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op you are a coward.. you suppose join eiye to fight that aye bastard back

You handled it the best way possible… even if it were your sister, that’s the most proper way to handle it

ASAPFERG:
op you are a coward..
you suppose join eiye to fight that aye bastard back

How much is the salary again?

DonOG:
Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.

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When I started reading this , I was so afraid, you did the right thing. I know at some point they’ll make you feel like coward , but why will you start what you won’t be able to finish ?


If to say you react and they stab you or kill you, even if they’re arrested and jailed , you won’t be here today and funnily enough , your girl might still end up with one of them

richardmba:
You did the right thing. I once had a similar experience some years back in school. A lady I was dating happened to have been involved with a cultist before we met. The guy always disturbs her and even threatens her. One day while we were hanging out at a bar, the guy came with his friends and wanted to show off. He told my babe to stand up and come and sit with him and even tried dragging her. That was when I stepped in and told the guy to leave her alone if she doesn't want to go with him. He started ranting trash and threatening fire.

To cut the long story short, my guys who were around the bar started coming to the scene and not long later, the guy respected himself and left. When we got home that night, I told my babe that I will not take that kind of embarrassment again. If she wants to date a cow or goat, it;s her choice but let her also know how to pack her shit.

Similar thing happened to me when I was in school .

I was dating this girl and everything was going smoothly until one cultist guy showed up , threatening her that if she’s not going to date him then no one else will . Mind you , due to the love the girl had for me, she rented an apartment beside my hostel without my knowledge , she couldn’t pack in when this threaten started. There was a day she visited me, she was cooking and the guy call came in, she was trembling, she picked up the call and turned on loudspeaker, the guy asked her where she Dey, I collected the phone from her and if you see how this guy Dey ball for me.

I no go lie , I fear but I didnt show it .

Weeks later the girl broke up with me, she told me that “ if you value your life, stop being in contact with me”
I told all my guys, all of dem na chicken liver dem be , they advised me to back off..

I no go lie I cry , cos I love this girl die and she too fine so tey her beauty Dey massage my ego for area .


I can’t drag a woman with someone that has nothing to lose, I value my life and I cherish my parents so e no go good make I die young cos of pussy .








Recently , I started seeing one girl , so I was seeing her off one day and I noticed more than 10 urchins for street Dey greet her , I honestly feel bad , the thing bruise my ego cos if no be say dem get bizness together, why dem go Dey greet her. Since then I started avoiding her. I no gree make she come around again .

DonOG:
Bro I handled it the way I did with her best interest at heart, if you read it well I mentioned that my guys reported it to the security department that night. It was the same security guys the guy was bragging about in the recording that they were begging him to forgive her. How are you certain that the CSO in the school is not his frat member??, It took that guy just few hours to get the location that her mom lives and does her business in another town that he hasnt even been to before

Since the school security is compromised.

I think you did your best.

Recently , I started seeing one girl , so I was seeing her off one day and I noticed more than 10 urchins for street Dey greet her , I honestly feel bad , the thing bruise my ego cos if no be say dem get bizness together, why dem go Dey greet her. Since then I started avoiding her. I no gree make she come around again .[/quote]That's a good one.If you notice the signs, tackle it immediately.

Same similar experience during the Xmas period. One babe wey we de dey close. One evening as the babe call me, I told her my location. Omo as the babe just de approach, my number one guy begin para de babe, de tell her so you de follow my guy and you are doing all the rubbish you do? The babe begin fumble.

Las Las my guy come play me tape, Omo story long pass river Niger. Even show me video of her with a guy displaying her bare breast. I called the babe to come. I asked her why she go de do that kind thing, the babe begin form, say na she get her life and all that.

I told her to go and not visit again. That we live in two worlds apart.

My brother, life is too short to be toiled with.

seanwilliam:
Similar thing happened to me when I was in school .

I was dating this girl and everything was going smoothly until one cultist guy showed up , threatening her that if she’s not going to date him then no one else will . Mind you , due to the love the girl had for me, she rented an apartment beside my hostel without my knowledge , she couldn’t pack in when this threaten started. There was a day she visited me, she was cooking and the guy call came in, she was trembling, she picked up the call and turned on loudspeaker, the guy asked her where she Dey, I collected the phone from her and if you see how this guy Dey ball for me.

I no go lie , I fear but I didnt show it .

Weeks later the girl broke up with me, she told me that “ if you value your life, stop being in contact with me”
I told all my guys, all of dem na chicken liver dem be , they advised me to back off..

I no go lie I cry , cos I love this girl die and she too fine so tey her beauty Dey massage my ego for area .


I can’t drag a woman with someone that has nothing to lose, I value my life and I cherish my parents so e no go good make I die young cos of pussy .








Recently , I started seeing one girl , so I was seeing her off one day and I noticed more than 10 urchins for street Dey greet her , I honestly feel bad , the thing bruise my ego cos if no be say dem get bizness together, why dem go Dey greet her. Since then I started avoiding her. I no gree make she come around again .

Lol... chai diz guy....hahahaha

U sabi talk o...u get talent...read ur comment like I'm watching a video, funny and stylish...U no want die abi? Hahahaha...

Hahahahahaha@bolded.

Nice one...

DonOG:
Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.

A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.

According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.

While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.

While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.

They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.

Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.

The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.

My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.

You applied WISDOM.


I like people who are wise.

Karleb:
You didn't handle the matter well.

There is a security/military unit in every school. You should have reported the case there.

Trust me, these guys would have been the one begging by now.

I know this because I was involved in a case like this and the cultists ended up buying for everything they damaged and apologizing.

