1. From experience, she is not likely to change and if she does, that might be after many troubles that might have fractured your marriage.
2. Talk to her one more time and for the last time; stating clearly how she make you feel denying you of sex. Whenever she want to talk about it after, just listen.
3. I bet you didn't disvirgin her. Sometimes that experience sticks to their head. And for some of them, it takes a long time for them to be sexually attracted to someone else. When you get the opportunity to Bleep her again, use manpower (maybe some herbs or some light drugs; just that once) don't be gentle on her at all. Make that chance count. Get Durex lubricant. Even if she doesn't get wet lube her and yourself and don't be nice at all. Dig her well. The lube will help her feel it and if she can feel it well, she will crave for more.
4. She may be using sex as a weapon to put your masculinity under her control. STOP begging her for sex! Start acting like it's no big deal anymore. And if she bring sex to you by herself, don't start acting like a simp. Still compose yourself. it's not going to be easy, but you need to let her change how she thinks of you about sex. Kings don't beg for sex. Let her prepare herself well and present sex to you honorably.
5. Stop eating her lunch/dinner. When you get home and she presents lunch/dinner to you, decline it (politely and with a smile) no matter how tasty her cooking is. Tell her you have eaten out when hunger dey wire you and that you will eat her own food next morning. Try it 3/4 times weekly. It pains women. Don't make it a fight cos she might want to. In her subconscious, the next thing you will stop eating is her precious body that you can't resist all the time. Let it become a privilege when you ask for food and sex at home. Cos they are the same.
6. Visit a doctor with her... You don't need too much medical advice. They should just prescribe medication that will boost her sex drive.
7. Don't cheat on her. Stay disciplined. Else, you will set yourself up for a disaster.
8. Pray for her libido to increase. And also pray that she doesn't have a spiritual husband. I won't say much on this.

My little advice

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Didn't you notice all these when you were still dating?

luminouz:



You masturbate while married and I wonder why did you even marry at all! Why not remain single and get your hands continue giving you joy?

You, akaahs and stevups are really suffering in your marriages and you need the redpill. After all your struggles since you were born, you deserve a marriage of peace and satisfaction. Why suffer like this for the rest of your lives?

This is so sad.

Don't talk like a sick person. Wait till you get there before you run your fingers. Women change with childbirth. But nothing changes in you. Rape her na cuz you don't want to masturbate or better still go and cheat. That one first dey your eye be that. And let me tell you, there's no justification for cheating. Go and Google the importance of masturbation

Divay22:

Masturbation and you're married?

This one is too much o

Kill her because you married her na. You think she's same person after childbirth. One of the major importance of masturbation is, it comes as a substitute where couples are afar or one indisposed at the moment. Need I remind you there's no excuse for cheating. You want to talk about abstinence? It's difficult to start practicing that in marriage especially when you keep seeing your partner of the opposite sex both when clothed and nude. Sha wait till you get there. Pray your wife is still the same after child birth

luminouz:



You masturbate while married and I wonder why did you even marry at all! Why not remain single and get your hands continue giving you joy?

You, akaahs and stevups are really suffering in your marriages and you need the redpill. After all your struggles since you were born, you deserve a marriage of peace and satisfaction. Why suffer like this for the rest of your lives?

This is so sad.

Nigga is still trying to defend himself..

Some men are already hopeless...Redpill or no redpill.

rollywise:





Kill her because you married her na. You think she's same person after childbirth. One of the major importance of masturbation is, it comes as a substitute where couples are afar or one indisposed at the moment. Need I remind you there's no excuse for cheating. You want to talk about abstinence? It's difficult to start practicing that in marriage especially when you keep seeing your partner of the opposite sex both when clothed and nude. Sha wait till you get there. Pray your wife is still the same after child birth

forget about So many on here... Alot to talk about, but they won't understand. They think it's Soap opera , the North multiple marriage favors the man. Just why the men are bent on implementing it .One was talking about Redpill, in Marriage? Lmao ,it is obvious he thinks it same with dating of multiple girls. He obviously don't know what it means, the word PEACE is taken from your home.
I was telling someone on here a good percentage of men cheat, she was bent hell telling me her man wasn't and will never. I simply laughed my ass off... It is a matter of time dude, you will soon get tired of jerking off and will be needing a young damsel. Unconsciously you begin to find your self discreetly cheating, it is what it is.
I read alot of Folks from the first Page saying shit like 'I can bet you never married her as a Virgin '
Alot of people are so naive and still hold the virgin myth to high heavens...The misconception amuse me and make me see them as a Clown.

rollywise:





Kill her because you married her na. You think she's same person after childbirth. One of the major importance of masturbation is, it comes as a substitute where couples are afar or one indisposed at the moment. Need I remind you there's no excuse for cheating. You want to talk about abstinence? It's difficult to start practicing that in marriage especially when you keep seeing your partner of the opposite sex both when clothed and nude. Sha wait till you get there. Pray your wife is still the same after child birth

Masturbation can only be important when single (at least i can agree to that) but not in marriage
You're married for crying out loud So what made you get married in the first place?
Even if not about sex but it should be part of the package
Una dey try...


