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Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by einsteine(m): 4:42am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Mumu |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 5:43am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: Adultery was never the reason for divorce. It is fornication. Matt 5.32 and 19.9. We have been led astray thinking that a cheating wife must be sent away. When you sleep with your wife before you married her, you have cancelled all ground for divorce |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:04am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:In the first, Matthew quotes Jesus as saying: “It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of porneia (sexual immorality), makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:31-32). |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:16am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue: The first biblical ground for divorce is adultery. When Jesus was asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?”. Jesus reiterated the idea of one man and one woman in a personal, purposeful, and permanent relationship. Therefore if a woman decide to break the biblical culture of one man one wife, and 1+1=1, to 2+1= 2,then she's on her own. Do not accept a proud cheating wife.... |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 6:22am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: Please read KJV bible. What is sexual immorality? It is used to deceive people. The only ground for divorce is fornication. Can a married woman commit fornication? The Op problem would have never come up if he had married a virgin. Virgins don't know what is ex, but because he slept with his wife while they were dating, and knew she was not a virgin and still married her, no excuse for divorce. The Bible even gave us a lifeline that whoever sleeps with a virgin must marry her. Mary, the mother of Jesus went through the problem when she was still a virgin and found to be pregnant. It took an angel to come and pacify Joseph. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:33am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:oga stop all this blind argument, sex before marriage is called fornication while sex in marriage is call adultery... and the Bible is clear about it except you want to change the Bible. And there's no where in the Bible where it's stated that one must marry a virgin. How can a married woman commit fornication in marriage? Pls stop already. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 6:35am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: You are right but read KJV version of Matt 5.32 and Matt 19.9 and he said that whoever marries a woman that is put away commits adultery against the husband. So how can a woman put away for adultery according to you, still commit adultery against her husband if she remarried. The Bible says that a woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive and if while being alive, she marries another man, she shall be called an adulteress. The Bible says that any woman who is not a virgin on the day of marriage should be stoned to death in front of her father's house for playing the harlot while living there |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Optmus(m): 6:36am On Jan 05, 2023 |
The guy is the father of one or two of your kids. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:48am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:you are confusing your self bro, all this stone here, stone there... Jesus came and put away all this laws by amending them with grace. If not for grace you would have been dead by now. Now you said the op slept with his wife before marriage and even knew that she was not a verging yet married her? If at all he knew as u are claimed and absconded after sleeping with her, what will u make of him? I can see, when you are ready to. Marry you will go on testing sprees? And according to you all non virgins should not be married? Then while should you even get married? |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 6:48am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: Please read KJV version of Matt 5.32 for us and also read where it was stated that Joseph, because he was a good man, planned to put away Mary privily until the angel pacified him and the Bible recorded that he did not sleep with her until she gave birth. Then go to Deut where the bible talks about the token of virginity which used to be a part of our wedding festivities where the blood stained bedsheets are shown to people and they will all shower praises on the girl and the family. Use Google and you will understand the Bible |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:52am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:the Bible says if the woman is send away by a man for any other reason aside adultery he made her adulteress. The Bible even says if she's send away she shd remain unmarried. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 6:54am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee:The grace given to women is that instead of stoning them, they will remain unmarried because whoever marries them will be commiting adultery against the ex husband. David, when he returned from Absalom wahala, put away his wives that Absalom slept with in a compound and he never slept with them afterwards. Read your Bible to show your self equipped |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 6:57am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee:Thou shalt not put away your wife except for fornication and whosoever that marries the woman that is put away commits adultery against her husband. Is not difficult to understand? |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 6:59am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.Mathew 19.9 |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 7:01am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:pls I need a quote from the Bible where it's stated clearly that "fornication" and not adultery should be the ground for divorce? Bible quote pls? |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by mosaicafrique: 7:06am On Jan 05, 2023 |
