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Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Mayowa112(op): 7:15pm On Jan 23, 2023
While in a public transport today, a woman on my row started begging people for financial assistance.

The man sitting directly in front of me dug hand in his wallet and gave her N500. Then, others followed. She eventually got over a thousand naira within that short period.

Not long after that, the same man that gave this woman N500 then wanted to buy a bottled water, and the hawker had to run to catch up with us, because the man wanted to give him N100, and he had to collect his N50 change first before handing him the N100.

The scenario touched me!

Immediately, I requested for a bottle too and gave the guy 500!

A woman beside me shouted...Ahh, let him give you your change first before giving him money😳💁🏻!!

She looked at me as if I'm a "mutula", a new person in lagos wey dem never show😀.

As the guy was struggling to run and give me change, I bade him good bye not to worry!

The most touching part of the story is, even when I thought we'd left this guy far behind, as the traffic had moved, he ran to still catch up with the bus and prayed, wholeheartedly, in a show of appreciation!

You know why?? He knows the value of that money; he knows how many bottles or sachets of water he would sell, running from bus to cars, before getting that amount.

The woman who saw me as mutula eventually went speechless!

Lessons passed in the bus! Simple🤷🏾

We all feel comfortable giving beggars big money, but find it difficult leaving small change for genuine hustlers.

We unconsciously encourage begging at the expense of those who work so hard. That's why you see corporate beggars increasing on a daily basis on the streets of Nigeria

Please, I want to use this opportunity to start a #LeaveTheChangeForHawkerscampaign.

Please, next time you buy something inside traffic or anywhere from these street hawkers, leave the change if you have more in your pocket

Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by SenecaTheYonger: 7:26pm On Jan 23, 2023
Mayowa112:
We all feel comfortable giving beggars big money, but find it difficult leaving small change for genuine hustlers.

We unconsciously encourage begging at the expense of those who work so hard. That's why you see corporate beggars increasing on a daily basis on the streets of Nigeria
This is so true. Na wey Dey encourage beggars.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Nazgul: 7:27pm On Jan 23, 2023
It's better to support a Hussler than to encourage a lazy beggar... great piece.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Medianna(f): 7:34pm On Jan 23, 2023
You're on point.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Karleb(m): 7:42pm On Jan 23, 2023
Sometimes I hate really giving beggars money. Infact, I have not done it in years and it's deliberate.

Some beggars are richer than people they collect money from and their audacity mostly disgust me.

Funny thing is, some of them are perfectly okay and young. They just decide to look dirty and take the easiest route to making money.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Mayowa112(op): 11:48pm On Jan 23, 2023
Nazgul:
It's better to support a Hussler than to encourage a lazy beggar... great piece.
I swear
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Mayowa112(op): 11:49pm On Jan 23, 2023
Karleb:
Sometimes I hate really giving beggars money. Infact, I have not done it in years and it's deliberate.

Some beggars are richer than people they collect money from and their audacity mostly disgust me.

Funny thing is, some of them are perfectly okay and young. They just decide to look dirty and take the easiest route to making money.
If you go their house for arewa you go know say all those 10 10 naira is something
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by leonard002(m):
Good point OP.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Ekejoestar(m): 5:35pm On Jan 24, 2023
leonard002:
Good point OP. I have many stories like yours. Let me share one of them.

There was a day I was very thirsty in traffic. I had N500 to pay for bottled water of N100. I called the hawker and he speedily ran and came. I told him I have N500 and he says he doesn't have change. I said chai but I'm very thirsty.

He said no problems that I can drink the water and don't worry about paying him. I was touched and had to leave the N500 for him.

Omo see happiness and appreciation as if I gave him a huge amount of money.

Leave change for those hawkers if you can.
Bro, this better be true oooo.

But the fact is that Nigerians love themselves very much, we always show up for each other even here in the states where I'm staying, come and see the joy and happiness whenever we meet a fellow 9ja especially for club, but poverty that was caused by bad leadership has made all man to be stonehearted
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by leonard002(m): 5:37pm On Jan 24, 2023
Ekejoestar:
Bro, this better be true oooo.

