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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Fantazy(m): 1:07pm On Dec 27, 2022
If the "friend request" of a thing is your only reason, I don't think she's stalking you. It might be that she didn't know the person at first, she deleted the request when she found out she was ur wife.

But notwithstanding, she will still regret it. That's sure!
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by GistFullGround: 1:10pm On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her
What if she has AIDS and she's now looking to share it around?
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Jeezuzpick(m): 1:11pm On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her
And risk crashing his marriage?

Oshey, adviser!

Well done, eh?
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by OdefaGirl(f): 1:12pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex
You are a man
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Yampotatocarrot(m): 1:13pm On Dec 27, 2022
ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering
God bless you... I wanted to ask the same questions until I saw your post.

OP too was stalking... Infact, OP was the first stalker. He wanted to see if she was going into depression after he broke up with her, unfortunately, he was surprised to find out that the girl had moved on and even doing better

Don't be so surprised if OP is still the one stalking her, because he said she has blocked him on all social medias, so how can she stalk who she has blocked... OP is always checking to see if she has unblocked him
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 27, 2022
GistFullGround:
What if she has AIDS and she's now looking to share it around?
you use condom na and f,uck her only in the ass and mouth
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Munzy14(m): 1:19pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex
Just padlock that chapter and throw away the key into a stream around.

She is bygone. lipsrsealed

Channel your energy to your wife.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by IamtheTruth1(m): 1:28pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
Maybe she wants to check if Okafors law still dey work
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by freedomchild: 1:29pm On Dec 27, 2022
gimakon2:
When they start misbehaving, just allow them, when e clear for their eye, them go use race come back. Wetin woman no quick day understand be say, na world all of us day. So when they act like they know everything, i just allow them.

As a man, if any woman dumps you because she feels you do not give her when she knows you struggling and have a predicament, allow her be. No be you kill Jesus.

My ex and her family punished the living daylight out of me for no justified reason. I surprise when i gave her space, even as a married woman she was , she still day send me messages one morning i was in my daddys shop, i saw a message on whatsapp , it was from her.

Fast forward to now, she broken up with the marriage and has 2 kids, the bad thing is, she day do one kain now, so personally i decided to let her be. My present girl started her own, i kuku free am. Time no day, i day wait make her eye clear maybe by then, i fit don marry sef.
As my job started having ups and downs, she been giving attitudes, but we thank God, she can go if she chooses.

You did the right thing.
correct my brother. My own is that after breaking up she started calling me. Now one man is asking for her hand in marriage
Instead of her to come clean, she started to play me psychologically to know whether I'm interested in her. I just dey look her and her gamea
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by RZArecta(m): 1:29pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
report her to the police immediately with any evidence you have of her stalking activities on your phone. See if they can detain her for a day or two till her parents/guardians sign as guarantors
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Shebbs: 1:36pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever
I've Always Said This; A Man Knows His Wife Once He Meets Her, How Long Or Short You Dated Is Irrelevant. Kudos To You Man. Be Strong And Don't Allow The Devil Break Your New Home.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by gimakon2(m): 1:48pm On Dec 27, 2022
freedomchild:
correct my brother. My own is that after breaking up she started calling me. Now one man is asking for her hand in marriage
Instead of her to come clean, she started to play me psychologically to know whether I'm interested in her. I just dey look her and her gamea
Make she day go. No see am as anything o.
Make we see if the other man go tolerate am as you use tolerate am.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by fof1: 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her
Childish Reasonings and Wasteful Adventure...Open to Calamity and STI...
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Dada4me: 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2022
The truth is that your wife will be more concerned about you than your ex.

I beg you don't in any way reconnect with her, it will destroy whatever confidence your wife have in you.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by fof1: 1:52pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex
1000%...UPBEAT WITH THIS FRAME OF MIND...YOU WIN ALWAYS...ANYTHING LESS IS TRASHY
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by dalass(f): 1:54pm On Dec 27, 2022
cliqtips:
I intentionally opened to page 3 and I didn't see any response to those questions which I would love to see...

