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joeeee240:
Go into war of words with the truth and facts?

Dey play

Haydens:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

dontai:
Imagine?

Karlifate:
More like chameleon changing its outfit.

joeeee240:
Keke men and okada drivers be knacking people gfs steady🤣😭🤣

Meedon:
No be lie

joeeee240:
You sef don experience am?

heartofcity12:
⬆️
A hoe that doesn’t like condom or can’t abstain from premarital sex .. These are the same Igbo girls they pay heavy bride price for, they can’t even give y’all virginity 😂

luminouz:
Good take from his post but never cower from stating your own opinions. Don't force it on anyone or act like you are superior. Just be cool and calm and state your opinions.

Pukkalolo:
Too extreme?

Anyways,
I talked about female shit test in more detail here.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1508#114217973

Pukkalolo:
I was recently ask about how to pass a woman's shit test...I said, I'll post it here so everyone will see it.

I have talked about female shit test before on this thread, if you go through my previous posts, you'll find it.

But, let me throw more light on it.

Many guys are obsessed over passing a woman's shit test...but what they don't realized is that they shouldn't even be getting shit test in the first place.

I read some where they said, "getting shit test is a sign that she perceive you as high value." But that's crap.

I watched on YouTube where there were interviewing 3 beautiful black American ladies about their experience with two rappers at the club: Drake and Future.

These ladies say they had to quickly corporate with the rappers and act very submissive and feminine... because they know that high status rappers of such don't have time to keep up with any bullshit(shit test).

If we choose look at it from a certain angle, this goes to show that getting shit test from a woman is even a sign that she perceive you as low value... basically, she assumes you are someone who's willing to put up with her bullshit because of you want to get the pussy.


Ok, let's play with an hypothetical scenario:

Imagine you are walking on the road and a hoodlum from know where whistle at you, when you turn to look at him, he give you the middle finger... basically, he tells you, "Bleep you!"

How do you respond to that?

There are 3 possible way you can respond to that situation, and this depends on who you are.

Let say you're Mr fearful.... “I'm sorry dude. I'm sorry if I offended you??...” then you apologize to him for no reason, then quickly run away with your tails in between your legs.

Let's say you are Mr tough alpha wannabe... You quickly approach him, “how dare you give me the middle finger...Who do you think you are? Do you know who I am?”... The hoodlum then verbally tells you, Bleep you. Then out of anger... you throw the first punch, then the hoodlum retaliate, then it get heated. The hoodlum goes get his boys... of course you also go get your niggas... Things escalated badly... Blood everywhere.

Let say say you are Mr high quality guy who values his time.....You quickly realized that this hoodlum isn't worth your time. So you just ignore him and go about your business and focus on more important things.

On a low key, this high guy guy is probably the real alpha..... because A true “alpha male” doesn’t need to assert his “alphaness” at every time.


Let's compare this with an interaction with a woman.

Ok..let say you are in festive gathering, and you try chatting with this girl but she shit test you...she tells you,, "You are not my type" and "you look old”

Let say you're Mr fearful nice guy----->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...”

You: "it's not about me not being your type.

Her: "it's about what?"

You: "It's about the fact that I truly love you"

Her: *laughs* "you are looking too old for me"

You: "i know I'm old but you know I've feelings for you, and I will take care of you"

Her: "Ok, I need to change my hair and wardrobe..."

You: "how much do you need?"

Her: *The game continues...*

She exploit you for weeks and months until she get bored with you and dump your sorry ass. Yes, you failed her shit test.


Ok, what if you've learn "the game"...so you've learn how to pass her shit test.

Now, you are Mr tough alpha wannabe ---->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *smirk* "well, I guess you don't have good taste.."

Her: "you say I don't have good taste.. oh, please give me a break! You look old "

You: "I look old? Are you insecure about your age or does my big appearance scares you?" *sly grin*

Her: *laughs* scares me? you are not even up to guys I roll with.

Him: The game continues...



This might continues for days, weeks, months..
Reading that might seem cool to you, but in reality that is just pathetic.

