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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Sucre6: 11:26pm On Jan 11, 2023
asapants:

You’ll live more than your fathers, they value things they cannot get hold of, I do starve them with attention. Give a woman what she needs not what she wants. Make her fall in love with you then you will be able to manipulate her, please don’t break her heart and don’t use her for your pleasure. If you want to be a real man try these things.

Apt cool
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by ThatCEO: 11:34pm On Jan 11, 2023
Sucre6:


Hear this, if a girl ask you for financial help, go through her chat and u will see she has asked 15 other guys for same help, so wether u help her at that moment or u dont it dosen't matter, cos she would stil get all the help she wants, chances are there that other simps on her contact would gladly help her,

There are rules to these things, a high-value man would invest in himself jealously and watch these girls do the chasing,
See here is the trick, if you always say yes to all her demands, she won't value you and she would easily dump you because in her mind you ain't masculine enough to oppose her and women don't find the sexy at all, at first they will like it, but in the long run u become very boring dude, reason why girl love bad boys, bad boys dont give them attention and girls literally live by attention and validation but when u give them too much of attention, u become boring and needy grin

Women are complicated but all their antics are easy to decipher if you pay attention.
i am currently putting up an e-book tittled High Value Male, this will answer all your questions

I m interested in the book. Which platform do you plan to sell it

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by pacificom: 11:35pm On Jan 11, 2023
You are not different from men who pay for sex in the brothel cos they do spend so much on ladies that will never love them. Check your spending habit with new ladies and I am sure you won't have to lavish money when you meet your true love.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Peero1: 11:39pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
My dear brother, the truth of the matter is that keeping a lady will cost you money. You will spend money but it depends on how you step up your game. I have learnt this from my past relationships. Let me give you an instance, there is this girl I meet in my okacpof work. I will say we became friends the day she ate my vegetable soup (I worked as a cook) so not too long she invited me over to her house and we became friends like that but nothing like s*x on the first visit. But I don't want to rush into her because I no laslas nah money the thing go chop. Womanizing will cost you your single dime ooo, no say I no tell you.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Ifakiland(m): 11:43pm On Jan 11, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
1) learn to say no to girls, even if she will die, say no to her.

2) forget sex, you can masturbate. Fornication and masturbation na same sin, just dat the later is cheaper and safer.

3) focus on improving ur life.

4) no dey smile with girls....hate girls, when you see a girl, imagine her cheating on you already and hate her

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Triangles1(m): 11:45pm On Jan 11, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

Professor you're on point.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by InvertedHammer: 12:13am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

/

The one that gives the most money gets the most attention but not necessarily the most sex. cool

A big spender may get it once in a month. But there
is someone getting it almost everyday with the only advantage of proximity. cool

/

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by VULCAN(m): 12:18am On Jan 12, 2023
This is a New Year.

So ask God to give you a mindset shift towards abundance.

You never even considered if he has earned over N150m in all the years he has banged those girls.

You just immediately equated his financial worth with yours.

Bro. Free Yourself

lexy2014:


Let's say you have spent 30k on 50 girls, that's like 1.5m. this is social media where some of you make up.stories to boost your ego. But if true, it's unfortunate that you spent 1.5m on sex and you feel it's an achievement. If you spent that money on yourself or done something important, wouldn't that have made a difference?

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Doctortest: 12:21am On Jan 12, 2023
If the girl never yet be my babe as in steady kpolash’ living in my house I no fit spend pAsss 10-20k during treasuring if she no gree between this period I go fanteee… but once she agree and we don Dey kpolash steady as in na my babe ‘ na that time I fit do things like buy her phone / hair / dash am funds etc that’s d lingo .over spending before this confirmento na dull inexperienced gee . For instance if we never yet Dey bang she give me bill wey pass my anthem ‘ walahi I pledge to bounce no time baba stress na for broke boys senior dude like me wey Dey cruise 3mplus ride no Dey stress

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by BhadRuby01(m): 12:36am On Jan 12, 2023
Because you're not different from zaazuu ��
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by rickleye: 12:58am On Jan 12, 2023
lexy2014:


Let's say you have spent 30k on 50 girls, that's like 1.5m. this is social media where some of you make up.stories to boost your ego. But if true, it's unfortunate that you spent 1.5m on sex and you feel it's an achievement. If you spent that money on yourself or done something important, wouldn't that have made a difference?

That what some people spend in a weekend.
The 3m I have had no headache , no baggage, no attachments. I have peace of mind .
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by HartetarLee200: 1:01am On Jan 12, 2023
umuna:


The cum na him be the withdrawal.
Bad guy grin
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Nonywendy(m): 1:18am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
stop SIMPing first
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by emmabest2000(m): 1:19am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

You known nothing dude

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Nonywendy(m): 1:19am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..
Oga it's not all d guys dat spend money. It's only simps dat spend such money just to lay a puci
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by ifihearam: 2:37am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Woman matter in general they chop money. Na normal, but if u will bang many pussies u must spend more.

Even one pussy they chop money.

Those guys forming not spending they lie.

Any womanizer wey no dey spend is a liar.

A big one.

Womanizing goes along with spending.




Baba again i dey tell you..na woman wey you like to bang and nor really send you na you dey spend oney

Imagine girls wey dey ask you oyt, dey your game..na she collect your number from your friends or dey message you on a reg for dm,you go spend on her too?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by CuteNbad(m): 2:41am On Jan 12, 2023
Lionnation:
Anytime I give a woman money on a first date I will lose the girl, but oncei refuse to spend she will be dying fir me and keeps coming
keep spending you broke man.

