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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by deavicky(m): 9:46pm On Jan 11, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..
you might not be too correct because most times u most have cross the gate before spending.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Lionnation: 9:46pm On Jan 11, 2023
Anytime I give a woman money on a first date I will lose the girl, but oncei refuse to spend she will be dying fir me and keeps coming

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by kelvinklein219(m): 9:48pm On Jan 11, 2023
It's because they call you and ask for 10k, maybe they come over and you give them as a lowkey guy or you send it... But those other guys the day they will give the girl that same 10k,he will take her out to even local bar, they drink and play for like 30 mins, get down to business small small with highness, they flaunt the girl by taking here everywhere, that day they will visit their friend with the girl, some will go and eat in one small restaurant with the girl.. Yes they like it like that, they will probably lodge or she come over, they will take time and get high, eat and bang before he will give her that 10k so you see it's in the experience
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Benega9(m): 9:52pm On Jan 11, 2023
Na you wan spend naaaa...
Me self d collect woto woto from girls without spending dimes

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Uchemus(m): 9:54pm On Jan 11, 2023
No go do better thing with your life
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by olexjay(m): 9:59pm On Jan 11, 2023
lexy2014:


womanising doesnt involve money. its you that wants to spend that will spend because of low self esteem and desperation for sex. if when you think of sex is to give a lady money, then you will always attract prostitutes and guess what, you will keep spending
that’s broke men reason for my brother, then why do couples give their wives money, so davido who says love is sweet but when money enters love is sweeter doesn’t know what he’s saying right….. money spice relationship better

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by kareemkamil(m): 10:05pm On Jan 11, 2023
U be mumu na
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Karnice600: 10:06pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
Do you wanna get more laid or you wanna get better as a person?
Most guys who call the shots with women don't prioritize getting laid. They prioritize other things.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Emola12(m): 10:09pm On Jan 11, 2023
Nah you mumu pass for dis world now
Wait ooo how many times you don send ur mama money

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by tuoyoojo(m): 10:12pm On Jan 11, 2023
Sucre6:


Hear this, if a girl ask you for financial help, go through her chat and u will see she has asked 15 other guys for same help, so wether u help her at that moment or u dont it dosen't matter, cos she would stil get all the help she wants, chances are there that other simps on her contact would gladly help her,

There are rules to these things, a high-value man would invest in himself jealously and watch these girls do the chasing,
See here is the trick, if you always say yes to all her demands, she won't value you and she would easily dump you because in her mind you ain't masculine enough to oppose her and women don't find the sexy at all, at first they will like it, but in the long run u become very boring dude, reason why girl love bad boys, bad boys dont give them attention and girls literally live by attention and validation but when u give them too much of attention, u become boring and needy grin

Women are complicated but all their antics are easy to decipher if you pay attention.
i am currently putting up an e-book tittled High Value Male, this will answer all your questions
Very apt summary

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by colossus91(m): 10:15pm On Jan 11, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd


her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..


Oga not all ooo I can testify oo
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by mrksquare: 10:16pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?


Come and pay admission fee into my Casanova school of being an A-list man that doesn't give shishi but yet can have any woman for the keep.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by rickleye: 10:18pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

I spend on average N30,000 to bleep a girl.
I have bleeped ( I like the word bleep grin) about 100 girls.
Don't need to worry if people spend less or more, what's important is that it achieves your goal.
In some occasions Okafor's Law kicks in in which I don't pay a dime.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Treassured: 10:25pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

Whining have started again lol.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by CaptainWest1000(m): 10:26pm On Jan 11, 2023
DUKEOFIBADAN:


Don’t mind that second poster bro, the logic is that the more money you have the less spending on any girl. The truth is that when they perceive you to be rich they don’t bill you instantly, they will always wait to bill you big time but before then you go don chop them. I live in a duplex alone and own 2 exotic cars. I get kitten for free just for them to come to my house to take pictures, most times they volunteer to buy food items with their money and also buy me gift when coming just to groom me like how yahoo boys groom their maga but me I know what I’m doing I just want to clap one or 2 times and forget about her. CityBoyzUp
BOSS HOW UR BOY GO TAKE RAISE NA, CUT ME SOAP ABEG, SITUATION TOO HARD HERE
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Drbarmes(m): 10:35pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
Plenty lie + small spending= bleeping. We move
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Revolva(m): 10:42pm On Jan 11, 2023
@OP

You be heavy MUGU ....big one....ur type need to be flogg..ed well and correct your self

Why should you be spending on a y woman that dont love you

Better use ur money and invest in ur self

MUGU

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by poweredcom(m): 10:45pm On Jan 11, 2023
This type of guy na una go end up beating up girls at d end because of all the disspointment

From these useless creatures

@womenareapezz come advise dis mugu

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 10:49pm On Jan 11, 2023
olexjay:
that’s broke men reason for my brother, then why do couples give their wives money, so davido who says love is sweet but when money enters love is sweeter doesn’t know what he’s saying right….. money spice relationship better

There's nothing you have typed that has negated the following.

womanising doesnt involve money. its you that wants to spend that will spend because of low self esteem and desperation for sex. if when you think of sex is to give a lady money, then you will always attract prostitutes and guess what, you will keep spending
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by harmony75: 10:57pm On Jan 11, 2023
Learn to stop pleasing people they have taken you for a fool it is very painful!!!!!