This is what you get when you believe in "passing a woman's shit test"... You’re basically entering into a verbal match and unnecessary power play with her...

All I see is two insecure people trying to outwit themselves and trying to be “more dominant” against the other person. I see this all the time between a guy and lady...the guy would be spitting games on an entitled bitch (who probably doesn't even any interest in him to begin with). They are both time wasters.

Ok, but what if you've become more mature, experienced and you now place high value on your attention. You are very busy with your time.

You are now Mr high quality guy who values his time------>

You: I'm attracted to you.

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *Walks out even be she completes her statement*

You quickly realized that this woman is not worth your attention. You quickly dumps her and move on. You demonstration to her and to yourself that you have low tolerance for crap and you highly value your time and effort and you only spend it on a woman who is worth it.

This actually more powerful than the Mr tough alpha wannabe who's busy trying to tease her and outwit her in order to pass her shit test.

Or think of it... At club, when a random Iady drops a shit test, do you think Drake, Kendrick or Future would start spitting games, go in to power play and trying to pass her shit test.

Of course, No... Those dudes are high quality guys who values their time. They'll just ignore her and quickly move on with another shawty.

You might naturally think,
“Oh, but I'm not a high status rapper like Drake and Future, so these won't work for me"

Understand this simple truth:

Most times, women judge a man by his behavior. From the way he behaves, she can guess if he's a quality guy or not. Even if she meet Drake at the bar but doesn't know who he is...from his behavior she'd assume he might be an high status guy, then she'll pick interest in him.

When you are Mr high quality guy who demonstrate that you highly values your time, she picks interest in you and be curious to know more about you.

Again...

Women are attracted to successful guys....but women are also attracted to guys who have the potential to be successful.. This is why this broke upcoming musician in my neighborhood is fucking sexy girls... Although he's broke but these ladies believe that one day he might blow and make it.

Same way, when you demonstration to her that you have low tolerance for bullshit and you highly value time, she assumes are you have more important things to spend your time and effort on... She assumes that guys like you have the potential to become successful.

Over time, you start noticing that women will start paying more attention to you... they'll be intrigued. They think, "He has low tolerance for my bullshit...that means he must have more importantly things going on for him...let me find out!"

IyaebeTheGreat:
I want to leave politics section and come join you guys here, hope I'm welcomed

AndrewTate:
the thing you’ve been looking for in the men's bathroom/quaters may you find it soon.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I’m looking for ubunja , I want to confirm if my prophecy on him has come to pass. If it has, then he should be at the pulpit in a church. Ubunja will eventually be a pastor, evangelist or what have you. Mark this down, the sad thing is he may not come here to admit it

CAPSLOCKED:
I SEE YOUR TAGS. I SEE HOW YOU LIKE MY POSTS. I READ YOUR OPINIONS ALMOST HUNDREDS OF PAGES WHENEVER I COME HERE ONCE IN MANY MONTHS. YES, I READ IT ALL AND I ENJOY THE PROGRESS WE'VE MADE HERE TOGETHER FOR THE PAST 3+ YEARS.

BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT I STARTED WITHDRAWING FROM BEING AN ACTIVE PART OF NAIRALAND AROUND A YEAR AGO.
IGNORING HOW MENTALLY CHALLENGED THIS FORUM MADE ME FEEL ALL THE TIMES I DARED PARTICIPATE WITH OPEN DISCUSS ESPECIALLY ON MATTERS ON THE FRONTPAGES AND HOW THE MODERATORS ALLOWED IDIOCY IN THE FORM OF TRIBALISM, RACISM, AND BACKWARDNESS REIGN PROBABLY FOR THE PURPOSE OF TRAFFIC GENERATION, THE LAST STRAW IN IT FOR ME WAS WHEN ONE OF THESE HØRNY GOATS BANNED MY ACCOUNT FOR 20 YEARS FOR NOTHING ELSE OTHER THAN I RESPECTFULLY CHALLENGED ONE OF THOSE RETĄRDED LADIES THESE MODS SIMP FOR WHEN SHE RAINED INSULTS ON INNOCENT MEN. GIRL CONTINUE TO ROAM FREE INSULTING ALL AND SUNDRY WHILE I GOT A 20-YEAR BAN FOR REBUKING HER?? WHERE WAS THE SENSE IN THIS? AND SHEUN LET THEM OPERATE LIKE SUCH FOOLS??

