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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by FavouredNK: 1:32pm On Feb 05, 2023
chiiraq802:
This wan na for people weh carry marriage for head.

🚶 Make ah go find where to coordinate Canadian Loud. 🍁
Una happy Sunday.

No mind am, no be only Lord, lord ko dorl ni, let him keep deceiving himself with his archaic marriage advice. I just pity the woman that you have enslaved all in the name of marriage. Abeg park well with this your confusing unlicensed marriage counseling.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Moh247: 1:33pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kholiwe:

The question is simple. So in a marriage where the woman is the bread winner and protector she becomes the master of the house and the man should worship her right?

She becomes a Lady of the house and only God almighty should be worshiped however she must be respected
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Kholiwe(f): 1:34pm On Feb 05, 2023
Moh247:


She becomes a Lady of the house and only God almighty should be worshiped however she must be respected
She becomes the head and master while the man becomes her slave and property yes or no?

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Shantyken(m): 1:36pm On Feb 05, 2023
Jennyclay:
Not Every husband is worth it. An irresponsible, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a husband talk more of "Lord"

So, men that beat their wife should be called lord? undecided

Men that don't spend money on their wife and children should be called lord? undecided

Men that cheat on their wife should be called lord? undecided

This Yeye businessman should keep shut and face his nonsense business


Two cannot go together unless they agree.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by sliky09: 1:36pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults join together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄
If you read his points very well. You would see that, they're based on biblical injunctions. On that part he's very correct. You could choose to differ.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Moh247: 1:37pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kholiwe:

She becomes the head and master while the man becomes her slave and property yes or no?

Slavery is criminal and abolished, nobody is anyone body's property. We only have partners in marriage with a head and a deputy

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Geovanni412(m): 1:38pm On Feb 05, 2023
Jennyclay:
Not Every husband is worth it. An irresponsible, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a husband talk more of "Lord"

So, men that beat their wife should be called lord? undecided

Men that don't spend money on their wife and children should be called lord? undecided

[s]Men that cheat on their wife should be called lord? undecided[/s]

This Yeye businessman should keep shut and face his nonsense business


Our forefathers in Nigeria, King Solomon and Genghis khan beg to differ on this

The problem isn't cheating...

It is the fact that the man neglects to provide for his family due to his cheating.

A poor man has no business keeping multiple women cool
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Kholiwe(f): 1:38pm On Feb 05, 2023
Moh247:


Slavery is criminal and abolished, nobody is anyone body's property. We only have partners in marriage with a head and a deputy
Read the headline of the thread.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Elderustin: 1:39pm On Feb 05, 2023
ASAPFERG:
i extend the death to your family

Y are u so angry. Brother this thing doesn't worth it.

Government will come and go. Don't think like this even Tinubu or u are a politician if you kill everybody finished whom will u see to govern?

Calm urself.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Kholiwe(f): 1:40pm On Feb 05, 2023
sliky09:

If you read his points very well. You would see that, they're based on biblical injunctions. On that part he's very correct. You could choose to differ.
Why would a normal human being follow a book written by primitive sheep rearers and goat herders 😂😂

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by PlayMaker14: 1:40pm On Feb 05, 2023
hifocus:


I know you're not as dumb as you're pretending to be.
I didn't even know you're a Tinubu supporter...

No wonder, brainless people.

grin

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Moh247: 1:42pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kholiwe:

Read the headline of the thread.

lord
/lɔːd/
noun
a man of noble rank or high office; a nobleman.


Is your husband, boyfriend, son, brother, father who work all his life sweat tears and blood to make women comfortable not a nobleman or a lord
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by musicwriter(m): 1:43pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Shvtty mentality.. Lord of what? The ring! Is she your slave!
😂
Each spouse will have different strengths and weaknesses - don’t get stuck in culturally ‘normative’ gender roles or expectations..

Two equal adults join together in a partnership and together decide how to run their house and lives...It works... A marriage isn’t an organisation that needs a leader or head...it’s a relationship between two adults...
Don't be dvmb!😂

I repeat women aren't object or your slaves that you can Lord over!🙄

@bold

Misogyny, belittling, and men's chauvinistic attitude against women were not originally part of African culture, rather they were imported as part of the ills of Christianity and Islam. Both cultures had no respect for women in ancient time.

On the contrary, in pre-colonial Africa, women were actually incredibly independent. African culture didn't just allow independence for women but actually prioritized it. We've had African women rulers (queens) even women Gods right here in Africa long time before our unfortunate encounter with Europeans.

