austinmilla555:
It won’t work

We all deserve the grace to be shown the better version of who we can become. .....

Don't give up on anyone. Her repentance can be instrument to the redemption of many.

God does not give on us.

You should advise yourself bro.... If she can't let him go... Then let her go... It's simple

Divorce her before she disgraces you

IrepChrist:



We all deserve the grace to be shown the better version of who we can become. .....

Don't give up on anyone. Her repentance can be instrument to the redemption of many.

God does not give on us.

We cannot go on sinning and expect grace to work.....this is an unrepentant adulterer ... the man shouldnt be the one dragging her to therapy if she's not ready to repent...

A repentant sinner wont blame anyone for their sin

Who now raises men of nowadays? Men of old don't tolerate this nonsense, even their wives can't try this shit.

Baba, your wife dey shit, you dey give am second chance, even relationship sef, no second chance.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

OH ALLAH, TAKE MY SOUL BEFORE I BECOME THIS WEAK. AMEEN

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

The same reason most women get fat and ugly and don't bother about their looks when they get married.

I was telling a group of married friends that it is in marriage that you specifically have someone you have to look good for; your spouse. Of course they didn't agree

When you are single, you only need to look good for yourself and not care what any other person thinks. It is a different ballgame in marriage.

Guy said emotional cheating.
Everyone is talking about physical cheating and DNA, especially guys. Once they saw cheating, they didn't bother with the details.

People really don't read, that's my own. That is why some fail exams. When you won't read line by line.

MilitantAtheist:
You're an IDIOT simp that should be shot dead for keeping a LovePeddler (Nigeria girls) as a wife. I pray the guy fhuckin your slut wife shoots you soon. Nigerian women should be constantly abused and tortured even when they haven't done anything wrong because they could be doing something wrong against you unknown to you or even if they're not doing the evil against you they certainly have the intention already. That's why I have decided to acquire them in a harem of at least 5 so I can suffer and torture the hell out of them. I already pity the useless Nigeria women who will make up my harem because they will be so abused but they can't leave the marriage because it will be a death sentence on them as my Blue spirits will deal with them as any of them seek divorce. They better beware of us that innocent, handsome, rich and charming because you may fall into my hand and all I have in heart for Nigeria women is evil and torture and by God's grace I will continue to suffer them and injure more of them. Useless Nigeria women beware, by the way I have cars for sale at a Christmas bonus price, PM me. I sell to only men not useless Nigeria poor prostitute women

Shut up dog your hatred for women too much, is your mother a pig not a woman?

Hassanmaye:

Shut up dog your hatred for women too much, is my mother a pig not a woman?

yes your mom is indeed a wild sus scrofa

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Kick that confused b*t$h out to the gutter where she belongs and never look back...how dare her!!!!!

Learning

U are a big fat fool how can u still b keeping a woman that cheated on u ur wife for that mata , dat woman nai go kill u

You did nothing wrong.
Take her phone yourself and initial the blocking n then monitor her, if she will unblock it.
If she unblock, my brother I leave you to your faith.
It's clearly obvious that she isn't done with you yet.
Your peace n life isn't important to her, simple
All the best to you.

D man dey vex me sef. He's still asking for advice. Those kind of disloyal and so called jaju women make me sick. May we never buy problem with money in Jesus name

LordIsaac:
Honestly the things we read these days! See ehn, the reason why God had to discipline Adam in spite of him giving a correct escuse was because Adam was a weak man.

If I were you, I will send her packing immediately by throwing her things over my fence and notifying her people that their daughter is no longer with me, as she loves prostitution more than marriage.

That extreme action ehn will place every soul attached to her including herself on guard. She will not just delete all the social media account on her knees (when we go to settle again in her father's house), but she will swear never to use social media again willingly.
Ladies disrespect and hate weak men. Stand your guard and take charge.

Cease being the husband of a hoe that refuses to depart from whoredom!

Reliableman:
Divorce her before she disgraces you

SHE DON ALREADY DISGRACE Afodot0022

abimic:
Who now raises men of nowadays? Men of old don't tolerate this nonsense, even their wives can't try this shit.

Baba, your wife dey shit, you dey give am second chance, even relationship sef, no second chance.

Men of old never had access to nairaland. I tell you this because nothing happening today is new to us, wives have been fuçking their lovers and birthing children from other men from their husbands since humans created this thing called marriage.

You only get to know about it more often today because of internet forums and social media.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Okafor law is so strong...End the marriage asap....she's a BITC.H

You lost your ball.

Its over!

Deleting the contact was something she would have offered personally if she had respect for you.

That's what we tell you simps.

Y'll think women need your loveydovey, simp personalities. Y'll wrong.

Women love masculine energy to keep them in check and unfortunately you don't have that in you.

One fool dey knack your wife outside and you're here, using words like shes having an emotional affairs. LoL. Niqqa you dumb Man.