You cheated that girl by making her apologizing. Honestly!

He did the best thing.


What would the school's security unit have done? Highest, they will pick up the guy, but not all the cultists in the school.


That would leave the girl as a target for revenge.


Remember the story of Afrika of OAU.

Karleb:
You didn't handle the matter well.

There is a security/military unit in every school. You should have reported the case there.

Trust me, these guys would have been the one begging by now.

I know this because I was involved in a case like this and the cultists ended up buying for everything they damaged and apologizing.
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You cheated that girl by making her apologizing. Honestly!

It will shock you to know most of the So called school military guys are in one cult or the other.

You handled everything well, those cultists have nothing to lose.
I hope your babe knows she’s dating a wise and matured man..kudos

I remember a particular Sunday some girls said they traced their stolen phone to our street in school then. I no know how Dem take meet the street cultist but sha them and the cultist sha start to dey enter houses dey find phone.
I was seeing off my girl na him one of the cultist shouted at us to go back inside. For my mind I say who be this one, na him I advance.
Omo the idiot broke bottle and wanted to stab us, come see as we run enter house
My blood is meant to be in my body not on the ground.

Most times they don't have anything to lose. They can stab someone to death, avoid that area for a while then come back like nothing happened. So you did excellently well man.

Better be a coward live to see tomorrow than forming don Dem drop 2 seconds

Ehmmah588:
Bro,you're definitely a smart guy...I personally respect you for your wisdom in handling the situation calmly..I would have done the same thing...Just imagine the idiot saying you were the target! Cos of woman....Anyway, its not the cultists fault ,I honestly blame his friends that followed him.Cos I dey try imagine how my friend will call me to help him fight someone cos of woman!!....The kind yab I go give am ehn, he'll never forget

They roll with their kind

U did right,swallow ego n move on.lives might be lost if u proceed

Why una just carry girl Matter for Head like this. Naija babe wey u go spend for,, still treat urself for infections wey she go give u again ...una no get Sense..all of una

DonOG:
How much is the salary again?

You're smart and wise.

Wait a while, couple of months even.
Then have him picked up by the police/soldiers and dealt with.

Like a skilled hunter, you've exercised patient, all you need to do now is ensure his reign of terror comes to a befitting end.
He won't see it coming or know where it's coming from.

You're not doing this for your gf but to ensure he doesn't continue to be of nuisance value to the society.

Bro your head de game ,worst thing that can happen to any man is to die in the process of fighting for a girl, because if she was in your shoes trust me she wouldnt want to get herself involved atall.

gfelo:
guy you did well, incase if ur wife is involved in this kind matter, use ur soldier friend to pick all of them, take then to school authority let them sign undertaking incase anything happen to ur woman, shud they defer sch authority and harm ur wife, sch authority will provide them.

This shit don't work. School authorities and security are sometimes, cultists too. It's better how he handled it because cultists can be stupid at times.

You are wise!

My mum always say- Who can run from troubles, is the one that lives long.

But I am a hot headed idiot sometimes. I would have acted differently.

DonOG:
Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.

A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.

According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.

While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.

While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.

They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.

Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.

The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.

My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.

You handled it the best way for sure. Nice to have kept your cool when she was slapped.

DonOG:
Not necessarily bro...just yesterday evening, my former coursemate that I hecho small small bar once in a while came around and I narrated the stuff to him since he stays in that area, he just asked for a picture which got from a simple facebook search with the guys name, only one call the guy was identified as an Aye and the top three guy in the school and like showing himself, he asked me for just 5k for fuel and the guy would be eliminated but I just laughed and waved it off, its not worth it abeg

You sef your ways no pure. You get everybody, including military friends and cultist friends.

you would have just wasted your life , to some fools. glad you think like a man with a future.
Forgetting a knife or a dagger in your stomach would have cost them nothing.

peanutbutterr:
women are very sentimental when they think, women date for protection too both financially or otherwise, which you couldn’t provide at the expense of your life. makes me wonder why your woman attracts such kind of guys anyways?

kudos for keeping your composure despite how bad your ego was crushed, so many men have fallen for failing to apply their wisdom.

she was probably expecting a dopamine crushing anger from you. Lol. But often wisdom can be mistaken for cowardice & weakness, but it's better to be whole telling a story than a brazen injured niggah whom she would leave in a heart beat. In wandes voice, my woman, my everything...

AceRoyal:
You're smart and wise.

Wait a while, couple of months even.
Then have him picked up by the police/soldiers and dealt with.

Like a skilled hunter, you've exercised patient, all you need to do now is ensure his reign of terror comes to a befitting end.
He won't see it coming or know where it's coming from.

You're not doing this for your gf but to ensure he doesn't continue to be of nuisance value to the society.

seems like you don't know all this cult guys usually go for consultation...More reason they know the particular set of people that carried out any hit and go for the person, because they will always find out....!!

E better make OP leave the sleeping dog, inside repricing market wey don end...!!

jamesversion:
You sef your ways no pure. You get everybody, including military friends and cultist friends.

Normal naw, that's how to know a guyman!! You are covered in every angle, more reason it's always good to show love to the street, even tho you won't be associating with them, you never can tell who is fighting your battle behind your back...!!

Thank God say you no die for yansh

;DIf military men handle the cultist
Trust they will leave your girl alone
Be like you never see angry nigerian military drilling before.

I want to be Like you...Im hot tempered... Someone help me out

DonOG, that girl seems like the type to put you in a lot of trouble in the future. She displayed a razz character which seems the opposite of who you are