I don’t think one needs to tell you what to do. Life is short expecially for men. Decide on what makes you happy and live a good life for yourself.

See how the liar de catch cruise on top una head.

MasterRahl:


I'll make several assumptions:

1. You're not good in bed.
2. She has tasted a better dick outside and yours is now boring.
3. She has low libido.
4. She's disinterested in you for some other reason.

Solution based on the above assumptions

1. Work on your bed game
2. Get a concubine
3. Get her medical help
4. Get a concubine

Broz, wetin be this. Would you have advised such to this man if the wife happens to be your sister?

pocohantas:


Sure it does - peace of mind is bliss. It takes extra effort to deal with your bickering and paranoia. Keep that energy far from me…ABEG. Every time, “ndi otu”. They done leave you, you still no wan rest.

See who's typing about bickering.
You wey be say bickering na your forte.
Does a week go by without you bickering?

Them don leave who?
I been send una ancestors before? Zuonu ike biko!

mariahAngel:


See who's typing about bickering.
You wey be say bickering na your forte.
Does a week go by without you bickering?

Them don leave who?
I been send una ancestors before? Zuonu ike biko!

Stay away from me!!!!

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

In as much as such denial is not acceptable

There is no smoke with out fire

So, spill the beans let's know what let to that

You guys are having cold war among yourselves

What exactly has been the problem

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

She is cheating. That symptom is universal.

MadamExcellency:


Na sex you go dey eat be that naw.

All these stallions should allow us rest. Na small, small we want tam now. I know say as menopause go come, Na that time we want tam everyday but una, Na so, so complain go full una mouth like I was exhausted at work, it was a hectic day, a have a bad day today and so on.

Mr Man, have patience with her, Na she go pursue you with sex. The hole wet don wide with childbirth has nothing again to fear.

Kpele, e go better but no fvck up. She go pressure you when time comes but be ready with your viagra and kwulikwuli.

So he should dream of the time she'll pressure him as a consolation or what?

Why did she marry then? It is outright wickedness.

Abstinence as a single is understandable but it's unforgivable in marriage.

Let her lie down on the bed and spread her legs for her dear husband. Is it too much to ask for?

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

you mean ur husband, because if na ur marry her you for don summon her family members for warning, woman way u pay her bride price,then what is her use in ur house, except na she marry you sha. Be a man, organiser your home

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Have you not heard of semen retention?
My friend channel that sexual energy to something more productive.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Truly you love sex too much... Na food that you should be having daily?

HeartlessMan:
Married men are simps

No wander, ya handle name is Heartless. You don't have one single brain or sense

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

women do this after marriage. to women, marriage and kids are the ultimate achievements. once they have gotten them, they stop giving their husbands Joy. this is why I don't blame some people for engaging in polygamy. women sit tight when they see a competitor. try to find out why she is doing it. for now stop asking for sex. you may need to get a side chick.

Messi1:
You must have repented for giving advice on my thread.

So it reached this length that you can not even help it but to expose yourself victor

So what’s your gain now? That you have many accounts fooling yourself

https://www.nairaland.com/7358476/im-need-woman-serious-relationship#117119690
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.but op posted this z our 3 months ago

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

https://www.nairaland.com/7358476/im-need-woman-serious-relationship#117119690
.


.but op posted this about 4 months ago

metaluterus:
First, Happy Birthday to me!


Back to the topic; @OP...My weird advic. She's got no iota of love for you anymore, but only interested in keeping the marriage and having your cash, please move on with your life. Tell her you are going for a second wife. Watch her drama display in 3D.

Better days lie ahead of you and your family...Peace

Ko de ni baje fun eeee, wa ma dan bi ayan ni ni gbogbo igba.

myke92:


You guys will just open mouth waaaaa.. Marry 2nd wife.

What if that 2nd wife also starts denying him sex after some time, will he go ahead and marry a 3rd wife.?

Don't worry when u get to that stage, u will understand better

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Firstly, Happy New year Sir. I pray that you have a great year ahead.
Well I try to address this as best way I think I can. But pls subject this to the scriptures and make sure its what God would approve.

Firstly I'll say you have to bring this to your wife. You need to make her understand that she's been keeping her body from you and as her husband, you both shouldn't be saying this one loves too much sex and that one. Blah blah blah. No.
The Bible says that your body belongs to your wife and her body belongs to you and that neither of you should withhold your bodies from each other. It's against God's rule for marriage.
I don't know if you didn't do marriage counseling or if your wife isnt a committed Christian but that's a Basic knowledge in marriage.
But also give her the opportunity to sincerely tell you if you have in anyway hurt her or done anything to make her cold towards you.
And I hope you also have been a responsible husband, loving your wife as scripture demands?

