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Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 16, 2023
Nigerian women can afford to be ugly and average looking for the sole reason that men across all races are thirsty,and so far a woman has Vagina, she'll always get attention and favor. But it's a different reality for you men, especially when you decided to relocate to a western country.

Nigerian men Will always believe it's their lack of money that has consistently keep sex away from them, but the big issue is look. Yes, look. It's until they Japa to western countries where women don't really need urgent 2k to fuvk you (not that these women don't want money either, but they're doing pretty fine and better than the average man financially, so e get the kind money wey you go have that will convince them) that these guys eventually get to realize that they suck in term of look. See, your look is very important in this abroad. I've constantly chyked women without success and I've missed out on a lot of them who has papers, but get disappointed in my look upon meeting (I do chyked on dating website). If my look is better, I might probably get to date one of them and find means to solidify my stay.

A close friend also introduced me to a beautiful Rwanda babe looking for husband. She's already a Canadian PR. This girl couldn't even gave me a chance because of my look. I'm below 6ft and a little bit fat. Plus my face card is below average.

Nigerian men are highly deluded, thinking women of all races want them for being black. Frustration await a lot of them

But it's not 100% true that Nigerian women look better than the men. It is just that women, no matter how they look, anywhere, will always get sexual attention, because men across all races are thirsty and men generally don't fuvk with beauty the way women obsess about handsomeness of men

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Banilla: 6:49pm On Mar 16, 2023
Black men who call black women unattractive are extremely stupid... The irony of how you inherited your West Africa features from your father and mother. You and the women you're trying so shamelessly hard to bring down look alike... I don't know if your problem is foolishness or insecurity. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nawttiboi007(m): 6:53pm On Mar 16, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Ballzproblem2: 7:03pm On Mar 16, 2023
I already have the mindset that women abroad won't chase you if don't look good,that's why I plan to start hitting gym before o think of japaring ,but note that's not the main reason just side benefit ,I think men should hit gym to boost their confidence, increase stamina in bed etc instead of relying on drugs

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by HeartlessMan: 7:13pm On Mar 16, 2023
Both men and women are undesirable.
Black men even have better chances than black women because some junkie bitch may still want you for you big prick or protection.

But you see Naija women. Nothing to offer.
Everything they are, Akata get am pass dem. Nigerian women are at the very bottom of this barrel, trust me.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 16, 2023
Ballzproblem2:
I already have the mindset that women abroad won't chase you if don't look good,that's why I plan to start hitting gym before o think of japaring ,but note that's not the main reason just side benefit ,I think men should hit gym to boost their confidence, increase stamina in bed etc instead of relying on drugs

Take care of your face too. If you're fat, lose some weight. Try as much as you can to be slim in a healthy way

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 16, 2023
Banilla:
Black men who call black women unattractive are extremely stupid... The irony of how you inherited your West Africa features from your father and mother. You and the women you're trying so shamelessly hard to bring down look alike... I don't know if your problem is foolishness or insecurity. undecided

Ok
Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 7:17pm On Mar 16, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Both men and women are undesirable.
Black men even have better chances than black women because some junkie bitch may still want you for you big prick or protection.

But you see Naija women. Nothing to offer.
Everything they are, Akata get am pass dem. Nigerian women are at the very bottom of this barrel, trust me.

But these women still have white men chasing them. Believe me, Men have no value. Too thirsty

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by HeartlessMan: 7:20pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:


But these women still have white men chasing them. Believe me, Men have no value. Too thirsty

Which women?
You must be joking.

If your friends told you that, they lied. grin
Naija women are lonely abroad. Even lesbians don't find them attractive.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Ballzproblem2: 7:25pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:


Take care of your face too. If you're fat, lose some weight. Try as much as you can to be slim in a healthy way
I'm not fat bro stop mixing me with yourself,all I need is to freshen up and in good to go , I'm tall I just want to gym to get body
Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by traihit: 7:27pm On Mar 16, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Both men and women are undesirable.
Black men even have better chances than black women because some junkie bitch may still want you for you big prick or protection.

But you see Naija women. Nothing to offer.
Everything they are, Akata get am pass dem. Nigerian women are at the very bottom of this barrel, trust me.

If you're undesirable, just own up and shown your undesirability. Not everyone will be like you.

And if you loathe the fact that you're dark skinned so much, there are bleaching cream though you might be in risk of skin cancer.

