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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by slimik: 5:52am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:


Watch your words please. Don't use that word to describe my girl.



Then why bring it to nairaland you Stoopid kunt!

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Qtrpst4: 5:55am On Feb 09, 2023
The mum doesn't want his son to marry that kind of next generation. My wife and daughters won't be that kind of next generation and your daughter should never come close to my sons as we will ridicule them. We don't want that kind of useless next generation of foolishness
Cashio:
The next generation will definitely go that extreme. For now, this is our own reality. To you, do you think that lady's wear is enough for the guy not to marry her?

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by nostradamoss: 6:16am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:


Watch your words please. Don't use that word to describe my girl.

You should be ashamed of yourself to call that thing your girl ....Any right thinking girl from a good home won't dress like that

Shame on you mumu boy

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Tenrack: 6:20am On Feb 09, 2023
lereinter:



You have been hypnotised
not small thing. I couldn't take a lady who dresses like this in public seriously. Never. It's not done anywhere. I feel for op.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by dontrulee: 6:28am On Feb 09, 2023
I wonder why you guys are abusing the OP.

OP, the first thing I want you to know is that no lady on Earth can love you as your mother. Does it mean that your mother is always right? No!

Does it also mean that you should listen to your mother all the time? Also NO!

You see, life is a risk, choosing a life partner is also a risk but if you're sure that you both love each other and it's till death do you both part, then go for it. Life is too short to marry who you don't love or who doesn't love you grin grin

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by yinkeys(m): 6:29am On Feb 09, 2023
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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by EriMma1: 6:30am On Feb 09, 2023
G00DHardDick:


The op is a Very foolish man.

Na the girl over used pussy still dey deceive am, e go soon clear for e eyes say na runs girl and hookup girl e wan Marry so. Girls who dress like this are all prostitutes, oloshos, runz girls and hookup girls

Don't mind him. It's very obvious she is. He's prolly scared of starting all over or the ashawo vibes she's giving him is what is blinding him. E go soon clear him eyes

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by 123papas(m): 6:45am On Feb 09, 2023
Don’t blame your mama, it happens. Once you get married, your focus will shift from Mama to wifey. And she will be lonely. Let your girl reassure her.

If you have good money, give your mama something huge and she will change her position.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by chccho(m): 7:10am On Feb 09, 2023
Kholiwe:

But the idiot can insult me just like that right?
Then just insult him back simple..
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by kelspinall(m): 7:15am On Feb 09, 2023
tell her to dress well

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Love800(m): 7:34am On Feb 09, 2023
I dont understand wat you said
Omoapena:


Did you say for him, in public?
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Love800(m): 7:35am On Feb 09, 2023
Love800:
I dont understand wat u said
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Sheistoopretty(f): 7:39am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

Ignore ur mother and go ahead with the marriage pls undecided undecided
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Bigseven(m): 8:06am On Feb 09, 2023
Most ladies that goes public dressed this way in the name of “don’t judge the book by its cover” or “ being social and free” are actually displaying what they can do. Just mention the price they’ll go astray easily. So parents tend to see them wayward especially if they carry colored hair. Then the supposed churchy ones are terrible in secret but parents don’t see such coming because they dress decent.

My take. Dress modest and neat and be sincere in all things. Character and personality that’s all.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by brosdoncome(m): 8:25am On Feb 09, 2023
Op, e be like say you no know say you babe sef fit don born keep somewhere with that kind belle. Shine your eyes.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Kavod: 8:26am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:


Watch your words please. Don't use that word to describe my girl.
GUY...... She never liked her from the onset, and the last thing you should ignore in life is the vibes from your mother. Women are very sensitive creatures, IF SHE SAYS THE GIRL IS NO GOOD THEN SHE IS NO GOOD. SHE HAS PAIRED YOU WITH YOUR GF AND THE RESULT IS NEGATIVE. MARRIAGE IS NOT ABOUT LOVE, SEX, BEAUTY. ITS ALL ABOUT TOLERANCE, PERSEVERANCE AND UNDERSTANDING. LET HER GO AND FIND ANOTHER MAN. THE DRESS CODE IS PATHETIC AND NO DECENT GIRL SHOULD WEAR THAT IN PUBLIC.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by iLoveYouToo(m): 8:35am On Feb 09, 2023
peepydelano:
Your mum is right , she doesn’t want you to bring whores into her home.

