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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by HomeTutorsPro: 10:53am On Feb 05, 2023
zoomman:
Are those net pays annually or monthly?
Daily.
Didn't you see where it said daily pay?
Maybe you should read it again.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Jokerman(m): 10:54am On Feb 05, 2023
Thank the Oniru Job Oga.

Don't ever joke with your Saturday and Sundays for rest

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by IyaTola: 10:55am On Feb 05, 2023
zoomman:
Are those net pays annually or monthly?
Monthly
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by RenaissanceGuy: 10:58am On Feb 05, 2023
This lady always copying posts from the social media and posting it as hers.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by GboyegaD(m): 10:59am On Feb 05, 2023
IyaTola:
Monthly

Are they really monthly or annually? If it is monthly, he's a senior personnel who doesn't need the advice because he has his objective(s) for applying for the jobs.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by zsamorano(m): 11:03am On Feb 05, 2023
Who be this one self.... pick A. Even if stress go kill u, u go get reason to die without blaming yourself. Afterall, find somewhere close enough to that place and relocate your family. Ijagemo after ijegun beside ijeododo all after ikotun is another dungeon in Lagos which I use to called OKO EKO.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Tobijays: 11:04am On Feb 05, 2023
Oyindamolah:
God will come from heaven to give it to him, abi?
he is being sarcastic
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Goodlady(f): 11:05am On Feb 05, 2023
Zonefree:

grin grin grin

Jay, today na Sunday o cheesy
Vawulence 😂 people. You guys v succeeded in caging IyaTola. Yet we v not seen the advise from any of you.

To the topic, the least worst to pick from is job A.
The money is higher and he should endure whatever stress that comes from it. The first priority now is ability to survive n bring something home.
Meanwhile, dunno why men start family without having good source of income.
It's not compulsory to v a family. Yet, na me Sweetplum talk am. Why ll I suffer others cos I want to do what my mates are doing?
I ll rather survive first, get some stability before starting a family. Hence, any man that must marry me must be richer than me.
He must prove that all things being equal, he has the ability to take care of himself, me, kids and the family in extension to his kins and my kins.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:06am On Feb 05, 2023
Sir, What parameters? Kindly explain so I can also use that to evaluate some offer I am getting.

Thank you for your response.
zed7:

You are a dunce. What advice have you given? Is this JAMB question that you have to pick a choice? See this mumu saying C.
All these students that still see the world in rose coloured glasses.

Some of us with more than a decade of work experience in the corporate world, know that choosing a job requires so many parameters. You sit in your dormitory and choose C for someone you know nothing about, you dummie.

Anyone who needs another to choose a job for him should not be working.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:08am On Feb 05, 2023
GboyegaD:


Are they really monthly or annually? If it is monthly, he's a senior personnel who doesn't need the advice because he has his objective(s) for applying for the jobs.
I think offer A is 200k
Offer B & C 120k

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:11am On Feb 05, 2023
GboyegaD:


C is the only one with accommodation and it doesn't make it worth not moving his family closer.
I don't understand, are you saying he moves his family to a close proximity to the work place?
What if, the Wife is working or doing business close to the location they resides? Are you suggesting the wife quits the business or resigns and relocate?

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by tishbite42: 11:14am On Feb 05, 2023
Goodlady:

Vawulence 😂 people. You guys v succeeded in caging IyaTola. Yet we v not seen the advise from any of you.

To the topic, the least worst to pick from is job A.
The money is higher and he should endure whatever stress that comes from it. The first priority now is ability to survive n bring something home.
Meanwhile, dunno why men start family without having good source of income.
It's not compulsory to v a family. Yet, na me Sweetplum talk am. Why ll I suffer others cos I want to do what my mates are doing?
I ll rather survive first, get some stability before starting a family. Hence, any man that must marry me must be richer than me.
He must prove that all things being equal, he has the ability to take care of himself, me, kids and the family in extension to his kins and my kins.
Yep
He should kill himself
Entitlement at its peak

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Sheistoopretty(f): 11:14am On Feb 05, 2023
PlayMaker14:
Shey it's from your DM?

Kindly answer the person as an expert.

H

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by freddie009(m): 11:15am On Feb 05, 2023
Oyindamolah:
God will come from heaven to give it to him, abi?

The way religious people think it irks me. I just shake my head. They are so brainwashed.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by PlayMaker14: 11:16am On Feb 05, 2023
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:16am On Feb 05, 2023
Goodlady:

Vawulence 😂 people. You guys v succeeded in caging IyaTola. Yet we v not seen the advise from any of you.