But the fact is that Nigerians love themselves very much, we always show up for each other even here in the states where I'm staying, come and see the joy and happiness whenever we meet a fellow 9ja especially for club, but poverty that was caused by bad leadership has made all man to be stonehearted
See another experience I had

https://www.nairaland.com/5005305/story-day-bought-belt-old
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Reminderz: 5:53pm On Jan 24, 2023
This is worthy of front page... this is a very good thread...
nlfpmod, Seun, Dominique
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by marlow1962(m): 6:40pm On Jan 24, 2023
Nazgul:
It's better to support a Hussler than to encourage a lazy beggar... great piece.
But it’s a taboo for many guys to support a legit hustler, but it’s not a taboo for guys to support a jobless lazy gal all in the name of gf.

My bro na man do man.
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 24, 2023
Mayowa112:
While in a public transport today, a woman on my row started begging people for financial assistance.

The man sitting directly in front of me dug hand in his wallet and gave her N500. Then, others followed. She eventually got over a thousand naira within that short period.

Not long after that, the same man that gave this woman N500 then wanted to buy a bottled water, and the hawker had to run to catch up with us, because the man wanted to give him N100, and he had to collect his N50 change first before handing him the N100.

The scenario touched me!

Immediately, I requested for a bottle too and gave the guy 500!

A woman beside me shouted...Ahh, let him give you your change first before giving him money😳💁🏻!!

She looked at me as if I'm a "mutula", a new person in lagos wey dem never show😀.

As the guy was struggling to run and give me change, I bade him good bye not to worry!

The most touching part of the story is, even when I thought we'd left this guy far behind, as the traffic had moved, he ran to still catch up with the bus and prayed, wholeheartedly, in a show of appreciation!

You know why?? He knows the value of that money; he knows how many bottles or sachets of water he would sell, running from bus to cars, before getting that amount.

The woman who saw me as mutula eventually went speechless!

Lessons passed in the bus! Simple🤷🏾

We all feel comfortable giving beggars big money, but find it difficult leaving small change for genuine hustlers.

We unconsciously encourage begging at the expense of those who work so hard. That's why you see corporate beggars increasing on a daily basis on the streets of Nigeria

Please, I want to use this opportunity to start a #LeaveTheChangeForHawkerscampaign.

Please, next time you buy something inside traffic or anywhere from these street hawkers, leave the change if you have more in your pocket
angry
Re: Learn To Give Tears In My Eyes Today by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 24, 2023
Mayowa112:
While in a public transport today, a woman on my row started begging people for financial assistance.

The man sitting directly in front of me dug hand in his wallet and gave her N500. Then, others followed. She eventually got over a thousand naira within that short period.

Not long after that, the same man that gave this woman N500 then wanted to buy a bottled water, and the hawker had to run to catch up with us, because the man wanted to give him N100, and he had to collect his N50 change first before handing him the N100.

The scenario touched me!

Immediately, I requested for a bottle too and gave the guy 500!

A woman beside me shouted...Ahh, let him give you your change first before giving him money😳💁🏻!!

She looked at me as if I'm a "mutula", a new person in lagos wey dem never show😀.

As the guy was struggling to run and give me change, I bade him good bye not to worry!

The most touching part of the story is, even when I thought we'd left this guy far behind, as the traffic had moved, he ran to still catch up with the bus and prayed, wholeheartedly, in a show of appreciation!

You know why?? He knows the value of that money; he knows how many bottles or sachets of water he would sell, running from bus to cars, before getting that amount.

The woman who saw me as mutula eventually went speechless!

Lessons passed in the bus! Simple🤷🏾

We all feel comfortable giving beggars big money, but find it difficult leaving small change for genuine hustlers.

We unconsciously encourage begging at the expense of those who work so hard. That's why you see corporate beggars increasing on a daily basis on the streets of Nigeria

Please, I want to use this opportunity to start a #LeaveTheChangeForHawkerscampaign.

Please, next time you buy something inside traffic or anywhere from these street hawkers, leave the change if you have more in your pocket
so u wantedto steal 500 naira from a woman beggin inside the bus....corrrrrect?....SHAME ON U SIr and u a disgrase to Nigerian abroad makin us looook bad!!! !(no oofeinse) angry
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