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Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by LILTJAY: 8:54pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
hammerT:thunder strike your forehead |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by hammerT: 8:55pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
LILTJAY: YOUR FUTURE IS TO CHASE BALLOT BOX FOR TINUBU FAMILY AND APPOINTEE. USELESS YORUBA BOY! AGBERO! 2 Likes |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by LILTJAY: 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
hammerT:ogun kiss your lips |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by hammerT: 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Isabi4lov: EVERYDAY, IGBO THIS, IGBO THAT, NONSTOP. YOU GOT IT RIGHT, OP IS ONLY INCITING TRIBALISM. PAINTING A NARRATIVE ABOUT AFRICA BRIDE-PRICE TRADITION, BUT TARGETING IGBO PEOPLE. ACROSS AFRICA BRIDE PRICE ARE PAID AS A MARRIAGE RITE, IT IS ONLY YORUBA THAT I HAVE HEARD DONT DO BRIDE PRICE. NOW, U WOULD EXPECT YORUBA MEN TO BE MARRYING THEIR FREE WOMEN BUT NO, IT IS IGBO WOMEN WITH BRIDE PRICE. OK MARRY AND GO QUIETLY, NO, IGBO SHOULD ABANDON THEIR CULTURE AND FOLLOW YORUBA WAY. EVEN THE MOST POOREST PEOPLE IN SE ARE ALL MARRIED AND NO PROBLEM. BRIDE PRICE IS A PROUD AFRICAN CULTURE AND HAS NEVER BEEN A BARRIER TO MARRIAGE FROM THEN TILL NOW. PEOPLE THAT WANT TO MARRY DO SO DAILY, NOT OPENING TRIBALISTIC THREAD ON NAIRALAND TO CHAT SHIT. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by OmonnakOdapig: 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
4ckyou: |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Olivyabrown: 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
OmoGomesIlorin: Stop playing bro. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by hammerT: 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
LILTJAY: WHAT DA FCUCK IS OGUN? I'M NOT A YORUBA BOY. BLOODY BALLOT BOX CHASER! AGBERO! |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Isabi4lov: 9:00pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
hammerT: Are you minding him , he should stick to his tribe , I don't even know the lady that's forcing herself on him. I know that after the election, they'll start coming up with boring relationship stories , even the unserious ones , they will also have something to say . They ain't tired of inciting tribalism. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by LILTJAY: 9:00pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
hammerT:amadioha bless you 1 Like |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by mrghost: 9:01pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
You are certainly not going to do this. Your thought is already attracting this. You got open time to change that perspective and go pay that bride price now. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Asour: 9:06pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
sisisioge: Isn't it clear that the OP himself is Igbo? Looks so to me. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by alizma: 9:07pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
OmoGomesIlorin:Where are you from? This will help to properly advise you because the advise I will give an Igbo guy facing this situation is not the same I will give to a Yoruba or Hausa guy with the same situation. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Asour: 9:09pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Mercury12: There aren't poor or average married Igbos? Homeless or destitute Igbos? Stop thinking Monolithically. The North has a reputation for poverty YET the wealthiest man is from there! |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by HellVictorinho7: 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
nonsense |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by betshopagent(m): 9:12pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
OmoGomesIlorin:can you share the list let's see. We have some people from that town here. At least if you are saying the truth we would know. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Mercury12(m): 9:14pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Asour:well I'm not the one complaining about bride price. If he could afford it he won't be disturbing us on nairaland. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Adexgentle005(m): 9:16pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
4ckyou:Shoot your akamu inside. That exactly what I did to my Igbo baby mama. I went for introduction pay some money and she’s with me now! |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by WantsandMore: 9:17pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
OmoGomesIlorin:It's true, women marry up, men marry down on the sexual ladder |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Smartguyboy(m): 9:18pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
You can never know if you don’t try 30-50k you will see the list yourself and decide which way forward. Don’t believe whatever you see online na just for the trend. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Asour: 9:21pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Mercury12: All tribes of people complain of costs. Even rich men count the costs. And although they don't complain, when things go awry you hear things like: after all I did for her/her family. Nigeria is largely a poor country so it's hard to find a tribe in which even 20% are well to do. I.e. Rich. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Sambai65(m): 9:22pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
The person wey disvirgin her fi no give her on naira, this life no balance sha |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by richmanrichard: 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
From your siggy and posts you're a a tinubu's urchin. You are busy yabbing peter obi and easterners up and down. Why loat after a flathd daughter? Why not marry your fellow cone structures? Abi you wan mix your ugly gene with the angels of the easts? If you finally pay the bribe, invite me and I would come with my fellow flathds to plank your head. I' m from Anambra and I'm proudly obidient Igboman that hates conehds with passion. Kindly stay away from Anambra if you wish to still stay alive. Marry your ugly and dirty Ilorin she-goats. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by maxzzo1(m): 9:33pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Don't be silly bride price depends on d family |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by astonished: 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Karleb: Can you apply this logic to LP candidate in Lagos also, because every Yoruba wonder why he wants to rule people that he hate, oh I forget you all already claim Lagos is not Yoruba land |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by MichaelSokoto(m): 9:36pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Com Benin here com marry! bride price na #25 |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Connected1: 9:42pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Na hearsay you wan take marry woman. Please don't marry her because you will obviously apply gossips trends in how treat her. You haven't gone for yourself, yet you are complaining. Pro Tips: Dress averagely and don't appear big (so they don't over bill you) or poor (so they don't reject you). You can always negotiate and come back later to pay after hustling enough for it. |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Husj: 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Ask her first before making any hasty decision 1 Like |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Imagineers: 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Give her belle first. Every other thing shall be added unto you |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by galantjoe(m): 9:52pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Oga, am from Anambra State, our sister or daughter marital rites are not exorbitant, My advice for you is to ask the gal where she is not aware, you can do little introduction and ask for list. From the list, you will know if you can go further |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Madups(m): 10:00pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
Person been talk say mumu people plenty for this forum.. But me nor reason am until i see this comment. oluwaseyi0: |
Re: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by eroticecstasy: 10:01pm On Mar 21, 2023 |
OmoGomesIlorin: Listen up bro, make the move, don't bother asking her. My friend married from Anambra (Orifite), it wasn't a big deal. He was as scared as you are so we encouraged him to make the move. He's enjoying his ipobian kpekus now. Lolz. Warning: If you are the type that plays the card of ALPHA MALE, then abort mission, Anambra ladies are raised to be independent, if you do anyhow you'll see anyhow. 2 Likes |
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