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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 5:11pm On May 03, 2023
flexxyworld:


Yea. Because he didn't paint a perfect or happy ending scenario like you did. He came bare, he already felt he should have done more, he came clean already. C'mon. Look at you contracting what you preached earlier. People take feedback like this to the heart, what if he starts feeling he failed her and starts being suicidal. I leave my peace with you

Are u kidding right now, feeling suicidal u say?

I don't need to.paint any picture when your motives are good and genuine, your story paints the picture not you.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nwaotu10(m): 5:12pm On May 03, 2023
I admire her bravery.
I pray to muster the courage to do same sooner.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by GoodIsGod: 5:12pm On May 03, 2023
logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain." grin
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

If you had known that there is more to life than the physical, you wouldn't say this.
Nothing worths taking one's life. Life problems come and go.
It may look like it will never go but if you endure the time, you'll realize you've been wrong all the while.

LIFE IS IN PHASES.

I'm speaking from experience.

I've been through many storms and Ive come out of them eventually.
I'm going through another one as I am typing and it's certain I will overcome it also. That is life for you.

Bottom line: Every one needs to be saved by JESUS.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Princeton92(m): 5:17pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.
I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.
Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.
But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down
You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.
I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

Was she schooling OR she had finished school?

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Adonisteve: 5:29pm On May 03, 2023
Templee333:
Sucre6 @ i'm sure nobody would have helped him repay the loan if he didn't drink the poison. Also, after the incident some people went back to ask for the money they gave him. The lesson is: when you are alive humans do everything to make your life uncomfortable, but when you want to die they do everything to bring you back to continue your miserable life. We are humans, we love to suffer.
🤣
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sltp: 5:38pm On May 03, 2023
Nwaotu10:
I admire her bravery.
I pray to muster the courage to do same sooner.
Same here
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Templee333(m): 5:54pm On May 03, 2023
Chidolalar:

And why will d creator create a human to suffer all manners of physical, emotional, and psychological pain and agony in d first place
but i hope you guys think that antinatalist aren't thinking well? Now let's get it right- We humans are the creators of other humans. Parents are responsible for whatever happen to their offspring.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Templee333(m): 6:01pm On May 03, 2023
Nwaotu10:
I admire her bravery.
I pray to muster the courage to do same sooner.
Please when you want to do it let me know so that i can send you a message to some friends over there who took the same course.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Templee333(m): 6:06pm On May 03, 2023
Sltp:
Same here
Please when you get there prepare a place build a big city and prepare a place for more victims because we expect many more suicides as Tinubu says he wants to continue from where buhari stops.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by jubrilELsudan: 6:08pm On May 03, 2023
YOU SAY YOU NEED WORDS TO CALM YOU DOWN RIGHT NOW BUT YOU DIDN'T THINK IN THAT FLAT BRAIN OF YOURS THAT YOUR LATE FIANCEE NEEDED WORDS TO CALM HERSELF DOWN

SHE CALLED YOU CAUSE SHE TRUSTED YOU AND BELIEVED THAT SHE WILL FIND PEACE BY TALKING TO YOU INSTEAD YOU GOT ANGRY AND DROVE HER TO COMMITTING SUICIDE

YOU ARE SUCH A SELF CENTERED AND EVIL PERSON AND THE GUILT OF HER SUICIDE IS ON YOUR HEAD

YOU TOLD HER THAT YOU LOVED HER YET YOU COULDN'T EVEN BE THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDED YOU THE MOST

INSTEAD YOU RIDICULED HER AND MADE HER FEEL STUPID BECAUSE SHE TOLD YOU SHE WANTED TO KILL HERSELF

YOU SAY SHE WAS YOUR FIANCEE.....SO WHY DIDN'T YOU GO BE WITH HER WHEN SHE CALLED YOU THAT SHE WANTED TO KILL HERSELF?

YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR HER COMMITTING SUICIDE

YOU KILLED HER

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Templee333(m): 6:11pm On May 03, 2023
Chidolalar:

Exactly!
D sound of push push from d nurses and doctors while coming out from our mothers vagina clearly shows we were forced to come into this life and not by our own free will.
you are correct to the core
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by simplesearch: 6:32pm On May 03, 2023
logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain." grin
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

To start another pain at much higher level!
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by blueAgent(m): 6:47pm On May 03, 2023
SIRKAY98:
After they have lived there lifes under the dictate and doctrine of devil, after they have chased out the holy spirit, this normally end it, May her soul rest in peace.


Stop saying rubbish you don't know.