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Kreddy: 11:02pm On Jan 11, 2023
BigCowHornn:



Had this experience in school. You are very correct

Mine was in SS3 though. Girls were dating guys normal but there was this babe that stood out with her beauty and big size that made guys scared
UT was the teachers and made men with cars outside that were going for her. Very expensive looking babe

I was a hard guy then but na love note hidden in text book I use toast her and e enter
My friends would always wonder how I maintain a bug like that and when I said it dint cost me a dime they wouldn't believe.

Her rich boyfriend was 5 years older than me . I knew him but he didn't know me. All the older men chasing her even the teacher I knew them . She tied me everything. Things they give her na me dey share am with her
Sex? That one na almost every Saturday when she is alone at home


is this akins?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by 7arrows: 11:13pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

U must be realy jobless to come here with such a post. U can start picking TINUBU'S torn campaign posters under the bridge.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by NOwazobia: 11:13pm On Jan 11, 2023
You always find it difficult to say no because it is a transaction.

You expect to get laid at the end but you get disappointed sometimes.

Remove the trader mindset and it will be easy for you to say no.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by 7arrows: 11:14pm On Jan 11, 2023
Merch:
Werey continue spending..your reward dey heaven

Tell am o.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Omowiseonelove(m): 11:15pm On Jan 11, 2023
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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by flokii: 11:16pm On Jan 11, 2023
Na butty this OP be.. which on be getting laid? Na bedsheet you be?

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Jamersirwin1971: 11:16pm On Jan 11, 2023
I think this is false . While I was in Nigeria. I no Dey spend money for woman . My friends were always asking how I did it . Even thou most of them had BFs , they would just come to my place we go Bleep and watch movies . Then would go . It got to a stage my friend were thinking maybe I was giving them money behind then they planned with a lady to date me . Without me knowing . We dated for like 2-3 months . Enough communication and time . I can be friends with lady and would communicate daily with you . Till you go just like me . Asides maybe money for your transportation not else . So after like 3 months we beeped each other . Na there she tell
Me say na my friends tell her to come date me maybe I dey spend low key . Money she no see collect from my hand . Even currently as I Dey Finland self . I still communicate with most and they would even send money to whom ever I want them to send money to . They haven’t asked me for money . I have meet like 3/4 more on IG self we never see and they have sent money to where ever I tell them . Depending on how you can converse with her . She would understand that you guys can’t be together or you guys are just friend but una go Dey been una self . One self I never see I met her in FB, the money that girl have given me in two years alone na only 5 k I don give am . Mean while she’s spent more than 500k on me . If I even enter Nigeria and I see am I go Bleep am free am ..

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by asapants: 11:19pm On Jan 11, 2023
Sucre6:


Hear this, if a girl ask you for financial help, go through her chat and u will see she has asked 15 other guys for same help, so wether u help her at that moment or u dont it dosen't matter, cos she would stil get all the help she wants, chances are there that other simps on her contact would gladly help her,

There are rules to these things, a high-value man would invest in himself jealously and watch these girls do the chasing,
See here is the trick, if you always say yes to all her demands, she won't value you and she would easily dump you because in her mind you ain't masculine enough to oppose her and women don't find the sexy at all, at first they will like it, but in the long run u become very boring dude, reason why girl love bad boys, bad boys dont give them attention and girls literally live by attention and validation but when u give them too much of attention, u become boring and needy grin

Women are complicated but all their antics are easy to decipher if you pay attention.
i am currently putting up an e-book tittled High Value Male, this will answer all your questions
You’ll live more than your fathers, they value things they cannot get hold of, I do starve them with attention. Give a woman what she needs not what she wants. Make her fall in love with you then you will be able to manipulate her, please don’t break her heart and don’t use her for your pleasure. If you want to be a real man try these things.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by vislabraye(m): 11:22pm On Jan 11, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

I tend to agree with what you're saying. Most of us guys have big egos and will not tell you the complete truth.
Its only in a few cases where you wont spend much. That's if she likes you a lot. But initially in almost all cases, there's some level of financial investment.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 11:23pm On Jan 11, 2023
rickleye:


I spend on average N30,000 to bleep a girl.
I have bleeped ( I like the word bleep grin) about 100 girls.
Don't need to worry if people spend less or more, what's important is that it achieves your goal.
In some occasions Okafor's Law kicks in in which I don't pay a dime.

Let's say you have spent 30k on 50 girls, that's like 1.5m. this is social media where some of you make up.stories to boost your ego. But if true, it's unfortunate that you spent 1.5m on sex and you feel it's an achievement. If you spent that money on yourself or done something important, wouldn't that have made a difference?

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Rubbiish(m): 11:24pm On Jan 11, 2023
Dandicker:
The truth is- if you're in relationship and you know it won't lead to marriage please kindly reduce the rate of spending money on her because if she leaves you, you got to think how much you av invested on her and that might cause you serious heartbreak..... Invest that huge money on your mum or orphanage home n wait for the blessings.
The bold is very true
The more u spend on people, the harder it is to move on when they leave u. Reason men who sponsored ladies education find it hard to move on after breakup.

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