You are just selfish from this your message "Even if I heat him,He should just be silent"

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

professing you will never forgive someone you intend spending the rest of your life with is gross, knowing well that total forgiveness is what makes most healthy marriages. All of you will always complain that you won't take it if your husband marries another wife but you will accept oni of ife's proposal any day any time. shio

IyaebeTheGreat:
Doni have to wait till I get married to know what I can and can’t take?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

you'll raise your filthy weak arms against your benefactor? Are you plain dumb or this is deliberate?

koladata:
professing you will never forgive someone you intend spending the rest of your life with is gross, knowing well that total forgiveness is what makes most healthy marriages. All of you will always complain that you won't take it if your husband marries another wife but you will accept oni of ife's proposal any day any time. shio

Dy play but a man is free to hurt his wife where it pains her the most

WantsandMore:
you'll raise your filthy weak arms against your benefactor? Are you plain dumb or this is deliberate?

When your senses are back let me know. Very toxic men on this forum

marrying another woman is not suppose to be hurtful but the society reconfigured your thinking, polygamy is already everywhere , women are now accepting side chicks at some point they realise they can't Bleep him alone. is that not a different form of polygamy?. but side chick will only bring you the wife deceases in the long run , but if you accept a second wife , you life can be easier because that's your second helper.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Dy play but a man is free to hurt his wife where it pains her the most

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is still not true, why did Yul Edochie secretly married a second wife after having a loyal, supportive and respectful wife for over 17yrs? He just simply believe that his wife being a simple woman will tolerate and accept every dirt he throws at her.

i don want to hear yul edochie again aaahh

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

pls stfu.....don't dish out what u can't take back...which nonsense glory are you talking about ,don't you think same damages the husband also ? Like what demon in a female will push her to lay hand on her man and be expecting bobo juice treatment in return?

If i have female kids i will help them understand that neva should they lay their hands on their man except they are ready for a fist fight cos all this noise of equality only when it's convenient wouldn't cut it .

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Were you living with them?
Many marriages have cracks but many will never tell you.
Unexpected divorce and other marital issues arise from the above

greatermax77:


Were you living with them?
Many marriages have cracks but many will never tell you.
Unexpected divorce and other marital issues arise from the above

Yul openly told us that his wife was a blessing to him, that she agreed to manage with him even when he had nothing , so there was no crack. Yul only took advantage of her kindness and payed her back with evil

RealEzee:
pls stfu.....don't dish out what u can't take back...which nonsense glory are you talking about ,don't you think same damages the husband also ? Like what demon in a female will push her to lay hand on her man and be expecting bobo juice treatment in return?

If i have female kids i will help them understand that neva should they lay their hands on their man except they are ready for a fist fight cos all this noise of equality only when it's convenient wouldn't cut it .

You don’t understand spirituality, women are spiritual being, you don’t hit them. If as a husband you hit your wife(even if she hits you first which I don’t support) you’ll experience a serious setback in life. Ask and you shall find answers to what I’m saying

IyaebeTheGreat:
Away from politics helps your blood level. Get out of this place

Make that blood level choke you

After throlling obidients abi?

Ya mad!

SenatePresdo:


Make that blood level choke you

After throlling obidients abi?

Ya mad!

but I’m not done yet. I’ll be done after the guber elections

If I'm a woman, I can't forgive a man that will not take care of his family. In fact, I won't want to be friend with a man that can't take care of his family. Such men have failed in my book. But again, I won't fall for such a man in the first place.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

If I meet Anthony Joshua and give him a blow on his nose, should he give me the silent treatment because I'm weaker and shorter and fatter and broker?

IyaebeTheGreat:
but I’m not done yet. I’ll be done after the guber elections

See how you're being disgraced, embarrassed and rubbish in every section.

pansophist:


If I meet Anthony Joshua and give up a blow on his nose, should he give me the silent treatment because I'm weaker and shorter and fatter and broker?

A wife is the subject of discussion here and I won’t expect same reaction from other men who may choose to react harshly.

IyaebeTheGreat:
A wife is the subject of discussion here and I won’t expect same reaction from other men who may choose to react harshly.

The dynamic is what I'm alluding to. If you can't give it, don't take it. It's that simple. The idea that you can hit a man and he should ignore, but if he reacts, you focus on his aggression, instead of yours, is a different level of madness.

Allardyce:
See how you're being disgraced, embarrassed and rubbish in every section.

Faber stop using alternates to constitute nuisance on this forum. Let’s limit our fights to politics section alone.

Msteeeeew...

Rubbish thread, if you like don't forgive, he will dump you and marry another wife

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Because my mother born me because of you baa?

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Where u staying with them?

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Were you there? How did you know she is respectful?

Pakwel:


You'll want equality. But you don't want what cames with it.. if you hit me as your husband. Guaranty no jokes oh . I'll hit you back to reset your sense.. one thing for sure I'll never hit you first..mumu talk say make him give you silent treatment. You don turn am to boy boy now

in the ancient days it was a taboo and still is in some places for a woman to hit a man.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do you know she was respectful, loyal, and submissive?

[quote author=burp18 post=121725756]You're wrong. A man who loves you will do anything to keep you. He'll practically worship you if respect and treat him good. I think the reason couples are falling out of love with each other is not the absence of love but the absence of respect. If you respect your partner. There are things you wouldn't ordinarily ever think of doing to them because you know it'd hurt them.[/quote100%

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Are you living with them?
It's not wise judging another marriage from outside.

jattopeter:
You are just selfish from this your message "Even if I heat him,He should just be silent"

And she's to quick to judge Yul

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Of all human beings to use as reference, it's Yul Idoche who is basking in the euphoria of fame. Why not look at your father and mother. Haven't they set a good example for you? Has your father failed too like Yul Idoche?

Despite all this demands from Nigerian women, paternity fraud is still a celebrity, why?

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Being polygamous is not an offence or sinful