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myyansh68:
If you can't stay faithful better stay single and continue with the cheat.

Relationship is expensive even without Money.

This is a guy and you

Belong to the street

Marriage is not for you guys

onumadu:

ROTFL SO HARD.
Damn!
And I thought I was being blunt!

The guy and his gbola deserve to be in porn industry

They will register him asap

ChngedChnges:
Guy you don mad

Marriage isn’t for every man

And one guy on this thread just prove that

Kindly sign up to be a porn star

Not be hypocritical to hide under the shell of marriage

Wordsfrombimpe:
This your assumption of a cheating partner dey make me laugh

You failed in the assumption

If you can’t tear your woman clothes you are not ready for sex

If you can’t scatter the house or the place when fucking

You are not having correct sex

Nothing wrong in tearing your woman clothes and buying her a new one

Some women want that in their sex life

This is why communication is key

If you no wan tear am allow the ones that will do it in their marriage

Let them do it biko

Or you no sabi bdsm oga

Our people say Ìgbẹ̀yìn ló ma yé olókú àdá

You sure know what that means. BDSM is certainly foreign to our African Culture - and such extreme kinks are indubitably unviable in healthy relationships.

Can you, for example, imagine your parents involved in such? Almost no real African child can imagine it.

You wanted answers for your survey. You shouldn't interrupt your respondents. You aren't a married man. You should learn.

I am not a man

And yes I have to disagree

Because bdsm come in different angle

Is like you don’t know about the spanking of the ass

You Dey bring past to present

Are you your father

Every human being get it’s freaky freaky style

Back to bdsm

You can be tie at the back with rope or chain and your woman is riding your dick

Or should I continue so you can learn

Men no sabi spice things

DrTee1:
Our people say Ìgbẹ̀yìn ló ma yé olókú àdá

You sure know what that means. BDSM is certainly foreign to our African Culture - and such extreme kinks are indubitably unviable in healthy relationships.

Can you, for example, imagine your parents involved in such? Almost no real African child can imagine it.

You wanted answers for your survey. You shouldn't interrupt your respondents. You aren't a married man. You should learn.

Wordsfrombimpe:
This is a guy and you

Belong to the street

Marriage is not for you guys

Apparently you lack a good sense of humor. lol
I am a HAPPILY married man.
Is my marriage perfect? Of course not, but then no marriage is.
Would I marry her again given the same sets of prior circumstances?
YEP!
She gives me the mental peace and balance that allows me to brainstorm the problems of this world.
If I did not marry her type, I would probably be unavailable and lack sense of humor.

There is no humor in this because you agreed with his words

Are you giving her mental peace is your gbola only for her or like this porn star

onumadu:
Apparently you lack a good sense of humor. lol
I am a HAPPILY married man.
Is my marriage perfect? Of course not, but then no marriage is.
Would I marry her again given the same sets of prior circumstances?
YEP!
She gives me the mental peace and balance that allows me to brainstorm the problems of this world.
If I did not marry her type, I would probably be unavailable and lack sense of humor.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Don't you love your wife ?

Mature Minds

No critics lets discuss

Madam I swear, no just let me pour out my anger and frustration on you and this scam words called marriage especially (1man, 1 wife thing).

Any law/force asking you to stick to 1 woman as a man, is just scam at the highest order, because they know it over favours the women alone.
A girlfriend that's gives you sex almost daily during courtship, will make want to make you beg for it maybe once in a week when you marry her.(that is, if you are lucky she didn't insist on once in a month)

Wetin concern me, na to just commot go find joy outside.
Make she dey ,dey mumu herself and her sex as weapon.

Wordsfrombimpe:
In other words hypocrisy

You stated men need sex to function, why can't he have plenty sex with just the one woman

"Am tired, am not in the mood, am on my period,travelling, going for shift work, child bearing, waiting period after birth, pregnancy........ Etc"

Oga no vex me too oh

Na me sey make you date or marry women with low sex drive

If she is attracted to you she suppose dey rush the gbola

Fidecoo:
Madam I swear, no just let me pour out my anger and frustration on you and this scam words called marriage especially (1man, 1 wife thing).

Any law/force asking you to stick to 1 woman as a man, is just scam at the highest order, because they know it over favours the women alone.
A girlfriend that's gives you sex almost daily during courtship, will make want to make you beg for it maybe once in a week when you marry her.(that is, if you are lucky she didn't insist on once in a month)

Wetin concern me, na to just commot go find joy outside.
Make she dey ,dey mumu herself and her sex as weapon.