Secondly; you need to let her know that since she's withheld her body from you, she has been putting you understand unnecessary pressure and a door to the devil to tempt you has been opened. Am not saying that this is an excuse to engage in extra marital affairs because temptation is not an excuse to sin. The Bible says no temptation you face is new. So don't even think about it. You personally must take this as a trial and prove God faithful by standing for all God stands for. But the point am making is, let her know that the action she has taken is putting you in a place where the devil is seeking to pounce but we thank God that He exposes darkness.

Thirdly; If you Wife does not change or adjust after the first two points, you'll need to go for marriage counseling with your pastor. Don't be ashamed to tell him everything. The reason is that God's pastors are people He put to help his flocks get it right where they are lacking in knowledge.

Lastly before ever doing any of the afore mentioned things. You'll need to pray to God with a sincere heart. Tell him all thats happening in your marriage and he'll be there to show up for you and help you get it right......

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Do you really think is here u will get the solution to your problem?

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

See Your Pastor for counsel sir

You verified this is a female how exactly?
Lmao.

Stillwhites:
If this is coming from a woman like my wife, then I know my next step. Thank you ma'am.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Oga channel this energy to something that will make you enough money and you will see ur wife demanding for sex every night.

pocohantas:


Stay away from me!!!!

you weh be trouble maker don see pro max dey run

E shock me ooo

mariahAngel:


See who's typing about bickering.
You wey be say bickering na your forte.
Does a week go by without you bickering?

Them don leave who?
I been send una ancestors before? Zuonu ike biko!

lol... I thought you guys were friends ??

What happened ??

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

How old is your wife?

How long have you been married?

How many kids do you guys have?

How was your sex life pre-marriage and up until you noticed the change?

Is this the first time such is happening?

Is she acting unusual? Such as going out more often, spending more time with her phone, not caring if you are supporting her or not...

What is your financial & economic situation like?

Depending in your answers, the most common reason why married woman lose interest or start acting differently without the man doing anything negative is that they have started flirting or having sex with someone else...

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

How do you make love to her? Do you engage in pre-intimacy like eating her vagina, grabbing her butts, kissing her neck and all that or you just climb her, insert your dick then release and go. Try initiating new fantasies and make her long for you or look forward to making love to you always instead of denying you ur matrimonial rights.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Just one week you are complaining of $ex starvation. Let me hear you guys claiming women love $ex more than men again. This is new year allow your wife strategize for 2023 she has more important goal to achieve other than $ex

unamamatoto:
you weh be trouble maker don see pro max dey run

E shock me ooo

I am not interested in servicing her paranoia on the first day of a new year. Too early for such toxicity!!

Ogunboy

naphtalish:

Firstly, Happy New year Sir. I pray that you have a great year ahead.
Well I try to address this as best way I think I can. But pls subject this to the scriptures and make sure its what God would approve.

Firstly I'll say you have to bring this to your wife. You need to make her understand that she's been keeping her body from you and as her husband, you both shouldn't be saying this one loves too much sex and that one. Blah blah blah. No.
[b]The Bible says that your body belongs to your wife and her body belongs to you and that neither of you should withhold your bodies from each other[/b{. It's against God's rule for marriage.
I don't know if you didn't do marriage counseling or if your wife isnt a committed Christian but that's a Basic knowledge in marriage.
But also give her the opportunity to sincerely tell you if you have in anyway hurt her or done anything to make her cold towards you.
And I hope you also have been a responsible husband, loving your wife as scripture demands?

Secondly; you need to let her know that since she's withheld her body from you, she has been putting you understand unnecessary pressure and a door to the devil to tempt you has been opened. Am not saying that this is an excuse to engage in extra marital affairs because temptation is not an excuse to sin. The Bible says no temptation you face is new. So don't even think about it. You personally must take this as a trial and prove God faithful by standing for all God stands for. But the point am making is, let her know that the action she has taken is putting you in a place where the devil is seeking to pounce but we thank God that He exposes darkness.

Thirdly; If you Wife does not change or adjust after the first two points, you'll need to go for marriage counseling with your pastor. Don't be ashamed to tell him everything. The reason is that God's pastors are people He put to help his flocks get it right where they are lacking in knowledge.

Lastly before ever doing any of the afore mentioned things. You'll need to pray to God with a sincere heart. Tell him all thats happening in your marriage and he'll be there to show up for you and help you get it right......

@bolded pastor before you quote the Bible did you find out if the two partners have same level of sexual desire During courtship this things are been neglected and is happened to be the most important thing to find out before you say I DO. The problem is one partner has high sexual desire than the other not about Bible quotation. As is stand now, his wife wouldn’t mind if the husband get sexual satisfaction outside, OP is broke that’s why he is complaining of $ex starvation.