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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Johnn44: 12:07pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.
Rest In Peace to the dead.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by eroticecstasy: 12:08pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


I was attentive and kept asking. She wouldn’t spill, so I got angry and asked my friend to talk to her.

I didn’t know it’d get to this

This isn't your fault, that goat accusing you for not been attentive is nonessential. If I were you I'll be thanking God like this.

The family won't tell you much, believe me.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by jayworld15(m): 12:12pm On May 03, 2023
ALEXA, PLAY ME "LIFE GOES ON" BY 2PAC, BOB MARLEY, MICHAEL JACKSON AND MARVIN GAYE.

IT TAKES A SMOKE- LIKE-PRESENCE TIME SCENARIO BEFORE EVERYTHING RETURNS TO NORMAL. "LIFE GOES ON".

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by olarid01: 12:13pm On May 03, 2023
Those people blaming the op is funny sha. While in hindsight, he could've done more, but the fact is, she made her choice.

Everyone have issues they're going through. So, if you call and you keep withholding what's wrong after being asked over and over, then whatever happens is on you. A problem shared is a problem solved, you refused to share, he even tell someone else to ask and yet you refuse, so, what's his fault?

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by NGArmyTerrorist: 12:17pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


I was attentive and kept asking. She wouldn’t spill, so I got angry and asked my friend to talk to her.

I didn’t know it’d get to this
Don't bother replying that trolling boy.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by NGArmyTerrorist: 12:17pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


I was attentive and kept asking. She wouldn’t spill, so I got angry and asked my friend to talk to her.

I didn’t know it’d get to this
Don't bother replying that trolling boy.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by ozo13(m): 12:20pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


She took something but it’s not sniper. I don’t know what it is.

I’ve only spoken with the mum and sister today. I’ve not been able to touch down there myself.
calm down first .Do u think it's wise to rush there.May God comfort you

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by NaijaCover(m): 12:21pm On May 03, 2023
God Almighty Help Us Out
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by brightDdon(m): 12:24pm On May 03, 2023
Sucre6:


He's a friend and he know I have always helped out, if he had told me, I would have contacted mutual friends to help sort the bill, believe me we are a group of friends who look after each other, he knows it something we could sort, it's just that he is someone who has really touched real cash even while we where in school, he's already driving then, so temptation came then and he went bankrupt so he felt telling people would make it look like a burden, when he was told we paid the loan, he began to cry tears of joy, cheesy

He knows I got him, he is someone that helped me paid two session school fees while in the university, he's from a rich home, I owe him everything


A good friend you are.
May God continue to bless you and your circle of friends.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by IIdamuAdugbo(f): 12:25pm On May 03, 2023
You are really a good friend, Just like mine, Ive got the best friends in the world. Just 2 of them, I needed to sort some bills, I needed about 2m for 2 weeks, one gave me 800k and the other did all they could to give me 500k, but there was holidays and those stupid banks didnt open, I took the rest from my family.

I held the money for more than 1 month and this guys never called me once to ask for their money. I was like Wow!!! I was just amazed to the core.
Sucre6:


He's a friend and he know I have always helped out, if he had told me, I would have contacted mutual friends to help sort the bill, believe me we are a group of friends who look after each other, he knows it something we could sort, it's just that he is someone who has really touched real cash even while we where in school, he's already driving then, so temptation came then and he went bankrupt so he felt telling people would make it look like a burden, when he was told we paid the loan, he began to cry tears of joy, cheesy

He knows I got him, he is someone that helped me paid two session school fees while in the university, he's from a rich home, I owe him everything

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Hassanmaye(m): 12:26pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.
She really love you deep, for a woman to remember you at the time of death you must real. Have you done enough to save her?
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by brightDdon(m): 12:31pm On May 03, 2023
Sucre6:


He's a friend and he know I have always helped out, if he had told me, I would have contacted mutual friends to help sort the bill, believe me we are a group of friends who look after each other, he knows it something we could sort, it's just that he is someone who has really touched real cash even while we where in school, he's already driving then, so temptation came then and he went bankrupt so he felt telling people would make it look like a burden, when he was told we paid the loan, he began to cry tears of joy, cheesy

He knows I got him, he is someone that helped me paid two session school fees while in the university, he's from a rich home, I owe him everything



For me even as i type this message I'm still battling with the thought

My aged parent are the only reason I'm battling with the thought if I go today then who will take care of them

Hmmmm

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Gokoyer0(m): 12:33pm On May 03, 2023
If there is anyone that wants to blackmail me with my nude pics, I will be the first person to use my hand release it out and I will later use whatever I have to deal with that person legally. Na human beings like me dey do porn self. Tiwa savage videos dey everywhere as we dey so and heaven no fall down.
Blackmailers can be more dangerous than assassin.

Anyone that takes his/her life is very selfish. there must be someone outside there right now grieving because she took her own life.
Fearjah:
Let me engage in the act of prediction.

Possible cause of her suicide is:

money matter? No

Her Nude or sex pics videos? Likely

Incest or rape by relatives? Likely

Sorry for the loss.

If the family really tell you the truth, try update us. Take heart.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by IIdamuAdugbo(f): 12:36pm On May 03, 2023
The family wont be in thesame pain with you, in the end life goes on. I only pray we have a succeful life that we dont reach the breaking point. Its unbearable for some people regardless of the family and friends love
Octopusssy:

Very very. Sometimes when things are so bad and the thought crosses my mind, I remember my loved ones and perish that evil thought. Why put your family members through so much anguish??
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by GogetterMD(m): 12:36pm On May 03, 2023
Sucre6:
You claim she is your girlfriend yet u weren't sensitive enough, if truly she's your girlfriend u should have noticed that from the way she spoke that something was definitely up, so u calm her down and get to know what the issue was, any small thing u don vex, u could have averted her death u know, yes I want u to really blame your self, u bleeped up.