It's not the skin that really matters, it's the brain and instead of overworking your skin and look (which actually matters), work more on your brain and character.

The capitalists who own the modern society don't really have good looks as such but they're "well-brained". So, be brainy!

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by siofra(f): 8:38pm On Mar 16, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Both men and women are undesirable.
Black men even have better chances than black women because some junkie bitch may still want you for you big prick or protection.

But you see Naija women. Nothing to offer.
Everything they are, Akata get am pass dem. Nigerian women are at the very bottom of this barrel, trust me.

But you still lust and simp after them.

Nnamdi why

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by siofra(f): 8:39pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:


But these women still have white men chasing them. Believe me, Men have no value. Too thirsty

Have you considered the fact that your grammar and personality may be a huge turn off too

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Kobojunkie: 8:43pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:
■ Nigerian men are highly deluded, thinking women of all races want them for being black. Frustration await a lot of them But it's not 100% true that Nigerian women look better than the men. It is just that women, no matter how they look, anywhere, will always get sexual attention, because men across all races are thirsty and men generally don't fuvk with beauty the way women obsess about handsomeness of men
1. I actually believe both Nigerian men and women ought to pay close attention to their appearances in this case. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Rodimi20000000: 8:50pm On Mar 16, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by luminouz(m): 8:57pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:
Nigerian women can afford to be ugly and average looking for the sole reason that men across all races are thirsty,and so far a woman has Vagina, she'll always get attention and favor. But it's a different reality for you men, especially when you decided to relocate to a western country.

Nigerian men Will always believe it's their lack of money that has consistently keep sex away from them, but the big issue is look. Yes, look. It's until they Japa to western countries where women don't really need urgent 2k to fuvk you (not that these women don't want money either, but they're doing pretty fine and better than the average man financially, so e get the kind money wey you go have that will convince them) that these guys eventually get to realize that they suck in term of look. See, your look is very important in this abroad. I've constantly chyked women without success and I've missed out on a lot of them who has papers, but get disappointed in my look upon meeting (I do chyked on dating website). If my look is better, I might probably get to date one of them and find means to solidify my stay.

A close friend also introduced me to a beautiful Rwanda babe looking for husband. She's already a Canadian PR. This girl couldn't even gave me a chance because of my look. I'm below 6ft and a little bit fat. Plus my face card is below average.

Nigerian men are highly deluded, thinking women of all races want them for being black. Frustration await a lot of them

But it's not 100% true that Nigerian women look better than the men. It is just that women, no matter how they look, anywhere, will always get sexual attention, because men across all races are thirsty and men generally don't fuvk with beauty the way women obsess about handsomeness of men

Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well?

Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?

A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. undecided undecided...



Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by luminouz(m): 9:01pm On Mar 16, 2023
traihit:


If you're undesirable, just own up and shown your undesirability. Not everyone will be like you.

And if you loathe the fact that you're dark skinned so much, there are bleaching cream though you might be in risk of skin cancer.

It's not the skin that really matters, it's the brain and instead of overworking your skin and look (which actually matters), work more on your brain and character.

The capitalists who own the modern society don't really have good looks as such but they're "well-brained". So, be brainy!
He never talked about skin colour bro. Read his message again. He was even talking more of the fact that many girls out there are more beautiful and many guys have options.

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by luminouz(m): 9:02pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:


But these women still have white men chasing them. Believe me, Men have no value. Too thirsty

Lmaooo...Kai. rejection from females have reformatted your brain waves.

Wa wa aiit!
Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by InfinityFabric: 9:17pm On Mar 16, 2023
After 100 or $120K, you're not ugly anymore. Except for big cities tho where it's like $250K.
But who goes to these degenerate societies anyway ?!
Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Kobojunkie: 9:25pm On Mar 16, 2023
luminouz:
■ Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well? Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?
■ A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. undecided undecided...
Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected. undecided
1. She may appear shallow to you but it would be dishonest to suggest that out here in the west, looks don't matter a whole lot. Even in Nigeria, it also does but here, if you look unkempt, you are likely not to get any feed unless from those who look equally as you do. undecided

2. Stop right there. No sane woman will want to connect emotionally with a man who is a turn-off at first sight. Go on your dating apps to see that men apply the same metrics as far as women even on there when it comes to finding love. undecided

