Tell him you think it is wise for him to relax his visitation schedule to your house. You will let him know when things get better with you. You are really going through a situation. He should bear with you and you can always communicate via phone or other means. Hope he understands.

frozen70:


Stop giving him those things that attracts him to your house and whenever he comes, just tell him that you are going out, keep doing so to him

good i think Thats The Best Thing To Do

Nonywendy:
if you can't tell him to stop coming to ur house then you are not ready. Stop complaining or there is something you are not telling us, this one he has your house key

He Own My Key Because At Time He Use To bring His Partner when Am Not Around

Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

Best answer.. I have some one around me like that. A self centred ingrate. By nature I'm a giver as I love to help out when I can but u see this guy, he always complains of being broke and not having anything but when he has u never see him. I never show when I'm going through tough times cos I always believe I will eventually scale through but one time I reached out for help and he ignored me only for me to track him to his place to find out he's in money. Even in that he still complained, explaining to me how he spent so and so for this and that. Omor I just respect myself and it was the first and the last I ever asked him. I tried cutting him of but I no get that heart for niggaz in the struggle.

This guy will even come to my place with his babe enter my kitchen eat as they like drink if there's anything in the fridge and I just freestyle even after his fūckup. But when he has u never see him. I only hear about it from others. Everyone has cut him off completely but me. Two weeks ago he messed up and disrespected me so I cut him off again. Then I saw him and his girl I think on Sunday evening cos we stay close. Imagine the babe telling me they were coming to borrow money from me lol and I was about using the ATM to buy card oo as my bank apps no work.

So next day he came, ransacked my kitchen, no yawah. Yesterday again he came I just told him point blank no level oo. He insisted on noodles to make some with eggs. Again I told him that I have nothing and what he sees I'm managing for myself. This guy no even spend 30 seconds again. Gave one excuse of going to do wtv somewhere. I felt bad though but I hate ungrateful people who think they're using u. Some friends aren't friends

dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...

When next he comes, play Asiwaju by Ruger especially that "No dey look for us, we no dey house".

dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...

When next he comes, play Asiwaju by Ruger especially that "No dey look for us, we no dey house".

Autobot05:


So it can chase / bite him
He'll think twice before thinking of coming to your house again after that

I just missed my dog back home he's great at chasing people away

Feeding a dog no easy bros,if u get dog ,u guys become 3 and if the dog chases him away,still back to square one .the dog becomes that Ur friend u wan pursue.speak up dat all it solves Ur problem.

I saw where u said he has Ur key,gud call him you lost Ur key if he can be kind enuff to give u his,after that ,once Ur indoors he knocks ignore him,post him anytime he calls,gradually he will adapt.
Cheers

KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now

like people said, know if he genuinely needs help or is just using you, if he needs help keep helping him.

Iam waiting for very very wickedman

Okere18:


When next he comes, play Asiwaju by Ruger especially that "No dey look for us, we no dey house".

Lol 😂

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Just tell him straight

When he comes did he normally ask for the food or you willingly offer it to him. or he calculates the time you will be eating your own so as to have his own too at thesame time?

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

accommodate him, you never can tell what would happen later, if he is not using you

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

So easy lock your door.

KeyEndurance:

I Was Thinking The Same just that at Time If I Cook before I Come Back From Work He Will wicked My Food because He Has My Key

Oga change your key. It's very wrong for a friend that's not ur spouse to have ur key to himself or herself.

Change your location or travel 4 sometime.
Some people don't just know when to stop.
Those of you that your house doesn't contain you, how una dey do am? I can stay on my own for months and I won't even bother or think of going to people's home in the name of visitation. Just give me light, phone and TV sub...wetin concern me outside?

Givers never lack. God have a way of compensating u. Endure is just a matter of time. God bless

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Is it that both of you are jobless that he has time to visit you everyday and you have time to entertain him as well? I really don't understand.
Now I see that you work and he has your key. Tell me, are you opposite sexes?
Seen again that he is a guy. My man, you have not told us your full story, when you do, then you may get genuine advice. Tell us the full story. It's possible you are the ingrate and bad person by complaining right now. Just possible.

mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

Lol… You got me cracking.

If I see you in person I go nack you two by two for head which kind solution be dis one.

mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

Olosho don drop quote of the Day...

Nonsense and ingredients

Always remember there is a pat back time for all good dids and kindness.

Also remember no condition is permanent.
Situations can turn around for that Nigga tomorrow and he might be your saviour

So if you are in position to help in your little way always do.

Don't mind some foolish NLders here

cutecommend:
This may be the fastest

Not the best in my opinion. If he is able to borrow you the money, then get ready for a new dimension as he may start sleeping in your house.
Stop offering food.

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Before I read some good comments, I wanted to give a negative advice but after reading some comments I will say this...


Taking care of your friend is part of your responsibility as a friend (forget the new social media ideology that says otherwise)

But you also have to be smart about it.

What I will advise first is to stop looking at it from angry point of view but look at it from responsibility point of view

But you can do pass yourself and the way country be like this, tell him that at the moment you don't have much, reduce what you have in the house, so when he comes tell him you don't have much and if he insist of food, tell him to contribute part of the money if he contributes, be increasing his contribution till it get to a stage you are conformable with.

If you guys start sharing the bill, you will enjoy the friendship better (from your reply to some of the answers, the guy is not totally brok)

Bu not engaging in much discussion with the friend

When he comes and you don't have what to give, be straight with him and tell him you don't have it to offer him today.

That's how you'll do whenever he comes and you don't have it.

It's that simple.

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

When he comes and demand for food, tell him you don't have and instead tell him to bring money for you guys to cook... Better still you visit him today and demand when you get to his house. Friends like this are users... I can bet he comes to your house for the free food the day you stop giving he will stop coming, infact if he comes today, tell him you don't have food, simple. Tomorrow too tell him you don't have that you're just managing. I bet you you won't see him the third day.

There was no need to reply her, replying her makes her feel important, just ignore her like others have done

KomonSense:


Olosho don drop quote of the Day...

Nonsense and ingredients

And it’s a curse ur gender shud never have anything to offer rather than to bring her burdens abi

Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.