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MycroftHolmes:
Stockholm syndrome is a thing.

Plus, he's probably an awesome performer in da oza room

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

tensazangetsu20:
But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

Autobot05:
I had a neighbor like this too at school .. he was a Yahoo guy but things wasn't going well for him again
He later sent her off with a flimsy excuse... the kid he had with the girl will be 1 year old by this month ending..

I dont feel sorry for her tho .. everything has it consequences

tensazangetsu20:
This one doesn't even do yahoo. Like he has no skill at all, no education nothing no handwork.

Autobot05:
Oboy just mind your business jare .. when she's tired she'll leave or let him kill her.

tensazangetsu20:
This one doesn't even do yahoo. Like he has no skill at all, no education nothing no handwork.

Persephone1:
When Women get intimate with broke guys, "All women knowingly follow deadbeats Men."
When women get intimate with rich men, Women are gold- digging materialistic leeches. You all should pick a stand!

Aside the hasty generalization, here you are insinuating that women should date or marry only logically (calculatively) without heeding to "wants, desires, feelings or attraction". This is coming from one who will still call any woman who does that a gold digger.

The problem with you lot is you only judge women by your standard . If you were to be on equal level with the said man, you would have blamed the irresponsible and ungrateful husband but because you are not it is the woman that is responsible for settling for less.

All of you will be alright las las

lymelyte:
how can a young man be so comfortable with that kind of life?

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

thesicilian:
Are the women themselves different from deadbeats? Birds of a feather flock together

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

tensazangetsu20:
None of my business but I am just wondering how the other gender thinks o cause I have had such cases in my family but in the extended part of it.

tensazangetsu20:
LoL I live in a ghetto so I gets to see a lot of shit . Omho this one isn't building. This one no go school, no get job no get skills. Wetin you wan build.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

tensazangetsu20:
LoL I live in a ghetto so I gets to see a lot of shit . Omho this one isn't building. This one no go school, no get job no get skills. Wetin you wan build.

tensazangetsu20:
None of my business but I am just wondering how the other gender thinks o cause I have had such cases in my family but in the extended part of it.

pocohantas:
I know how much you hate lifestyle inflation, but won’t you be a one eyes man in the land of the blind? I hope you are safe there sha. All of them fit dey carry their problems come give you.

Na true love. Give him time, he would blow.

louisobire7:
They don’t think with there brain, thats how I was introduced to a girl. This girl was crazy, She said she was stylishly waiting for her boyfriend who went to join HK to return and come beg her so they can come back together she even said she dated another guy just to make the boyfriend jealous.

I was like WOW, and she was really playing hard to get, for me when just hang kaki. I just deleted her number and never called her again.

They don’t think with there brain. Have you not seen a beautiful girl following a dirty boy. Who you can’t even make your friend.

tensazangetsu20:
Oh it's safe. If it wasn't I would have long since moved out. LoL people think I am unemployed and broke with how I carry myself and I love It that way. I am even used an example to kids around of a guy who went to school and hasn't worked a real job at all. Make e dey like that

tensazangetsu20:
No one said she should marry a rich man. This is a man that has no handwork not even a trade. If he was uneducated and had a trade that's a different ball game. She chose him. As much as he's a bad man no one forced her to choose him. She would have definitely had responsible guys asking her out but she knowingly chose a deadbeat.

pocohantas:
So like this now, you and that woman husband na the same thing. Only say you go school.

E go better!