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This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 3:22pm On May 02, 2023 |
Hello all! This is the backstory: Sometimes last year ending, I attended the burial of my boss' mom. This burial ceremony took place late last year. We first of all went to the church, then from there we proceeded to the home of the woman. During the course of the burial proceedings in the church, I mistakenly sat on my phone. There was a lot of sitting and standing. So, in one of the many sitting 'downs', I mistakenly sat on my phone that was on the pew. My phone was affected. It went bad, but not so bad though, just a little ink that appeared at the bottom of the phone. The phone screen didn't crack at all, just the ink that appeared. I didn't like the fact that the ink is there, so I decided it's better I get another phone. This phone was bought for me by my boss, when he heard the story of how my former phone was snatched from me while on transit. He felt pity and gave me the money I used to purchase this one I'm using currently. The phone is just a year old, not upto two years, until this incidence of my phone going bad happened. Why I stopped talking to him: About last week or there about, I asked my boss( Although, I no longer work with him. I worked with his mum before she passed, but he's the one that pays my salary then), to please get me another phone, that the one I'm using is so bad. When I sent the chat, he said he'll get back to me soon, maybe he was busy. So, he later replied with this " hello dear, I've been looking, but not lucky yet", something like that, I've forgotten the exact thing he said. I don't want to open the chat again because it will make me view some pictures/videos or messages he has sent me on WhatsApp, because after I got that reply ( though I don't know what he meant there) I stopped chatting with him or talking to him. He has sent some pictures/videos and messages on WhatsApp, but I'm not going to reply, at least not yet. The thing is, I don't like what he did. This is someone that can afford hundred of the phone. Someone that has lands here and there, houses with tenants here and there, plus other businesses fetching him cool money, someone that has about 4 Porsches, Benz, Range Rover, lexus and other cars in his garage. Then, you now ask the person to please get you a phone that the one you're using is bad, and then you're getting this reply, (even though I don't know what the reply meant), as a person how would you feel? Did I do the right thing ignoring him? Did I do something wrong by ignoring him? I need your opinions/ suggestions. This will determine if I'm going to reply or ignore him. He sent me some videos/pictures and messages on WhatsApp, but I'm yet to open them or reply them. He doesn't know I'm angry with him. Please, I would appreciate your input on this. If you're in my shoes, what would you do? Thanks! 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Zonefree(m): 3:25pm On May 02, 2023 |
Command him to buy you a land too 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 3:30pm On May 02, 2023 |
Zonefree:It's phone I wanted not land. And the phone is nothing compared to the land. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Immatex(m): 3:32pm On May 02, 2023 |
Command him to buy you Common-sense too! 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 3:39pm On May 02, 2023 |
Immatex:What's that supposed to mean? Please, I don't want kids here. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Immatex(m): 3:41pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Your father is a kid! 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by godliman: 3:49pm On May 02, 2023 |
You speak as if it is your right, is buying phone in the employment contract? That is why those guys said you should command him. It is not a right but a privilege. If he refuses to buy you have no right to be angry. Ironically you are the one behaving like a kid here- sorry if I am hard on you. 34 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 4:02pm On May 02, 2023 |
godliman:No, I didn't command him at all. It was a plea. I even told him if he has any that he isn't using, that I'll be interested in having it, so far it's good. So, it wasn't something of command at all. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by worldclass68(m): 4:05pm On May 02, 2023 |
I think u re only doing ursef....with that bad entitlement mentality..... Shey nah u gave him all his properties or ur family once did him any huge favor?...for u not to even grateful that he got u the first one in the first place...lol Else he's asking u out/ flirting u....with those aforementioned vids and pics lol 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by constance500: 4:17pm On May 02, 2023 |
B like you and your boss don don't the do or he's still nursing your entitled ass to bed cos what's all this nonsense.. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by lyriclekidd(m): 5:03pm On May 02, 2023 |
You dy vex for your helper, na your sef you dy do π€£π€£π 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by godliman: 5:33pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:He has the right to refuse given you and you don't have the right to be angry. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 02, 2023 |
Funny thread πππ |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Victor2707: 5:45pm On May 02, 2023 |
You entitled su-cker 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by JustPowerApps(m): 5:47pm On May 02, 2023 |
Your mumu no too much like this? You ghosted someone you are seeking help from, what if those pics are varieties of phones for you to pick your choice. When you are done doing urself , your eye will open I have seen people like this before, they turn berserk the moment you offer to help them. Makes me wonder why they seek for the help in the first place. NB Kindly blovk him so the village people can complete their task. Even if you have anything against your said boss, why don't you get the phone first before you bring it up. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:06pm On May 02, 2023 |
Nlfpmod, please help with wider views. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:06pm On May 02, 2023 |
Killbillz:What's funny here? |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:09pm On May 02, 2023 |
worldclass68:This is someone that has different types of cars, houses and landed properties here and there. Na wa. Someone that can afford even hundred of the phone. And I know the phone won't be more than or even upto 200k. And the phone got bad when I attended his mum's burial. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by cadet222(m): 6:10pm On May 02, 2023 |
This girl is an attention seeker. Take her serious at your own peril. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:12pm On May 02, 2023 |
cadet222:I'm really serious here. I would have showed the chats here if it was possible to do so. Anything I share or post here, I always like to support with proof, so you all won't think I'm lying or joking, when I'm not. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Autobot05: 6:31pm On May 02, 2023 |
Why cant you get a phone with your salary ... or are you not being paid ?? Omo 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by nerdfrost(m): 6:33pm On May 02, 2023 |
This post reeks of entitlement 5 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 6:57pm On May 02, 2023 |
Autobot05:I'm currently jobless. I'm no longer working for him. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 7:20pm On May 02, 2023 |
nlfpmod. |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by torqque7(m): 7:39pm On May 02, 2023 |
Nonsense..I can bet that her boss has Nyashed her many times thatβs what is giving her the mind to feel entitled and the boss is a mumu guy sha.. 7 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Streetmovement(m): 7:47pm On May 02, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking Another foolish goat Entitled mentality plus lack of common sense is not good for you my sister. Useless thread 4 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Waffarianman(m): 7:49pm On May 02, 2023 |
Woman with demanding are like 5&6 D's na urgent 2k Oloshos dem 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by worldclass68(m): 7:56pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Hmmm, but things re not really play out that way...if u continue to snub him, you would be the one to still lose ...who knows if he's got something even bigger for you....and mind u, if he kept dashing things/money out like that, he wouldn't have gotten what he got...... Being a cheerful give is considered (mumuism)
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Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by fadilaMaikiriki: 8:10pm On May 02, 2023 |
worldclass68:Hmmmm! Is that what you think? |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by daylaysongs: 9:50pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:abeg how old are you? 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Autobot05: 10:49pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Then why should he get you a phone ? When you're not longer working for him 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I Don't Talk To My Boss Anymore. Did I Do The Right Thing? by Danlax(f): 10:53pm On May 02, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki:It's not as if yo can't afford a phone yourself, but yo just want to eat your cake and have it at same time....! Entitlement has eaten huge part of you guys..! And you're proud to say that "you're angry with him" Tueeh.! On another man's money πNawa oh |
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