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How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 9:34am On Mar 20, 2023
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by thesicilian: 9:39am On Mar 20, 2023
It's really about the character of each individual involved.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Yugoslavia247(m): 9:41am On Mar 20, 2023
thesicilian:
It's really about the character of each individual involved.

Manipulative

I met a girl who earns money. She will never assist me even when I ask for 200 naira. Then I knew I met the devil.

Those clamouring for working class. Just know that it's only the person who is able to assist you that the whole working class will make sense. If not you will still be burdened by the same burden a non working woman has. All her money is for wigs and clothes while your money is for both of you.

Dem plenty.

When the man is tired and complains. They will spend their money and disrespect you and deny you sex.

From beginning make sure she is not selfish.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 9:44am On Mar 20, 2023
thesicilian:
It's really about the character of each individual involved.

so why are mny guyz complaining of same thing...

my bestie female friend who just got a job at zenith annd was added into it locality WhatsApp group and also female only WhatsApp group...sh keeps complaining of how the ladies look down on guyz based on thier account statements...

sh complain that all of them have a mentality of tall, hamdsome, fair, smooth classy guy that would give them freedom and preferably live abroad as a husband choice...

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 9:57am On Mar 20, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


Manipulative

I met a girl who earns money. She will never assist me even when I ask for 200 naira. Then I knew I met the devil.

Those clamouring for working class. Just know that it's only the person who is able to assist you that the whole working class will make sense. If not you will still be burdened by the same burden a non working woman has. All her money is for wigs and clothes while your money is for both of you.

Dem plenty.

When the man is tired and complains. They will spend their money and disrespect you and deny you sex.

From beginning make sure she is not selfish.

they also very fast to exit a relationship claiming peace of mind....i pity who they die and hunt working class ladies.. especially good earning ones

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 10:09am On Mar 20, 2023
blacksam01:
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

Wait, i'm i dreaming? Same character my own is exibiting, OP everything you listed here is same shit she does, to crown it all, she is a first class graduate.

She actually gave me a silent treatment for two weeks now, thinking i will come out and beg, she doesn't know that i have taken it as an opportunity to japa.

I just pity her, because i doubt if she can stay up yo one month with another man.

The last word i told her was this '' continue giving the silent treatment until you reach 30.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Autobot05: 10:09am On Mar 20, 2023
blacksam01:
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

Dont take any woman very seriously except your grandma,mum and sis .
Bye 👋

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 10:22am On Mar 20, 2023
Saintinoo:


Wait, i'm i dreaming? Same character my own is exibiting, OP everything you listed here is same shit she does, to crown it all, she is a first class graduate.

She actually gave me a silent treatment for two weeks now, thinking i will come out and beg, she doesn't know that i have taken it as an opportunity to japa.

I just pity her, because i doubt if she can stay up yo one month with another man.

The last word i told her was this '' continue giving the silent treatment until you reach 30.



Two of my exes are first class : one in Economics the other bus administration...same behaviors...

they are non violent, they dont raise voices, but they are terrible with other vices...

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 10:38am On Mar 20, 2023
blacksam01:



Two of my exes are first class : one in Economics the other bus administration...same behaviors...

they are non violent, they dont raise voices, but they are terrible with other vices...

Do you know that this girl will never apologise when wrong, she will rather go mute on me, and when i say, ok irrespective of who was wrong, let me make things right, she will start playing victim until i sincerely beg.

I became a simp for this girl, mehn, i japa ooo.

I rather date and marry an illiterate than to marry those type of girls. Virginity and First class really enter her head.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:38am On Mar 20, 2023
Complaining about women's behaviour as if y'all are angels and saints. All I see here is a case of "show me your girlfriend and I'll tell you what you are..."




In another news: Women, this is why it's good to have your own money. So you don't have to swallow shit and piss from any man just because he's your "source".

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 11:07am On Mar 20, 2023
Saintinoo:


Do you know that this girl will never apologise when wrong, she will rather go mute on me, and when i say, ok irrespective of who was wrong, let me make things right, she will start playing victim until i sincerely beg.

I became a simp for this girl, mehn, i japa ooo.

I rather date and marry an illiterate than to marry those type of girls. Virginity and First class really enter her head.

mine 3 of them are virgins too..and all of them usually dont apologize also...

they are really pathetic sex of ppl...

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 11:16am On Mar 20, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
Complaining about women's behaviour as if y'all are angels and saints. All I see here is a case of "show me your girlfriend and I'll tell you what you are..."




In another news: Women, this is why it's good to have your own money. So you don't have to swallow shit and piss from any man just because he's your "source".



did u read about any saying ladies shld not have their own money here...is having money same thing as bad behaviors listed above...what is the big deal in saying am sorry when u are wrong..? or communiting when u are ititated or keeping shut when ur guy is angry and very mad... or being of help to ur man in times of his need

nobody talked about income manipulation by men...u just dont know what to say, hence u prefer blind support..

it is well

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by nicerod(m): 11:21am On Mar 20, 2023
U must be educated to cope with them



Stay away from feminist

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by BigYash: 11:27am On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:


Dont take any woman very seriously except your grandma,mum and sis .
Bye 👋
And your daughter,if you have any.. The rest na shoulder them dey put them,if she don dey do pass herself, you push am away..

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 11:31am On Mar 20, 2023
nicerod:
U must be educated to cope with them



Stay away from feminist

who isnt educated... everyone is na

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 11:32am On Mar 20, 2023
U are dating women from a very questionable environment.

I can't even date woman who can not compete with me.

I like women who can compete with me anytime anyway.

