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Buhari4sale:
Shut up, you wey no get girl friend self dey talk

You don forget say ya mama dey

pocohantas:
Oh well, one played out in front of me and I don’t pity the person involved. Na long story sha. But you would be amazed at the choices your brothers make while “avoiding” women that can support them.

Leave us jare. Stop vexing because of the trauma of your ugly duckling days when the peaked early chicks of sec school got the fan yogo

pocohantas:
Oh well, one played out in front of me and I don’t pity the person involved. Na long story sha. But you would be amazed at the choices your brothers make while “avoiding” women that can support them.

I've witnessed this with my own brother. First he hooks up with some Southy woman who ate ALL his money. Dude completely forgot he had a family. He spent all his money on her (and her 2 kids) while he threw the responsibility of his own family on us (my father, my elder sister and myself). My dad made noise tire. Used all "threats", including "HIV", to try and talk him out of his affair. Nothing worked. When they eventually had to break up, he went back to his family with NOTHING. Just a red suitcase containing his shoes, clothes and some toys to pacify his elder son. He didn't even have cab fare to get to his house on that particular day and had to call me to pick him up from a familiar place. It was a very pitiful sight to behold. I found myself holding back tears.

You'd think he had learnt some lesson, right? After things had cooled down between himself and his wife, again, he hooked up with another Jezebel at his place of work and even went on to sire a child with her. Land that he couldn't ever think of buying for his wife/family, he bought for this other woman. They had a nasty fight (about her dating other men ) and broke up afterwards. The girl met another man and relocated to another city while my brother was left servicing a bank loan to offset payment made for a piece of land owned by another man's wife. Same man raising his daughter as we speak.

My SIL is a good woman but she mostly lives like a single mother as she has emotionally detached herself from my brother.

Farfalla:
I've witnessed this with my own brother. First he hooks up with some Southy woman who ate ALL his money. Dude completely forgot he had a family. He spent all his money on her (and her 2 kids) while he threw the responsibility of his own family on us (my father, my elder sister and myself). My dad made noise tire. Used all "threats", including "HIV", to try and talk him out of his affair. Nothing worked. When they eventually had to break up, he went back to his family with NOTHING. Just a red suitcase containing his shoes, clothes and some toys to pacify his elder son. He didn't even have cab fare to get to his house on that particular day and had to call me to pick him up from a familiar place. It was a very pitiful sight to behold. I found myself holding back tears.

You'd think he had learnt some lesson, right? After things had cooled down between himself and his wife, again, he hooked up with another Jezebel at his place of work and even went on to sire a child with her. Land that he couldn't ever think of buying for his wife/family, he bought for this other woman. They had a nasty fight (about her dating other men ) and broke up afterwards. The girl met another man and relocated to another city while my brother was left servicing a bank loan to offset payment made for a piece of land owned by another man's wife. Same man raising his daughter as we speak.

My SIL is a good woman but she mostly lives like a single mother as she has emotionally detached herself from my brother.

damn

i am sorry about this

GloriousGbola:
damn

i am sorry about this

Even more sad is that he never seems to pick any lessons from his experiences.

Farfalla:
Even more sad is that he never seems to pick any lessons from his experiences.

Did you deem it fit at anytime to warn him on how manipulative women can be?

I feel like you owed your brother responsibility or maybe you did and he didn't listen.

pocohantas:
Oh well, one played out in front of me and I don’t pity the person involved. Na long story sha. But you would be amazed at the choices your brothers make while “avoiding[b]” women that can support them[/b].

Who are these women?

Already have a clue but wanted to hear you say it.😎

Raalsalghul:
Did you deem it fit at anytime to warn him on how manipulative women some women can be?

I feel like you owed your brother responsibility or maybe you did and he didn't listen.

I talked to him of course, as did most concerned parties. He doesn't listen to anyone, not even my father. These days we just dey observe.

Manipulative women are some men's dream women. In fact some of these "Fear Women" crew secretly desire cruel women. I've seen this play out countless times, I can write a book about it.

Farfalla:
I talked to him of course, as did most concerned parties. He doesn't listen to anyone, not even my father. These days we just dey observe.

Manipulative women are some men's dream women. In fact some of these "Fear Women" crew secretly desire cruel women. I've seen this play out countless times, I can write a book about it.

Well said!

Like I was shocked 3 months ago when a guy was “advising” me to step down on being nice and learn to be a bit meaner and manipulative with men.
He said men most times prefer the women who keep them on their toes.

ItisWell22:
Well said!

Like I was shocked 3 months ago when a guy was “advising” me to step down on being nice and learn to be a bit meaner and manipulative with men.
He said men most times prefer the women who keep them on their toes.

An honest man.

Women feel heartbreak 💔💔💔 more than men. Women are emotional being and as such attach emotion to everything. A guy has never raised his hands on me, i hate physical abuse, infedelity,

The responsibility aspect - the cost and time involved, especially when there is no clear monetary benefit. I find it hard to be responsible someone/something who isn't related to me unless I'm paid to do so.

franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.

As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:

1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.

Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.

When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz

Dede gets it.

Nothing else to add.