Kobojunkie:
1. Are you insinuating that men also don't?

Looks are very important particularly in these climes where the standard is much higher than the one you are coming from.

Kobojunkie:
How so?

bukatyne:
■@bold: I laugh when I read Nigerians especially women who think Nigerian men are 'demanding' when it comes to looks & Western men are better. Like you rightly said, the average Nigerian needs to 'Behind' up in addition to other things if they want to succeed in the foreign dating market.

Manydays01:
Nigerian women can afford to be ugly and average looking for the sole reason that men across all races are thirsty,and so far a woman has Vagina, she'll always get attention and favor. But it's a different reality for you men, especially when you decided to relocate to a western country.

Nigerian men Will always believe it's their lack of money that has consistently keep sex away from them, but the big issue is look. Yes, look. It's until they Japa to western countries where women don't really need urgent 2k to fuvk you (not that these women don't want money either, but they're doing pretty fine and better than the average man financially, so e get the kind money wey you go have that will convince them) that these guys eventually get to realize that they suck in term of look. See, your look is very important in this abroad. I've constantly chyked women without success and I've missed out on a lot of them who has papers, but get disappointed in my look upon meeting (I do chyked on dating website). If my look is better, I might probably get to date one of them and find means to solidify my stay.

A close friend also introduced me to a beautiful Rwanda babe looking for husband. She's already a Canadian PR. This girl couldn't even gave me a chance because of my look. I'm below 6ft and a little bit fat. Plus my face card is below average.

Nigerian men are highly deluded, thinking women of all races want them for being black. Frustration await a lot of them

But it's not 100% true that Nigerian women look better than the men. It is just that women, no matter how they look, anywhere, will always get sexual attention, because men across all races are thirsty and men generally don't fuvk with beauty the way women obsess about handsomeness of men

Bonjovi13:


Self confidence, charm, swags and great fashion sense is the secret of snagging women. Looks helps but it isn't a major factor,cos 98% of women would date a facially ugly man with the above qualities over a very handsome guy, who lacks them.

You are not getting women because you already have a self deprecating complex about your looks, this would affect your confidence and consequently affect how you approach and relate with women.

Women can easily sense a man that lacks self confidence and self esteem and would not hesitate to reject their poor advances.

Learn how to have positive self image, invest in good fashion that complements you, work on your pick up techniques, learn how to tease , flatter and appreciate women. There is a psychology every man needs to know to successfully be a woman magnet. Learn it and you will get women falling for you all over the world

juman:


Invest in Africa?
Easier to say.
But much easier to lose the investment through stealing from those in charge unless one relocate to africa to handle the investment.

Johndoh:

lol! Your head go correct by the time you reach there.
Lots of my friends are complaining about not being able to get a date in Europe. Some in Cyprus while some are in the UK.
See the op is 100% correct. Girls abroad don’t just hop into any needless relationships or semi-hookups like girls do here in Naija.
Most of the girls there are doing so fine in life (even tho they mostly still live with their parents at 30 going to fourty as long as they’re still single except those earning above £50k sha).
So, that said, they have standards in what they go for in terms of looks and physique. Unlike here in nigeria, where we are still respectful and considerate, they over there will not give two f*cks about your feelings, they’d let you know asap that you’re not looking human as they are. They could cringe in your face while trying to woo them.
They’ve got too many options that’s why. Lots of poor handsome half cast around, lots of rich white good looking dudes, and also a handful of superbly attractive Arab and brown people could be seen as well.
The race that suffers this whole thing are the blacks and sometimes the Asians such as the Chinese and japs (especially with white or half cast girls knowing so well they mostly bare a small gbola).
Before arguing any further, why don’t you ask how far from your guy in UK or EU how they’re coping when it comes to wooing any (non-african) girl over there.
Hope this helps.

Tonymegabush1:



No matter how we all clive for abroad l/western countries migration home is home...
I can't make all money i made while abroad without investing in my own country home. Yes we might be experiencing all ill manner of deprivation but still come on things we turn out for good.

My home is my identity

Mercury12:


My point is there is nothing one can do about ones looks.
As long as a man eats good food and stay fit and healthy then no problem.
It is foolishness to go under the knife just to change facial structure or features for any reason. Why should anyone go that length if they not suffering from low self esteem

shantti:
Nonsense
If u can't accept me like this, just know you've lost a treasure

juman:


Of course home is home.
But it make no sense to throw away hard earned money.