Ehn, I'm not a guy.. Thank you.

Divay22:

Masturbation can only be important when single (at least i can agree to that) but not in marriage
You're married for crying out loud So what made you get married in the first place?
Even if not about sex but it should be part of the package
Una dey try...
Ehn, I'm not a guy.. Thank you.

Imagine you find yourself married to a man with low sex stamina. You go rape am whenever you are in the mood or what?

If sex is very important to you than make sure you date and marry only someone who you are sexually compatible with. Sadly, most date those kind but when it comes to marriage, they want to marry a Virgin or someone with low body count not realizing that they shoot themselves in the foot by doing that.

Kobojunkie:
Imagine you find yourself married to a man with low sex stamina. You go rape am whenever you are in the mood or what?

If sex is very important to you than make sure you date and marry only someone who you are sexually compatible with. Sadly, most date those kind but when it comes to marriage, they want to marry a Virgin or someone with low body count not realizing that they shoot themselves in the foot by doing that.

But it's rare to see a guy with low sex drive

Attraction is every thing to me... If i am attracted to you and you to me, no worry about wetin go follow... We'll always meet at the middle

Divay22:
■But it's rare to see a guy with low sex drive
■Attraction is every thing to me... If i am attracted to you and you to me, no worry about wetin go follow... We'll always meet at the middle

1. Rare? You no dey read of women, particularly for North, why dey divorce their low stamina men? Don't be deceived by the deceit that if life in Southern Nigeria where women suffer in silence.

2. Na so e dey take happen. There are lots of women who went in on attraction alone,only to end up without sex for many many years. I recently heard from one woman whose husband didn't touch her for over 5 years. Eventually, she went seeking elsewhere.

rollywise:





Don't talk like a sick person. Wait till you get there before you run your fingers. Women change with childbirth. But nothing changes in you. Rape her na cuz you don't want to masturbate or better still go and cheat. That one first dey your eye be that. And let me tell you, there's no justification for cheating. Go and Google the importance of masturbation

I will add you to the list of finished men. You are so rollydûmb. You were even defending your choice to masturbate as well as condone such ill treatment?

Please, is your mum alive? Maybe your sister? Anyone I can reach to help you out urgently because this is not normal anymore. Even ladies here said so. Kai



rollywise,akaahs, stevups...biko join the redpill

4ward4:


forget about So many on here... Alot to talk about, but they won't understand. They think it's Soap opera , the North multiple marriage favors the man. Just why the men are bent on implementing it .One was talking about Redpill, in Marriage? Lmao ,it is obvious he thinks it same with dating of multiple girls. He obviously don't know what it means, the word PEACE is taken from your home.
I was telling someone on here a good percentage of men cheat, she was bent hell telling me her man wasn't and will never. I simply laughed my ass off... It is a matter of time dude, you will soon get tired of jerking off and will be needing a young damsel. Unconsciously you begin to find your self discreetly cheating, it is what it is.
I read alot of Folks from the first Page saying shit like 'I can bet you never married her as a Virgin '
Alot of people are so naive and still hold the virgin myth to high heavens...The misconception amuse me and make me see them as a Clown.

Stop talking please. Haven't you embarrassed yourself enough? Jeez!

Divay22:

Nigga is still trying to defend himself..

Some men are already hopeless...Redpill or no redpill.

I realize I can't save everyone. There must be losers. Imagine me wey get high libido come meet correct babe like you wey like me... Na kerewa till your kukunase hot na

luminouz:

Stop talking please. Haven't you embarrassed yourself enough? Jeez!

I see you aren't married, so shut up...

4ward4:


I see you aren't married, so shut up...

See you forming jagaban?

Kobojunkie:
She is not malfunctioning at all. OP met her as is. Instead of marrying a woman with ashawo stamina like himself, OP married his wife thinking he can change or train her same foolishness most men and women do only to end up regretting it about 83% of the time.