This pic doesn’t make the girl a LovePeddler. We need to stop being hypocritical about life

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by chris51(f): 8:39am On Feb 09, 2023
I can't see anything wrong with bum short. It's so unfortunate that some mothers are very old fashioned.

The girl wore shorts but her body is covered. Just tell your girl to mind what she posts on social media.

Give your mother some time she will come round. If the girl is able to convince your mother about her good character, you won't have problem.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by chris51(f): 8:39am On Feb 09, 2023
chris51:
I can't see anything wrong with bum short. It's so unfortunate that some mothers are very old fashioned.

The girl wore shorts but her body is covered. Just tell your girl to mind what she posts on social media.

Give your mother some time she will come round. If the girl is able to convince your mother about her good character, you won't have problem.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by VawulenceProMax: 8:45am On Feb 09, 2023
UncleKoboko:

Your mom is right

Only girls that are shameless and whóres like
UmbrateethO4, Longpreek and vawulencepromax mothers that dresses like this.
Besides, IS SHE A VIRGIN?
I can't believe you are officially scared of me. What a fak
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by VawulenceProMax: 8:47am On Feb 09, 2023
UncleKoboko:

Lol
This is internet and you claim to be anything and continue to fool yourself grin
but we know rob nairalanders
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by VawulenceProMax: 8:47am On Feb 09, 2023
UncleKoboko:

Lol
See mumu Lover boy grin
Is she a virgin?

DO YOU KNOW my mama TRUE BODYCOUNT?

DEY DER DEY PLAY grin grin grin
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by PointZerom: 9:05am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:


Watch your words please. Don't use that word to describe my girl.

That girl is a prostitute. CRY HARDER.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by damoobaba: 9:05am On Feb 09, 2023
Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

Children of nowadays dont know the difference between a wife and a lady.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by UncleKoboko: 9:30am On Feb 09, 2023
VawulenceProMax:

Lol
See mumu Lover boy grin
Is she a virgin?

DO YOU KNOW my mama TRUE BODYCOUNT?

DEY DER DEY PLAY grin grin
I know she's a stinky whorê
Her bodycount is in thousands because you're a son of a thousand fathers.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by UncleKoboko: 9:32am On Feb 09, 2023
VawulenceProMax:
I can't believe I'M officially scared of YOU. What a fak
You don chop koboko na grin
Why u nor go fear grin
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by 3rockets(m): 10:14am On Feb 09, 2023
You come here dey argue with us and na yu come find advice. Shey you dey alright so? You dom argue with malee finish also I guess. Oga marry big bweess and fresh nyash, forget character or advice. Do wetin dey your mind e no concern us. Big bweess go fall, big Nyash go scatter, all na time.
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Godlyman112: 10:25am On Feb 09, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Your mother saw more than the bum short, she is only using it as an excuse. Listen to the advice of your mother, she can never go wrong on this one because she is of the same gender. It's true that the world is changing but a Nigerian girl that wears that bum short comfortably in public is likely a coded runsgirl. If she is not, a good offer hasn't come her way yet. If you think your mother is wrong, pay a private investigator to follow your girlfriend for just one week to prove her wrong.
gbam, I support this motion. A private investigator will clear your doubts
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by VawulenceProMax: 10:30am On Feb 09, 2023
UncleKoboko:

I know she's a stinky whorê
Her bodycount is in thousands because I am a son of a thousand fathers.
damn see finishing cheesy
Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by gforce5: 10:50am On Feb 09, 2023
I cannot believe that you, the OP, brought such a sensitive topic to a toxic and anonymous forum like Nairaland. Are you new to this forum or something? You expect strangers, most of whom are tribalistic and misorgynists, to give their opinion on a private issue. Don't you have friends, senior family members, village elders and neighbors you can talk to? Since her mode of dressing is a big issue, you should have informed your girl to dress modestly whenever your mum or other family members are around. Be in charge man. By now, you should know that Nigeria is a conservative society, in name, and Nigerians are a very judgmental set of people. Be in charge mate.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by Hatrick01: 10:54am On Feb 09, 2023
Kholiwe:
Your mother is an idiot.
u this smelly south apian.
Dont u have an atom of respect in ur thick skull?
Is this how u do in ur so called region.
Zulu chimp.

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Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by UncleKoboko: 11:10am On Feb 09, 2023
VawulenceProMax:


I know MY MOTHER is a stinky whorê
Her bodycount is in thousands because I am a son of a thousand fathers.
damn see finishing cheesy

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