In fact, the most popular face of Africa known to the world today from West Africa are the Ife and Bini mask and sculpture - both women!!

When we set ourselves free from foreign language, education, religion, we'll return to our natural African selves which would automatically set us free from misogyny.

Images below are the most popular faces of West Africa to the world. Both were women rulers once upon a time!!

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Kingpele(m): 1:43pm On Feb 05, 2023
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Wow! This is someone’s girlfriend/wife. You were not properly brought up and will become a problem to an unfortunate man.[ my brother forget that foolish human being..the kind of responses I read from most ladies in this forum make me feel very sad about the future of this Country...women build home and through homes society is birth...how can this characters we have in this forum and larger society ever going to train up their kids in a way they wouldn't constitute nuisance to this world...is a pity ...

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 1:44pm On Feb 05, 2023
PlayMaker14:
I didn't even know you're a Tinubu supporter...

No wonder, brainless people.

grin

Is this your defense case for a totally unrelated topic? Now I understand why you're so slow like the one who brought you up.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by PlayMaker14: 1:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
hifocus:


Is this your defense case for a totally unrelated topic? Now I understand why you're so slow like the one who brought you up.
You can't be hiding under an alternate account, supporting Tinubu and expect me to respond to you well, you're not worth it.

Trust me, you're still learning. grin

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by lorenzobanks(m): 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2023
indigenous234:
Funny enough, I told my wife (my brother's wife) the same thing and she took it badly. This is nothing but the truth and I agree 💯.

Your husband ceased being your (Boy) friend and became your personal lord and savior the day he paid your bride price and made you his wife. ( Argue all you want).

Whatever you cannot do or say to your father or your pastor, don't dare it with your husband. Because he plays with you, sucks your breast and playacting a baby in your privacies does not make him your baby or your playmate in the completely social sense of it. He's your Lord.

Nothing keeps a man sane and happy like *Respect*. Not sex (you can't fvck more or better than a hooker ( they can fvck up to 15 to 20 men a day, 365 days, a year. Can you?). Not food.. there are certified female chef in 4&5 stars restaurants that are single. Besides, can you cook better than Iya Basira and mama Nkechi ?. Man can get sex and good food outside and be contented. Respect?, It's his right in his house. (Argue all you want).

Respect is non negotiable in a home. He does not earn it, it comes with the marriage package. (Did your father earn his respect?. Did your pastor earn his respect?. again, not food, not sex but respect keeps a man and your marriage healthy.

Blessed You are among Women. Respect!!

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Benrosaria(m): 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2023
EBMedia:
A Nigerian businessman, Darlington Onyelike, has advised women not to let social media deceive them into believing that there is equality in marriage, IGBERETV reports.

Onyelike, who stated this in a post on Tuesday, January 31, also told married women that their husbands are not their friends but their lord.

He wrote on Facebook;



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0qvGL2WH8WCmTCCvDNKBvLShXa2Cj8rA6y6GFymokCtVjLD44M24ULfTA4Mrft3eHl&id=100002251770965

https://igberetvnews.com/1438333/husband-friend-lord-nigerian-man-tells-women/


no wahala bros na when table turn, you go know say woman is lord.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by GoodHardDickk: 1:48pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Hope your crippled MOTHER does same to your useless father.
If any of your hookcups sister are **fortunate to be married properly,I don't mean co-habitation aka I go pay later Abuja marriage are their cohabilitators treating them nicely?



Useless thing,shaming women that are legally n properly married,meanwhile your useless father is at home raping toddlers whilst your mum with her stench filled mouth crays away.




It is unfortunate till now you still haven't told us who is the father of your child. You should even be more ashamed of yourself for bragging to be a single mother. What a shameful thing. This is exactly what we've been saying, girls of this generation do not have shame anymore.

Where is the father of your children ? Is this how you go around fvcking and chopping different dicks inside your old damage stretched pussy?

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by cococandy(f): 1:49pm On Feb 05, 2023
GloriousGbola:


avengers! assemble 👩🏿👵🏿💃🏿👱🏿‍♀️👩🏿‍🚀

I don’t know why I read the thread as “your husband is your landlord”

Lol. I was starting toy wonder how many months of rent I’m owing

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ibkayee(f): 1:50pm On Feb 05, 2023
pocohantas:


But that is what they are trying to do na. Lords of cuntinents. Abi you don’t see how they pounce on any topic that has to do with bragging about their global sexual prowess? grin
Power in the bedroom of their rented home that they’re still happy to split payments with their wives for is more important than global socioeconomic power and building of their own communities.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:50pm On Feb 05, 2023
musicwriter:


@bold

Misogyny, belittling, and chauvinistic attitude towards women were not originally part of African culture, rather they were imported as part of the ills of Christianity and Islam. Both cultures had no respect for women in ancient time.

