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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 5:44am On Jan 12, 2023
rickleye:


That what some people spend in a weekend.
The 3m I have had no headache , no baggage, no attachments. I have peace of mind .

that is why i said "this is social media where some of you make up stories to boost your ego." the good news is this sex is free. maybe you didnt know. work on your self esteem and dont be desperate to have sex. you will always get it for free.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by tk4radi: 5:45am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
In Africa,, this slang goes with some form of weakness.
No matter your gender.

Like, as if you were done a great favour with that laying which you were laid.

We don't really think like over here
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by tk4radi: 5:51am On Jan 12, 2023
EmzyT:


LOL! OP, this your story just reminds me of a Beautiful girl named (let's call her Blessing) I came across in my 300L, she was a new occupant in my lodge! Who would see Blessing and wouldn't want to talk to her, babe was very beautiful and Curvy? She had a matured boyfriend too and it was a long distance relationship

Long story short, I approached blessing a certain night, we talked at length and I got her number, before you knew it, we have started rolling together, she'd come over to my room and sleep and all that.

Guys were dying to get her attention, buying gifts and all that and you know what? They haven't even gotten ordinary number grin Sometimes she'd call me to come to her room so we could eat what a maga got her, sometimes she'd come with it to my room unannounced grin Have Blessing ever asked me for Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What were we? I don't know! But we've done everything one in a relationship could do!

That singular encounter with that girl opened my eye to realize that when a lady loves you, she'll make it easy for you. it's not bad to give out money o, but also make sure that the girl you're spending on has your interest at heart

Also, you need to learn how to say NO! You wear the shoe so you know where it hurts. I learnt how to say NO a very long time ago and trust me, it's one of the biggest lessons of my Life cool
Wait ooo.

If you guys Fkucked, then you guys dated
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Atllanta: 6:20am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

bad boi serpent b calm follow her relate lyk ur fellow guy no fear her rejection uses coded pidgin on dem transforms her mood swing nor too-raise shoulder nor over think tins wit women cook 4 her

I later find out say some of dis bannies actually geh money pass us guys
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by benjanny(m): 6:35am On Jan 12, 2023
They might be deceiving you
we all spend on ladies,but we have a target not to overspend
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Tayodihno: 6:43am On Jan 12, 2023
Sapa never wipe you �, mr spender
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by bluefilm: 6:59am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

How do you know those guys don't spend much on those girls?

See lemme tell you the truth, once you are dealing with women as a guy, you must spend.

Mind you, it is not only money that can be spent.

Some guys who don't have a lot of money to spend might be spending a lot of time.

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Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Elsmart89(m): 7:00am On Jan 12, 2023
Go Marry my broda cool
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Franklydes(m): 7:06am On Jan 12, 2023
You are a SIMP
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Immorttal: 7:10am On Jan 12, 2023
justdogitto:
Misplaced priority....

Imagine this is how seun thinks! You probably won't have a platform like Nairaland to share your thoughts on...
Dude, life is not all about opening platform up and down.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Immorttal: 7:12am On Jan 12, 2023
Silentgroper:
Good looks comes to play here.. Trust me, niggaz are hitting pussies out there without dropping a dime...
pure lies.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Lance00009: 7:20am On Jan 12, 2023
Jozibrainz99:


The money their father cannot give them is what they demand from innocent guys who are in love with them.
All they do is making young nigga who are trying to form rich going broke
I heard of a story of a guy who hit big in fraud and spend lavishly on his gf after the boy went broke the gal broke up and told him she can't date someone who is not academically sounds
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by EmzyT: 7:40am On Jan 12, 2023
FiremanX:
You forgot to say the part that u banged her

Tife270:
Does she ask me for a Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What are we? I don't know! But we've done everything people in a relationship could do
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Lordofalmajiri(f): 7:52am On Jan 12, 2023
bluefilm:


How do you know those guys don't spend much on those girls?

See lemme tell you the truth, once you are dealing with women as a guy, you must spend.

Mind you, it is not only money that can be spent.

Some guys who don't have a lot of money to spend might be spending a lot of time.
Lol that's the honest truth.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by EmzyT: 7:53am On Jan 12, 2023
tk4radi:
Wait ooo.

If you guys Fkucked, then you guys dated

LMAO!! grin We did on several occasions and I never dated her grin grin grin she had a matured boyfriend (the type who's ready for marriage) he calls her even when we're together! Sometimes I'll even be the one to force her to pick her boyfriend's call undecided While she'll also be there while I'll be controlling other girls on phone too

Do you know another funny part? She sees me with other girls too trooping the lodge, she'll even ask me about them later, like, is this one precious, or Annabelle you do post or told me of? grin Babe knew I didn't have time for relationship, I'm a ladies-man and got alotta options

Omoh, we were just there abeg
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Sucre6: 7:54am On Jan 12, 2023
ThatCEO:


I m interested in the book. Which platform do you plan to sell it

Amazon, just dm, it would soon be ready for upload
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Ofadaman(m): 7:59am On Jan 12, 2023
Money wey you for give your mama na wetin you dey throway for kuntus . Weldone, Samaritan, baba giver, master say Yes.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by clevybrown(m): 8:03am On Jan 12, 2023
Every average man is a potential payee, the rate at which u pay is what matters....
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by tk4radi: 8:08am On Jan 12, 2023
EmzyT:


LMAO!! grin We did on several occasions and I never dated her grin grin grin she had a matured boyfriend (the type who's ready for marriage) he calls her even when we're together! Sometimes I'll even be the one to force her to pick her boyfriend's call undecided While she'll also be there while I'll be controlling other girls on phone too

