cococandy:


You’re making false claims about women abroad all being housewives . I asked you how you know that but all of a sudden you don’t have time for Q and A.

Just say what you know to be true. That’s the bottom line

sadiyamuhammad:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4zJAJY7oAU

A hilarious video has shown the moment a Nigerian woman served her husband an empty plate for refusing to help her in the kitchen.

Before carrying out her action, the woman gave a background explanation that informed what she was going to do.

In a TikTok video, she said that she wanted him to help her with the food but he replied that he was tired as a result of working out at the gym and also had a football match to see.

The woman who wasn't having his excuses revealed that she had gone to the market to buy the ingredients, did the laundry and took care of the house.

She said he was only to assist her in cooking and yet he was giving excuses.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1511322-marry-friend-wife-serves-hubby-empty-plate-funny-video-refused-kitchen/

ibkayee:

I won't be surprised if she pays bills in the house as well attending to all domestic work.

The average Nigerian man has convinced himself he is a sole provider and will often role play as one online lol

The everyday women we see working in all sectors are not throwing their money into the ocean

Anyway looks like it's playful banter between them

JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

Houseofglam7:
The poster above me

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

tunjijones:


Women dey try ooo. Especially my wife.

I know I don't tell her as much as she wants me to te her that she is trying.

Wifey... Make I talk true and forget all this alpha male shit... You are really trying. Am so surprised how you changed from the hangout and shawarma chic immediately we got married to a mother and a helper. You are the best dear...

I see a you do. And I appreciate. I wld try to appreciate you more.

The opportunity will present itself on 1st January after breakfast or Lunch... Just tell her how u appreciate her and leave her blushing

socialmediaman:


I don't remember using the bolded word. I have some friends who do exactly what I described in my original post, and they're housewives by choice, some with advanced degrees. One (a caucasian) cooked a full Nigerian meal with recipe she learned on YouTube when I visited her family for thanksgiving.

A man doesn't even need a woman's help to cook and take care of himself, and vice versa. If he gets married and delegates that job to her, she should be able to handle it. This is tradition and not some big deal abeg. It's just petty to be complaining about duties as simple as cooking and cleaning.

NoToPile:



Uncle praise if you want to praise which one be some women dey try. Shey e get any woman wey no dey do the scenerio you described below the bolded?

Have you heard something like this..
Honey can we go and eat out? I am tired..The last thing on my mind is to enter that kitchen and cook besides, we just came back together... Just go and fix something for yourself..

Those type were not on my felicitation group..I always think ahead before I type..

CEOKmotors:



SIMPle man.

The woman too should be doing all the hustling and provisions.

If the man is the sole breadwinner, then helping out with domestic chores should be optional and his choice to make.

You think say to hustle na beans??

Richy4:


Have you heard something like this..
Honey can we go and eat out? I am tired..The last thing on my mind is to enter that kitchen and cook besides, we just came back together... Just go and fix something for yourself..

Those type were not on my felicitation group..I always think ahead before I type..

tunjijones:


Women dey try ooo. Especially my wife.

I know I don't tell her as much as she wants me to te her that she is trying.

Wifey... Make I talk true and forget all this alpha male shit... You are really trying. Am so surprised how you changed from the hangout and shawarma chic immediately we got married to a mother and a helper. You are the best dear...

I see a you do. And I appreciate. I wld try to appreciate you more.

ibkayee:

You must be one of those broke, tattered leprechauns for this small comment to have triggered you lmao

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

socialmediaman:
Her mates abroad are full time housewives cooking, cleaning, shopping, and raising over 4 kids all by themselves without nannies. Still, many have side hustles or part time jobs bringing in extra income. They are called supermoms.

Many Nigerian women are using "wokism" to destroy our family values and traditions

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

simplepee:
Is it just me that doesn’t like company in the kitchen? I prefer cooking ALONE. You can help with other chores but you see kitchen, ha I see it as distraction and I always feel something will go wrong with the food if I have company .

Watch football and leave my food abeg .

Thermodynamics:


The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job.

Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially.
If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself
, rubbish.

JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

Houseofglam7:


You’re not the poster above me…..so keep it moving

UnimkeAk:


Lol, I'm richer than your whole family !!

You can't insult hard working men and you think I'll clap for you guys, what do u guys have to offer except your bacteria infested vaginaaass.

After all men have done for you guys in terms of financial aid..

Get the Bleep out of here.

sharone21:


I personally know FEMALE teachers who do 4 good home lessons( N40000-60000 each) of 1hr each after school to supplement what they earn and most are married.

cococandy:
If it were that simple, he would do it himself. Meal planning for a whole family 3x a day is not a joke. Stop the malicious downplaying of traditional female roles.
We know that if traditionally it were a man’s job, y’all would find a way to rank it above everything else. Someone else being responsible for your daily sustenance is not “SIMPLE”

Okonandmary:


the stat was gotten from nbs

many men are breadwinners in their families while the women keep their money

no man that wants peace of mind shares the bills with a woman

btw, have you ever heard of cutting your coat according to your size, that is what these men are doing
many men also work 2 jobs to support their families.