Do you know how many virgins and born again christains that attempt suicide daily?
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 6:48pm On May 03, 2023
Templee333:
but i hope you guys think that antinatalist aren't thinking well? Now let's get it right- We humans are the creators of other humans. Parents are responsible for whatever happen to their offspring.
Am talking from d beginning of when d world came into existence right from when God created adam. God made d world we live in imperfect and as a results of dat imperfections , all sorts of physical, emotional and psychological agony, depression, pains and sufferings befell on humans he created in his own image and likeness.
GOD knows all those tribulations will befall humans and yet he still went ahead to create humans he claims he loves and calls his children
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 7:08pm On May 03, 2023
Let it sha not be a prank or a scheme oh. Just saying considering the fact that at the time of the post, OP had not fully personally confirmed it.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by omoadeleye(m): 7:20pm On May 03, 2023
Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

You too don't calm down, do whatever you want to do yourself right now
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by logicalhumour: 7:26pm On May 03, 2023
Octopusssy:

Better. Speak for yourself
BusinessPlan22:

U are a uselesss container.
Personalize it
No dear, I do not need to personalize it.
From both the scientific and spiritual view (or wherever you stand) of our bodies, we are indeed useless.

The bible literally calls our bodies vessels that can be used and discarded by God.

And scientifically, after death comes degradation (literal decay). Our bodies house our DNA, and if we pass it on to our offspring, then technically we were only containers for that DNA that remained somewhat alive after our death and decay to literal dust, making us the useless containers I speak of.

Shae you gerrit now? grin

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by caye(m): 7:46pm On May 03, 2023
Wo.This is a false story joo.

Another Seun-musto-chop-by-force internet trafficker story
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 7:47pm On May 03, 2023
May you not find this kind of person beside you when you are down. This is the reason relationship dey fear some people. Imagine being angry with someone at such a moment and telling them to off phone.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 7:49pm On May 03, 2023
Abi o. Some people eh.
omoadeleye:


You too don't calm down, do whatever you want to do yourself right now
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by IbrahimSola: 8:11pm On May 03, 2023
Templee333:
suicide isn't something that happens over night. She surely had gone through something for many years that others do not understand. Nobody cares until you are gone. There's nothing bad about it anyway, it's what it is. She's gone and the world continues.

There's so much that's bad about suicide. And if you're thinking about it, pls come off it. We still love you. People experience worse things and still live, and eventually things turn around. Self murder is still a murder and it's so wrong.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by iamdapsyj(m): 8:15pm On May 03, 2023
Samantha124:
Another toxic family has taken the life of an innocent young woman.

Guys if you're from a toxic family, find a way to leave that house and cut ties with them.

Are you really a South African? I ask because you ✍️ like a Nigerian
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 8:19pm On May 03, 2023
How do I write like a Nigerian
iamdapsyj:


Are you really a South African? I ask because you ✍️ like a Nigerian
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by mario2k(m): 8:21pm On May 03, 2023
THE ISSUE ISN'T DYING,THE ISSUE IS WHERE WIL YOU SPEND ETERNITY. HELL FIRE IS A VERY TERRIBLE PLACE BUT PEOPLE THING ITS A STORY. PLEASE BROTHERS AND SISTERS LET US ALL REPENT FROM OUR SINS AND RETURN TO KING JESUS CHRIST.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Jagermeister(m): 8:27pm On May 03, 2023
Octopusssy:

Better. Speak for yourself

Clear the sentiments in your mind.. what he said cannot be truer, except if you're still too young to understand life.

Come to terms with it and you'll find that you'll treat people better.
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Templee333(m): 8:29pm On May 03, 2023
IbrahimSola:


There's so much that's bad about suicide. And if you're thinking about it, pls come off it. We still love you. People experience worse things and still live, and eventually things turn around. Self murder is still a murder and it's so wrong.
nothing is wrong with suicide but there's everything wrong with giving birth. Forcefully bringing another human to this miserable planet is the worst thing ever.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Kingbuhari(m): 8:37pm On May 03, 2023
My finance also threatening me to kill herself if I leave her... I an beginning to see marriage as unnecessary in one's life , I always cause trouble so we can go our separate ways I have used all kind of bad words on her but she's not letting go, I feels trapped and want my freedom back... but her threatening honestly she's not bluffing she mean it
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by loliapoopy2013(f): 8:43pm On May 03, 2023
Someone you claim to love called to tell you that she wants to take her life. That's an SOS call. You didn't bother to call people close to her to reach her neither did you try to reach her, but ask her to get off you're done, because she couldn't talk at that time. What kind of a lover are you? Now you are crying crocodile tears, and looking for cheap sympathy. Abeg go rest. You have no conscience. So how do you feel now, knowing that she is dead, cool with yourself abi. Nonsense and ingredients.

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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by REUBEN1211: 8:55pm On May 03, 2023
Oh my God, what was the issue that will make her take her life at 23yr.pls try and update when you know the cause of her death for others to learn,suicide is not an option no matter what
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Octopusssy(f): 8:58pm On May 03, 2023
Jagermeister:


Clear the sentiments in your mind.. what he said cannot be truer, except if you're still too young to understand life.

Come to terms with it and you'll find that you'll treat people better.
There is absolutely nothing sentimental about rejecting such a satanic tag as "useless container". His body may be a useless container, but mine isn't. I carry greatness, the Holy Spirit dwells in me, I'm a fruitful vine and world changer, so whoever wants to accept that he/she is a "useless container" is free to, but me? I reject it 70 x 7 times
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Meedon: 9:09pm On May 03, 2023
logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain." grin
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

Logical humour, I hail thee.

😂 😂 😂

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