I hope you have not make the mistake of marrying Tonto Dikeh gang?

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Maybe you like those things

Tell her to manage or Bleep off

rickleye:


Haha, it’s called midlife crisis.

Just tell her she is right and start the dating process again.
Many of us think our wives are like our mothers . Marry and keep for home. The game is changing bro. I am sure she has a friend on WhatsApp with whom she has discussed this with already.

1. Plan a date nite every week . Go catch a flick and have someone watch the kids.
2. Do something together with the family once a month. Go to Olumo Rock and Beach . A family outing .
3. Don’t forget her birthday make it exciting ( get her flowers or money - depending on her love language)
4. Make an effort to show PDA infront of the kids. Steal a kiss 💋, slap her buttocks , call her sexy mamacita or siren.
5. Make sex impromptu. After coitus , ask would like a glass of water or wine to relax ( she will laugh and say , thank you yes or no )
6. If you are just Spooning dude , change into missionary or doggy . ( now sex and love are not the same) . Massage and ask her where she may want to be touched to excite her …

Make the effort !!! You might not be comfortable doing any of the above but as you mentioned it appears she never “ lived “ done anything she wanted to do . Her first born is 10.
And it’s been mummy this , mummy that !

I would give her the leg chain *

Don’t ignore her warnings or else someone else will fill the void.

OP please take this guy's advise

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

that is what being too comfortable brings out in women. If she is thinking of how to get her next meal she won't remember romance let alone waistbead and tattoo.

vincenteger:
It's not everything women say to you that you carry to heart. Most times they don't mean it that way.

Try and settle your issues within yourself rather than bring them here. People will only advice you based on how they feel.

Oga are you joking or what?


After 10yrs of marriage a woman is telling her husband he isn't romantic and you expect him not to be worried? The man doesn't need a prophet or babalawo to tell him her mind is already somewhere else.....That woman is already getting "something"outside or craving for what she thinks her husband won't be able to give her.

She's no longer yours bro

influence...


leave her to Goan taste Romantic-ness nau

Lovilla:
That is too bad of her

Just give her time, she will change

Shut up if you don't have anything reasonable to say. Give her time to do what. I wonder the type of men we have this days. My wife brought eyelashes that she want to fix, I told her, not in my house, she can go out and rent an apartment and do as she want but as long as she is under my roof she will not do as she want.

What's the BIG DEAL about the comment? I'm more worried about the fact that soon Nigerians may need to pay 750 for a litre of gasoline. You should too!

I advice you check your wife phone if she dey follow Blessing Okoro CEO may be na were she dey tap her anointing.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Eyah...she has finally shown you her true colour

ItisWell22:


Guyyyyy… 😂

Even me wey be woman begin laugh as I read the heading… 🤣😂

After 10 years!!

How?? 😫

it not funny because 70 percent or more married men get to hear this from their wives more especially those ones that are a bit comfortable. NO much things to think about about so romance comes to mind.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

She done dey go

PerfectStranger:

APC change

I couldn't help the laughter my brother 🤣🤣

You've long lost her...she has joined big gang

Albertone:


You can only please a woman that want to be pleased.

If a man earning 200k a month is giving his wife 100k out of it, she can still cheat on him with a man earning 1m monthly and giving her 300k out of it.

That one better sef. She can cheat with her neighbour's unemployed nephew and be giving the guy 20k out of the 100k from her husband

Increase your make up styles and get emotional in your body.

Is she still looking hot after 10 years of marriage and 3 kids?
Better look for a side chick, a little upgrade is necessary.
Love should not be a finite thing.

You don’t have juice again

Qatar2022:

Oga stop complaining it maybe true, She has been enduring it since because of love and she do not want to kill your ego as a man

So is that her excuse for now wanting to get a too and multiple piercings like a typical young girl when she has children? Blaming the OP is not the solution..the wife has been waiting for the day to unleash her true colours

snthesis:

her message and yours feels like a threat to me, i dont do threats

You felt so because it is your wife that's complaining.

Had it been it was you that came up with such thought, you would have gotten a side chick since even the men will advise you to have a side chick .

Are women not allowed to express their feelings again.

Sometimes I do tell my guy that he's not romantic and the likes .

You should have asked your wife first , In what areas are you not being romantic .

There's no marital problem that will come online and you won't see bad advices :Ps , 90% of the advices you will get is "DIVORCE"

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

After 10 years is now she knows you are not romantic?

Oga, she has been on TV and social media too much (probably especially Instagram) and she has been comparing her life with other girls flashing flash lives.

She is probably also trying to get attention of men to feel good about herself after borning 3, and she is receiving it on the streets or online. Now she is thinking maybe it was not smart to have married early and she should have lived babygirl life for a while.

She is now just looking at, and reviewing, her life and wondering "Did she pick right? Was this the best she could do? Is this all there is to this fantasy called marriage she dreamt of?".

She will not tell you all these thoughts because she knows it will come across as unreasonable if other people hear this, and she will take the blame.

So, saying that you are not romantic is her strategy of placing accountability and blame with you, and not her emotions and greedy eyes, if things go wrong and she later decides to explore.

Now she can have a defence of "I told him and he did not change. So it is his fault anything I do!".

Women hate accountability!

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

One of the negative effects of a woman marrying young and locking her feminity all in the name of being a good wife and raising a family. When the time comes and that tamed beast wants to be free, it will come at the expense of everything you both have hypocritically built. Sit her down and have a open heart conversation and do not hold back. Two things or rather three things might happen. One; You both embrace these changes she seeks and have a mad ride for the next 5-10 years. Two; You subdue her once again and she pretends to be happy only to live a double life or end up depressed (this will not end well for you) and Three; You both go your separate ways because you are two different people.

OboOlora:
Alaye
Another guy don de Bleep ur wife

Don't confuse the man please. Most married women want to explore between the age of 30-40. Not necessarily she has started tasting another man

Watch out bro, her mind is shifting to somewhere else. These creatures called women are impossible to understand no matter how hard u try.

Samantha124:
Remember when you buy a woman's love with money, immediately your financials start to struggle or go down south, so as your lovelife.

Or maybe when he married her she was still naive and didn't know what she really wanted in a relationship or marriage and she just discovered herself when she turned 30.

Most married women want to explore between the age of 30-40

blaquebelle:
1. She feels she married you too early
2. She is comparing you to other husbands in her vicinity or on social media
3. She feels she missed out on exploring alot when she was younger and she wants to start now

Check the type of friends she's keeping.

thats a good point, she has some new friends at her place of work

PROPHETmichael:
You've lost your wife to Jezebel. First step in recovering your wife is to take her phone, go to her instagram and make sure you unfollow/block Blessing CEO and Nkechi Blessing.

😂😂😂😂😂

Dey play , there are so many groups on Facebook apart from the aforementioned names , how many the man go block.

Anyone tha takes social media serious won't take his or her marriage serious .

At least no be everytime woman go dey worry about side chicks , make men too dey worry about side corks 😅😅😅

Everybody go dey alright las las las

advanceDNA:
Should we tell him?

Madam have it rough outside where she finally cum and she can’t hide the frustration anymore to you that why she voice it out.

Lol enjoying 🍆 somewhere now.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

There’s no relationship/nexus between tattoos, piercings and leg chains and being romantic, most men are built to be solution providers not being romantic.

You might want to know what’s missing or what she will want you to do more. As for the others each to his own, mine is a no no but whatever rocks your boat is fine. Cheers