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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by camri: 3:21pm On Mar 30, 2023
Divoc19:
This world can never end. It only ends when one dies and it begins when one is born

Ok, but maybe God is more useful after one dies because that is prolly where one will understand life and it's existence better.

Since the hereafter is a mystery, I want to believe what I want to believe and not what anyone coerce me to believe.

God is an entity to me


who created god
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by cedricksly: 3:22pm On Mar 30, 2023
sulakishop:
Why did you marry?

What sort of emotional and psychological punishment is this?

I just weak!
the lady is Manipulating the man and the man is stupid enough not to even see it..

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by qtguru(m): 3:22pm On Mar 30, 2023
LoveTalk:

I'm speechless.

No vex Cynthia lol grin
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by LoveTalk(f): 3:24pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


No vex Cynthia lol grin
You say??
The stuff is very very. cheesy
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Chirowman(m): 3:27pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


Yes, I did, one of them is cheating or Jide is gay. who marries into celibacy
do you think that everything has to be centered on cheating and gay . When you come to terms that sex only works when you have thought of it and a burning desire for it . That's when it controls you ,some married folks stay months in same room without sex . Some men and women stay years without sex , it's all about decision.

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by grandstar(m): 3:29pm On Mar 30, 2023
Can someone provide the TLDR? This post is damn too long

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by rickleye: 3:33pm On Mar 30, 2023
BigCabal:


https://www.zikoko.com/ships/love-life-were-married-but-celibate/

Crap can’t believe lost appetite for reading .
Can someone summarize ? TIA
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by COMPUTERVILLA(m): 3:33pm On Mar 30, 2023
BigCabal:


https://www.zikoko.com/ships/love-life-were-married-but-celibate/

PLEASE HELP ME TELL THEM, GOD IS ALREADY ANGRY WITH THEM.

GOD GAVE AN INSTRUCTION TO GO AND MULTIPLY, IF THEY HAVE PLANS TO HAVE CHILDREN, IT'S FINE BUT IF NOT THEN NO TO CONTINUE THE MARRIAGE.
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by rickleye: 3:33pm On Mar 30, 2023
grandstar:
Can someone provide the TLDR? This post is damn too long

Crap lol 😂. Just what I said
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Mom007(f): 3:35pm On Mar 30, 2023
Relationship 201
How to know you are dating/ marrying a liar...
Pro tip; He will say he can give up sex forever, forever o, just to be with you! undecided

Instead of helping her find solution to her problem, you choose to join in her folly abi?

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Maxxim: 3:54pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


It's like licking ice cream with nylon on it undecided
grin
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by chidekings(m): 3:54pm On Mar 30, 2023
cedricksly:
the lady is Manipulating the man and the man is stupid enough not to even see it..
he clearly does not know.
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Octopusssy(f): 4:06pm On Mar 30, 2023
Hian
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by dontrulee: 4:10pm On Mar 30, 2023
I can relate to this story because I'm asexual. I've found ways to gain pleasure that's higher than that from sexual pleasure. My current gf is a virgin and asexual too

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by funshint(m): 4:18pm On Mar 30, 2023
One or both of them are hiding something. Time is a revealer. Goodluck to them! grin
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by grandstar(m): 4:19pm On Mar 30, 2023
rickleye:


Crap lol 😂. Just what I said
grin grin grin

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by yinkeys(m): 4:21pm On Mar 30, 2023
Sex is the glue that holds every heterosexual relationship
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Elsueno: 4:21pm On Mar 30, 2023
i can't understand, this doesn't just make sense to me....... Celibacy in marriage?....that's against every single religious teaching known to mankind ( Traditional, Christianity, Islamic)...Hey even atheists Knack......The woman needs psychological evaluation to cure her of this mental disease 😂
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Munzy14(m): 4:28pm On Mar 30, 2023
sulakishop:
Why did you marry?

What sort of emotional and psychological punishment is this?

I just weak!
I weak pass you on this...🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 30, 2023
Fiction story or should I say novel, when u talk of fiction this one no even follow abeg, this could pass off as tissue paper to clean a 89yr olds yansh approaching death, to give his yansh one last clean before he leaves, this is complete bull crap and the writer visualizes from under oshodi flyover
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by qtguru(m): 4:51pm On Mar 30, 2023
Chirowman:
do you think that everything has to centered on cheating and gay . When you come to terms that sex only works when you have thought of it and a burning desire for it . That's when it controls you ,some married folks stay months in same room without sex . Some men and women stay years without sex , it's all about decision.

Sorry, I do not understand the concept of asexuality. Why would I be with a sexless woman esp as someone with a high libido? there are women who want sex in a marriage. let the frigid couples stay with each other.

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Re: We’re Married But Celibate by qtguru(m): 4:52pm On Mar 30, 2023
dontrulee:
I can relate to this story because I'm asexual. I've found ways to gain pleasure that's higher than that from sexual pleasure. My current gf is a virgin and asexual too

You don't like sex ? why ? undecided don't you have urges as a man ?
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by dontrulee: 5:00pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


You don't like sex ? why ? undecided don't you have urges as a man ?
.

I do have urges but I've found a way to transform them. My first sex wasn't enjoyable maybe I was expecting too much from it. I had previously learned the method of sustaining ecstasy through natural meditation techniques.

The pleasure obtain from sexual intercourse is very minute compared to that from Meditation
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Tommydare(m): 5:00pm On Mar 30, 2023
All these Atheists dem. Very confused lots.
Blupen969:
Divoc19 Now i want you to ask yourself why would god create weird things like this, it is even weird to you and you are just a human being, then how will it be in the eyes of god and yet it doesn't stop but it keeps geting weirder? do you really believe deep down in your heart that there"s a God??
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by qtguru(m): 5:02pm On Mar 30, 2023
dontrulee:
.

I do have urges but I've found a way to transform them. My first sex wasn't enjoyable maybe I was expecting too much from it. I had previously learned the method of sustaining ecstasy through natural meditation techniques.

The pleasure obtain from sexual intercourse is very minute compared to that from Meditation

Any resource, I'd be interested in that
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by dontrulee: 5:05pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


Any resource, I'd be interested in that

I started with reading books by Osho, then watching his videos on YouTube.

I also did the same with Sadhguru
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Rinoxy: 5:08pm On Mar 30, 2023
Tonalphs:
grin grin
I guess this is a novel and should be in the literature section. How did it find its way to front page undecided undecided cos few NL read novels.
This is one in a million stories/experiences, so it's worth the front page.
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Pootle: 5:10pm On Mar 30, 2023
cock and bull
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by Rinoxy: 5:10pm On Mar 30, 2023
feckos:
I bet many won't read this.

The subject is enough summary.
I enjoyed the intelligent interview/conversation, and I learnt some new words to add to my vocabulary.
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by qtguru(m): 5:12pm On Mar 30, 2023
dontrulee:


I started with reading books by Osho, then watching his videos on YouTube.

I also did the same with Sadhguru

I listen to Sadhguru, thanks I will watch out for Osho
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by iammolise(m): 5:13pm On Mar 30, 2023
This is awkward, they should've better stayed friends, like SEX only on new year's day, mehhn that's very very unhealthy... Hope premium tears won't come later as a result undecided
Re: We’re Married But Celibate by dontrulee: 5:13pm On Mar 30, 2023
qtguru:


I listen to Sadhguru, thanks I will watch out for Osho

You're welcome.
Osho to me still remains the best mystic

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