Every newly married couples are supposed to have lots of sex. They are both supposed to satisfy each other equally, if one does not satisfy the other then its either that partner is getting it better outside or there is something wrong with that partner.

enonche85:
■ Every newly married couples are supposed to have lots of sex.
■ They are both supposed to satisfy each other equally, if one does not satisfy the other then its either that partner is getting it better outside or there is something wrong with that partner.

1. That is only in your head abeg. Reality is instead that many don't even marry for purpose of sex but companionship.

2. You cannot squeeze your kind of gold out of stone. Given that most couples become intimate during the dating period and also understand each others sexual stamina from then, it does not then make sense to expect that stamina to suddenly increase, simply because you you it so, after marriage. If you then decide to get your needs met outside you pretty much violated your marriage agreement at that point. So a better way to avoid a repeat of what is witnessed in over 83% of such unequal unions in Nigeria by picking and marrying only that woman you are sexually compatible with? .

PPIA:

Check Jumia or Konga


"Spanish Gold Fly"

Any similar product you can recommend for men?

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Just say bye bye to your marriage

Mindlog:
What do you want to be told?

pray and fast against temptation

Ladymillion:
pray and fast against temptation

CHEEEZZZUUS!!!

Divay22:

Masturbation can only be important when single (at least i can agree to that) but not in marriage
You're married for crying out loud So what made you get married in the first place?
Even if not about sex but it should be part of the package
Una dey try...


Ehn, I'm not a guy.. Thank you.

Then wait till you get married. I just dey laugh. Just pray your body can carry you . And also pray your hubby chooses masturbation over following other women.

luminouz:


I will add you to the list of finished men. You are so rollydûmb. You were even defending your choice to masturbate as well as condone such ill treatment?

Please, is your mum alive? Maybe your sister? Anyone I can reach to help you out urgently because this is not normal anymore. Even ladies here said so. Kai



rollywise,akaahs, stevups...biko join the redpill

This kid is obviously sick. You think marriage is bet9ja or child's play? Don't add to the number of men their wives killed in their sleep for cheating when you get married. If you not married, and you can't take notes when married people talk, then you must really bea fool.

rollywise:






This kid is obviously sick. You think marriage is bet9ja or child's play? Don't add to the number of men their wives killed in their sleep for cheating when you get married. If you not married, and you can't take notes when married people talk, then you must really bea fool.

Kai....even when I tried to help you, you still refuse to learn. What lessons do I take from a simp who has a wife yet beats his own meat...because his wife drives him away like someone with dried shiit on his nose.

I will never understand why you are so angry at me but still somehow defend the treatment your wife gives you at home. Don't you think you are misdirecting your energy? This is the woman you married and paid bride price on oh!

I may be a fool, but I have NEVER been rejected by a woman I am dating to the extent of using Lux and my ten fingers to ease my stress.

This is my last reply. I wish you well brother. The door of the redpill is open to you. Come in before you drown

luminouz:


Kai....even when I tried to help you, you still refuse to learn. What lessons do I take from a simp who has a wife yet beats his own meat...because his wife drives him away like someone with dried shiit on his nose.

I will never understand why you are so angry at me but still somehow defend the treatment your wife gives you at home. Don't you think you are misdirecting your energy? This is the woman you married and paid bride price on oh!

I may be a fool, but I have NEVER been rejected by a woman I am dating to the extent of using Lux and my ten fingers to ease my stress.

This is my last reply. I wish you well brother. The door of the redpill is open to you. Come in before you drown

I have even been chatting with a kid probably still under his parents roof. Online no let person know who dey crase from who normal.

rollywise:






This kid is obviously sick. You think marriage is bet9ja or child's play? Don't add to the number of men their wives killed in their sleep for cheating when you get married. If you not married, and you can't take notes when married people talk, then you must really bea fool.

D more reason i didn't reply him.

Kobojunkie:
1. That is only in your head abeg. Reality is instead that many don't even marry for purpose of sex but companionship.

2. You cannot squeeze your kind of gold out of stone. Given that most couples become intimate during the dating period and also understand each others sexual stamina from then, it does not then make sense to expect that stamina to suddenly increase, simply because you you it so, after marriage. If you then decide to get your needs met outside you pretty much violated your marriage agreement at that point. So a better way to avoid a repeat of what is witnessed in over 83% of such unequal unions in Nigeria by picking and marrying only that woman you are sexually compatible with? .

You are obviously very young and not so experienced in women matter. A woman that's desperate for you to wife her will satisfy all your sexual fantasies, she will give you cowboy style, reverse cowboy style, helicopter style and even deep throat style. You will expect to live in conjugal bliss for a long time (at least 10 years), only to wife her and she metamorphosize to a log of wood a few weeks after the ceremony. I have seen it multiple times. Up to 65% of women fake orgasm with up to 15% never ever experience ogasm

The man is either forced to get a side chick, patronise olosho or marry a second wife.