Please, incase he answers them, can you tag me too grin
He secretly wants her to stalk him, he said as much. He's invested much into her. He hasn't moved on, he just got married to another to spite her.

He can't answer those questions truly grin grin grin
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Rhassidy360: 1:54pm On Dec 27, 2022
Ignore everything abeg as u carry your wife join body the game go sweet. Just do like say u no de see anything. Ghost mode
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by loswhite(m): 1:58pm On Dec 27, 2022
ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering
Belike na him dey stalk the ex.....lol
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by stormborn28(m): 1:59pm On Dec 27, 2022
olasaad:
That's how most of you end up with a second wife
Hmmmmmm.... May be that guy's diick is sweet
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by marsup: 2:16pm On Dec 27, 2022
Resist the devil, and she will flee from you.
The best way to do that is to ignore her, and also make sure she doesn't know where you live.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by SoapQueen(f): 2:32pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex
Na man you be. I respect you. I respect the fact that you're not thinking of hurting your wife.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by lagonovo: 2:41pm On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
you use condom na and f,uck her only in the ass and mouth
You may hate to hear this but for your own sake, you need to grow up.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by maasoap(m): 2:44pm On Dec 27, 2022
olasaad:
That's how most of you end up with a second wife
A second wife is a not that bad, just helping stranded women. grin grin grin
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 27, 2022
olasaad:
It's not but you don't need to be fornicating around. And in most situations second wife happen as a result of pregnancy.
.at your level I don't need to tell you that having sex with your second legally married wife is not fornication...maybe it is in your village...and maybe in your village second wife is always as a result of pregnancy...is not like that in my village
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Starz825(m): 3:01pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever
Was she a virgin when you met her...
If no...then I pity your ass..
She is the best thing ever...chai..not even Jesus Christ grin
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by kingxsamz(m): 3:10pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
So what do you want us to do now?
Your ex is stalking you but you already know she has gotten a new boyfriend and he rented an apartment for her and bought her a new phone. Who is stalking who? And why are you bothered since you're already married? undecided
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Kreddy: 3:12pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
This isn't the first time, immediately after my marriage she started searching me and my wife out on fb I know because I had her account logged in on my fone at the time. He search history showed my name and my wife's name. I just it go and it's over a year now and she's still searching. She should just move on already
Abeg go and sit down. I'm tired of reading nonsense. I knew she's being searching for us on fb , because you logged in to her fb...

some reasonable questions have been asked but you're trying to dogde them. How did you know her husband rented the apartment for her....
just a cook up story tueh! I no chop
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by olasaad(f): 3:49pm On Dec 27, 2022
FromTopToBottom:
.at your level I don't need to tell you that having sex with your second legally married wife is not fornication...maybe it is in your village...and maybe in your village second wife is always as a result of pregnancy...is not like that in my village
How many of you guys married your second wife legally? You always bring them into the family when they get pregnant. That's why you always bring in wayward ladies who will distrupt the peace you have been enjoying as a family before.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by TeamXola(m): 3:49pm On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
Just ignore her completely. Any contact with her can be used against you in a very terrible way.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Felimax(m): 4:02pm On Dec 27, 2022
olasaad:
That's how most of you end up with a second wife
End up with demons not second wife. The worst thing a man can have is a second wife. Only fools do that.

Ned nor weep reach me even though I am not yet a billionaire but with few coins they will queue waiting for your attention.

Do not marry a second wife is the 11th commandment.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 27, 2022
lagonovo:
You may hate to hear this but for your own sake, you need to grow up.
The exact words your daddy said to you this morning
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by lagonovo: 4:23pm On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
The exact words your daddy said to you this morning
I would appreciate that from him if my thought process is similar to what led to your comment above. Pursue wisdom and excellence while you are still young bro.
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