budaatum:
Wise woman. She might grow and find better so it's wise to keep open options. Grow and you too might.

And thanks for your support.

you dey drink beer?make I buy one mortuary standard for you..... useless simps must get sense by force...

See talk...😂😂😂😃😂😄😄😊😄🤣🤣🤣🤣

tensazangetsu20:
Allow her go. She go shock when she reach there. They all think getting married abroad is easy lol. Besides a student visa doesnt guarantee japa especially in the US but then even if you go as her dependant you arent allowed to work too.

This part is so true. Happened to my cousin.
Man had already secured admission in the US only for his visa application to fall through.
School gave him a few more trials.
US visa is so hard to get.
Besides the lady in the story is just planning her future which the op may or may not be part of, depending on the outcome. Women will embarrass you wherever loyalty is put to the test. Those people are loyal to nothing else but their feelings.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

After we have advised you finish you still want us to talk,oga Carry your wahala and go

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

she never even get visa she don reject you. Does anyone need to tell you that you are furcken single? We are having too many soft men in our times

Red02:
To the people coming in please be aware that this client is a clout chaser.

Please we would appreciate if you dont feed him attention he craves.

Thank you

Exactly..he opened the same thread he's still asking stupid question

Let me tell you what will happen if you don't know

1. She's not going to school there. She'll likely defer the application and work as an immigrant (illegal) on the 2yr student visa

2. She'll marry and divorce a citizen (hence why she can't marry you) and then become a legal resident. This is a package that costs about $10k to get someone to marry and divorce you.

Be rest assured, she's only thinking for herself. So I'll advise you to stop spending anything and make her your cum-dump (maybe impregnate her - she'll surely abort) before she leaves.

PS they said you are a clout chaser, anyway this advice is for anyone else in that situation

thebosstrevor1:
She doesn't see you in her future plans.

But why didn't you apply too?

He spent his application money with the belief that she will take him along as dependent. Now she doesn't want him anymore and is telling him to chart his own course but he is still blinded by "Love"

Same story that made front page 2weeks ago.

She never still travel ?

Give her a kiss goodbye and wish her well abroad Mr Simp. Imagine a whole man (not small boy) crying over a girl leaving him with all these fine and intelligent single ladies in Naija. Meanwhile get on your money hustle (legal) and top notch fitness program. Life goes on. Keep a positive attitude and a new compatible babe will enter your sphere. Know this and know peace.

Similar thing happened to me. The werey girl said if I cannot come to the UK, I should forget about her.

I accepted I did mine for God

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Wait, which advise do you need again


All the signs are clear


You are her uplifting source


She doesn't value you except to satisfy her need.

Withdraw all your support cuz if you later pay flight fee and co ..I go curse you.

I love her boldness, she cleared you instanta, so you should do thesame and clear her also.

Don't vex me brother

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Igbos have an adage "Ihe emere n'enyi n'ala n'enyi". (What was done in the context of boyfriend and girlfriend goes away with boyfriend and girlfriend).

Meaning that a man cannot say because he paid the school of a lady when she was in school while they were friends, then he won't pay brideprice before marrying her.

Oga, wisdom should teach you that you shouldn't be supporting your girlfriend to travel while you don't have an independent plan of your own.

The reward for a help rendered during friendship is "thank you" and not marriage.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

won't b nice if sm ppo just cm n start insulting d girl.I had to read everything.
If d girl can use her own study route to bring u in as her husband...if dis option is available n shes telling u to do ur own,den u have been hustled.
But if ders no option like dat,den do ur own like she said ..
Is der any lesson u learnt frm dis,like never invest in a girl or its really no lesson to b learnt

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

There's no need for you to complain, since you already have the intention of traveling. Start working on your documents and when you travel forget about her because she's not a sincere person. Thank God that it happens now before you reach there. You will see someone better than her. She's not the only person with a character you want in a woman as a wife.

Divija:
Please what are the procedures. I am interested

me too

tensazangetsu20:
Allow her go. She go shock when she reach there. They all think getting married abroad is easy lol. Besides a student visa doesnt guarantee japa especially in the US but then even if you go as her dependant you arent allowed to work too.

Na wetin no make me thinking of going to US via study. How will my wife not allowed to work.

I dont know why someone @ 40 is still emotionally attaching himself to a girl (student) of 28. Does it mean, you don't have something reasonable doing in Nigeria? My advice to you is that, don't waste more time and money applying for anything again. Gather your money, establish yourself in Nigeria, look for a working class girl or established girl and settle down. At 40, time is not on your side. Children born at younger age are more intelligent and smarter than children born at old age. Beside, following this girl may give you the greatest disappointment of your life. Grow up man!

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Im sure, she must have been talking to someone else to meet over there, who knows ?
Anyway, count yourself luck. I guess you've been cancelled from the equation

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

You and your stupid girlfriend are mad. We are talking about naira scarcity, foolish imp like you is talking about your dead-brain gf. You're surely mad!

But why will anyone carry their hard earned funds to school in usa when there's canada Usa that will only give you 2 years post study visa based on STEM then after that na street ooo, before u get H1B na God. Even when u get the H1B, your spouse cannot work. Guys do research before you japa. Go to where there's a sure route of residency or citizenship. E better say I carry money for schl fees go instead as visiting then hustle akata. Even akata these days dey dull men sef

Haaaaaaaaaa! Omo she don fashi you be dat o. You're no more in her agenda.

MzErica:


You and your stupid girlfriend are mad. We are talking about naira scarcity, foolish imp like you is talking about your dead-brain gf. You're surely mad!

una dey fight before before?

Enemyofpeace:
una dey fight before before?

I swear some people are plain stupid in this country. The moderator that brought that shit to the FP should be fired ASAP!

"Never play the role of the parents before marriage"- Prof. Johnbull.

MzErica:


I swear some people are plain stupid in this country. The moderator that brought that shit to the FP should be fired ASAP!

Buhari and Emefiele don make you vex

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

GOOD for her…
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Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Pray she doesn’t get the visa. When she then gets denied, dump her sorry ass.

Enemyofpeace:
Buhari and Emefiele don make you vex

I dey vex as I dey like this. 😡😡😡

In other words the woman feels she has risen above you in value and for her to reconsider you you have to add value to yourself all this while she has just been managing you your options are as follows:

1 get your admission visa travel continue your relationship but don't marry her
2 don't get your visa live your life focus on yourself and development let the relationship die and find yourself another girl
3 When you eventually move on focus on yourself don't spend on any woman's growth or development only your wife

Note: getting admission is the easy part its the visa that's the real challenge she's already showing herself even before she travelled which is good at least you now know she's not the one

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Even if she marries you before living the shore of the country, that doesn't stop her from calling the union quit when she lands there.

I'd seen marriages of over 12years with 4kids getting dissolved in less than 2years just because the woman leaves for a greener pasture before her husband. Even when a whole family migrate together at once, their are even many scenarios of divorces few years after landing abroad.

The system overseas made breaking up of marriages so easy, it takes true love and commitments for a woman to still be committed to the fiance or spouse she left behind while she jetted out of the country.

In your case, I doubt if your partner has the highlighted qualities, just try to move on with your life.

Stop wasting your time around her ...