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Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Pls everyone, I have a problem. I started living with my siblings since October and I got a job by December that pays 30k per month and ever since then, they want me to foot the whole bills. Mind you, the three gals I'm living with don't wanna work. They are into hookup and want me to pay for everything thinking I'm hiding cash. The first month, I got 15k for half month and I gave them 8k for food, they went and bought cosmetics for themselves. I pretended as if I was dumb. Then after dat day they didn't give me food anymore. I hard to feed myself that month with the 7k. The next month I got 30k and I gave them 14k for food, they went and bought cosmetics and food for themselves. After that week, there was no more food for the month. It seemed as if they were using my head.. Then the third month, I got the 30k again and I bought foodstuffs worth 8k for the house and some clothes cos they didn't want me touching their stuffs and they got angry and went to tell my neighbors that I don't wanna give them money. After they have fed themselves and their cousins with the foodstuffs they still want me to be bringing 2k every time before they cook at home and house rent is expiring next month which we will pay same quota PS: I'm a housekeeper for one hospital. Pls I need advice cos this stuff is driving me crazy 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 2:52pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Pls someone should help me cos I'm about to lose my savings |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 2:54pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Cc. ThinkSmarter Pansophist |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Blupen969(m): 2:57pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:Become homeless for a month and prove them wrong 6 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:04pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Blupen969: So should I give them all my money and still pay rent to make them happy |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SPAMBOX7: 3:06pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Keep helping the poor. Your reward is in heaven 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by squash47(m): 3:06pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:Women are very emotional beings, sit dem down, tell dem a touching story of how life is hard for you. Arouse their emotional part. If u don't know how to do it, go online and search for now to manipulate people. They will fall if u play your tricks very well. π 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:08pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SPAMBOX7:Mind you, they are nt poor... They have money but don't want me to share since I'm working. I think it is envy |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:15pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
squash47:No be my sis.. Those ladies are bloody greedy. They will pretend at that moment then go and spread shit about you. You can't believe that all those while they were telling people that I haven't drop any money since I started working π£π£π£ |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by ThinkSmarter: 3:20pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
If they are truly your siblings, then i can say they don't care about you.
Make arrangement to start living alone and focus on your work.
Only dash them money once in a while and ignore their drama.
They are already wild, u can't tame them now 4 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Cutehector(m): 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Wait, the three girls are your sisters and they are all into hookup? 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SPAMBOX7: 3:23pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:Keep helping them. Your reward is in heaven 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:25pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
ThinkSmarter:Thanks a lot big broπππ They are actually my step sisters and I've been thinking about what you just said.. Thanks once again |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Blupen969(m): 3:26pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:Do you really have a choice?? 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Cutehector:As in to work just tire them... They just love extravagant life. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Blupen969:Hmm... Im just in my early 20s. Don't you feel dis could lead to my downfall in future. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Blupen969(m): 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:Lol bros life no easy too many wicked, bitter and heartless people out there, just do what you gotta do to survive now forget about your future, they only thing that matters is NOW 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
stop paying for food at home and eat outside...dont touch their food and your life will be easier from that point on. let them fend for themselves. stop being a fool, NO MORE CHOP/COSMETICS MONEY FOR THEM! 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by pansophist(m): 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Find another place and live. It will solve all your problems. If you stop giving them money, it won't end the mental and emotional blackmail and torture youll pass through, so move out. Also you don't cast pearls to swines, meaning you don't give valuables to pigs. They lack the ability to appreciate it, they just can't. And you must accept that the pigs you hate outside can be your family. They said blood is thicker than water, that true, but do you know what's thicker than blood? It's love. Love is thicker. They don't treat you like someone they love. You should not tolerate it. Also, you must be comfortable being in people's bad book. You should always act right, but if anyone gets angry when you please yourself and treat yourself like you matter, it's their problem. Putting yourself first and refusing to be their beech is acting right. Leave them, and move on. 9 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by odinson1(m): 3:41pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Blupen969: I don't think you are alright at all 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by odinson1(m): 3:42pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules: My guy don't listen to that person that adviced you to give them all your money. The only thing you can do now is look for a new place to stay. Look for any of your guys that you can pair with and pay half the rent 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Nobody: 3:43pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Put yourself first, eat out , find a friend to live with . With people like your siblings you won't grow. 5 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by pansophist(m): 3:44pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
squash47: I hope you're joking sha, if not, this is nonsense. Firstly, you don't negotiate with someone that carries none of your responsibility. Same way you don't negotiate with your child which school he has to go, or if he will eat at Dominos or at home. To negotiate with such ungrateful, materialistic and unloving sisters is a very bad foundation. He should leave the house. Let them deal with themselves. He is like a fish in the midst of crocs. You don't negotiate, you evacuate. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Blupen969(m): 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
odinson1:Odinson1 nwanem i don't give a shit about what you think 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Blupen969(m): 3:51pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
odinson1:You are telling him to look for a new place to stay, you give am any new place to stay abi you think say na nigerian film be this? 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by squash47(m): 3:55pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
pansophist: That niqqa can't survive on d streets with 30k a month. Even he himself knows that, that's why he is looking for a way to tweak d situation. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 4:04pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Thanks big broππ |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 4:10pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
pansophist:You are a bag of wisdomππ Cos the last time I collected my pay without giving them for a week, they told the neighbors shit about me. The neighbors were angry when they heard the truth. |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Qatar2022: 4:10pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:That's Nigeria girls mentality for you, find friend or some space In your place work to stay for now 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Qatar2022: 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:No , hang around 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by Qatar2022: 4:13pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
SonOfHercules:That money you bring from your salary from the first month is the problem they thought you have more than enough, they shouldn't have known the day you received salary 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Advice.. It Is Urgent. by SonOfHercules: 4:14pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Blupen969:What if I save 10k per month while staying with them and still look for another job that pays at least 40,won't dat be a better option? |
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