Even one's parents might not be reliable to handle the investment talkless of the siblings or family members or friends or employees from outside.

Maybe lot of checks and balances may help.

Kobojunkie:
Na for Nigeria all that una lists dey work

luminouz:


Don't agree with you. You seem to think na so these oyinbo girls fine? Lmaooooo... They are not fine...so only a dude who knows his value will run after them. Na simps wey konji wan kill dey talk your story.

Sure culture is different, but a true G should see a girl who likes his vibes in the first six months abroad. But then, no be pussy everyone go abroad to find

Tonymegabush1:
Go abroad. Make your money in peace and invest in Africa........

luminouz:


Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well?

Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?

A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. ...



Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected.

luminouz:


Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well?

Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?

A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. ...



Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected.

luminouz:


Leave that dude/dudess to be saying whatever. One girl just died on FP doing BBL to impress other people. If everyone needs plastic surgery to boost their egos and look 'ideal' and not 'real', make we kuku dey do am from inside the mama womb na...

I like how you male on this forum go defensive and pensive when you get called out. Oh I enjoy your selective morality and body positivity you display too albeit very hypocritical of you lots. So now here you are joining in the "You are beautiful the way you are" chorus because the body shaming is directed at your gender when few days ago you lots dropped your derogatory and ill thought out opinions on a thread about "fat women" that was created on this section. Your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens! I'm touched BTW, beautiful voice you've got singing that song

Leave the lady that died out of your foolery! Men like you are responsible for her decision. Face the fact that people don't find your marsh potatoes faces and your amoebic structures pleasing in other part of the world. This isn't about NIGERIAN WOMEN but NIGERIAN MEN!

SO REST!

Persephone1:
I like how you male on this forum go defensive and pensive when you get called out. Oh I enjoy your selective morality and body positivity you display too albeit very hypocritical of you lots. So now here you are joining in the "You are beautiful the way you are" chorus because the body shaming is directed at your gender when few days ago you lots dropped your derogatory and ill thought out opinions on a thread about "fat women" that was created on this section. Your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens! I'm touched BTW, beautiful voice you've got singing that song

Leave the lady that died out of your foolery! Men like you are responsible for her decision. Face the fact that people don't find your marsh potatoes faces and your amoebic structures pleasing in other part of the world. This isn't about NIGERIAN WOMEN but NIGERIAN MEN!

SO REST!

Manydays01:


Nigerian women don't look any better. In fact, their look suck too. But they have one advantage;men are thirsty and don't care about look like women actually does

You mistake me for one who is interested in your frivolity

luminouz:


Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well?

Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?

A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. ...



Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected.

Mercury12:
Rest abeg. Your look is your look as long as you fit and healthy you good to go.

Came4amod:



Guy how you is not as important as how you communicate .. and when they is chemistry .. fat short people get married and have beautiful wives too .. we all different strengths and weaknesses

Okonandmary:
Only working-class and unemployed people waste their time in the gym. anyway, the gym has to make money so they will create a trend targeting working-class and unemployed people

There is a video of an ugly white man and a beautiful model enjoying their time on a yacht in Dubai

I am 100% sure the man took care of his benjamins, everything is all about the benjamins.

Persephone1:
I like how you male on this forum go defensive and pensive when you get called out. Oh I enjoy your selective morality and body positivity you display too albeit very hypocritical of you lots. So now here you are joining in the "You are beautiful the way you are" chorus because the body shaming is directed at your gender when few days ago you lots dropped your derogatory and ill thought out opinions on a thread about "fat women" that was created on this section. Your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens! I'm touched BTW, beautiful voice you've got singing that song

Leave the lady that died out of your foolery! Men like you are responsible for her decision. Face the fact that people don't find your marsh potatoes faces and your amoebic structures pleasing in other part of the world. This isn't about NIGERIAN WOMEN but NIGERIAN MEN!

SO REST!

1Sharon:





So you expect women to just take you as you are?

Do you men take women as they are or do you approach the one you feel is the most beautiful?

Look at how nigerian men insulted Eniola Badmus, not until she lost weight. Una be hypocrites.

Mercury12:



Abeg do your plastic surgery in peace