Man up. Let her know you're ready to split the house apart. Tell her you don't care about yourself, the kids or any fvcking being. Get your balls back.

Nobody fvcks with a niqqa who has nothing to lose.

You're obviously single

If a woman cheats on you and you forgive her, she'll punish you for it and that is what she is doing. You don't need intervention from anybody, send her packing asap. I hate nonsense

Ahmed0336:


Since you're looking for what will help you end your marriage I will help with few tips.

1. Clone her social media account
2. Get a friend from the telecom sector to provide you with her monthly call details.

All the best.

and what the hell will he do with her call log? It's not as if he is trying to catch her, she has been caught already and simp is asking what to do?

Why are some untrained children after peoples wife?

Some men here attacking this guy are after peoples wife.

We live life like we will never die, but thank God Everyman has to give an account after dealth.

Look for the one they have destroyed her home and go after, don't try to destroy another one.

Toktee:
It's been ten years now that I got married to my ulomi babe though am from the middle belt.. Let me tell you pint blank that any woman that has the guts to cheat in marriage will cheat again and again.
As for me I cannot accept any cheating woman, no second chance reason been that she may claim to change, yet that change might be change in strategies on how to do it without your knowledge.
Send any woman that cheat away without the knowledge of her parents or your parents, this is because they will discourage you from doing so.

The bible is clear about adultery and is the only condition for divorce.

Most of you behaves as if you have covenant with Toto.
How sure are you that the two kids are even yours?
The lady said she have been dating the guy before she marry you, yet you are arguing with her that it was last year.
Allow the olosho to sleep, remove her sim card or use razor blade to damage the sim through the lines in the sim card... or just drop some water in the phone and watch what happens next.


But to be honest, you just carry dick you are not a man.

Me,accept and still Bleep a who're under my roof.

Divorce the woman.
Doing so it scsaving your life. trust me

Like the American will say, once in is always in.

The guy your wife cheated with have something you don't have and anytime she need that, she will meet that guy.

I have a lady I dated, I discovered on Facebook two years ago that she was getting married. As I result of that, I avoided her, she still calls me weekly but I have only answered her once in 2 year.

Because of what she was enjoying, she refused telling me, she was about getting married. Even in her husband house she still want pleasure from someone else.

My uncle will always say fear women.

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

Is dis an excuse for wives to cheat u fool?
If u lack attention why not divorce d man?
Very stewpeed comment

SIMPsons sha

see d kind childish question
wey a full fledged man dey ask

What he should do as his own wife is refusing to cut off ties with a so-called childhood MALE friend of hers?

Na wa o

my gf can't try this talk more of when I get married.your a foolish simp! rip in advance to you mumu man

Kingpin1000:
Too many weak men these days.. someone is having an affair with your wife and all you can do is to tell her to block her joy giver and yet she told you no, with a flimsy excuse of knowing the bastard before you..
Oga that guy is more important than you and you shouldn't be surprised if He lay claim to your daughters because he was banging your wife before you knew and got married to her and is still banging your wife.
Ones a woman taste another prick and she cum, my brother just forget it.
Leave that wife ASAP so that we will not see obituary of a nairalander.
Ì know you won't listen because, your type na SIMP.

If you can't listen to this guy.. there is no need giving you any advice..
You are on your own, very shameful.

I hate cheating with passion, I'm not married yet, but if my girlfriend chaetes on me, I'll quietly leave her.
I told my ex it was over between us, and she thought I was joking cos I said it a smile on my face. Her mum called me and asked me what happened, I simply told her to ask her daughter.
Personally, I don't think I will ever forgive a cheating partner. I may not be a great guy when it comes to treating a woman, but I always try my best.

Let me be honest with you...
Except she married you and paid your groom price..

Your stupidity is annoying..
You know what to do..
If you can't, don't come here getting us upset and disgusted...
How can a man be acting like a child?
She even had the guts to tell you she knew him b4 you and they are friends...
Such guts should send her packing, yet here we are, talking about how weak a man you are...

LordIsaac:
Honestly the things we read these days! See ehn, the reason why God had to discipline Adam in spite of his giving a reasonable escuse was because Adam was a weak man.

If I were you, I will send her packing immediately by throwing her things over my fence and notifying her people that their daughter is no longer with me, as she loves prostitution more than marriage.

That extreme action ehn will place every soul attached to her including herself on guard. She will not just delete all the social media accounts while on her knees (when we go to settle again in her father's house), but she will swear never to use social media again, willingly.
Ladies disrespect and hate weak men. Stand your guard and take charge.

Cease being the husband of a hoe that refuses to depart from whoredom!

Your 2nd to the last paragraph is so true. My woman ones told me that she preferred when I was strick with her than now I have soft-pedal abit. Immediately, I activated strick mood to avoid insults.

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

bro
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