Your story make me remember this old film" WHY DO FOOLS FALL IN LOVE" it even have a theme song.

What's are studying master for since you can't master your mind,undergraduate they used your emotions play ten ten.grow up guy activate to other girl and see are on her knees begging with tears dropping like water dropping from ice soft drinks

haekymbahd:
I .

[b]I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

Just have it in the back of your mind that this girl ain't worthy of your Love, this girls is just a tool who's trying to use her VumVum to ride you like a fool. Whatever she do never ever ever show you are worried. Remove that Bullsh*t love you think you feel from your because that is bullshit! Focus whatever she does just Focus on what's important, she's not important tell yourself that, your priorities should be 1. Masters
2. Food(stop her from cooking for you because cooking has a way of turning you to an idiot, a sucker for women, I'm speaking from experience)
3. Your gadgets (phones and laptop)
4. Friends
5. Your Bed
In that order remove her from your mind and Focus! Focus!! Focus!!! Focus!!!! Toh!!

After the festive period she resisted your touch but you still gave her money to cook, she flirt with other guys in your presence.

Once you observed these things you should have lost feelings for her until further notice, you should always be the one in control.

Right now forget her, don't pack out unless you're a coward, get a girl more beautiful than her, probably don't start a relationship till you finish your master's.

haekymbahd:
so what should I have done as an anti redpillers let me learn.. I reciprocated the love she showed not knowing it was a game... I am trying to find the courage to stay and repel everything she will likely throw at me she is a game player. It would have been easy for me if I had also been a flirt myself but I wasn't even in any relationship then..

I under stand your predicament.

Where do you stay?

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

You are not a red pillar if you see the signs and ask questions

haekymbahd:
Thanks bro I'm sure you are God sent we learn everyday..

That will not help you... Just count your losses and move out of that compound... By the way, read below some words of wisdom I wrote in 2017 on nairaland and you may understand where you began to mess up ...
https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

Vyzz:


You are not a red pillar if you see the signs and ask questions

I agree am not i feel this is spiritual cos the kind of dreams I dream about her are not normal I could be under a spell. I can see the sign and I know what to do why can't I it baffles me

There are too vivid for me to regard them there was a day she told me she had a dream about me and I myself have had similar dream before...

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

Do you want me to advice you
Yes Ikr. But firstly stop saying u are a Redpiller

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

Use your head not your emotions, I strongly advice you.
Don't let LOVE get you hurt or kill, then that' s final, if it happens, life move on without you.

Emotions are momentary, don't loose yourself in the name of in-LOVE.

That girl owe you nothing, likewise you owe her nothing. Bruh, fvck love.

My advice, start FVCKING or SEEING another girl as her replacement asap.

Put more focus on personal growth and development, at least yo achieve the goals that brought you there, she isn't a goal and not important. After all you are not marrying her, she is out to manipulate, use and break you, don't let it happen. After all she knows that you are in love with her and want to use it on you.

Since she changed, beat your chest, ignore her, don't give her any form of help again, don't let her enter your house again, protect your mental health. Be careful with her and NEVER date your NEIGGVOUR but you can fvck them with Conditions. .those that date their neighbors are weaklings. Be strong and ghost her for REAL. thank me later. No TIME to do or feel rubbish.

haekymbahd:
I agree am not i feel this is spiritual cos the kind of dreams I dream about her are not normal I could be under a spell.

There are too vivid for me to regard them there was a day she told me she had a dream about me and I myself have had similar dream before...

Omo Una matter tire..


Handle the case like a man, you give the money you make the rules, she obeys.


If she doesn't, she leaves.


Wait till she starts sleeping with your friends openly then you go cast openly

tobby20:

Do you want me to advice you
Yes Ikr. But firstly stop saying u are a Redpiller

Advice me sir .I am not a redpillers I meant I have read about the redpill before so I saw the signs but she showed it too late for me to detect and my instincts tells me what to do but I am struggling to do that.

i feel this is spiritual cos the kind of dreams I dream about her are not normal I could be under a spell. I can see the sign and I know what to do why can't I it baffles me

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

Firstly you are emotional !!!
Now ask yourself why u are getting emotional about a girl ? That’s where d answer lies !!!

