I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

Your head Dey there Baba.

You know the game very well

J

Should we tell him

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

LOL! OP, this your story just reminds me of a Beautiful girl named (let's call her Blessing) I came across in my 300L, she was a new occupant in my lodge! Who would see Blessing and wouldn't want to talk to her, babe was very beautiful and Curvy? She had a matured boyfriend too and it was a long distance relationship

Long story short, I approached blessing a certain night, we talked at length and I got her number, before you knew it, we have started rolling together, she'd come over to my room and sleep and all that.

Guys were dying to get her attention, buying gifts and all that and you know what? They haven't even gotten ordinary number Sometimes she'd call me to come to her room so we could eat what a maga got her, sometimes she'd come with it to my room unannounced Have Blessing ever asked me for Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What were we? I don't know! But we've done everything one in a relationship could do!

That singular encounter with that girl opened my eye to realize that when a lady loves you, she'll make it easy for you. it's not bad to give out money o, but also make sure that the girl you're spending on has your interest at heart

Also, you need to learn how to say NO! You wear the shoe so you know where it hurts. I learnt how to say NO a very long time ago and trust me, it's one of the biggest lessons of my Life

Learn to say No
If their papa fit Dey tell them No
Who you be to always say Yes

Werey continue spending..your reward dey heaven

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

sapa never choke you. Na why be that

Stop wasting your money

EmzyT:


LOL! OP, this your story just reminds me of a Beautiful girl named (let's call her Blessing) I came across in my 300L, she was a new occupant in my lodge! Who would see Blessing and wouldn't want to talk to her, babe was very beautiful and Curvy? She had a matured boyfriend too and it was a long distance relationship

Long story short, I approached blessing a certain night, we talked at length and I got her number, before you knew it, we have started rolling together, she'd come over to my room and sleep and all that.

Guys were dying to get her attention, buying gifts and all that and you know what? They haven't even gotten ordinary number Sometimes she'd call me to come to her room so we could eat what a maga got her, sometimes she'd come with it to my room unannounced Have Blessing ever asked me for Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What were we? I don't know! But we've done everything one in a relationship could do!

That singular encounter with that girl opened my eye to realize that when a lady loves you, she'll make it easy for you. it's not bad to give out money o, but also make sure that the girl you're spending on has your interest at heart

Also, you need to learn how to say NO! You wear the shoe so you know where it hurts. I learnt how to say NO a very long time ago and trust me, it's one of the biggest lessons of my Life

Aren't you rich?

hmmm

Wherever you go, wherever you would be. Do not say YES, when you mean to say NO. This can save you now and the in future.

Na woman go kill you be that,if you don't learn to say no to them. Are you afraid to say no or what? Make No you default answer to any female requesting anything from you,except she is your mom,sister or daughter or maybe little girl child that can't work yet.. Of all those you gave said yes to ,wetin u don gain in return? Nothing.. The day you don't give them,you become a bad person. They will follow another available mugu

LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

Lies not all guys spend for girls..the most important thing is the feelings the girl has for you. A girl that genuinely likes you wont stress you..when a girl is into you na then you go know say women get money for transport and to take care of man.
Its all about your game but above all if she likes you thats all oo.

You give to cum and that's your only benefit.

When you depisit your money in bear-bear bank, no withdrawal oh.

Banilla:

Aren't you rich?

It didn't matter bro, she never requested for a dime from me

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also gets laid a lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

Hear this, if a girl ask you for financial help, go through her chat and u will see she has asked 15 other guys for same help, so wether u help her at that moment or u dont it dosen't matter, cos she would stil get all the help she wants, chances are there that other simps on her contact would gladly help her,

There are rules to these things, a high-value man would invest in himself jealously and watch these girls do the chasing,
See here is the trick, if you always say yes to all her demands, she won't value you and she would easily dump you because in her mind you ain't masculine enough to oppose her and women don't find the sexy at all, at first they will like it, but in the long run u become very boring dude, reason why girl love bad boys, bad boys dont give them attention and girls literally live by attention and validation but when u give them too much of attention, u become boring and needy

Women are complicated but all their antics are easy to decipher if you pay attention.
i am currently putting up an e-book tittled High Value Male, this will answer all your questions

It's because you can afford to.

OP, Don't allow any Guy Here to deceive you o..

If you want to date Babes in Nigeria currently, you MUST spend one way or the Other.

The Only Guys who DO NOT Spend on Ladies are those Fresh, Handsome, Fair Boys that Dress like Wizkid, Chris Brown,etc..

Girls wants to use them to do Show-off, so they normally Give them towtow free of Charge..

ifihearam:


Lies not all guys spend for girls..the most important thing is the feelings the girl has for you. A girl that genuinely likes you wont stress you..when a girl is into you na then you go know say women get money for transport and to take care of man.
Its all about your game but above all if she likes you thats all oo.

Woman matter in general they chop money. Na normal, but if u will bang many pussies u must spend more.

Even one pussy they chop money.

Those guys forming not spending they lie.

Any womanizer wey no dey spend is a liar.

A big one.

Womanizing goes along with spending.

Vinnie2000:


OP, Don't allow any Guy Here to deceive you o..

If you want to date Babes in Nigeria currently, you MUST spend one way or the Other.

The Only Guys who DO NOT Spend on Ladies are those Fresh, Handsome, Fair Boys that Dress like Wizkid, Chris Brown,etc..

Girls wants to use them to do Show-off, so they normally Give them towtow free of Charge..

Those gez have a way of getting money from men, even those fresh boys still dey spend. I am talking about mature guys here, not underage.



When I was younger, if woman come my house I dey on gen till dey break... Na money dey burn so oh. I no go take akant of it.

If na only me, I dey even sleep in darkness to save that fuel money.

Woman mata!

I remember when ever woman come to stay with me, my expenses dey shoot up...

It's like I adopted an adult.. Awon foster parent.

Number one is that you are simping for women and they would always manipulate and toss you around...
Number 2 is that your dick game and chat game is not that strong, more reason I will always advise a guy to bang a lady very very well the first time, because you will be repping your entire village as well and she will always come back for more without you spending shi-shi...

Misplaced priority....

Imagine this is how seun thinks! You probably won't have a platform like Nairaland to share your thoughts on...

You are a useless simp with zero confidence. How can u look at yourself and give yourself 6.
Even if you are crippled give yourself 12 over 10.
Naija girls don't deserve to be spent on. An Average naija girl has a smelling pussy. If not for internet and some useless yahoo boys, na naija girls for dey pay us to suck our dickss.
Death to all simps.
Naija girls are so Useless.
I know one simp mod might ban me but I don't give a flying fualkkkkk

Just change your bathing soap you will see wonders.

Lol
So you be the monkey wey dey work
While baboon dey chop

Sure, just one useless girl wey I bi dey give 2k, 1k on weekly basis decide to cut off relationship when she asked me Christmas money and I demand sex too, she said, she is not into that rubbish but the eddiot always tell me I love whenever money enter her account, walahi ,good 3 months, no hugs, no kiss and no seeing her pants till we separated

Lol,


One of the most core principles of the rich people is (stick to one woman, she will help you achieve everything.. No woman will loot your wealth if they love you

Nigga you are just wasting your time, energy and money by dating a valueless Nigerian girl in the first place... Use that money to build your life, and become a star... Nigerian girl will sleep with you for free if you are successful

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I can't help you.