I am in agreement with the blue quote. The problem is that you might not know her sexual incompatibility until its too late. So moralists insists on no sex before marriage.

akaahs:

D more reason i didn't reply him.

The problem is there's no way to separate children from adults in social media so everybody just talk so long they can afford a cheap data

wirinet:
■You are obviously very young and not so experienced in women matter. A woman that's desperate for you to wife her will satisfy all your sexual fantasies, she will give you cowboy style, reverse cowboy style, helicopter style and even deep throat style. You will expect to live in conjugal bliss for a long time (at least 10 years), only to wife her and she metamorphosize to a log of wood a few weeks after the ceremony. I have seen it multiple times. Up to 65% of women fake orgasm with up to 15% never ever experience ogasm. The man is either forced to get a side chick, patronise olosho or marry a second wife.
■ I am in agreement with the blue quote. The problem is that you might not know her sexual incompatibility until its too late. So moralists insists on no sex before marriage.

1. What you described is near impossible for a majority of women out there to do, why? Because a woman's libido is not something she can turn on and off as she pleases. No, these things are hormone-driven and as such beyond her direct control. She could maybe load up on aphrodisiacs to get herself wound up but even the effect of that wanes over time. So, it is a thing of excuse for a man to claim ignorance of whether or not he is sexually compatible with a woman he has been having sex with.

2. If you believe the stuff you cobbled up in the first part of your response, then it makes no sense that you agree to this other part of my response then given that you are convinced that women are able to trick you into being they are sexually compatible with you during the dating period.

Kobojunkie:
1. What you described is near impossible for a majority of women out there to do, why? Because a woman's libido is not something she can turn on and off as she pleases. No, these things are hormone-driven and as such beyond her direct control. She could maybe load up on aphrodisiacs to get herself wound up but even the effect of that wanes over time. So, it is a thing of excuse for a man to claim ignorance of whether or not he is sexually compatible with a woman he has been having sex with.

2. If you believe the stuff you cobbled up in the first part of your response, then it makes no sense that you agree to this other part of my response then given that you are convinced that women are able to trick you into being they are sexually compatible with you during the dating period.

It's not what believe, its what I know. A very good childhood friend came to my office about 20 years complaining that he is sexually frustrated, that before he married his wife, they did it every other day, but just 2 years after marriage he only gets in once or twice a month. He said he is considering getting another wife, and truly her got another luckily he is a Muslim. His father who was a very senior Imam in Lagos was against marrying another wife. His father remained faithful to his mother until he passed away.

Another example is my dentist. He married a very fine South African lady. But he got a side chick to make up for his sexual frustrations. And the side chick didn't come cheap. He has invited me to a bar to introduce his side chick to me. I know the wife very well.

I have been around this earth to see a lot. Because of my nature people tend to open up to me.


Look unless we don't like to tell ourselves the truth. Sexual problems are responsible for a lot of broken or split homes.

See this report of the percentage of women that fake orgaism just to deceive their partner.

wirinet:
■ It's not what believe, its what I know. A very good childhood friend came to my office about 20 years complaining that he is sexually frustrated, that before he married his wife, they did it every other day, but just 2 years after marriage he only gets in once or twice a month. He said he is considering getting another wife, and truly her got another luckily he is a Muslim. His father who was a very senior Imam in Lagos was against marrying another wife. His father remained faithful to his mother until he passed away. Another example is my dentist. He married a very fine South African lady. But he got a side chick to make up for his sexual frustrations. And the side chick didn't come cheap. He has invited me to a bar to introduce his side chick to me. I know the wife very well.
■ I have been around this earth to see a lot. Because of my nature people tend to open up to me. Look unless we don't like to tell ourselves the truth. Sexual problems are responsible for a lot of broken or split homes. See this report of the percentage of women that fake orgaism just to deceive their partner.

1. These analogies of yours don't fit at all since they do not include mention of possible issues that may have, for instance, happened during the first two years of your friend's marriage to result in the change in the sexual relationship between himself and his wife. It is a leap to accuse the women of acting as though sex mavens all so they could get their marriage badges.

2. Women are reported to mostly have fake orgasms in order to soothe the egos of their partners. So why are they to blame for trying to do the best they can for the sake of the relationship as well?

Femmyfamous4u:


I do not enjoy sex with condoms. more so, I feel it is too early in marriage

Too early, not even ideal...can you believe this guy?!