IT TOOK MARTINEZ CREATING A THREAD IN PROTEST AGAINST THAT EVIL FOR MY ACCOUNT TO BE UNBANNED. I NEVER QUITE GOT OVER IT, BUT THEN SEUN HIMSELF STARTED TO TREND ON TWITTER FOR WHAT, MANY MONTHS LATER, HAS EVENTUALLY LED HIM TO PEN THE EULOGY BELOW.

SEUN. I'VE TOUCHED LIVES THROUGH NL EITHER FROM THE TOPICS THAT I CONTRIBUTED TO, OR FINANCIAL, ESPECIALLY DURING THE HEIGHT OF COVID WHERE I SPENT MILLIONS OF MY MONEY ON GIVEAWAYS AND CHARITY FOR MOSTLY SOUTHERN YOUTHS, INCLUDING YORUBA MUSLIMS, DESPITE BEING AN EASTERNER AND ATHEIST. I CANNOT CONTINUE TO EXIST ON YOUR FORUM. YOU'RE NOT A HUMAN BEING. THE DAMAGE YOU'VE DONE TO THIS COUNTRY I HOPE THE MILLIONS NL EARNS YOU DAILY SAVE YOUR GENERATION AND LINEAGE AND GEOPOLITICAL REGION FROM THIS MESS WE ALL IN.
I CANNOT DELETE MY ACCOUNT FOR I HAVE POSTS THAT COULD BE USEFUL TO SEVERAL PEOPLE. TELL MAD44 TO GIVE ME ANOTHER 20 YEARS PLEASE. I'M DONE.

heartofcity12:
A big applause to this “real man” 👏🤡😂

luminouz:
Did I just read about 500k dollars

Wow. Men dey spend money on women sha.

I'm not sure I have read of many women spending 500k-1M dollars for men they just met on first date

CAPSLOCKED:
I SEE YOUR TAGS. I SEE HOW YOU LIKE MY POSTS. I READ YOUR OPINIONS ALMOST HUNDREDS OF PAGES WHENEVER I COME HERE ONCE IN MANY MONTHS. YES, I READ IT ALL AND I ENJOY THE PROGRESS WE'VE MADE HERE TOGETHER FOR THE PAST 3+ YEARS.

BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT I STARTED WITHDRAWING FROM BEING AN ACTIVE PART OF NAIRALAND AROUND A YEAR AGO.
IGNORING HOW MENTALLY CHALLENGED THIS FORUM MADE ME FEEL ALL THE TIMES I DARED PARTICIPATE WITH OPEN DISCUSS ESPECIALLY ON MATTERS ON THE FRONTPAGES AND HOW THE MODERATORS ALLOWED IDIOCY IN THE FORM OF TRIBALISM, RACISM, AND BACKWARDNESS REIGN PROBABLY FOR THE PURPOSE OF TRAFFIC GENERATION, THE LAST STRAW IN IT FOR ME WAS WHEN ONE OF THESE HØRNY GOATS BANNED MY ACCOUNT FOR 20 YEARS FOR NOTHING ELSE OTHER THAN I RESPECTFULLY CHALLENGED ONE OF THOSE RETĄRDED LADIES THESE MODS SIMP FOR WHEN SHE RAINED INSULTS ON INNOCENT MEN. GIRL CONTINUE TO ROAM FREE INSULTING ALL AND SUNDRY WHILE I GOT A 20-YEAR BAN FOR REBUKING HER?? WHERE WAS THE SENSE IN THIS? AND SHEUN LET THEM OPERATE LIKE SUCH FOOLS??

IT TOOK MARTINEZ CREATING A THREAD IN PROTEST AGAINST THAT EVIL FOR MY ACCOUNT TO BE UNBANNED. I NEVER QUITE GOT OVER IT, BUT THEN SEUN HIMSELF STARTED TO TREND ON TWITTER FOR WHAT, MANY MONTHS LATER, HAS EVENTUALLY LED HIM TO PEN THE EULOGY BELOW.

