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Ehm... I don't even know if the wife has PVC for next year's election.

Na my own pain be that ooo!

Make husband and wife make sure they vote Peter Obi oo

Roboto11:
Hope she's the breadwinner.

Even if she is the bread winner, such character is odd.

Okonandmary:
This is wrong.

Everyone has their own responsibility.

Pls stop turning men into women.

In my house, i don't help out in the kitchen and you cant force me.

I work, i pay the bills, i fix and repair, why should i go to the kitchen to help out.

If a woman wants help, she can employ a house girl

Thank you very much. Warms my heart to know there are still men that are yet to be brainwashed with these western feminism equality propaganda bullshit. Which most mumu men have fallen for.

1Sharon:
A lot. Because most Nigerian men cant afford to be sole providers.

Really, according to statistics here in Nigeria.

The number of males that are wage earners is (65.67%) when compared to women (34.33%). Apparently, majority of working men are sole providers.

So where is your a lot coming from?

1Sharon:
Majority of Nigerian are poor.

Yeah majority of Nigerians are poor but the same Nigeria has one of the highest home ownership in africa and we aren't talking about down payment for a mortgage.

DestinyGlory:
I recently went on a date with a man who says once he gets married he won’t be expecting to enter the kitchen the way he currently does but wants to split bills with me. I prioritize flexibility, team work & ability to flex stereotypical gender roles so much in a partnership. That’s when a woman can support the home when her husband doesn’t have a job without being disrespectful. Or a man can do home chores without thinking he’s “helping” his wife but sees it as what it takes to run a home.

Anyone who has rigid ideas and expectations on how a home should run is best matched with someone who has those same exact ideas.

That is what marriage is all about but culture at times negate this and modernization is not our African thing.

Mind you, not all men can cook, and you don't have to force it on them, make sure you don't share responsibilities also

Dis is bad why treat ur hubby like dat. No mata wat his de head of house. Dis is wats leads to divorce most times

sadiyamuhammad:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4zJAJY7oAU

A hilarious video has shown the moment a Nigerian woman served her husband an empty plate for refusing to help her in the kitchen.

Before carrying out her action, the woman gave a background explanation that informed what she was going to do.

In a TikTok video, she said that she wanted him to help her with the food but he replied that he was tired as a result of working out at the gym and also had a football match to see.

The woman who wasn't having his excuses revealed that she had gone to the market to buy the ingredients, did the laundry and took care of the house.

She said he was only to assist her in cooking and yet he was giving excuses.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1511322-marry-friend-wife-serves-hubby-empty-plate-funny-video-refused-kitchen/

Guy, you be big fool. What kind of nonsense is this? Who the hell is interested in this useless voice over you're doing?

Maynman:
People live within their means. Most men i know are sole providers.

Exactly.

Not funny.

Lies, lies lies from the pit of hell

DestinyGlory:
I recently went on a date with a man who says once he gets married he won’t be expecting to enter the kitchen the way he currently does but wants to split bills with me. I prioritize flexibility, team work & ability to flex stereotypical gender roles so much in a partnership. That’s when a woman can support the home when her husband doesn’t have a job without being disrespectful. Or a man can do home chores without thinking he’s “helping” his wife but sees it as what it takes to run a home.

Anyone who has rigid ideas and expectations on how a home should run is best matched with someone who has those same exact ideas.

Is the Kitchen the only chore at home? You must be washing the cars, fixing things around the house, changing bulb as well, a lot of things to regularly fix at home as well. Will you be doing all these for him as well. Una too dey complain. Family money is not just about the man, every party is a provider in any capacity. Can you be an help mate without been resourceful, if you think Kitchen is what defines you as an helpmate then you are done for

DestinyGlory:
I recently went on a date with a man who says once he gets married he won’t be expecting to enter the kitchen the way he currently does but wants to split bills with me. I prioritize flexibility, team work & ability to flex stereotypical gender roles so much in a partnership. That’s when a woman can support the home when her husband doesn’t have a job without being disrespectful. Or a man can do home chores without thinking he’s “helping” his wife but sees it as what it takes to run a home.

Anyone who has rigid ideas and expectations on how a home should run is best matched with someone who has those same exact ideas.

I like this mindset. I even think it's a better and more harmonious way to balance things. No hard or fast rules, just unspoken "understanding".


But hmmm. Asking a guy to potentially take up as much domestic task as if single when a woman is in the picture, is like seeing a woman very eager to pay for rent, and utilities, and education, even when the husband is financially capable. I'm sure there are people like that, but they are few. And that's the point.

Besides, even though most day-to-day domestic obligations are in the kitchen, I'd like to believe a lot of men make themselves useful in other areas around the house regardless, no?

1Sharon:
You sound naive.

How long does it take to cook and clean when you have more than 3 children??

Women are not only expected to support financially, Nigerian men expect them to come home and clean and cook so who is doing more?

You guys will tell women that domesticated tasks are for women, but women don't tell you guys providing is for men.

We just get on with it or the family will suffer.

If u're provided with an opportunity to choose btw solely providing for d family or solely being in charge of domestic chores and other home activities. Which would u choose?