There are two ways to correcting such a woman, most of them don't stop but instead of you losing your spiritual self and honor as a man it's better you apply any of this solutions: 1. Send her packing and use her as a scape goat for her daughters to learn and decist from such in the future . 2. Lace her up with magun so you can teach her and the lover a life time lesson that will correct it forever and make she and her lover hit front page of all National Dailys. That secret lover will be exposed and made to continue his randy life with the devil. Cheating wives are disrespectful and I can feel your pain. You don't deserve her and she is not a wife, don't let your daughters grow up to emulate such dirty lifestyle. God will give you your wife. But if you choose to continue with the marriage, just make sure you buy your casket before you continue with her. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 7:09am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee:I just read the KJV version to you. That's not KJV version. Any version that tells you that it's sexual immorality, burn the version. A woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive and if she remarried while her husband is dead, she shall not be called an adulteress but if he is alive, she is an adulteress. So which immorality is your version talking about? |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 7:11am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:You just limit you argument on kjv, give me specific Bible quote where it's written that " Fornication" and not adultery should be reason for divorce? Failure to do that do not quote me again? What's fornication? What's adultery? Define them separately pls. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 7:16am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:Leviticus 20:10 - And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. This is also kjv. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 7:19am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mosaicafrique: Very good position but Jesus told the woman caught in the act of adultery to go and sin no more. But he didn't forgive the fornicators. The Bible warned us to flee from fornication and also reminded us to not allow fornication to be once named among us and that the will of God is to flee from fornication. The Op is like everyone of us paying for the sins of fornication. A woman already condemned to death will never give a man peace. We have all believed a lie that it has now become the truth. He can't put her away all the days of his life. Na his cross |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by iyke0280: 7:24am On Jan 05, 2023 |
I won't tell you to leave your marriage especially as there are kids involved. However, the fact that you had to tell your wife to cut all communications with him (especially after what transpired) shows either of 2 things: 1) She doesn't respect you and your marriage enough to do what is necessary. 2) She's very naive to think that saying "I won't do it again" is enough to make things right in her marriage. Eitherway, If I were in your shoes, my response to her would be..."if you value your friendship with this person enough to lose our marriage over, then you probably should be married to him". I wouldn't bring it up again & if I don't see a change (genuine one at that) in a few days...I'll check out. First emotionally, then as things progress, physically. "We accept the love we think we deserve..." 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by sooperrescue(m): 7:35am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: Matt 5.32 KJV, but I say to you that whosoever shall put away his wife saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committed adultery. The answer to your questions is in that verse. Deut 22.13 KJV will interpret the Matt verse about a married woman commiting fornication. Make I go work. Happy new year |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Toktee(m): 7:57am On Jan 05, 2023 |
sooperrescue:vague |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by galadima77(m): 8:13am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Kingpin1000: He won't listen. That's why he's here in the first place. OP continue enduring her abeg.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Coolgent(m): 8:28am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Afodot0022: You did nothing wrong. And be extremely careful before she poison u and marry that fornicator. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Tycyborg(m): 8:49am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Socratiz: Chairman, you are wrong with your advise. You can't tell someone to carry another person's problem because of infidelity... When she knows she had trauma when she was young or when there is trauma when she was younger why didn't she exibit the same attitude when they were dating so it can be corrected, why did she exibit those character during the two years of marriage but she was exhibiting it after 2 children and you want the husband to become a character CIA or FBI all because he was married to her? The husband already had alot he is taking care and marriage if like two people working as one not for him to become a husband and a councillor of characters.... No one need to contact anyone on such issue... The best bet is divorce because things will never be ok and scar dont heal... It's simple... The woman is not mature for marriage but decided to play the man into marrying her... She played it like after all I have children and I am married if he wants to leave let him leave me alone... That's the attitude here... Marriage come with respect and I am sure the wife didn't respect the husband and if the table were turned everyone will call the husband different names and the wife won't tolerate it... You said he can contact you on how to go through with it but even you can't see the dark side of the future between them... Damn |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by prophetfire: 2:43pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Afodot0022:. You are a confirmed fool if you don't know. You are asking if you did wrong. Don't be firm and instill order and discipline in your home. WEAK MEN SUCK. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Xkale1996(m): 3:48pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Afodot0022:divorce straight no looking back |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Damilolly(f): 5:15pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Toktee: Matthew 5:17 v“Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfil. 18 For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled. |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by HitSong: 7:07pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Reinamaria:This rubbish is the most senseless and disgusting thing I'll read today. Honestly, you lack wisdom and common sense. Attention kee you there. What has attention got to do with responsibility and keeping marital vows? So if your husband is not giving you attention, the next thing is to allow men outside to start making you commit adultery? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Refused To Block The Guy She Cheated With by Kobicove(m): 11:42pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
femo86: How did you reach this conclusion? |
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