SEUN. I'VE TOUCHED LIVES THROUGH NL EITHER FROM THE TOPICS THAT I CONTRIBUTED TO, OR FINANCIAL, ESPECIALLY DURING THE HEIGHT OF COVID WHERE I SPENT MILLIONS OF MY MONEY ON GIVEAWAYS AND CHARITY FOR MOSTLY SOUTHERN YOUTHS, INCLUDING YORUBA MUSLIMS, DESPITE BEING AN EASTERNER AND ATHEIST. I CANNOT CONTINUE TO EXIST ON YOUR FORUM. YOU'RE NOT A HUMAN BEING. THE DAMAGE YOU'VE DONE TO THIS COUNTRY I HOPE THE MILLIONS NL EARNS YOU DAILY SAVE YOUR GENERATION AND LINEAGE AND GEOPOLITICAL REGION FROM THIS MESS WE ALL IN.
I CANNOT DELETE MY ACCOUNT FOR I HAVE POSTS THAT COULD BE USEFUL TO SEVERAL PEOPLE. TELL MAD44 TO GIVE ME ANOTHER 20 YEARS PLEASE. I'M DONE.

luvyaself95:
Hand Up ✋ for this comrade 😂😂😂

Pukkalolo:
You are fucking right.


The Internet, which is probably the 8th Wonder Of The World, is a place where you can have access to almost anything you want.

With the internet: You can register for anything, you can find a job, you can learn just about anything, you can find hook-up, you can order goods, you can arouse yourself and jerk off to porn stars while thinking about any girl. You can hire assassins to murder anyone that piss you off. Yes, pretty much everything can be done on the internet.

All thanks to the internet: most people looks more attractive than they actually look in real life; most people seem more important than they actually are in real life; most people seem more experience than they actually are.

Using "experience" for example, the problems with the Internet is - anyone can seem like an expert, regardless of the level of experience they have or don’t have. And It’s almost impossible to identify who's the real deal.

Take this thread for example, I observed that some dudes with no real experience with are giving advice about women and redpill. It's so sad because they are only doing this to get validation of other guys.

Pukkalolo:
I was recently ask about how to pass a woman's shit test...I said, I'll post it here so everyone will see it.

I have talked about female shit test before on this thread, if you go through my previous posts, you'll find it.

But, let me throw more light on it.

Many guys are obsessed over passing a woman's shit test...but what they don't realized is that they shouldn't even be getting shit test in the first place.

I read some where they said, "getting shit test is a sign that she perceive you as high value." But that's crap.

I watched on YouTube where there were interviewing 3 beautiful black American ladies about their experience with two rappers at the club: Drake and Future.

These ladies say they had to quickly corporate with the rappers and act very submissive and feminine... because they know that high status rappers of such don't have time to keep up with any bullshit(shit test).

If we choose look at it from a certain angle, this goes to show that getting shit test from a woman is even a sign that she perceive you as low value... basically, she assumes you are someone who's willing to put up with her bullshit because of you want to get the pussy.


Ok, let's play with an hypothetical scenario:

Imagine you are walking on the road and a hoodlum from know where whistle at you, when you turn to look at him, he give you the middle finger... basically, he tells you, "Bleep you!"

How do you respond to that?

There are 3 possible way you can respond to that situation, and this depends on who you are.

Let say you're Mr fearful.... “I'm sorry dude. I'm sorry if I offended you??...” then you apologize to him for no reason, then quickly run away with your tails in between your legs.

Let's say you are Mr tough alpha wannabe... You quickly approach him, “how dare you give me the middle finger...Who do you think you are? Do you know who I am?”... The hoodlum then verbally tells you, Bleep you. Then out of anger... you throw the first punch, then the hoodlum retaliate, then it get heated. The hoodlum goes get his boys... of course you also go get your niggas... Things escalated badly... Blood everywhere.