If you can’t answer it pls don’t claim redpill shit , this knowledge I’m passing is not even Redpill.
What’s simply making you emotional is ignorance .
You are ignorant of why she stop loving you and hugging you and shit that’s what got you emotionally and bleeped with your brain !!
Now u get : fix that and u re saved
Yaweh

Well who am I to judge? We all are different and I believe that you can do away with her. Especially now that, she's being manipulative.

Understanding the manipulation of women.

Ebukamatth:
I still don't get what
Red pills means. Can someone tell me please

Bring another girl to the house...

Bigfish121:
Understanding the manipulation of women.

Damn
You good

I don't know much about what redpill is.

But I personally don't get attached to any girl, getting jealous is not also in me, and finally no matter how beautiful a lady is...I go dump you when you go against my principles.

Bring random girls home, ignore her and live like a boss.

Finally, you are like a lion don't leave your territory because of a mere sheep

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

by saying you are financially ok,what exactly do yo mean,as you are still living in 'face me I kill you" apartment ?

Thank God you know you are a simp.

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

I don't understand why some guys here are telling you to pack out? From a House you enjoy so much? For a year one girl for that matter? Mr. Man, you will look very stvpid if you should pack out of that house because of that lady!

You only made two mistakes, which are;

1 - You didn't let her know where she belongs in your life before getting intimate with her (You were probably scared she might turn you down when she knows you guys can't go beyond "Just friends" which is a BIG LIE)

2 - YOU LACK OPTIONS! Trust me, girls love competition, they love chasing what other girls love! See, that lady have perceived you to be a boring guy who doesn't have ladies in his life, so "See finish" has set in, so she's now seeing it as if she's doing you a favor by being with you!

I'm currently a Final year student, I'm not dating (As a matter of fact I've never dated) but I have female friends who I get intimate with and they know we'll NEVER date! Yes! Majority of them have boyfriends sef! I currently have one in my lodge who's just like this your girl to me, we've gotten Intimate on several occasions, gone places together, we'll contribute money atimes and she'll cook what we'll eat, well still eat from same plate! People think we're dating but she knows where she belongs in my life! She use to be there when I'll enter the lodge with different other girls. We'll even joke about it after they must've left. She'd ask me if the lady's Pvssy is tight etc!

Ignore her for now, feign busy to her always then get your Ass up and go get female friends who're twice as beautiful and Curvy as she is. Enter the lodge with them, do your thing, see them off. (Do this like twice or thrice a week with different hot girls)

Then come back, sit down, get your Popcorn and watch the African Magic that'll play out.

Lastly, make una try dey read una write-ups for possible corrections before una post am na I had migraine reading and trying to understand your post and some comments here!

Bye!

tiswell:
by saying you are financially ok,what exactly do yo mean,as you are still living in 'face me I kill you" apartment ?

Yeah from my estimation according to my income in 2 or 3 months from now I should be financially stabilized.

Since the plan and income flow is there I felt like now is not a bad time to search for ones partner. If you check my post you will see I said I was not in any relationship before meeting her. I only delve into being in relationship because I could see the progress I was making in the last couple of months financially...

ThatrealestApex:


I don't understand why some guys here are telling you to pack out? From a House you enjoy so much? For a year one girl for that matter? Mr. Man, you will look very stvpid if you should pack out of that house because of that lady!

You only made two mistakes, which are;

1 - You didn't let her know where she belongs in your life before getting intimate with her (You were probably scared she might turn you down when she knows you guys can't go beyond "Just friends" which is a BIG LIE)

2 - YOU LACK OPTIONS! Trust me, girls love competition, they love chasing what other girls love! See, that lady have perceived you to be a boring guy who doesn't have ladies in his life, so "See finish" has set in, so she's now seeing it as if she's doing you a favor by being with you!

I'm currently a Final year student, I'm not dating (As a matter of fact I've never dated) but I have female friends who I get intimate with and they know we'll NEVER date! Yes! Majority of them have boyfriends sef! I currently have one in my lodge who's just like this your girl to me, we've gotten Intimate on several occasions, gone places together, we'll contribute money atimes and she'll cook what we'll eat, well still eat from same plate! People think we're dating but she knows where she belongs in my life! She use to be there when I'll enter the lodge with different other girls. We'll even joke about it after they must've left. She'd ask me if the lady's Pvssy is tight etc!