That money wey you dey spend you fit make am back?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by KaluwisxPRO: 3:09am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

You have no idea what you’re saying.

As a man, if you cannot pull women without putting money in front, you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment later.

Women like guys with sweet mouth, calm but strict I don’t care attitudes. You show them too much attention, see finish. So you moderate how you respond to them, while being modest.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by adecz: 3:21am On Jan 12, 2023
Na because you no get sweet
mouth☺️☺️☺️
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Raphaeldhero(m): 3:32am On Jan 12, 2023
Pls how do you say no to a request that actually looks like this...

"Mike can u pls help me with 10k n doggy"....?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Caseless: 3:37am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
Of all the problems in the world, na woman be your problem.

If you wan follow women, you must spend.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Iamthoney(m): 3:55am On Jan 12, 2023
b0rn2fuck:
Sure, just one useless girl wey I bi dey give 2k, 1k on weekly basis decide to cut off relationship when she asked me Christmas money and I demand sex too, she said she not into that rubbish but the eddiot always tell me I love whenever money enter her account, walahi ,good 3 months, no hugs, no kiss and no seeing her pants till we separated
grin

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Invest4growth: 4:06am On Jan 12, 2023
That is your mentality. To spend your way through. Some people will not spend much and achieve the same objective. At least, you commit resources to your relationship.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Mysmartnetwork: 4:17am On Jan 12, 2023
If ladies like you you no go spend rich or broke no matter. I Don get laid many times without spending a dime. Also learn to say no. Nothing will happen. And the ones that japa when you say no you already know what they are
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by olaeffect(m): 4:20am On Jan 12, 2023
If you can't say "No" then learn to say; "let me see what I can do" grin
That was what I told Promise 8yrs ago, she is now married with children, and I am still seeing what I can cool

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Nursepepeye(f): 4:42am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..
there are guys who don't spend on girls. Many!, Alots of them.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by CaptainFM1: 4:48am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

There are two ways to it....

1. Spend the money on yourself and look ravishingly enchanting with your shoulder high and have a high value esteem to get them tripping and get their coochies free of charge.

Or

2. Give them the money as their paymaster/customer for the exchange of the honey pot.

If you have girls in the house (an hostel or similar), and you notice most don't have TV let alone DSTV), your very first investment on yourself should be those.

Hostel is a bit far from college and you can afford a car (f**king medicine), get one and you will see how vulnerable they become.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Love800(m): 4:56am On Jan 12, 2023
Bros where did u learn how to cook. I want to learn too.
Pls wich place can one work for nd earn good pay as a cook apart from hotels nd restaurants

Wat of opening ur own restaurant. Is dat a good idea too
Peero1:

My dear brother, the truth of the matter is that keeping a lady will cost you money. You will spend money but it depends on how you step up your game. I have learnt this from my past relationships. Let me give you an instance, there is this girl I meet in my okacpof work. I will say we became friends the day she ate my vegetable soup (I worked as a cook) so not too long she invited me over to her house and we became friends like that but nothing like s*x on the first visit. But I don't want to rush into her because I no laslas nah money the thing go chop. Womanizing will cost you your single dime ooo, no say I no tell you.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by FiremanX: 4:58am On Jan 12, 2023
EmzyT:


LOL! OP, this your story just reminds me of a Beautiful girl named (let's call her Blessing) I came across in my 300L, she was a new occupant in my lodge! Who would see Blessing and wouldn't want to talk to her, babe was very beautiful and Curvy? She had a matured boyfriend too and it was a long distance relationship

Long story short, I approached blessing a certain night, we talked at length and I got her number, before you knew it, we have started rolling together, she'd come over to my room and sleep and all that.

Guys were dying to get her attention, buying gifts and all that and you know what? They haven't even gotten ordinary number grin Sometimes she'd call me to come to her room so we could eat what a maga got her, sometimes she'd come with it to my room unannounced grin Have Blessing ever asked me for Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What were we? I don't know! But we've done everything one in a relationship could do!

That singular encounter with that girl opened my eye to realize that when a lady loves you, she'll make it easy for you. it's not bad to give out money o, but also make sure that the girl you're spending on has your interest at heart

Also, you need to learn how to say NO! You wear the shoe so you know where it hurts. I learnt how to say NO a very long time ago and trust me, it's one of the biggest lessons of my Life cool
You forgot to say the part that u banged her
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by NACE13: 5:06am On Jan 12, 2023
We all spend one way or another; airtime to talk to her, fueling of generator, buying of food and so on but in terms of giving her money like you own a mint is a no-no. Learn to decline requests, especially if you know deep down inside you don't want to do it.
I've sworn never no displease myself to please others after my experience with a phone repairman.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by litaninja(m): 5:19am On Jan 12, 2023
Money dey your hand ni.

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 5:41am On Jan 12, 2023
VULCAN:
This is a New Year.

So ask God to give you a mindset shift towards abundance.

You never even considered if he has earned over N150m in all the years he has banged those girls.

You just immediately equated his financial worth with yours.

Bro. Free Yourself


grin grin cheesy grin isnt this funny? which God are you talking about? is it the God that frowns at illicit sex that I should ask for a mindset of abundance because of sex or is it another god? the fact that you make 150m doesnt mean you should be wasteful.sex is free. it is not a commodity. its only a mindset of scarcity that pays for sex. paying for sex is a product of low self esteem and desperation and not a product of a mindset of abundance. so maybe you are the one who needs to free himself and do some prayers

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