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Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Bigseven(m): 8:37am On Jan 05, 2023 |
4 years old gyal kyant lie. The evil monster the family is hiding in the name of shame n protecting the family will grow to a giant monster in public tomorrow and the bad name will follow the entire state, even country. A case of senior man bobRKY. Kogi n Nigeria anytime the name is mentioned. Protect all children especiall gyal child |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by incogni2o: 8:49am On Jan 05, 2023 |
MsJackson: If your daughter speaks the truth, I am sorry about the trauma. I think though that you should focus more on how your daughter is healed of this experience to prevent it hunting her in the future, and how she understands the world outside is cruel and not always as it seems. This quote should make you suspect your daughter too, its either she is truly hurt and filled with real hate right now(which is dangerous for a 4 year old) or she is trying to retaliate for that girl offending her for something else. Smart little children can cook up smart lies at times. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 8:53am On Jan 05, 2023 |
ibkayee:No it's not increminsting enough. People behave remorseful for several reasons. The other family/home may have a higher need for the relationship between both families than this particular has for the ACCUSSED-FAMILY. The woman and her husband have already compromised the issue&investigation by throwing the entire family of the accused under the bus as a first-reaction. Such reactions by this OP can instigate the Other family to start * BEHAVING CODEDLY AS THOUGH THEIR CHILD IS GUILTY*. ibkayee post=119719697 That was more than a strong emotional response. It was more than that. That was disregarding to the supposed relationship both families have maintained for several years prior to that moment. Did you hear the part whereby the husnad also cut off relationship with his father in the other home? Is that a strong emotional-response? Or an indirect-accusstion on his father for being a part of the incident? If that his father was Dangote and he needed him for one billion naira contract the following week, would he just cut him off or he would thread more carefully, amid seeking justice for his daughter? |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by dettolgel: 8:57am On Jan 05, 2023 |
MsJackson: Sorry for what you are going through. 1. I think you should report this issue to the right authorities (but please convince your husband on this) 2. Look for a professional help (there should he good therapist around where you live) for your daughter. I believe in prayers but prayer without work won't cut it. 3. I think the 15 yo also requires therapy otherwise she would prey on other kids. 4. Trying to cover this as her family and your husband is trying to do is akin to setting up the right circumstances for would be victims. 5. I am certain that if this blows open there are adults around the 15 yo that will be implicated this matter. For your child mental and physical health please seek professional help for the child. You may also likely need one at this point this is also damaging to your own health. I pray your child gets the help and healing she needs, and that your husband will be bold enough to do right by your daughter. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 8:58am On Jan 05, 2023 |
incogni2o:I swear down. Honestly the daughter could actually have been molested. Which is very very terrible. But see this kind of statement a 4year old would make? THAT MUMMY WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO BEAT HER UP? Imagine? Some mum's actually tell their daughters everytime things like *IF ANYBODY TOUCHES YOU ON YOUR PEEPEE, COME AND TELL ME, LET ME DEAL WITH THE PERSON* THEY TELL 3 YEAR OLD AND 4 YEAR OLD DAUGHTERS. Nothing wrong with that. But this is the Con of such methods; Whenever the daughter was another person beaten or delth with, they would go and tell their mum that *SO SO AND SO PERSON TOUCHED MY PEEPEE*. It's really not easy |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by dettolgel: 9:03am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: It is possible but a 4 year old can not keep a story straight (unless he or she is exceptional) there are probing questions you ask them and they begin to flutter. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 9:06am On Jan 05, 2023 |
AbujaCitiBlog:Take it easy, THE HEART OF A MAN is just an IDIOMATIC EXPRESSION. *MAN* in this case refers to both GENDERS/SEXES. It's like saying DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS. Doesn't mean blue is a colour worn by the devil. It's some deep figure of speech. Go and apologize to southsouthking. We learn everyday. 1 Like |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 9:09am On Jan 05, 2023 |
dettolgel:It's obvious tht the OP didn't agressively probe her child. At least in no part of the narrative did she agreessively probe her child. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by wolebest: 9:19am On Jan 05, 2023 |
[quote author=MsJackson post=119689550][/quote] For a Four Year old girl to relive in detail her experience in the hands of her cousins is no small joke. You need to report to the Sexual abuse Agency and cut -off the entire family. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by southsouthking(m): 9:20am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: You could clearly see i didn't even reply him. I'm just to focus on 2023. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 9:24am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: Aggressively probe a 4yr old? For what? |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 9:33am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel:If the 4year old is strong enough to always remind the mum of going to beat the other accussed child, then she should be strong enough to be agreesively psychologylically probed. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 9:36am On Jan 05, 2023 |