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Am tired

Do you do chores

Did you get house keeper

Did you buy equipment to relieve her of being tired

Then as for the rest she no get excuses except you don't do sweet love making

Do you do ice cream or vanilla sex

How well do you spice your sex life to make her crave it

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"Am tired, am not in the mood, am on my period,travelling, going for shift work, child bearing, waiting period after birth, pregnancy........ Etc"

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Wordsfrombimpe:
The both are not ready to have sex

If you find someone attractive even till old age dem suppose dey nack

Even with children dem suppose nack

Sound proof the house

Do it in the car

Do it in an event on your date go to hotel as husband and wife

Go on vacation

All this reasons are very much not valid

Spontaneity is key

Supposed to happen but doesn't happen. That's y men cheat. As simple as that. It's left for us to figure out y it doesn't happen to make the men look for it outside

Some married Men are been pushed out by their wives. Many men are married but single, so when they find love,care and respect outside it becomes difficult to become stable at home. Women should look into the 3 things I mentioned above.Its a key to a happy home and it can also tame a man from cheating.

Hmmn

layzie:
Supposed to happen but doesn't happen. That's y men cheat. As simple as that. It's left for us to figure out y it doesn't happen to make the men look for it outside

Can you break it down

How can women love, care and respect

I believe they are reading so they can learn

adindustanley:
Some married Men are been pushed out by their wives. Many men are married but single, so when they find love,care and respect outside it becomes difficult to become stable at home. Women should look into the 3 things I mentioned above.Its a key to a happy home and it can also tame a man from cheating.

I'm not married so I can't tell.

Wordsfrombimpe:
There is no humor in this because you agreed with his words

Are you giving her mental peace is your gbola only for her or like this porn star

Firstly, the "porn star" told you HIS truth. He is a MAN.
If I were you, and I am aggregating men's views on this issue, I would add his view for balance and keep the study going.
That is being INTELLIGENT AND SMART. No insult intended please.

As for "are you giving her mental peace? ..." part, she knows ALL my views about these things. ALL OF THEM.
And she is fine by them.
The good thing about marriage is that it is really supposed to moderate (or level up) people.
The strict (as in her type) becomes more pliant. The "free" or malleable (as in my type) becomes a little stricter ... etc.
So, don't worry. She is in safe hands!

This is for those who still believe in cohabiting with untamed dogs.

Imagine the rubbish most men are saying. If a man can be sampling for varieties, why can't a woman do same without raising eyebrows?

Me i have given up on this gender called male and im more at peace. Make God just bless my hustle let me be enjoying my single life to the fullest.

Shame!

Alright that's fine

Sunnyski:
I'm not married so I can't tell.

You already did and as far as I am concerned you are skipping the truth you dey cheat on your wife with the mental peace hmmn

onumadu:
Firstly, the "porn star" told you HIS truth. He is a MAN.
If I were you, and I am aggregating men's views on this issue, I would add his view for balance and keep the study going.
That is being INTELLIGENT AND SMART. No insult intended please.

As for "are you giving her mental peace? ..." part, she knows ALL my views about these things. ALL OF THEM.
And she is fine by them.
The good thing about marriage is that it is really supposed to moderate (or level up) people.
The strict (as in her type) becomes more pliant. The "free" or malleable (as in my type) becomes a little stricter ... etc.
So, don't worry. She is in safe hands!

You need gbola and you need a man

Don't enjoy this single life because intimacy gadgets won't satisfy you

May you get a good man that will be loyal to you

Ase

EriMma1:
This is for those who still believe in cohabiting with untamed dogs.

Imagine the rubbish most men are saying. If a man can be sampling for varieties, why can't a woman do same without raising eyebrows?

Me i have given up on this gender called male and im more at peace. Make God just bless my hustle let me be enjoying my single life to the fullest.

Shame!

Wordsfrombimpe:
Don't you love your wife ?

Mature Minds

No critics lets discuss

It takes self-discipline not to cheat, it has nothing to do with loving your wife.

And too much of everything is boring, no matter how hard we try not to admit it.

Hmmn

SenatePresdo:
It takes self-discipline not to cheat, it has nothing to do with loving your wife.

And too much of everything is boring, no matter how hard we try not to admit it.

Dottore:
There's nothing like cheating when men are involved. Men where never meant to have one wife. Men need more and more sex to function.

The idea of monogamy is a western culture not African culture and its not biblical. I wonder how the white man convinced you people that polygamy is sinful and abominable but homosexuality is tolerable and human right.

All the biblical patriarchs were polygamists and it was never mentioned anywhere that anyone was punished by God for Polygamy infact God even promised David that he could have given him even more women if he hadn't slept with Uriah's wife. (2 Sam.12:8 )

David had 8 wives and many concubines yet God still refers to him as a man after God's heart. Abraham slept with his maid and still had a concubine called Kethura. God even promised to bless Ishmael just for the mere fact that he's Abraham's blood. I don't need to mention Solomon. Jacob married 2 sisters and was fvcking their maids: Bilhah and Zilpah yet God used him to establish the nation Israel.

We all pray to God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but we don't want us to follow their foot steps. Haba.

Only Bishop's and General Overseers were instructed to be husbands of one wife.

