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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by youngreezy(m): 3:49pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
budaatum:you dey drink beer?make I buy one mortuary standard for you..... useless simps must get sense by force... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Nobody: 3:56pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:This part is so true. Happened to my cousin. Man had already secured admission in the US only for his visa application to fall through. School gave him a few more trials. US visa is so hard to get. Besides the lady in the story is just planning her future which the op may or may not be part of, depending on the outcome. Women will embarrass you wherever loyalty is put to the test. Those people are loyal to nothing else but their feelings. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by clydecarson(m): 3:58pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: After we have advised you finish you still want us to talk,oga Carry your wahala and go 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by redcliff: 3:59pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: she never even get visa she don reject you. Does anyone need to tell you that you are furcken single? We are having too many soft men in our times 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by clydecarson(m): 3:59pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Red02: Exactly..he opened the same thread he's still asking stupid question 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by tensorflow: 4:08pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Let me tell you what will happen if you don't know 1. She's not going to school there. She'll likely defer the application and work as an immigrant (illegal) on the 2yr student visa 2. She'll marry and divorce a citizen (hence why she can't marry you) and then become a legal resident. This is a package that costs about $10k to get someone to marry and divorce you. Be rest assured, she's only thinking for herself. So I'll advise you to stop spending anything and make her your cum-dump (maybe impregnate her - she'll surely abort) before she leaves. PS they said you are a clout chaser, anyway this advice is for anyone else in that situation 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Guyman01: 4:16pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
thebosstrevor1:He spent his application money with the belief that she will take him along as dependent. Now she doesn't want him anymore and is telling him to chart his own course but he is still blinded by "Love" |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by abobote: 4:20pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Same story that made front page 2weeks ago. She never still travel ? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by RichAbujaGuy: 4:21pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Give her a kiss goodbye and wish her well abroad Mr Simp. Imagine a whole man (not small boy) crying over a girl leaving him with all these fine and intelligent single ladies in Naija. Meanwhile get on your money hustle (legal) and top notch fitness program. Life goes on. Keep a positive attitude and a new compatible babe will enter your sphere. Know this and know peace. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Aroninuola: 4:24pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Similar thing happened to me. The werey girl said if I cannot come to the UK, I should forget about her. I accepted I did mine for God |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Emily22(m): 4:26pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Wait, which advise do you need again All the signs are clear You are her uplifting source She doesn't value you except to satisfy her need. Withdraw all your support cuz if you later pay flight fee and co ..I go curse you. I love her boldness, she cleared you instanta, so you should do thesame and clear her also. Don't vex me brother 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by peedeeasobie(m): 4:28pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Igbos have an adage "Ihe emere n'enyi n'ala n'enyi". (What was done in the context of boyfriend and girlfriend goes away with boyfriend and girlfriend). Meaning that a man cannot say because he paid the school of a lady when she was in school while they were friends, then he won't pay brideprice before marrying her. Oga, wisdom should teach you that you shouldn't be supporting your girlfriend to travel while you don't have an independent plan of your own. The reward for a help rendered during friendship is "thank you" and not marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by elonize(m): 4:29pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:won't b nice if sm ppo just cm n start insulting d girl.I had to read everything. If d girl can use her own study route to bring u in as her husband...if dis option is available n shes telling u to do ur own,den u have been hustled. But if ders no option like dat,den do ur own like she said .. Is der any lesson u learnt frm dis,like never invest in a girl or its really no lesson to b learnt |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Solocoin: 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:There's no need for you to complain, since you already have the intention of traveling. Start working on your documents and when you travel forget about her because she's not a sincere person. Thank God that it happens now before you reach there. You will see someone better than her. She's not the only person with a character you want in a woman as a wife. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Adonko(m): 4:36pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Divija:me too |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by bjnice(m): 4:37pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Na wetin no make me thinking of going to US via study. How will my wife not allowed to work. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Markrony: 4:38pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
I dont know why someone @ 40 is still emotionally attaching himself to a girl (student) of 28. Does it mean, you don't have something reasonable doing in Nigeria? My advice to you is that, don't waste more time and money applying for anything again. Gather your money, establish yourself in Nigeria, look for a working class girl or established girl and settle down. At 40, time is not on your side. Children born at younger age are more intelligent and smarter than children born at old age. Beside, following this girl may give you the greatest disappointment of your life. Grow up man! 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by cliqtips: 4:39pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Im sure, she must have been talking to someone else to meet over there, who knows ? Anyway, count yourself luck. I guess you've been cancelled from the equation 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by MzErica(f): 4:40pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: You and your stupid girlfriend are mad. We are talking about naira scarcity, foolish imp like you is talking about your dead-brain gf. You're surely mad! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by 43Ronin: 4:42pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
But why will anyone carry their hard earned funds to school in usa when there's canada Usa that will only give you 2 years post study visa based on STEM then after that na street ooo, before u get H1B na God. Even when u get the H1B, your spouse cannot work. Guys do research before you japa. Go to where there's a sure route of residency or citizenship. E better say I carry money for schl fees go instead as visiting then hustle akata. Even akata these days dey dull men sef 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Enemyofpeace: 4:46pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Haaaaaaaaaa! Omo she don fashi you be dat o. You're no more in her agenda. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Enemyofpeace: 4:48pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
MzErica:una dey fight before before? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by MzErica(f): 4:51pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Enemyofpeace: I swear some people are plain stupid in this country. The moderator that brought that shit to the FP should be fired ASAP! |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Etosha: 4:54pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
"Never play the role of the parents before marriage"- Prof. Johnbull. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Enemyofpeace: 4:59pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
MzErica:Buhari and Emefiele don make you vex |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by 9jaRealist: 5:01pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: GOOD for her⦠> 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 5:04pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Pray she doesnβt get the visa. When she then gets denied, dump her sorry ass. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by MzErica(f): 5:05pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Enemyofpeace: I dey vex as I dey like this. π‘π‘π‘ |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by chaloskyx: 5:11pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
In other words the woman feels she has risen above you in value and for her to reconsider you you have to add value to yourself all this while she has just been managing you your options are as follows: 1 get your admission visa travel continue your relationship but don't marry her 2 don't get your visa live your life focus on yourself and development let the relationship die and find yourself another girl 3 When you eventually move on focus on yourself don't spend on any woman's growth or development only your wife Note: getting admission is the easy part its the visa that's the real challenge she's already showing herself even before she travelled which is good at least you now know she's not the one |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Laple0541(m): 5:13pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Even if she marries you before living the shore of the country, that doesn't stop her from calling the union quit when she lands there. I'd seen marriages of over 12years with 4kids getting dissolved in less than 2years just because the woman leaves for a greener pasture before her husband. Even when a whole family migrate together at once, their are even many scenarios of divorces few years after landing abroad. The system overseas made breaking up of marriages so easy, it takes true love and commitments for a woman to still be committed to the fiance or spouse she left behind while she jetted out of the country. In your case, I doubt if your partner has the highlighted qualities, just try to move on with your life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by riverbird: 5:16pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Stop wasting your time around her ... |
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