Not even talking about my girlfriend, a friend of mine called me one day and was sounding funny, the dude told me that he's done, he's leaving this night, I didn't quite understand what he meant at first but I decided to equire more, he was withholding information, I had to call people around to go check on him, they rushed and saw the guy, laying lifeless on the tiles inside his room, he took snipper already, they force two bottle of red oil down his throat and rushed him to the hospital, thank God he was saved,

Turns out dude was owing plenty lapo and online loans, we gathered money and cleared the bill even before he is discharged from the hospital, dude is happily married now and doing very well financially, thats what friends should be all about, you should be sensitive and observant, it very important

that 2 bottles of red oil could have killed him though, because if he aspirated that is the end. Palm oil is not an antidote to all poison
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by VawuIenceProMax: 12:37pm On May 03, 2023
Juliearth:





Funny enough, I don't blame him. He may have acted dismissively because he paid too much attention to the redpillers here. In no time, people will come to realise that feminism and redpill-ism are demonic agenda.

May her soul find rest.
he was very insensitive. I am 100% he didn't contact her for hpurs

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by jaxxy(m): 12:40pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


She took something but it’s not sniper. I don’t know what it is.

I’ve only spoken with the mum and sister today. I’ve not been able to touch down there myself.

in her 2nd sentence she said "he done talk am o"

Who is "he"?

and what did "he" say?

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by slowice(m): 12:40pm On May 03, 2023
Not your fault bro, you reacted like a normal human being.... We re naturally impatient creatures and can act so sometimes.

Sorry for your loss man and let time heal all.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Machinegun91(m): 12:40pm On May 03, 2023
Post her picture here let me check something
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by blackgold2018(m): 12:45pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.
idoit
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by PattyMike(m): 12:46pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:


Thank you

Sorry for ur loss. Unfortunately I think suicide victims selfish, cus loved ones bear the brunt and scar from the pain for the rest of their lives. Look at OP for example, he will have to live with this guilt for the rest of this life.
Like what if, What if he had been more patient, what if he had been more attentive, what if he had calmed her down.
Killing yourself to escape the pain and struggles but handing over emotional trauma and scar to loved ones, pinnacle of selfishness I’m sorry.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chikwes: 12:47pm On May 03, 2023
23 years old already depressed with lige to the point of thinking sucide, what's wrong with this generation
Elizkid:


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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 12:50pm On May 03, 2023
emmybobo1:

But what was he doing with all the money he’s borrowing. I’m just curious

He made a wrong investment, and couldn't recover it.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Biggilove12: 12:51pm On May 03, 2023
Vinnie2000:
OP, how did she die?

She took Sniper or what? 🤔

No she took tea and bread 😁
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 12:51pm On May 03, 2023
GogetterMD:


that 2 bottles of red oil could have killed him though, because if he aspirated that is the end. Palm oil is not an antidote to all poison

Oga sir, all these one doesn't matter as far as his life was saved and ps palm oil doesn't kill anyone, I dont know what u mean here
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Edusouls(m): 12:53pm On May 03, 2023
Women has lots of secrets within, they live so much life of sin and wickedness

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by superCleanworks(m): 12:57pm On May 03, 2023
hard to believe anything on social media till source is verified.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by babyfaceafrica: 12:58pm On May 03, 2023
Octopusssy:

What problem did she have that she will do something so drastic??!

We need to be sensitive to those we claim to love. You were too wrapped up in your own world to realise she was walking down the path of Golgotha

Everybody has their own problem abeg. Just because he didn't commit suicide doesn't mean, he doesn't have his own issues. We deal with issues differently

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by ba7man(m): 1:02pm On May 03, 2023
Vinnie2000:


So sorry for loss.

This Life, Many have Personal issues they are Battling with.😒

Dat's why you see some so AGGRESSIVE and PESSIMISTIC about life. undecided

Once again, take heart. smiley
This aptly describes the Obidients.

@Topic, sorry for your loss, you never knew it was that deep hence why you overlooked her call.

Don't blame yourself. God take care of her soul.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by flexxyworld(m): 1:04pm On May 03, 2023
Sucre6:
You claim she is your girlfriend yet u weren't sensitive enough, if truly she's your girlfriend u should have noticed that from the way she spoke that something was definitely up, so u calm her down and get to know what the issue was, any small thing u don vex, u could have averted her death u know, yes I want u to really blame your self, u bleeped up.

Not even talking about my girlfriend, a friend of mine called me one day and was sounding funny, the dude told me that he's done, he's leaving this night, I didn't quite understand what he meant at first but I decided to equire more, he was withholding information, I had to call people around to go check on him, they rushed and saw the guy, laying lifeless on the tiles inside his room, he took snipper already, they force two bottle of red oil down his throat and rushed him to the hospital, thank God he was saved,

Turns out dude was owing plenty lapo and online loans, we gathered money and cleared the bill even before he is discharged from the hospital, dude is happily married now and doing very well financially, thats what friends should be all about, you should be sensitive and observant, it very important


Look at you trying to prove your point with your scenario. Don't try to make that guy feel any worse, this is an adult here, she had family and friends also. She refused to speak out. Mr bf also has his own battles. Suicide isn't an option and let's learn to open up when we can. Everyone is fighting different battles. Suicide isn't an option to anyone reading this and let's stop feeling entitled that it's someone duty to ensure we are fine and safe
We owe ourself that responsibility first and anyone that really care should be held more dearly.

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