Krak:


Suicide is an option and some people are clearly taking it. I am tired of Nigerians always repeating the same thing every time as if by rote.

All the people choosing suicide, why are they taking it if it's not an option?

Shut up joor do you know suicide is a punishable crime under the law. Why will you even contemplate killing a life you don't even own in the first place. Anyone who commit suicide is just a stupid bastard coward

Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

Lawd!
Are you serious

Are you sure you were not cheating on her and she was so heartbroken and ended it all
How can she be your fiancee and yet you didn't know the demons she's had to fight? Killing oneself is not something you arrive at and execute all in same day.

Too bad for her family.

My condolences.

It's well. May her soul rest in peace

Me and my girlfriend had misunderstanding and There was a time my girlfriend told me that she will kill herself if I breakup with her and she serious about it. Immediately I heard that I have to reset my mind and reconcile with her. During this process I was looking for a way to break up with her in such a way she won't feel the pain.. now we Don move on

Am 100% sure this OP knows why the girl committed suicide. He does not want to tell us the full story.

Juliearth:





Funny enough, I don't blame him. He may have acted dismissively because he paid too much attention to the redpillers here. In no time, people will come to realise that feminism and redpill-ism are demonic agenda.

May her soul find rest.

Blame Redpill very typical of women, not ready to take responsibility

That redpill movement is a response to how women manipulate men, rob them of their resources and causes them heartache.

If you look around that woman i am 100% sure there were some guys that genuinely cared for her but she wouldn't give them any chance.

OP can't be blame for another adult human decisions. We all have our shits to take care of

Sucre6:


This doesn't have anything to do with being a red piller, redpill didn't teach u not to be sensitive and attentive to your loved ones, he acted very childish, someone was sounding off on the phone, common sense should tell u that all wasn't well with her. But insensitiveness made him not to realise that, I am a red piller but I care about those in my life red pill didn't teach u to be insensitive, red pill teaches you not to simp around women.

Being sensitive to woman u claim you love and want to marry isn't simping, it's called caring but op was too insensitive to notice any of that, If he showed care and inquired more by calming her down, maybe, just maybe she would have opened up to him and this death could have been averted

Have you been following the red pill campaign and banters here? Do you think it stops at being stingy and mean towards women alone? I am not saying op is a redpiller, but op may have been able to get her to talk if he had pushed a little bit more or showed extra care and concern, an act that would be tagged a simp move here.

This is what nairaland has turned you people into, alpha male or bitter male.

A nice guy would av done everything to avert this. But this days una no ready to pet girl again.

Tell or you Bleep off.... Then you move onto the next

PureFace1:



Blame Redpill very typical of women, not ready to take responsibility

That redpill movement is a response to how women manipulate men, rob them of their resources and causes them heartache.

If you look around that woman i am 100% sure there were some guys that genuinely cared for her but she wouldn't give them any chance.

Resist the urge to shalayè...there's really no point...women dont care about ur explanation cos they prefer stupid men they can exploit...so redpill will never make sense to them even if u explain it in different forms....

but they themselves are low key redpill and also want their son and brothers to be redpill

Juliearth:




Have you been following the red pill campaign and banters here? Do you think it stops at being stingy and mean towards women alone? I am not saying op is a redpiller, but op may have been able to get her to talk if he had pushed a little bit more or showed extra care and concern, an act that would be tagged a simp move here.

Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid

Foodqueen:
This is what nairaland has turned you people into, alpha male or bitter male.

A nice guy would av done everything to avert this. But this days una no ready to pet girl again.

Tell or you Bleep off.... Then you move into the next

Pet koor..
Bingo nii...

When una don turn any small hello and petting to an opportunity to exploit.. u now want to blame the men and nairaland...

every body should hustle for their mental health and stop blaming other pple for their fvcked up shiit.....

Sucre6:


Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid

Funny you can't see her pathetic attempt to Gaslight you

She called redpill men stingy why can't you ask her why Nigerian women feel so entitle to the money of any guy that show interest in them ? We are not their father or Husband and they should go get a job if they are so broke instead of looking for a relationship to siphon money from.

Rejecting their manipulation tactics and bad behaviors doesn't also mean we are mean, if we are mean they can always choose from the list of guys orbiting around them that won't say no to all their unreasonable requests and tolerate disrespect from them.

You would have called her sister or anyone close to check on her not blaming you though. Take heart and erase the 'if I had known' from your head

PureFace1:



Funny you can't see her pathetic attempt to Gaslight you

She called redpill men stingy why can't you ask her why Nigerian women feel so entitle to the money of any guy that show interest in them ? We are not their father or Husband and they should go get a job if they are so broke instead of looking for a relationship to siphon money from.

Rejecting their manipulation tactics and bad behaviors doesn't also mean we are mean, if we are mean they can always choose from the list of guys orbiting around them that won't say no to all their unreasonable requests and tolerate disrespect from them.

The truth is, j can't engage women in unnecessary conversation especially when they are trying to gas light me, I know how to handle those lots

You are apt

Sucre6:


Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid

Your assertions have been clearly established. Cheers!

logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

Dude...read tha room.

Zonefree:
Life is like Owambe, when you're drunk and tired you go home.

Swears daun

logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

Deep.
I Concur

Sorry for the loss but you should have paid attention. Most times, you guys always think women like attention and always having mood swings but that's not it. Assuming you listened, calm her down, I don't think it would have happened.
Anyway, the deed has been done.

Crucialgem:


Shut up joor do you know suicide is a punishable crime under the law. Why will you even contemplate killing a life you don't even own in the first place. Anyone who commit suicide is just a stupid bastard coward

Your opinion does not invalidate the fact that it's an option. Even people who commit heinous crimes choose them as an option. We have bad options and we have good options. The choice of taking any kind of option rests on the individuals taking them.

I am less concerned about the goodness or badness of such options. In our society today, many people have chosen internet fraud and prostitution as options to get out of poverty.

You see, there are soo many different kinds and types of options available for us to take at any point in time. And there are soo many other factors that determine the kind of option we eventually decide to take.

I hope you understand me.

She no pay suicide tax. My friend, resurrect that body!

Na you kill that poor girl o. I hope you can live with yourself. Heartless man!

After they have lived there lifes under the dictate and doctrine of devil, after they have chased out the holy spirit, this normally end it, May her soul rest in peace.

Bipolar disorder

Fearjah:
Let me engage in the act of prediction.

Possible cause of her suicide is:

money matter? No

Her Nude or sex pics videos? Likely

Incest or rape by relatives? Likely

Sorry for the loss.

If the family really tell you the truth, try update us. Take heart.

It's the bolded. Happened many years ago before we met, but I can't go into the details.

nonsense......she want to go where ....owambe party she is an eediot

logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

U are a uselesss container.
Personalize it

Zonefree:
Life is like Owambe, when you're drunk and tired you go home.

Omo una no go kill person here with laff
Even serious matter una dey use am catch cruise. I don laff tire for ur funny but true talk

I envy her. Don't be selfish. She's worth celebrating. She's had enough of this meaningless world and was brave enough to do the needful

Very sad though. Anything to do with dead is a very serious matter. You should have alerted her people or take the trouble to see her.

Phone talk and one and one talk are not the same