Let say say you are Mr high quality guy who values his time.....You quickly realized that this hoodlum isn't worth your time. So you just ignore him and go about your business and focus on more important things.

On a low key, this high guy guy is probably the real alpha..... because A true “alpha male” doesn’t need to assert his “alphaness” at every time.


Let's compare this with an interaction with a woman.

Ok..let say you are in festive gathering, and you try chatting with this girl but she shit test you...she tells you,, "You are not my type" and "you look old”

Let say you're Mr fearful nice guy----->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...”

You: "it's not about me not being your type.

Her: "it's about what?"

You: "It's about the fact that I truly love you"

Her: *laughs* "you are looking too old for me"

You: "i know I'm old but you know I've feelings for you, and I will take care of you"

Her: "Ok, I need to change my hair and wardrobe..."

You: "how much do you need?"

Her: *The game continues...*

She exploit you for weeks and months until she get bored with you and dump your sorry ass. Yes, you failed her shit test.


Ok, what if you've learn "the game"...so you've learn how to pass her shit test.

Now, you are Mr tough alpha wannabe ---->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *smirk* "well, I guess you don't have good taste.."

Her: "you say I don't have good taste.. oh, please give me a break! You look old "

You: "I look old? Are you insecure about your age or does my big appearance scares you?" *sly grin*

Her: *laughs* scares me? you are not even up to guys I roll with.

Him: The game continues...



This might continues for days, weeks, months..
Reading that might seem cool to you, but in reality that is just pathetic.

This is what you get when you believe in "passing a woman's shit test"... You’re basically entering into a verbal match and unnecessary power play with her...

All I see is two insecure people trying to outwit themselves and trying to be “more dominant” against the other person. I see this all the time between a guy and lady...the guy would be spitting games on an entitled bitch (who probably doesn't even any interest in him to begin with). They are both time wasters.

Ok, but what if you've become more mature, experienced and you now place high value on your attention. You are very busy with your time.

You are now Mr high quality guy who values his time------>

You: I'm attracted to you.

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *Walks out even be she completes her statement*

You quickly realized that this woman is not worth your attention. You quickly dumps her and move on. You demonstration to her and to yourself that you have low tolerance for crap and you highly value your time and effort and you only spend it on a woman who is worth it.

This actually more powerful than the Mr tough alpha wannabe who's busy trying to tease her and outwit her in order to pass her shit test.

Or think of it... At club, when a random Iady drops a shit test, do you think Drake, Kendrick or Future would start spitting games, go in to power play and trying to pass her shit test.

Of course, No... Those dudes are high quality guys who values their time. They'll just ignore her and quickly move on with another shawty.

You might naturally think,
“Oh, but I'm not a high status rapper like Drake and Future, so these won't work for me"

Understand this simple truth:

Most times, women judge a man by his behavior. From the way he behaves, she can guess if he's a quality guy or not. Even if she meet Drake at the bar but doesn't know who he is...from his behavior she'd assume he might be an high status guy, then she'll pick interest in him.

When you are Mr high quality guy who demonstrate that you highly values your time, she picks interest in you and be curious to know more about you.

Again...

Women are attracted to successful guys....but women are also attracted to guys who have the potential to be successful.. This is why this broke upcoming musician in my neighborhood is fucking sexy girls... Although he's broke but these ladies believe that one day he might blow and make it.

Same way, when you demonstration to her that you have low tolerance for bullshit and you highly value time, she assumes are you have more important things to spend your time and effort on... She assumes that guys like you have the potential to become successful.

Over time, you start noticing that women will start paying more attention to you... they'll be intrigued. They think, "He has low tolerance for my bullshit...that means he must have more importantly things going on for him...let me find out!"

Miracood2:
I doubt say any Nigerian girl fit make this agreement.

AndrewTate:
hmm “IYAEBE” 🫱🏾‍🫲🏾...
Oya say good things to my life now...i promise to come back and testify!
Not pastor o 🤌🏾

luminouz:
How hard is it for you to ignore? We don't quote Females or trolls here. She is both.

Nawa for una men o....

AndrewTate:
Be nice first...
She's a human being.