It is true, there is no explicit commandment in the Bible that says men must marry only one wife.
However, there are several reasons to believe that monogamy is God’s ideal for marriage based on the biblical evidence. Here are some possible arguments you may want to consider:

The creation account in Genesis 2 shows that God made one woman for one man and joined them together as one flesh. This implies that God intended marriage to be a union between two people, not more. Jesus also affirmed this when he quoted Genesis 2 and said that God made them male and female and joined them together (Matthew 19:4-6).
- The examples of polygamy in the Bible are not presented as positive or desirable models for marriage. Rather, they often show the negative consequences of having multiple spouses, such as conflict, jealousy, violence, division, and judgment. For example, Abraham's polygamy with Hagar caused strife between Sarah and Hagar (Genesis 16), Jacob's polygamy with Leah and Rachel caused rivalry between them (Genesis 29-30), David's adultery with Bathsheba led to murder, deception, and death (2 Samuel 11-12), Solomon's polygamy with many foreign women turned his heart away from God (1 Kings 11).
- The guidelines for monogamous relationships in the Bible reflect God's character and will for his people. For example, Paul instructed husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25), wives to respect their husbands as the head of the household (Ephesians 5:22-24), both spouses to be faithful to each other and avoid sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7:2-5; Hebrews 13:4), both spouses to honor their marriage vows and not divorce except for cases of sexual unfaithfulness (Matthew 19:9; Malachi 2:16). These principles are based on God's love, holiness, faithfulness, and covenant with his people.
- The analogy of monogamy as a picture of God's relationship with his people reveals God's purpose for marriage. In the Old Testament, God often compared himself to a husband who loved Israel as his bride but was grieved by her unfaithfulness and idolatry (Isaiah 54:5; Jeremiah 3; Hosea). In the New Testament, Christ is described as the bridegroom who loves the church as his bride and will come again to take her to himself in glory (John 3:29; Ephesians 5:32; Revelation 19:7-9). These images show that God desires an exclusive and intimate relationship with his people that reflects his grace and glory.

Therefore, while you may argue that there is no express verse or chapter that dictates men to marry one wife, you may have a hard time explaining polygamy practice aligns with God's original design for marriage, his moral standards for human relationships, and his redemptive plan for his people...

Thank you for sharing

WantsandMore:
It is true, there is no explicit commandment in the Bible that says men must marry only one wife.
However, there are several reasons to believe that monogamy is God’s ideal for marriage based on the biblical evidence. Here are some possible arguments you may want to consider:

The creation account in Genesis 2 shows that God made one woman for one man and joined them together as one flesh. This implies that God intended marriage to be a union between two people, not more. Jesus also affirmed this when he quoted Genesis 2 and said that God made them male and female and joined them together (Matthew 19:4-6).
- The examples of polygamy in the Bible are not presented as positive or desirable models for marriage. Rather, they often show the negative consequences of having multiple spouses, such as conflict, jealousy, violence, division, and judgment. For example, Abraham's polygamy with Hagar caused strife between Sarah and Hagar (Genesis 16), Jacob's polygamy with Leah and Rachel caused rivalry between them (Genesis 29-30), David's adultery with Bathsheba led to murder, deception, and death (2 Samuel 11-12), Solomon's polygamy with many foreign women turned his heart away from God (1 Kings 11).
- The guidelines for monogamous relationships in the Bible reflect God's character and will for his people. For example, Paul instructed husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25), wives to respect their husbands as the head of the household (Ephesians 5:22-24), both spouses to be faithful to each other and avoid sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7:2-5; Hebrews 13:4), both spouses to honor their marriage vows and not divorce except for cases of sexual unfaithfulness (Matthew 19:9; Malachi 2:16). These principles are based on God's love, holiness, faithfulness, and covenant with his people.
- The analogy of monogamy as a picture of God's relationship with his people reveals God's purpose for marriage. In the Old Testament, God often compared himself to a husband who loved Israel as his bride but was grieved by her unfaithfulness and idolatry (Isaiah 54:5; Jeremiah 3; Hosea). In the New Testament, Christ is described as the bridegroom who loves the church as his bride and will come again to take her to himself in glory (John 3:29; Ephesians 5:32; Revelation 19:7-9). These images show that God desires an exclusive and intimate relationship with his people that reflects his grace and glory.

Therefore, while you may argue that there is no express verse or chapter that dictates men to marry one wife, you may have a hard time explaining polygamy practice aligns with God's original design for marriage, his moral standards for human relationships, and his redemptive plan for his people...

Exactly

SenatePresdo:
It takes self-discipline not to cheat, it has nothing to do with loving your wife.

And too much of everything is boring, no matter how hard we try not to admit it.

Smartguyboy:
One woman can’t match up her husband urges for sex .

Most are emotionally driven with family challenges and they allowed it to affect their mood

Hmmn

Asebaba1:
Most are emotionally driven with family challenges and they allowed it to affect their mood