To the topic, the least worst to pick from is job A.
The money is higher and he should endure whatever stress that comes from it. The first priority now is ability to survive n bring something home.
Meanwhile, dunno why men start family without having good source of income.
It's not compulsory to v a family. Yet, na me Sweetplum talk am. Why ll I suffer others cos I want to do what my mates are doing?
I ll rather survive first, get some stability before starting a family. Hence, any man that must marry me must be richer than me.
He must prove that all things being equal, he has the ability to take care of himself, me, kids and the family in extension to his kins and my kins
.
You will have to mould him sister. Most bread winner todayin Nigeria are women. He was working, he lost the job in the first half of the year.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by TIGERSKY: 11:16am On Feb 05, 2023
[quote author=IyaTola post=120646422][/quote]Nna, do the needful before TIME runs out on you.

Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Holychildnwa: 11:17am On Feb 05, 2023
Pls I would strongly advice,go for option C,that's the best among the three.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:17am On Feb 05, 2023
Do you know the effects of stress on the human body?
zsamorano:
Who be this one self.... pick A. Even if stress go kill u, u go get reason to die without blaming yourself. Afterall, find somewhere close enough to that place and relocate your family. Ijagemo after ijegun beside ijeododo all after ikotun is another dungeon in Lagos which I use to called OKO EKO.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by JoshTim: 11:18am On Feb 05, 2023
I stay in alimosho too. 2.5milla gross...but omo, as i single reach,money no dey reach me. The thing be say, you no fit but land with this kind of money. It's best you work and have a pay raise to like 5milla and also still pray inflation will not erode the value of that 5milla.

I dey pray make i get side hustle or pay raise or change job, or japa to earn like 5milla so i fit marry my girl. The thing tire me.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:18am On Feb 05, 2023
Why? I had like to know the reason for that.
Holychildnwa:
Pls I would strongly advice,go for option C,that's the best among the three.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:20am On Feb 05, 2023
Is this annualized?
JoshTim:
I stay in alimosho too. 2.5mio gross...but omo, as i single reach,money no dey reach me.
Where do you work? Island or Mainland?
Do you have a budget?

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by dafeoroyo: 11:20am On Feb 05, 2023
zsamorano:
Who be this one self.... pick A. Even if stress go kill u, u go get reason to die without blaming yourself. Afterall, find somewhere close enough to that place and relocate your family. Ijagemo after ijegun beside ijeododo all after ikotun is another dungeon in Lagos which I use to called OKO EKO.

O boy, hear place name

Ijagemo
Ijedodo
Ijegun

Na wah o

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by JoshTim: 11:21am On Feb 05, 2023
Pojomojo:
Is this annualized? Where do you work? Island or Mainland?
Do you have a budget?

Mainland...., Annualized, and ofcourse who won't have a budget.
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Tonytonex(m): 11:22am On Feb 05, 2023
Oyindamolah:
Offer seems to be the best in my own opinion because of they pay but you most likely would quit before 2 months, from your current location to oniru, you have to leave home by 5:00am

Offer C is cool but the problem would be you would not have time for yourself and family because you would come home on Saturday and leave on Sunday based on your account you have a young family which you presence is very important and if your wife is the type that believes "out of site is out of mind" you might lose her because I have seen this type happening many infact countless times

Offer B transportation would finish your money
lose her as in how?
She will marry another man. Or be fvcking another man. That'd be heartless and wickedness.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Tonytonex(m): 11:24am On Feb 05, 2023
Oyindamolah:
God will come from heaven to give it to him, abi?
na cruise. Sarcasm.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:24am On Feb 05, 2023
Are you talking from personal experience
Oyindamolah:
Offer seems to be the best in my own opinion because of they pay but you most likely would quit before 2 months, from your current location to oniru, you have to leave home by 5:00am

Offer C is cool but the problem would be you would not have time for yourself and family because you would come home on Saturday and leave on Sunday based on your account you have a young family which you presence is very important and if your wife is the type that believes "out of site is out of mind" you might lose her because I have seen this type happening many infact countless times

Offer B transportation would finish your money
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:25am On Feb 05, 2023
Kindly create one to keep you on track & financially discipline and only buy things that are important.
JoshTim:


Mainland...., Annualized, and ofcourse who won't have a budget.

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:26am On Feb 05, 2023
grin
dafeoroyo:


O boy, hear place name

Ijagemo
Ijedodo
Ijegun

Na wah o
Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Pojomojo: 11:27am On Feb 05, 2023
Marry her now, time waits for no one and if you would not marry let her go than waste her time.
JoshTim:
I stay in alimosho too. 2.5milla gross...but omo, as i single reach,money no dey reach me. The thing be say, you no fit but land with this kind of money. It's best you work and have a pay raise to like 5milla and also still pray inflation will not erode the value of that 5milla.

I dey pray make i get side hustle or pay raise or change job, or japa to earn like 5milla so i fit marry my girl. The thing tire me.
You can buy a land it depends on you. 50k every month in a year is 600k that's already a plot in badagry

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Re: The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills by Charlesedet: 11:30am On Feb 05, 2023
[quote author=IyaTola post=120646422][/quote]
Go for offer A, struggle with the distance and try to meet up early at work and wen ur rent is due, secure an accommodation closer to offer A location

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