southsouthking:Forgive am. No be everything we all know. Some people still dey vex if person tell them say *go and get a FORK*. Not knowing say naa cutlery them dey refer to. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 9:44am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: Why wouldn't she remind her mum to go beat up her offender, when she was deeply offended, beyond what her innocent mind could bear? Are you saying that she could be lying? Do you know the number of children that have been molested, but are too afraid to speak up? That little girl was brave to speak up, and they mustn't allow that bravery to be in vain. 2 Likes |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Engrjamjam: 10:00am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac:You're an id1ot 1 Like |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 10:02am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: Shut the front door! |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by RZArecta(m): 10:02am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Mercury12:someone was attacking me because I said the church knows even started quoting scripture The 15yr old girl's parents have known about their daughter's sexual preference for long, they tried to hide it thinking she would respect herself but no way and they surely took her for counselling in church so that the demons would be cast out. Everybody in the husband's family is in on it, they'll just keep hiding and pretending while she sucks all the little children around and hope she doesn't get caught so as not to disgrace them. It's a delicate matter sha, does op protect her marriage and peace in the family or does she go all out for her daughter ? The unfortunate thing is that they'll make her who is the victim to feel bad as if she's the one at fault |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Engrjamjam: 10:07am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel:That person you quoted is sick. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:20am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Engrjamjam:This person is my wardmate in the hospital. Bloody Simp. Why didn't just quote me instead rather than patronising someone else? Naa me you want take get fans for here. Bloody coward. Just realized you even quoted me. Makes u worse than a coward and simp sef. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:24am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Engrjamjam: So advocating for calm and tactical approach towards extended parties of an offender makes one an idiot? |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Tegabadguy(m): 10:28am On Jan 05, 2023 |
MsJackson:just let go |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 10:31am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Tegabadguy(m): 10:33am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel:No..... she can't change any thing |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 10:36am On Jan 05, 2023 |
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Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:38am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel: No offence my dear, but U are acting like a real typical Nigerian. Always running from a particular nucleus of discussion when they feel they are losing out. 1. You questioned my phrase when I use *AGRESSIVE PROBING*. You added *A 4YEAR OLD CHILD* 2. I said if the 4 year old is strong enuf to suggest beating to the other child then she is strong enough(old enough) for AGRESSIVE PHYCOLOGICAL PROBING. Meaning, she should be well probed and shown consequences that would befall of her if she is lying. CONSEQUENCIES like that same beating she suggested on the ACCUSSED CHILD. 3. I was expecting you to stick to the line of our communications but you just jumo out from inside the debate ground, enter market dey cry for jungle justice against me Where did all these other things you are saying here come from? My dear, stick to *MY LOGICAL REASON WHY THE 4YEAR OLD CHILD SHOULD BE AGRESSIVELY PHYCOLOGICALLY PROBED*. AND ALSO STICK TO WHY I FEEL THE 4YEAR OLD IS RIPE ENOUGH TO BE AGRESSIVELY PROBED. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by dalass(f): 10:42am On Jan 05, 2023 |
MsJackson: This is unlike me. I'm thinking you may need to go there acting like all is forgiven until you get close enough to actually beat that spoilt 15 year old piece of shit up in front of your daughter to reassure her that you've dealt with her molester. Your little girl must witness it cause she's being haunted by the horrible words and acts done to her. Or your husband should do it since it is his family. In my tribe, Aunties and uncles do treat any nephew or nieces fvck-ups just like their parents can. 3 Likes |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by dalass(f): 10:46am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel: You dey reply a maniac? Meaning he's a psychiatric case 2 Likes |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 10:47am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: You seem like the type that'll tolerate anything for "peace to reign". |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by mariahAngel(f): 10:51am On Jan 05, 2023 |
dalass: He even dey type epistle give me. All these " unfortunately, there's nothing you can do, since there was no penetration to prove it" I swear, I no get. 1 Like |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:56am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel: That's where you are wrong. I never tolerate nonesense. I'm not a sucker for peace/love. There are some battles I'm still fighting for over 10years cos both sides haven't gotten to bottom of it. But on thing I do is *to thread carefully and tactfully*. For God sake, put yourself in the shoes of the other family. Imagine of you were the other family and had always genuinely seen the victim(the 4year) as your own child. And you always saw this OP As your own blood. Would you feel nice if you are thrown under the bus along with your own accused child as A FIRST REACTION? I can never allow my wife do such without considering extending parties to an offender. Im not wired like that. But trust me, I would go to the very bottom of it. Like I said someone, even if it means fixing a Return leg for the other family to bring their daughter to my house for the weekend. Then hire one scary ugly looking masquerade to get out the truth from the 15 year old or else she changes to tortoise. She go Hail naaaaa I hate being insensitive due to high temperament. That's what dfifderentiats us as Humans from Animals. |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ibkayee(f): 10:56am On Jan 05, 2023 |
nairamaniac: The 4 year old is also his family. You hear your child has allegedly been inappropriately touched, most parents’ brains are going into overdrive. A strong emotional response isn’t uncommon or unreasonable. Ok let’s go with your theory that the 4 year old could have been exposed to adult movies or seen her parents before. Out of all the people in the world, the 4 year old concocted this very peculiar story and used her 15 year old cousin as the scapegoat for no reason at all. The 4 year old just had the cousin in mind as a target even 3 months later and there’s absolutely no truth to something fishy occurring. All we know is that the dad was angry and then relayed the information back to the family. We don’t know how it was said, worded, if he asked them or outright accused them. We just know that whichever response he got from them made him turn his back and ‘shut’ his dad up. So I don’t really get you when you say they compromised the situation and disregarded the family relationship. I admit that I am leaning towards a bias, however for someone who is advocating for absolute neutrality you sure are making a lot of assumptions in favour of the family. 1 Like |
Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:58am On Jan 05, 2023 |
mariahAngel: There is a lot she can do. But would have done much better if she hadn't compromised the whole thing. I swear I would go to the very end, you have no idea. |
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