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How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by sync(f): 9:00pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
I had a terrible breakup last year December. It was a relationship of six years. My ex treated me very badly after all these years with him. He moved on without looking back. It’s almost five months now, I still do not have appetite to eat, I can’t bring myself to listen to love songs as it saddens me, I still cry everyday and everything reminds me of him. How long does it really take to get over someone and please how do I get over him. I am drained |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Darnell9(m): 9:05pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Talk to friends that's the only thing that can help now, avoid staying alone esp when depressed 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Curious345: 9:14pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
3days if you're not a lazy youth .. For the idle renegades , it could take a lifetime |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Snitch24(m): 9:15pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
As long as you start making food money after the heart break Focus more on that 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by wumi2017(f): 9:18pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
This is me right now 🥲 |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Qatar2022: 9:18pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
24 hours |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by virginprincess(f): 9:18pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
So you haven't eating since 5months Chai,sorry I feel your pain ,but my dear let me tell you something no Nigeria man is worth the pain you are through especially the the one that treated you badly. 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by czarr(m): 9:24pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
I don't think you have job...that is why your heart break pass two weeks, you are jobless and still eating mama thank you. You ex probably took care of all your needs, financially speaking, that is why he moved on fast because he has to hustle. My advice, get a job. Can't you praise God? |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Westerhoffe(m): 9:27pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Get a hold of yourself. Learn to let go of people, because if you don't let go, they will let go. Don't hurt yourself over a broken relationship, as there are billions of people wishing they have you. Take yourself up from the broken pieces, mend yourself and start all over again… this time, with your brains before your heart. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Ikennaford: 9:32pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Lol, is because na only you deh the relationship, you invested more, that's why, even go pain you till you exit this planet |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Negroid001(m): 9:43pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
sync:Y'all that date someone for six years, how una dey run am. Make una come teach me 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by sync(f): 9:47pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Westerhoffe: Thank you for this 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Tickles001(m): 9:52pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
sync: If you're "really" heart broken. It takes an average of 4years to heal satisfactorily, but may take a decade to heal completely. No amount of being busy, and singing praises can help you. It will only distract you for the time being. The only thing I know that can help is a paradigm shift. You must re-evaluate your reasoning, how you understand human relationships. Then you'd realise why the heartbreak happened and the roles you played in it. Understanding the why, leads you to accept the situation and head for higher grounds. 5 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:03pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
just because men "seem" to move on unfazed after a breakup, doesnt mean we do...its just that we are better at dealing with our emotions (while we all know you women are emotional wrecks). everyone is different, every r/ship is different, but no matter the breakup, eventually you will get over it. 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by holocron: 10:16pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
It should pass away before a year, except you have mental health challenges. Naturally, once out of sight, also out of mind. If it lingers go for psychiatric treatment or psychological counseling. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by holocron: 10:19pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Tickles001: Shit! That amount of time you gave is caused by preexisting mental health challenges, it's not normal. Normal person, a few months, maximum a year. |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by VictorMessi1: 10:21pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
There is no specific and standard period of time for the healing of heartbreak. It depends on the level of love you have too. And there is no single thing you can do to quick heal your heart pain. But also bear in mind that everyone must experience heartbreak. I was heartbroken twice in 2019. Those heartbreaks were worse than physical pain. I want you to know that it is a normal thing not because you are unfortunate. 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Tickles001(m): 10:24pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
holocron: Well, the word heartbreak is being misused these days. A little disappointment and you will hear heartbreak. Real heartbreak takes a long time to heal. If you healed and moved on within months, then you were never heartbroken. It has nothing to do with mental health. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Rathoreng(m): 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Its positive dropping, your issue here, well the primitive cause of you, being encapsulating your issue here might be you've never moved on, im not being asinine, curing your issues might be drowning like a coastline paradox; but ill state them; 1. If you have your pics of memories together, delete them asap; so as not to found your self in another level of predicament. lastly; stop revisiting your old chats. read books also such as 'games people play' and 'game of desire' |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by frozen70(f): 2:38am On Apr 22, 2023 |
sync: Heart breaks is part of relationships experience So you have mourn the dead relationship You have to dust yourself and move on to another relationship before your mind will develop hatred for relationship Next time don't allow such relationship to be too long, you will end up hoping on an empty relationship Good luck and learn from your past mistakes 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by kelspinall(m): 7:22am On Apr 22, 2023 |
sorry dear, instead of thinking of all that happened,its best you move on and if you find it difficult to move on, it's best you find something positive to occupy your mind things like goals, creating a goal has been a better way to overlook negative things.. lastly pray for comfort and abstain from anything relationship be it group,page or videos until you recover very well... life ain't fair to the good hearts.... please get well 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Nobody: 9:21am On Apr 22, 2023 |
I think it depends on how much you loved the person and how long you've been together. Your case is understandable because you were together for 6 years... I wish I could give you better advice, but I've never been in a six years relationship that failed in the end. I'll leave the other nairalanders with experience to advise you. |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Godsongang: 9:26am On Apr 22, 2023 |
6years relationship? Ahhh! What is relationship self? Enikure . |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Starz825(m): 9:31am On Apr 22, 2023 |
sync: kindly permit me to be the shoulder you can lean on for now till you find your footing. ask for my number (whatsapp only)...if you are interested... thanks |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Medianna(f): 10:09am On Apr 22, 2023 |
holocron:That's not true Heart break is very possible to reach 4 years.. even more. |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by teekay213(m): 12:13pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
How many abortions have you done for him for those 6 years? One innocent will come and marry and pay a dowry of a broken damage woman and still if the ex showed up again you will still go and Bleep him again |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by qtguru(m): 12:26pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Things to try: Gym Project Friends Music And going out. I think you should have broken up with him since if he treated you bad but Pele 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by sync(f): 12:54pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
teekay213:May God forgive you |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Henryfour(m): 12:56pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
virginprincess: Nigeria men is worth it, just advice her to learn to 4get d guy buy getting someone else fast |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Divay22(f): 1:03pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
First, you've to be intentional about moving on.. Second, try and start going out more often.. Do what makes you happy...Take pictures and keep telling yourself you'll be fine.. You don't have to jump into another relationship if you're not ready.. Take your time... Something tells me he'll come back sha Just don't be miserable abeg.. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Does It Take To Get Over A Heart Break by Yugoslavia247(m): 1:05pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
sync: Shey na him deflower you. If na him add extra 3 months. |
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