Ignore her for now, feign busy to her always then get your Ass up and go get female friends who're twice as beautiful and Curvy as she is. Enter the lodge with them, do your thing, see them her off. (Do this like twice or thrice a week with different hot girls)

Then come back, sit down, get your Popcorn and watch the African Magic that'll play out.

Bye!

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Bring another girl home...almost every weekend.
You will see what will happen

Ebukamatth:
I still don't get what
Red pills means. Can someone tell me please

Read from beginning to the end, and you will be reborn

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Stop giving her attention and “face front”
Na she go cry last last when you no look her side again

haekymbahd:
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Weda helpful or not, Na you sabi oo if you like don't wear back your masculinity now that it's too early

No be now she go come touch you small hand or do one romantic thing, then booooom you go come go back to Factory Reset SIMPING ooo

Don't give manipulative And anyhow people space in your life easily, make her fight so hard for your attention this time around!

No say person no tell you oo

OP I would suggest you focus solely on your masters, and read this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#113559648

From all my years of experience I can tell you the worst thing you want to give to a woman especially an African woman is all your attention. Even the one that loves you. You are not supposed to give all she wants and when she wants it. That's what being a simp means.

I don't know how you managed to love her. But you have to unlove her because she doesn't love you.

There are some girls are not meant to be loved. But to be banged. Am telling you out of experience because I have made a similar mistake before. She might be laughing at you with that your neighbor she sleeps with. When you give her money don't be surprised she spends it with him.

You just have to let her go. Just do your thing and don't allow her to come so close to you anymore. Some times invite sla female friend over and if she asks you if she can come over just tell her you have a visitor.

ThatrealestApex:


I don't understand why some guys here are telling you to pack out? From a House you enjoy so much? For a year one girl for that matter? Mr. Man, you will look very stvpid if you should pack out of that house because of that lady!

You only made two mistakes, which are;

1 - You didn't let her know where she belongs in your life before getting intimate with her (You were probably scared she might turn you down when she knows you guys can't go beyond "Just friends" which is a BIG LIE)

2 - YOU LACK OPTIONS! Trust me, girls love competition, they love chasing what other girls love! See, that lady have perceived you to be a boring guy who doesn't have ladies in his life, so "See finish" has set in, so she's now seeing it as if she's doing you a favor by being with you!

I'm currently a Final year student, I'm not dating (As a matter of fact I've never dated) but I have female friends who I get intimate with and they know we'll NEVER date! Yes! Majority of them have boyfriends sef! I currently have one in my lodge who's just like this your girl to me, we've gotten Intimate on several occasions, gone places together, we'll contribute money atimes and she'll cook what we'll eat, well still eat from same plate! People think we're dating but she knows where she belongs in my life! She use to be there when I'll enter the lodge with different other girls. We'll even joke about it after they must've left. She'd ask me if the lady's Pvssy is tight etc!

Ignore her for now, feign busy to her always then get your Ass up and go get female friends who're twice as beautiful and Curvy as she is. Enter the lodge with them, do your thing, see them her off. (Do this like twice or thrice a week with different hot girls)

Then come back, sit down, get your Popcorn and watch the African Magic that'll play out.

Lastly, make una try dey read una write-ups for possible corrections before una post am na I had migraine reading and trying to understand your post and some comments here!

Bye!

Odogwu

haekymbahd:
Thanks sir I knew to focus on myself is the right thing to do now, it would have been so easy for me had i not stay in the same house with her but I will see how it goes...

I only wanted to know if it would be wise of me to stay in that house or rent another despite the fact that she might want to play some games to destabilize my emotions... Just that I have stayed long in that house still can't I will be leaving cos of girl damn..

The first law of the redpill says: don't fall in love. It says You are bound to lose all your senses when you do and you won't notice the redflags even though they are there glaringly

The second law says don't trust people...always know they can fvck up no matter what, be it in relationship or business...


Now....it's obvious she's not yours.....write out her red flags and start unloving her.....its might not be easy but thats how to get started......
Stop Those things you give her...start doing things yourself....
+Start some exercise routine
+Know your worth, value and identity
+ you don't need to pack out
+Avoid that girl like the plague....she will come back ...but don't allow her....your experience will be worst than the former if you allow her
+you have to act like you don't give a fvck about her