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anthonyuncle:
to be honest, one thing I've realized on nairaland is that most ladies here meet boys in real life and mistake them for men, while the guys meet girls in real life and mistake them for women.

your bittered life is yet to meet and experience a man.
let me rephrase.

you are so bittered in life because you are yet to experience love from a male folk due to the fact that all the male folks you have been encountering are boys.

how prepared are you for a man self.

is it with this your pungent psychology and mindset?

you need goko cleanser for the brains.


I love independent ladies.
I love ladies that stand up for themselves.
you are not one[b]. you are a pussy[/b] hawker

Like your wretch of a mother right? I guess your daft brain couldn't comprehend what I wrote, if u like or must marry an independent woman, be ready to do 50/50 with her in everything, down to the house chores. She will also detect and tell what and what should be done in her house. Simple as ABC. slowpoke!!!!!

JohnOkolo:
A Woman splitting bills and taking responsibility in a Family is the normal thing for any and all Men to do, except your favorite meals "SIMPS", if you can't handle shouldering responsibility you are not an adult, and please for your mental and psychological growth, understand that Women are not made to be lazy and helpers or help mates as you call them, but are created to be responsible and pay lots and lots of bills. Life should not be easy for any Woman and it has never been for any.

Stop this ranting it won't help you in anyway cause your future husband will just suffer you when he knows you detest taking part and sacrificing for your own Family.

"A Woman is not suppose to split bills my foot" unah go suffer.

Happy am leaving my baby Mama for a whole year to take care of the responsibility of her Child and for her to learn to respect herself not me, I don't care for any child who will still not be responsible and listen to his father after been spoilt and breed by all these hateful Women of our generation.

It takes a wise child to Love his/her father truly, there only love you for what you can provide, but if you are dead there will survive, So Men learn to live your life's and let Women suffer

How many lots and lots of bills did ur wretch mother paid when she married your father? I don't know of any other woman but you see myself, I will not try it, I will not try it in the sense that as an independent woman I will split bills with u, u as the man with dickhead will now tell me to be loyal to u or shoulder all the house chores responsibilities and u dare not demand sex from me like a dog. As an independent woman splitting bills with a dickhead called a man , I can only be loyal to him 30% even if that 30% u will do 50% of the chores and taking care of your kids nothing more nothing less. Shikena!!!!

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Pride
When a woman starts making her own money she begins to look down on every one

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

the ladies aare the problem...once they attain such qualities..thry begin to look for only classic men... disqualifying every other men as low class...there by chasing men who dont fancy them cus of the class the posses....thats why they are all still single...

i hv about three experiences if u want me to share, reply my mention

Prettygirl200:
Like your wretch of a mother right? I guess your daft brain couldn't comprehend what I wrote, if u like or must marry an independent woman, be ready to do 50/50 with her in everything, down to the house chores. She will also detect and tell what and what should be done in her house. Simple as ABC. slowpoke!!!!!

you just displayed your view of the person that birthed you.
you are efficiently foolish.
your level of foolishness broke the scale used to measure foolishness.

your problem is that you don't know love.
love brings light, and light expels darkness.

your whole being and reasoning is clouded in darkness.

place your right hand on your head and say: "my Father! my Father!! please i need to experience love, so that i can use Your light to expel the foolishness in me"

if you can't do it yourself, I can ask FalseProphet1 to help you

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

I swear many of them oo, e be like say plenty men dey confuse

faceLAGOS:
No7 is a turn on for me.

Rough but not dirty.

I had a girl like that back in uní, you’ll think she’s a tomboy.

She no just care; na book full her head.

Twas when we smashed that I felt her full feminine nature.

She later adjusted a little.

Preeeek is very powerful 😅

a reasonable dick changes a lot

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Alot of them don't take correction and they will be like I don't want any man nonsense when they are still young and will think the world revolves around them until the reach 35 years and start looking for who will look their way. Some of them are so selective. Sometimes this will scare men away from them. Because everyone love peace of man and no man want to live with his follow man who will be giving him order.

anthonyuncle:
you just displayed your view of the person that birthed you.
you are efficiently foolish.
your level of foolishness broke the scale used to measure foolishness.

your problem is that you don't know love.
love brings light, and light expels darkness.

your whole being and reasoning is clouded in darkness.

place your right hand on your head and say: "my Father! my Father!! please i need to experience love, so that i can use Your light to expel the foolishness in me"

if you can't do it yourself, I can ask FalseProphet1 to help you

Yen yen yen, I have said what I want to say, so Bleep your black ass off

Prettygirl200:
Yen yen yen, I have said what I want to say, so Bleep your black ass off

get a tongue cleaner, your breathe is as foul as your anus.

inforesource:
Because all that put together do not make you a wife or mother.

Modified:
Those things you listed are added advantage and not the most important....

What is or are the most important then?