She must be the breadwinner of the family. Try that nonsense with me and you're back to your father's house. I ate nonsense

Teeroyzimma:
The woman is crazy






Lagos is worse than Anambra, but Lagosians are busy shouting Ipob and the east is worse! No be this same Lagos wey I never spend upto 24 hours in and i was almost kidnapped and lost my phone to those agbado fools.

Banky W has been kidnapped in LAGOS before!! He said it himself and the video is still online!! As well as other atrocities committed in the same Lagos, same as the ones you claim ipob is doing in Anambra...which has never been the Country's capital b4! Una no get shame?

If you like go and vote for Tinubu, poverty go wire una.

watin carry this talk c9me here nah.

Okonandmary:
Really, according to statistics here in Nigeria.

The number of males that are wage earners is (65.67%) when compared to women (34.33%). Apparently, majority of working men are sole providers.

So where is your a lot coming from?

Where is your stats from?

And yes, they earn a wage but is it enough to support a family and children?

How many of them are breadwinners in reality?

ibkayee:
I won't be surprised if she pays bills in the house as well attending to all domestic work.

The average Nigerian man has convinced himself he is a sole provider and will often role play as one online lol

The everyday women we see working in all sectors are not throwing their money into the ocean

Anyway looks like it's playful banter between them

Most spend it on themselves and themselves alone

I wonder a feminist's motivation she allowed to occupy her reasoning

Guy Dey shut up na. Wetin you Dey try analyze?

Maynman:
People live within their means. Most men i know are sole providers.

We aren't talking about the men you know, we're talking about Nigerian men in general.

If you can help in the kitchen, do that, if you cannot its alright, what is the controversy

Also it would be helpful for men to know how to do house repairs, seriously, some women now do house repairs, like in plumbing, and electrical works.

Teeroyzimma:
The woman is crazy

Lagos is worse than Anambra, but Lagosians are busy shouting Ipob and the east is worse! No be this same Lagos wey I never spend upto 24 hours in and i was almost kidnapped and lost my phone to those agbado fools.

Banky W has been kidnapped in LAGOS before!! He said it himself and the video is still online!! As well as other atrocities committed in the same Lagos, same as the ones you claim ipob is doing in Anambra...which has never been the Country's capital b4! Una no get shame?

If you like go and vote for Tinubu, poverty go wire una.

Go back home and stop ranting here.

sadiyamuhammad:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4zJAJY7oAU

A hilarious video has shown the moment a Nigerian woman served her husband an empty plate for refusing to help her in the kitchen.

Before carrying out her action, the woman gave a background explanation that informed what she was going to do.

In a TikTok video, she said that she wanted him to help her with the food but he replied that he was tired as a result of working out at the gym and also had a football match to see.

The woman who wasn't having his excuses revealed that she had gone to the market to buy the ingredients, did the laundry and took care of the house.

She said he was only to assist her in cooking and yet he was giving excuses.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1511322-marry-friend-wife-serves-hubby-empty-plate-funny-video-refused-kitchen/

Mumu...you cannot even allow us hear from them directly you just dey talk your own with your yeye voice, pronunciations and smelling mouth , you for allow us hear wetin dem dey talk.

sadiyamuhammad:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4zJAJY7oAU

A hilarious video has shown the moment a Nigerian woman served her husband an empty plate for refusing to help her in the kitchen.

Before carrying out her action, the woman gave a background explanation that informed what she was going to do.

In a TikTok video, she said that she wanted him to help her with the food but he replied that he was tired as a result of working out at the gym and also had a football match to see.

The woman who wasn't having his excuses revealed that she had gone to the market to buy the ingredients, did the laundry and took care of the house.

She said he was only to assist her in cooking and yet he was giving excuses.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1511322-marry-friend-wife-serves-hubby-empty-plate-funny-video-refused-kitchen/

Seriously? Tiktok girls are going mad.
Such disrespect must be handled unless he wants to be frustrated in life

Okonandmary:
This is wrong.

Everyone has their own responsibility.

Pls stop turning men into women.

In my house, i don't help out in the kitchen and you cant force me.

I work, i pay the bills, i fix and repair, why should i go to the kitchen to help out.

If a woman wants help, she can employ a house girl

Househelp for just petty chores dat wont take up to two hour of ur time. If she wants a househelp, she better pay her out of her own pocket..

1Sharon:
We aren't talking about the men you know, we're talking about Nigerian men in general.

I’ll need stats then.

Silentgroper:
If u're provided with an opportunity to choose btw solely providing for d family or solely being in charge of domestic chores and other home activities. Which would u choose?

I'll pick being in charge of domestic chores.

But realistically I know I'll be in charge of a bit of both.


As I said before if a woman's husband isn't middle class or rich. She ends up running the house and providing aswell.

So pls answer me, who is doing more work?

I hate tik tok. So many childish things.

ibkayee:
I won't be surprised if she pays bills in the house as well attending to all domestic work.

The average Nigerian man has convinced himself he is a sole provider and will often role play as one online lol

The everyday women we see working in all sectors are not throwing their money into the ocean

Anyway looks like it's playful banter between them

JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

Women should learn not to disrespect the husbands for any reason.

U can disrespect men if u like bt not ur husband or else I think its better to reman single. respectfully.

You see this matter ehn... most times I just tell my wife to let's eat smthn fast, and rest... she can cook later.

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..