On the contrary, in pre-colonial Africa, women were actually incredibly independent. African culture didn't just allow independence for women but actually prioritized it. We've had African women rulers (queens) even women Gods right here in Africa long time before our unfortunate encounter with Europeans.

In fact, the most popular face of Africa known to the world today from West Africa are the Ife and Bini mask and sculpture - both women!!

When we set ourselves free from foreign language, education, religion, we'll set ourselves free from misogyny. The feminists themselves need to first set themselves free before they'll set others free. A slave cannot set a slave free.

Images below are the most popular faces of West Africa to the world. Both were women rulers once upon a time!!
Thank you so much for this piece of history!

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:51pm On Feb 05, 2023
sliky09:

If you read his points very well. You would see that, they're based on biblical injunctions. On that part he's very correct. You could choose to differ.
I have no business with a rag book that support misogyny.. sexism.. slavery e t c! 🙄

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by pocohantas(f): 1:55pm On Feb 05, 2023
ibkayee:

Power in the bedroom of their rented home that they’re still happy to split payments with their wives for is more important than global socioeconomic power and building of their own communities.

They have to be in charge of something. One is on frontpage telling us he won’t marry. You will think there are 10 women in front of his house begging him to marry them. Person wey nobody dey notice offline. When it comes to global socieconomic dominance, they’ll blame the late Queen and Lord Lugard.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by musicwriter(m): 1:57pm On Feb 05, 2023
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thank you so much for this piece of history!

Thanks brother.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by ahnie: 1:57pm On Feb 05, 2023
GoodHardDickk:


It is unfortunate till now you still haven't told us who is the father of your child. You should even be more ashamed of yourself for bragging to be a single mother. What a shameful thing. This is exactly what we've been saying, girls of this generation do not have shame anymore.

Where is the father of your children ? Is this how you go around fvcking and chopping different dicks inside your old damage stretched pussy?
Had to check your previous posts to see welda you have sense,but unfortunately you don't.
I CAN NEVER BE like yOUR MOTHER THAT'S A SINGLE MOTHER...
E painam.


I would consider you serious when you managed to attain a minute erection without the small pint sized gbola in-between your legs goes off.


They asked men to fall in line,this thing here dey call himself a man.

Make I pepper you small,e pain you abii?
cheesy cheesy cheesy

More reasons why I cannot be like your stupid mother whom your sick father pummels every minute you can keep the pics as my parting gifts to you. cheesy cheesy cheesy.

Strumpet doofuz.

Envy is a very miserable plant,that should not be watered.

Oya enjoy your mud alone

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Omoawoke: 2:00pm On Feb 05, 2023
ahnie:
Make una dey use una useless fat blubby mothers at home as examples to practice docility in marriages.


Are your useless mother's submissive to your crazy father's?yellow socks and slippers boys with Mercedes Benz colored tinted strands want to tell people how to run their marriages.

Most of una nor be una papa be una real father's.

Make una go check una family ancestral lineages,the idol wey una papa serve con abandoned naim hold una stagnated.

I wonder how you i.diots come online to form Andrew Tate meanwhile dem never pay una mama dowry even in their twilight's.

Foolish punters

Na frustration go kill you last last. And na depression go kill your sons last last because woman go use them like dust bin grin

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Nobody: 2:00pm On Feb 05, 2023
PlayMaker14:
You can't be hiding under an alternate account, supporting Tinubu and expect me to respond to you well, you're not worth it.

Trust me, you're still learning. grin

What gives you the assurance that this is an alternate account? Assumption is the lowest form of intelligence, please.

When next you come to me, do so with facts, else, you'll be ignored.
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by felzokugo(m): 2:01pm On Feb 05, 2023
chiiraq802:
This wan na for people weh carry marriage for head.

🚶 Make ah go find where to coordinate Canadian Loud. 🍁
Una happy Sunday.

Notin do u bros! Happy weekendz cool
Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Lord — Nigerian Man Tells Women by Emdebby2: 2:01pm On Feb 05, 2023
Attention seeker!
Why not address women as slaves. What has the man done to be called lord?
What about the jobless husband whose wife is the breadwinner of the family? It's only your wife that you will impose that rubbish to.

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