Prettygirl200:
How many lots and lots of bills did ur wretch mother paid when she married your father? I don't know of any other woman but you see myself, I will not try it, I will not try it in the sense that as an independent woman I will split bills with u, u as the man with dickhead will now tell me to be loyal to u or shoulder all the house chores responsibilities and u dare not demand sex from me like a dog. As an independent woman splitting bills with a dickhead called a man , I can only be loyal to him 30% even if that 30% u will do 50% of the chores and taking care of your kids nothing more nothing less. Shikena!!!!

with this mindset of urs, i will meet u at shiloh by 2035....and may consider u den if u havent dropped an engine yet

blacksam01:
with this mindset of urs, i will meet u at shiloh by 2035....and may consider u den if u havent dropped an engine yet

you are not God sir, t for thanks!!!

anthonyuncle:
get a tongue cleaner, your breathe is as foul as your anus.

And your brain is as empty as a jerrycan.

Prettygirl200:
you are not God sir, t for thanks!!!

now i respect u more cuz u didn't bark angrily at me....may God grant u ur evntual heart desire...but plz try and cut back on demand list on ur future patmer...for real ,there is no perfect man...marry the man and not his job or class

blacksam01:
now i respect u more cuz u didn't bark angrily at me....may God grant u ur evntual heart desire...but plz try and cut back on demand list on ur future patmer...for real ,there is no perfect man...marry the man and not his job or class

So u are trying to make me soft with this your words abi? Anyways I heard you, thanks for the advice, and sorry for the insult!!!

Prettygirl200:
And your brain is as empty as a jerrycan.

I have brains, it can never be empty.

well, this is something you don't know since it's something you don't have

anthonyuncle:
I have brains, it can never be empty.

well, this is something you don't know since it's something you don't have

if that's the case then I have a very fresh breath, a very fresh one at that, and u can never know bc it's something u don't have.

Prettygirl200:
if that's the case then I have a very fresh breath, a very fresh one at that, and u can never know bc it's something u don't have.

even you, yourself know that you are lying

anthonyuncle:
even you, yourself know that you are lying

Same as you!! And stop showing me your rotten teeth am not smiling with u

LadyRosa2:
Of course!
The ones who are making money through sleeping around too are also cashing out, some are cashng out big.

After all, many foolish guys on here have mothers who are broke yet they spend on slay queens to ease their unending Hard-ons.

despite all your money, you're this bitter?? Smh.

Prettygirl200:
Same as you!! And stop showing me your rotten teeth am not smiling with u

you are so daft that you think that any time the teeth are exposed, one is actually smiling.

or you think that every smile is a cheerful and friendly gesture

anthonyuncle:
you are so daft that you think that any time the teeth are exposed, one is actually smiling.

or you think that every smile is a cheerful and friendly gesture

Rest abeg!!!!

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Life functions on principles.

Being a good girl, etc has nothing to do with getting married. U gt?

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Once a man starts making money. He always longs for a woman. Someone to build with. Settle down and start a family. Buh once a lady start seeing money, they become feminist with Love Machine's. They no longer need a man... they respect no man.

There is no woman that is a billionaire... billionaire too much.... Millionaire that will marry a common man. But reverse is for men.

Prettygirl200:
Rest abeg!!!!

you don tap out

Because men are hypogamous in nature. They are insecure and feel that their manhood is being attacked.
These boys have been fed by their families and the society to seek a woman who they can control, who is easily impressionable and submissive.

They do not have the ability to comprehend the fact that a woman is her own person and not a thing to be owned by them. They use religion as an excuse for their subjugation of women and if that doesn't work for them, they use their Africaness.

Now, they are riding on the back of feminism to demand 50/50 to split the bills but God forbid the domestic labour and child care is split.

Nigerian boys accept and want a woman who is not a leech as long as she does not grow more than her boy partner. She can be independent and rich but not too rich so that oga won't feel emasculated and threatened.

My advice to ladies is, strive to be as successful as you can. Don't let your village people disguised as your husband to destroy your destiny. Marriage is about uplifting and helping each other and not trying to dim their lights all because of societal gender roles.

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

I need decent one that can add value to my life..., incase you see, kindly notify me

LadyRosa2:
There's no such thing as trap,except you feel majority of you are foolish!

Thats why I detest sanctimonious girls who feels they can marry good men because they can say the rosary 10 times a day!
And yes! 90% of my female friends wraps igbo before they got married, many who lives abroad still light cigarette.

Guess what? One is about to get married and move to US with her husband.


SHE STILL SMOKES!

Before I got married,I have a habit,my husband complained about it. Simply told him to go 4ck himself if he can't deal! I personally took it upon myself to stop for health reasons, not because I married him.

You sound like a catch
Any man can marry, but an unguided man marries a woman like you.
Disrespect will only grow exponentially. You will sha still continue to disrespect him as your marriage progresses.

Then again maybe he likes it. Maybe he is a sub. Maybe y'all can consider femdom BDSM. You would have to initiate it though, given the nature of subs.
Maybe sit on his face and call him a bitch next time you are together and see if he gets into it.

In matters like this i don't engage.

Here to read

Persephone1:


In matters like this i don't engage.

Here to read

really come on contribute to the narrative

faceLAGOS:
Hey!

Can we be friends?

I saw something unique about your profile & it attracted me to you.

It’s mystical, though.

You mind?

Hi.

I wonder what it is. 😊