex, wasn't meant for the Op to answer.

So chill out

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Ex wahala...

U saw all this information while serving ur Blocked sentence
As a man also,always let sleeping dog lie

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

It was a rhetorical question.......I used it to explain the situation on the part of Op's ex, wasn't meant for the Op to answer.

So chill out

Lol , I understand your point bro … nah small women matter the vex me … lol , some guys nah simp

4ward4:
Lol , I understand your point bro … nah small women matter the vex me … lol , some guys nah simp

Wotoporiously speaking

Lol no wam, E klear

Link up knack her jump am pass

These hoes always think they can eat their cake and still have it Lmfao
In whatever you do Op never take that hoe back. She belongs to the streets

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously Speaking

She dey play mind games bro, she wants to Bleep with your head by stalking you and your wife to see if you will text or call her and in the process she can come in and do a lot of damages via your ignorance to see her games like am telling you now, she's bitter you moved on with life and you're with someone else and probably having Peace of mind.

Your wife and your ex who fine pass? If it's your wife then she's pained to the bone marrow, women are intimidated by their fellow women especially when they got more class and integrity than them, you never can tell how unlucky she feels even with all the iphone and new shit, if she's still stalking you then something still dey miss for her life..know this and know Peace.

Keep ignoring her stupid ass forever, the day you approach or answer her that's the day your trouble will begin, as long as she's not physically stalking you try stay put and be observing until proven guilty.

And try tell your wife not to engage her in any form at all, make she just dey dia dey fool herself

A word is enough for the wise one's

Women are generally selfish in nature. Give her the whole world she won't be contented. Cos they always think there is a better option out there. That's exactly what played out in op's relationship. For people like that you just have to let them go experience life outside and see for themselves. 9 out of 10 times they always come back when dem don go jam fake. Never take them back no matter what.
For those that talks about second chances. What makes you think she won't pull same stunts again. Cos these hoes they never learn.