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daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be hen I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

What you don't know is that your sis kept your mum in the know of happenings between her and the Yahoo boy even before she left home that day.

The boy talks to your mum on phone, she is driven by fund cos I believe she boy also buys gift or some form of transfer income for your mum.

My body language at home even at 15 years, no one in my family can try any unrest to the point of maltreating a full grown man. I aware what that guy above advices is my personal action.

I will not beat her up, once she is done maltreating him, I will endure she get atleast 2 well augmented slaps. This will send serious msg to her.

I will repeat same action if it is my dad maltreating my mum.

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war. When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still hunting me , it was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg she beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too. I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back. I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her. I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

Ur mum is likely the Breadwinner or she is doing better than ur dad financially. When women are Breadwinners in the home, they are likely to behave this way and lookdown on their husband.

Never marry a woman you did not disvirgin if you don't what your daughters to be wayward in life.

Girls are a copy of their mothers.

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war. When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still hunting me , it was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg she beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too. I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back. I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her. I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

Sympathy with you until the bolded. You're 20, shoulder some responsibility, son.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

You sat down, wiped out your fingers and typed: beat your mother. The most idiotic post of the year.

Shoulder responsibilities and your mother will report your father to you.

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war. When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still hunting me , it was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg she beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too. I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back. I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her. I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

PATHETIC I must say & I believe you.
Many seem to paint their moms rosy, so I have always wondered where all the Evil Mothers suddenly went to.

Kudos for being REAL. I have a friend who's presently afraid of getting married simply because of how his mom treated his Dad which eventually plunged him into untimely death.
Kudos, however MAN Up.

Now u have a reason to delay your wedding.
Even if it gets on your neck, you can start by having kids if you are capable of their upkeep.
Don't ever be coerced into taking up an unverified, uncertified lady whose character, capacity & competence are still questionable.

That's far better than sleeping beside the ANGEL of DEATH. It's only marriage that draws a man closer to his grave except proven otherwise.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

This advice is very wrong please don't take it

Justbehave:
Sounds made up because your gender is the culprit here.Hypocrites.Op, you and your father are weak to the core.including your father's people. Infact Una shame dey shame me. Dem never born such woman wey go do rubbish where I dey. All my baby mamas,I collected my kids from them and nothing happened. Be a strongman and swallow redpill brother man.

How are we sure you're saying the truth

Aguiyimba:
How are we sure you're saying the truth

Because simps like you are cowards and cant do such.

Justbehave:
Because simps like you are cowards and cant do such.

Redpiller my ass fool

Aguiyimba:
Redpiller my ass fool

You don't believe me because you are a sissy who women use like asswipe.Lol. Look at this Simp answering Aguiyi. Smh

Justbehave:
You don't believe me because you are a sissy who women use like asswipe.Lol. Simp answering Aguiyi. Smh

You're still a child

Aguiyimba:
You're still a child

Old man simp. Getat.

The fight is your dad's. There are so many ways to deal with the situation, not about physical strenght or power. I hope his elder brother talked to him very well and strongly. A house run by a woman while a man is also in the house hardly turns out well.

ahnie:
Sharrap get lost or go play with sand.


See how suicide dey sweet you talk for that your small centipede mouth.


You must really be from a very messed up family.

Chai this vawulence too much na. Take it easy

Truvelisback:
Ur mum is likely the Breadwinner or she is doing better than ur dad financially. When women are Breadwinners in the home, they are likely to behave this way and lookdown on their husband.

You're right. That's what you find in most cases. It seems women are not wired to be naturally kind. In most stable homes, the woman has more to lose if she messes up.

Amen to your prayers.

Your mom is enjoying yahoo money.

Baba at 20 your 16 y/o sister dey give Ur popsi attitude you sit down dey look. Nigger you be half man.

BirtherOfKings:
Sounds made-up.. anyway pray for your parents.dont take sides too

everything na fake for huna side

a lot of people post real life issues here...i mean something they are really and actually going tru...

Nice advice anyway

some women are not worthy to be called mothers anyway

daboy18:
Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

The fact that you declined that stupid idea of beating your mum show how blessed you are to your parent.

The problem is not started today, it has been there even before you were born. No matter what you do now, your parent will never respect your opinion since you are still very young and probably depend on them. I will advise you to let them be until you become independent and take care of your dad.

Also, whenever your mum disrespect your dad without his fault, subtlety show your displeasure/grievance to your mum by ignoring or stop talking to her for days. If she can listen to you, tell her how she would feel if your wife treated you in her present same way she does to your dad.

May God heal your family.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

what sort of stupid advice is this?? You are advising a boy to beat up his mum. Op pls don't listen to this

Buuks77:
what sort of stupid advice is this?? You are advising a boy to beat up his mum. Op pls don't listen to this

I just realized how wrong I was. That his Mom got me so angry that I went so wrong. But, he should talk sternly to his Mom about respecting his sick Dad.

yemmit90:
The fact that you declined that stupid idea of beating your mum show how blessed you are to your parent.

The problem is not started today, it has been there even before you were born. No matter what you do now, your parent will never respect your opinion since you are still very young and probably depend on them. I will advise you to let them be until you become independent and take care of your dad.

Also, whenever your mum disrespect your dad without his fault, subtlety show your displeasure/grievance to your mum by ignoring or stop talking to her for days. If she can listen to you, tell her how she would feel if your wife treated you in her present same way she does to your dad.

May God heal your family.

Thanks for this. I acknowledge my advice was wrong. The woman got me so angry I spoke so stupidly.

TheLoneCitizen:
You sat down, wiped out your fingers and typed: beat your mother. The most idiotic post of the year.

Shoulder responsibilities and your mother will report your father to you.

Sorry, I realized how wrong I was. I went too far. That his mother got me so angry I typed so stupidly.

daboy18:
Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

Yes, you're right. I was wrong. I went too far by telling you to beat her up. But, I'm still saying you need to be really stern with your Mom.

dumahi:
Yes, you're right. I was wrong. I went too far by telling you to beat her up. But, I'm still saying you need to be really stern with your Mom.

Ogbeni you don't need to shalaye, e don do.

OKOATA:
Ogbeni you don't need to shalaye, e don do.

You sound like a mad person. If you sound this way again, I will ignore you.

dumahi:
You sound like a mad person. If you sound this way again, I will ignore you.

Guy you no get sense o. Funniest thing I no even fight you. I was just telling you to stop explaining yourself to everyone you kept quoting. Calm down oga.

daboy18:
I heard rumours that she is dating a yahoo boys at only 16 years she has a Iphone 12 pro max and expensive clothes and hair my mum doesn't care

hmmm hookup got this one. Guy sorry ooh it has affected you already start asking your father serious questions. Above all u need deliverance from ur mother.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

Two wrongs doesn't make a right

daboy18:
I heard rumours that she is dating a yahoo boys at only 16 years she has a Iphone 12 pro max and expensive clothes and hair my mum doesn't care

your mom is ruining her life… it’s no rumour since she has an iPhone 12 Pro Max

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war. When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still hunting me , it was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg she beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too. I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back. I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her. I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

So sorry for the whole embarrassing things that happened and still happening

I think you have to beg dad to come back home so that your mum will see that he loves his family

Now the most important advice I will give to you and your dad is to over look your mum and your sister especially when they start their crazy behavior

You guys should just over look them, if you can,
at the end if it doesn't work out well for your sister, she will fight with your mum and they will become black enemies

You and your dad will just be observing