Do you know another funny part? She sees me with other girls too trooping the lodge, she'll even ask me about them later, like, is this one precious, or Annabelle you do post or told me of? grin Babe knew I didn't have time for relationship, I'm a ladies-man and got alotta options

Omoh, we were just there abeg
You just described FWB.
Friends With Benefits.
(Sexual Benefits In This Case)

You filled the gap in her urges.
(While her emotions and love remained for her BF, and she was so happy and cool that you never cared about the love and/or emotional part of her dealings)
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Prettygirl200(f): 8:14am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?
So what in essence are u now looking for? Is it someone that will love you or what?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Fmghewzy2: 8:20am On Jan 12, 2023
womenareapezz:
because you are following apes and gorillas called naija women undecided


Try date a foreigner and see the different undecided

I spent less on women or rather woman because because I don't double date and my girl mostly spent on me, and it reach a point I have to beg her to stop undecided
This is the truth and nothing but the truth.

Stop dating blacks entitled poverty stinking useless piece of shiit called naija women undecided



Your mom must be proud of you undecided

Such a nice compliment to give her
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by AutoRedux: 8:27am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

SIMP.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 8:27am On Jan 12, 2023
olexjay:
that’s broke men reason for my brother, then why do couples give their wives money, so davido who says love is sweet but when money enters love is sweeter doesn’t know what he’s saying right….. money spice relationship better

in your previous post, you talked about "womanising" which you glorified. now you are talking about wife and love. is womanising and having a wife the same thing? is womanising and love the same thing? is Davido the authority on love?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Oyiboman69: 8:31am On Jan 12, 2023
ifihearam:


Lies not all guys spend for girls..the most important thing is the feelings the girl has for you. A girl that genuinely likes you wont stress you..when a girl is into you na then you go know say women get money for transport and to take care of man.
Its all about your game but above all if she likes you thats all oo.
how many woman you don meet for life?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by lexy2014: 8:32am On Jan 12, 2023
Lance00009:

All they do is making young nigga who are trying to form rich going broke
I heard of a story of a guy who hit big in fraud and spend lavishly on his gf after the boy went broke the gal broke up and told him she can't date someone who is not academically sounds

those stories abound everywhere. if you read thru the thread, you will see many waiting to happen. many guys feel spending money on a girl is prestigious and macho but its actually a sign of low self esteem and desperation. the guy you mentioned was just an ATM. when he could no longer dispense cash, the sensible girl moved to the next available ATM and left the fool to lick his wounds
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by BigCowHornn: 8:36am On Jan 12, 2023
Kreddy:



is this akins?

No
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Nobody: 8:37am On Jan 12, 2023
Lance00009:

All they do is making young nigga who are trying to form rich going broke
I heard of a story of a guy who hit big in fraud and spend lavishly on his gf after the boy went broke the gal broke up and told him she can't date someone who is not academically sounds

Can you imagine that?
All I do is smile when I see niggas spending lavishly on this so called girls.
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Robenna(m): 8:38am On Jan 12, 2023
Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

Me too

Like fkn me too


This is a bondage
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Robenna(m): 8:39am On Jan 12, 2023
LikeAking:


Those guys are liers, na Dem spend pass.

Womanizing involves money. No let guys decieve u.

It's shameful for aguy to tell u he spends on a lady bf bleeping, but that the truth. The celebs spend too.

The billionaires spend too.

I did not spemd money any money bf I fuqwd
her. That's one of the biggest lies in the womanizing game.

Some times he fit happen, d game must chop ur money..

What's your point now undecided
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Oyiboman69: 8:39am On Jan 12, 2023
Slynation:
just say you haven't had that experience...!!
what's the percentage?
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Robenna(m): 8:40am On Jan 12, 2023
EmzyT:


LOL! OP, this your story just reminds me of a Beautiful girl named (let's call her Blessing) I came across in my 300L, she was a new occupant in my lodge! Who would see Blessing and wouldn't want to talk to her, babe was very beautiful and Curvy? She had a matured boyfriend too and it was a long distance relationship

Long story short, I approached blessing a certain night, we talked at length and I got her number, before you knew it, we have started rolling together, she'd come over to my room and sleep and all that.

Guys were dying to get her attention, buying gifts and all that and you know what? They haven't even gotten ordinary number grin Sometimes she'd call me to come to her room so we could eat what a maga got her, sometimes she'd come with it to my room unannounced grin Have Blessing ever asked me for Dime? NO! Did we date? NO! What were we? I don't know! But we've done everything one in a relationship could do!

That singular encounter with that girl opened my eye to realize that when a lady loves you, she'll make it easy for you. it's not bad to give out money o, but also make sure that the girl you're spending on has your interest at heart

Also, you need to learn how to say NO! You wear the shoe so you know where it hurts. I learnt how to say NO a very long time ago and trust me, it's one of the biggest lessons of my Life cool

Sorry worth reading bro
Kudos
Your record de clean
Re: I Spend A Lot Of Money On Girls But Some Guys Do Not Spend A Dime by Lance00009: 8:45am On Jan 12, 2023
lexy2014:


those stories abound everywhere. if you read thru the thread, you will see many waiting to happen. many guys feel spending money on a girl is prestigious and macho but its actually a sign of low self esteem and desperation. the guy you mentioned was just an ATM. when he could no longer dispense cash, the sensible girl moved to the next available ATM and left the fool to lick his wounds
Most guys spending lavishly on gals with fraud money won't end up together
Spoilt gals are easily snatch
Why don't invest on yourself and wait for the right gal before spending lavishly

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