3. That mindset is the reason why many Nigerians remain single here for longer than others. You cannot continue as you were believing someone will eventually find you attractive. That rarely works and is a core reason why many of even our Nigerian women remain single abroad. You have to update your look so you look the part abroad. Update your looks, your mind, and even your intonation if you want to mingle and find a mate. Unless of course, you will go bury yourself in a Nigerian church somewhere in hopes that one lonely Nigerian man or woman who was rejected outside will find you there. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by shantti(m): 9:43pm On Mar 16, 2023
Nonsense
If u can't accept me like this, just know you've lost a treasure

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Banilla: 9:44pm On Mar 16, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Both men and women are undesirable.
Black men even have better chances than black women because some junkie bitch may still want you for you big prick or protection.

But you see Naija women. Nothing to offer.
Everything they are, Akata get am pass dem. Nigerian women are at the very bottom of this barrel, trust me.
Lmao.

If Nigerian women abroad want sex, they would easily get it.... There are as much sex starved Nigerian men... So even if foreign men wouldn't have them, they still have options... grin

But if you had enough sense or you were atleast exposed, you would know what most Nigerian women abroad want is companionship, long term relationships and not casual hookups. That's why they complain about being 'lonely' not 'hõrny' ... Huge difference! grin

Nigerian women are the ones rejecting their country men for not being good enough... grin

Black men are less likely to find a partner, especially if it's for sex unless she's white trash... Black women can still get laid, the issue they have is that no one wants to really date them. White men would rarely commit. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by shantti(m): 9:47pm On Mar 16, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 9:47pm On Mar 16, 2023
siofra:


Have you considered the fact that your grammar and personality may be a huge turn off too

No, women don't care about any personality or grammar. They care about your looks o. You can be a jerk, a woman beater, an irresponsible man, poor, without any goals in life, so far you're good looking, you are good, when it comes to women

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Nobody: 9:50pm On Mar 16, 2023
Banilla:
Lmao.

If Nigerian women abroad want sex, they would easily get it.... There are as much sex starved Nigerian men... So even if foreign men wouldn't have them, they still have options... grin

But if you had enough sense or you were atleast exposed, you would know what most Nigerian women abroad want is companionship, long term relationships and not casual hookups. That's why they complain about being 'lonely' not 'hõrny' ... Huge difference! grin

Nigerian women are the ones rejecting their country men for not being good enough... grin

Black men are less likely to find a partner, especially if it's for sex unless she's white trash... Black women can still get laid, the issue they have is that no one wants to really date them. White men would rarely commit. undecided

God bless you. You've been able to simplify my post better

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Banilla: 9:50pm On Mar 16, 2023
HeartlessMan:


Which women?
You must be joking.

If your friends told you that, they lied. grin
Naija women are lonely abroad. Even lesbians don't find them attractive.
You're contradicting yourself. undecided

Have you ever seen Nigerian women complain about the unavailability of sex wherever they are? Nigerian men do so. This has to be the second thread this week. undecided

Wanting sex is different from wanting a relationship...

Most Nigerian women aren't lesbians... Maybe you would change your sexuality (from straight to gay) if you're hõrny enough, not everyone is you. undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Mercury12(m): 9:52pm On Mar 16, 2023
Rest abeg. Your look is your look as long as you fit and healthy you good to go.
Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Banilla: 9:54pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:


God bless you. You've been able to simplify my post better
He's just trying to console himself.

No matter what a woman is or where she is, she can always get laid.

According to him, white women who are drug addicts get laid... Why can't the Nigerian women who are studying or working abroad? Except most act like they are demigods (unattainable) and I can't blame them. grin

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Kobojunkie: 9:59pm On Mar 16, 2023
shantti:
Nonsense
If u can't accept me like this, just know you've lost a treasure
EEEEEEWWWWWWW!!!! grin

Put a warning next time abeg!! That thing shock me! grin

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Re: Nigerian Men, Take Care Of Your LOOK Before You Japa;my Experience by Kobojunkie: 10:01pm On Mar 16, 2023
Manydays01:
■ No, women don't care about any personality or grammar. They care about your looks o. You can be a jerk, a woman beater, an irresponsible man, poor, without any goals in life, so far you're good looking, you are good, when it comes to women
1. On the contrary, they do. Even Nigerian women abroad care about such things. undecided

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