It does not mean she is disrespecting me but that is the way it should be.

But if u don't have a business and not educated too...that is the worst for me.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Autobot05: 11:43am On Mar 20, 2023
BigYash:
And your daughter,if you have any.. The rest na shoulder them dey put them,if she don dey do pass herself, you push am away..

Yeah bro . Wife and others na 50/50 . 🎯🎯 . Even tho I d9nt pray to have a daughter abeg grin cheesy

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by BigYash: 11:58am On Mar 20, 2023
Autobot05:


Yeah bro . Wife and others na 50/50 . 🎯🎯 . Even tho I d9nt pray to have a daughter abeg grin cheesy
cheesy
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by frozen70(f): 11:59am On Mar 20, 2023
Nice2023:
U are dating women from a very questionable environment.

I can't even date woman who can not compete with me.

I like women who can compete with me anytime anyway.

It does not mean she is disrespecting me but that is the way it should be.

But if u don't have a business and not educated too...that is the worst for me.


Your understanding is good base on your statement

Not all men fall into this category

As a mate of fact,
What others are daring is what you are tackling

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by ItisWell22(f): 12:04pm On Mar 20, 2023
Saintinoo:


Do you know that this girl will never apologise when wrong, she will rather go mute on me, and when i say, ok irrespective of who was wrong, let me make things right, she will start playing victim until i sincerely beg.

I became a simp for this girl, mehn, i japa ooo.

I rather date and marry an illiterate than to marry those type of girls. Virginity and First class really enter her head.


I think the issue here is being with people who don’t value you as much as you value them.

You’re being with ladies who feel they’re the trophy, forgetting it should be all about complementing each other.

There are first class virgins who’re humble…

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Dracula123: 12:06pm On Mar 20, 2023
While I want to agree that some educated ladies are like that, I strongly feel the men they are dating are a factor of their behavior. Why go after a career woman only to restrict her?
Other factors are accepting her financial support and still wanting to subject her to house wife's duty just like in the old. We all have rights both male and female.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by IyaTola: 12:06pm On Mar 20, 2023
cheesy
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by InfinityFabric: 12:13pm On Mar 20, 2023
Marrying such ladies is like marrying MAN, don't do it! There's no coping, only moping.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by InfinityFabric: 12:16pm On Mar 20, 2023
blacksam01:


mine 3 of them are virgins too..and all of them usually dont apologize also...

they are really pathetic sex of ppl...
They're either NOT virgins or they just don't like you and looking for ways to end it.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Polynek(m): 12:20pm On Mar 20, 2023
I don't like when someone generalize a behaviour simply bcox of his/her experience,
There are good educated ladies and there are bad one's.
That you met few bad ones doesn't mean they are all the same.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by b0rn2fuck(m): 12:21pm On Mar 20, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


Manipulative

I met a girl who earns money. She will never assist me even when I ask for 200 naira. Then I knew I met the devil.

Those clamouring for working class. Just know that it's only the person who is able to assist you that the whole working class will make sense. If not you will still be burdened by the same burden a non working woman has. All her money is for wigs and clothes while your money is for both of you.

Dem plenty.

When the man is tired and complains. They will spend their money and disrespect you and deny you sex.

From beginning make sure she is not selfish.
the worst of all, no regular sex, she is always busy to assist house chores,no money support and they also feel entitled

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Albertone(m): 12:39pm On Mar 20, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
Complaining about women's behaviour as if y'all are angels and saints. All I see here is a case of "show me your girlfriend and I'll tell you what you are..."




In another news: Women, this is why it's good to have your own money. So you don't have to swallow shit and piss from any man just because he's your "source".


We're talking of bad behavior here. No be everything be money.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 12:57pm On Mar 20, 2023
InfinityFabric:

They're either NOT virgins or they just don't like you and looking for ways to end it.

no...i can attest to the fact they are virgins

dont be deceived by lot sof olosho in town, virgin ladies are sstill many

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 1:38pm On Mar 20, 2023
ItisWell22:



I think the issue here is being with people who don’t value you as much as you value them.

You’re being with ladies who feel they’re the trophy, forgetting it should be all about complementing each other.

There are first class virgins who’re humble…

She had this sense of self importance, i am better than you type of mentality. This is a girl i vowed to support her reach her ambitions.

I think she felt she was more superior, because i could see signs of supremacy battle in the relationship.

Mehn, i japa, i know it will hurt me because i really loved her and made so many plans with her, but dating her means becoming her slave.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by kelspinall(m): 1:42pm On Mar 20, 2023
be it in relationship/marriage and auntie is showcasing all this you listed...omoh she's going...i can't cope
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 2:23pm On Mar 20, 2023
Nice2023:
U are dating women from a very questionable environment.

I can't even date woman who can not compete with me.

I like women who can compete with me anytime anyway.

It does not mean she is disrespecting me but that is the way it should be.

But if u don't have a business and not educated too...that is the worst for me.


You truely have not dated such women, if you had, you.won't say such.

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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by angiography(m): 2:23pm On Mar 20, 2023
Saintinoo:


Wait, i'm i dreaming? Same character my own is exibiting, OP everything you listed here is same shit she does, to crown it all, she is a first class graduate.

She actually gave me a silent treatment for two weeks now, thinking i will come out and beg, she doesn't know that i have taken it as an opportunity to japa.

I just pity her, because i doubt if she can stay up yo one month with another man.

The last word i told her was this '' continue giving the silent treatment until you reach 30.


She will find a man, be successful in her marriage and career. All women want to date a man they can look up to. And when they do, they give them the utmost respect. The exception to this is common to all women irrespective of class

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