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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by princefrank76: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
Sorry, seems like I ran out of English data bundles.
grin grin

Funny girl. It's fine
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023
Okay.
clockwisereport:
Husband to be
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by biggz82: 4:53pm On Apr 26, 2023
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?



You no Sabi read abi na to understand wetin you read be your problem.

"HUSBAND TO BE"
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Elev82014: 4:53pm On Apr 26, 2023
Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?


You better confront him with the evidence that you have and call off the wedding or else you're gonna be in a big a$$ pile of sh*t!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by saphiere(f): 4:54pm On Apr 26, 2023
vincenteger:
A lot seem to be passing through people oo
Confront him about your finding
He should tell you the truth and if at the end he confirmed to be gay
Then you can choose to cancel the marriage for your own piece of mind.

But if you choose otherwise
Just be ready to share him and also be invited for thresom
What truth again do you want?

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Konjiboii: 4:54pm On Apr 26, 2023
What help do you seek, mans is gay. Can you live with the thought of your husband,provider, protector,lover is getting anally stretched?
The choice is yours.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by malvisguy212: 4:54pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
but the op say " my husband to be" .....i dont even believe the story
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Enemyofpeace: 4:55pm On Apr 26, 2023
OP run o! In case you don't know seun is single and searching.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by GOVERNORR: 4:55pm On Apr 26, 2023
Trust22:



LoL... If u can stay with a gay man for years without knowing especially if u r not spiritually lifted.... Some of them are actively into both genders

It's a good thing to be observant and learn body language.. It's not possible to pretend for too long to one who can read
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by LeyeWrites: 4:55pm On Apr 26, 2023
smile11s:
All these story that touches can be avoid if we support LGBTQ+*

Imagine a life that we all can live the truths, do you think there will be gay men faking it with women?

You don’t have to be gay to support gay, you are only supporting them to live the truth and be happy. This sister wouldn’t be in this situation if we allowed everyone to live in their truth.
Shut that trap mouth of yours

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Filmdirect: 4:56pm On Apr 26, 2023
Noblegraphix20:
Thank God you found out b4 marriage..
But he will change.. U can also help him to change by praying and also by satisfying him in the ozza room..
Because you can't stop him from hanging out with his males friends

No he will not. Please don’t make the mistake of marrying him.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by tunize(m): 4:57pm On Apr 26, 2023
E be things.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:57pm On Apr 26, 2023
But I apologized already.

My English decided to go out the window, but I managed to catch it back.. cheesy cheesy cheesy
malvisguy212:
but the op say " my husband to be" .....i dont even believe the story

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by nedekid: 4:59pm On Apr 26, 2023
You weh be man?

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Naajjii: 4:59pm On Apr 26, 2023
Sicilyjoe:
He is bisexual not gay
This is how you people try to make it sounds cool. All we know in our culture is that bisexual, gay are all the same. They are all called gay ,abomination.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by isblog(m): 4:59pm On Apr 26, 2023
He is not your husband yet, let that stick.

I will say that you leave him now and go on with your life. There is way too much risk than gain with him and please HIV is child’s play compared to the numerous infections you can carry. Your mental health and the lie you will force yourself to live in. Now you have the chance, correct it. God be with you
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by frozen70(f): 4:59pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

No need to cancel the wedding as you are already pregnant and you love him

Seat him down and let him know that you are aware of his dirty life

Counsel him and draw him close God

Gradually he will come out of its especially if it's just one gay partner

That means he hasn't gone deep into it

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by zikmano: 5:00pm On Apr 26, 2023
You found out early. Just find your way.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by smile11s(m): 5:02pm On Apr 26, 2023
LeyeWrites:
Shut that trap mouth of yours

Wetin you sabi? Cow
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Fedelma: 5:04pm On Apr 26, 2023
Run & never look back, if you mistakenly enters the marriage that day you end to be happy in your life. They don't change 😮😮
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Orinechi: 5:04pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
Dou understand English at all?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Princelumide: 5:04pm On Apr 26, 2023
Fist thing first...
Go and check your HIV status...
embarassed undecided
Then call off the wedding... Nothing can change a gay dude except God's intervention.
Bless you.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Yusufisraelj(m): 5:05pm On Apr 26, 2023
ahnie:
cheesy
May I asked,if he's a Nigerian man?
Pls am asking for a friend.

Is this stupid joke necessary?

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 26, 2023
No, I don't.

I understand Sepedi more than English.. smiley smiley smiley
Orinechi:
Dou understand English at all?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by sameks08(m): 5:06pm On Apr 26, 2023
The best advice for you from me is to run for your dear life if not you will share it with other men
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by AsomArchitectNG(m): 5:06pm On Apr 26, 2023
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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Corridon: 5:07pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
This is a fake story.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Joeyfizzo: 5:07pm On Apr 26, 2023
advanceDNA:
Fake story...

But shaa go for HIV test shaaa...cos gay pple...i no just get their collabo with HIV
everything in ur life is fake story .. Idiot!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Jokerman(m): 5:07pm On Apr 26, 2023
smile11s:
All these story that touches can be avoid if we support LGBTQ+*

Imagine a life that we all can live the truths, do you think there will be gay men faking it with women?

You don’t have to be gay to support gay, you are only supporting them to live the truth and be happy. This sister wouldn’t be in this situation if we allowed everyone to live in their truth.

No happiness for gays... Sorry
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by seguno2: 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Is he called Alex by any chance

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Joeyfizzo: 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2023
Check for HIV ...call off the marriage. You will get another man.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by kingthreat(m): 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Women can take cheating by their man on their gender and later forgive
But a woman taking cheating on their man with a fellow man, that is daily torture. Don't embrace that LGBT nonsense. Gay sex is disgusting and a chief transmitter of disease. Be happy that you got to know before you get entangled for life. End the marriage plans now. A better man out there.

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