all4zionlover:
What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.

He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.

Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.

The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?

Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

bonnyhope:


Your type is not needed on this matter
You home breaker that can't even face small challenges

Richy4:

Which kind vow Una swear?

That day when them ask you...Do U promise to take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaken all other,..
U opened your well brushed.. Colgate minty mouth.. Lipstick infested lips and 15 megawatts of smile and say I do.. u think say Na play u go play for there?🤭🙊

Make U stayOoo, U supposed to honour the "poorer" aspects of the vow😝

Na that AC part of the story got me laughing...Abi he no dey on AC before when he get job? How come u find it disgusting now?. make you just remove the AC and sell first before he first you remember am😂

all4zionlover:
What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.

He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.

Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.

The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?

Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

APCNig:



WHy are you spoiling our show nah. We the unrepentant fornicators and adulterers are waiting for her outside to give her good diccks and plenty STDs

Oyerinde16:
He lost his job, he wakes up eat and goes back to sleep... He gambles, he is lazy, he said he has a plan but you know he doesn't... You want to divorce him... But tomorrow if he hit it big and start balling, you will want to come back... You are only happy when he his balling, as soon as he hit ground zero, I want to leave...

Kobojunkie:
What did the man do to her?

frozen70:


If that is the case
She is not divorcing to marry another man

Its not a rocket science

Probably she wants to breath fresh air as she dey choke for the marriage

LadyG05:
This is a man that has resigned to fate. He has given up on his ability to be the Head. He needs a serious push.

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow!

emiika:


fresh air with two kids and not well paid job, single mother no easy oooo

boxypane:
You really need to make him have a session with a Therapist. This is silent depression. God forbid you come home and meet him dead o.

highchief1:
bros I no Dey like talk am.it’s everything she explained der it’s same scenario pls.when a man allows a woman to carry all the responsibilities in a house death awaits the woman,

Luckysbab:
Why do you think he doesn't see it as a problem? Cos he lies under the AC, seeming not bothered?

Richy4:

Which kind vow Una swear?

That day when them ask you...Do U promise to take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaken all other,..
U opened your well brushed.. Colgate minty mouth.. Lipstick infested lips and 15 megawatts of smile and say I do.. u think say Na play u go play for there?🤭🙊

Make U stayOoo, U supposed to honour the "poorer" aspects of the vow😝

Na that AC part of the story got me laughing...Abi he no dey on AC before when he get job? How come u find it disgusting now?. make you just remove the AC and sell first before he first you remember am😂

Kmoney4money:
You must be a joker, so men that carries women responsibilities na enjoyment await am abi.

Kobojunkie:
How is she going to make him do that if he does not even admit that the problem is real — he tells her he has a plan.

ridwintin89:

I know people that stopped gambling after swearing with Bible or Quran.The fear of curse putting on themselves with the holy book scare them from doing it again. When I was in school, four of my friends had to swear and they stopped. I refused to swear but telling you have lost over 5m to gambling. I work without having anything to show for it.Gambling kills.

highchief1:
bros I no Dey like talk am.it’s everything she explained der it’s same scenario pls.when a man allows a woman to carry all the responsibilities in a house death awaits the woman,

Mindlog:
I have worked in a Rehab where gambling addicts were part of our clientele. and we had religious leaders who are gambling addicts admitted there.

kobojunkie:
But he has yet to sell the AC and probably generator?

all4zionlover:
He can not do that. They're mine.

boxypane:
Pls he needs help. Lots of patience from the madam is required.

Richy4:

Which kind vow Una swear?

That day when them ask you...Do U promise to take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaken all other,..
U opened your well brushed.. Colgate minty mouth.. Lipstick infested lips and 15 megawatts of smile and say I do.. u think say Na play u go play for there?🤭🙊

Make U stayOoo, U supposed to honour the "poorer" aspects of the vow😝

Na that AC part of the story got me laughing...Abi he no dey on AC before when he get job? How come u find it disgusting now?. make you just remove the AC and sell first before he first you remember am😂

Autobot05:
Read your bible..The only proper reason for divorce is adultery
Your " till death do us part " vow at the altar wasn't just mere words...


Next time look before you jump into marriage. You surely will have seen the signs before marrying him but you choose to ignore

Naso una dey date/marry gamblers and drunkards and start complaining when it gets worse knowing fully well that such behaviors are bound to get worse naturally

starbn:
I don't comment here,but you need some respect to that man.any time women have power and money they tends to miss behave. You can help back in little way you if you're not already eyeing another.

Kobojunkie:
Which kain yeye questions you dey ask so? Wetin concern church with this topic? Na documents you dey use choose wife?

all4zionlover:
If I should remembered his treatment when he had a job earning salaries, all through my pregnancy, paying bills and all that then, I deserve to kill him. He has never been a caring husband and father to his children.

He has no past good record that can make me think backward and support a jobless husband.

jaxxy:
church or sm1 atleast weds both of u. So which hypogamy documents una sign?

all4zionlover:
His money before have always go into gambling.
I have tried several time to save some with me, but he didn't. By now, we would have been on the street begging and suffering if not the fact that I have been hard working on my little business. Put money in my business let it grow, he will not. Come to church and be worshipping so God can help, he will say he's not in the mood. Now, he has nothing and he's not planning on other things.