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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DonroxyII: 6:22pm On May 09, 2023
Divoc19:
Social Media of course. Remember hookup is for both male and female
I think Poverty & Bigger Life than One's Economic Means !

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by COMPAQ(m): 6:33pm On May 09, 2023
IyaTola:
Their male counterparts are not building houses or buying cars, how are the females doing it.

Exactly what I said! High class hook up!!

So Toke Makinwa is the only OAP in Nigeria abi. Do you know how many men would gladly pay N100mln to sleep with or date Genevieve or Omotola or Ini Edo? Why do you think Ini Edo invested in a fat ass? So she can get some of the action Toke is getting. From being a babe most men wouldn't look at twice, she's now getting stares everywhere she goes!

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by NaBanga: 7:04pm On May 09, 2023
You did not prove anything in your writeup. I actually think if women read that, they will be more encouraged to stay single. They aren't losing anything that men are not also losing. You may want to reexamine what you wrote. I honestly think the modern age has outgrown marriage for many people.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DonroxyII: 7:20pm On May 09, 2023
GeneralPula:
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault!
You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations.

You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is..

Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way..

Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc..

The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is..
It's shameful of You as a Man to Blame Your Women for their Oddities You ain't a Man But a Mon grin

A Real Man Wouldn't Blame a Woman for Sheee ... He Clears Her Nonsense & Shenanigans But When All You Men Know his Fvcks Without Responsibleness After Fvcks .. You see Your Wife, Daughters, Sisters & Women in Shanties !!

Nigerian Women are Replica of Nigerian Men !

The Men Made the Women to Be what they are!

The Men are to be Blamed for Not Manning Their Women !
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DonroxyII: 7:24pm On May 09, 2023
advanceDNA:


both men and women want to fvck......theres no crime in it....its a biological thing that has been going on since the beginning of time. ..making it a product that men have to pay for is totally an invention of you women to get easy money..... u women determine sex... if cocacola company doesnt make coke and fanta...there will be no coke and fanta to buy...

this narrative of blaming men is ur usual pathetic, blame-pushing behavior....U cannot keep marketing product and want to push blames on the buyer...... These girls advertise themselves both online and offline.....and it is a known fact that advertising makes u buy even what u dont need...... grin
They Advertise Because they Know Your Dick Outshines Your Brain ...

Demand Leads to Supply ... You Don't Supply What You Know People Won't Buy Tufiakwa!

An Average girl doesn't place any Premium on Her Pvssy Beyond what Men placed On Her grin

Na Men Dey Destroy Women ....

Men are the Builders of Frame for Women ...

Women takes the Frame of their Men ...

Na Una Shape them to Become what Una Want them to Become ......

Na Una Dem dey Satisfy !

Her Nyansh, Pvssy & Breasts Doesn't Mean Much to Her than Part of Her Bodies But When She see say Some Gender are Crazier For it All Then as a SharperGirl She Decided to Premium them grin ....

Na F.oo.lish Men dey Blame Women For Waywardness, If You Establish Your Manly Frame She Must gel ... But Most of Us Run of Feminine Energies Especially Alpharic-Redpilling No.nsen.se Being Spewwed .. Including MGOTW grin ... Imagine !

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Kpboy1: 8:32pm On May 09, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Some people already condemning the women doing hookup while absorbing the men who patronize them. Both the buyer and the seller are to be condemned. Anyways women are still getting married every Saturday

The women are amongst those doing hookup?
Hope their partner knows and is comfortable with it sha.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Blitzking: 9:21pm On May 09, 2023
[quote author=IyaTola post=122989035][/quote]
Has always been there..but social media has increased their reach now a girl can be contacted from another state..just give her flight ticket and blow up her aza..she go run come. A lot of money miss road fraudsters on the loose too has contributed.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by calmandwild101(m): 9:21pm On May 09, 2023
You nailed it
zed7:
Greed and laziness is the cause of almost every Nigerian girl becoming a hooker. This has not been helped by the ease of making quick and illegal money by Nigerian men.

Imagine paying 100k for a round of sex with a bleached and worn out hooker, surely only men with illegal wealth do that.
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Hamachi(f): 10:01pm On May 09, 2023
COMPAQ:


Exactly what I said! High class hook up!!

So Toke Makinwa is the only OAP in Nigeria abi. Do you know how many men would gladly pay N100mln to sleep with or date Genevieve or Omotola or Ini Edo? Why do you think Ini Edo invested in a fat ass? So she can get some of the action Toke is getting. From being a babe most men wouldn't look at twice, she's now getting stares everywhere she goes!
shocked
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by omotodun1(m): 10:09pm On May 09, 2023
For those interested, here is the original post: https://qr.ae/pyNjQZ

NLers would steal and post other people's writeup without attribution. It is sickening.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by hardcore007: 10:19pm On May 09, 2023
Na Bubu effect cause am, like say you no know. Abi you dey whine me ni.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:43pm On May 09, 2023
DeeBaDan:




I have seen babes earning 250k per month doing runs. This one isn't story. I won't go into details but live I have witnessed it
What! It must be Lagos

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by omotodun1(m): 11:46pm On May 09, 2023
Morphinne:

You write really good and I like the way you apportioned the blames accordingly and evenly on both genders without being bias but in addition....
She didn't write it. It was copied and pasted from quora. Lots of NLers tend to do that. Copy and paste without attribution.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DaveHarry(m): 2:59am On May 10, 2023
Katcall:
was she a virgin?
Virgin keh. lord knows if we still have any, na wetin man go do I dey

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by GoodCane: 3:09am On May 10, 2023
advanceDNA:



U cannot tell pple not to buy advertised product especially when its technically an essential need.....thats what advertising does..it creates crave....thats why drug users are not arrested but the sellers....the users are victims


.. if a new beverage caled iyatolá cola hit the market...the need to quench thirst and fill sugar craving will make pple buy...did they ask for iyatolá cola?...no.. but availability created crave and need......

Iyatola cola cannot come and blame her buyers for buying what she introduced to the market

Madam...sex is an urge...pple will still fvck weda its for sale or not....those making it forsale are the issue

Upper cut plus fatality!!! You finished the werey.

I was actually waiting for the iyatola Abi wetin dem dey call her to reply you but as expected she cowardly Ran away. Instead of advising her gender to be useful, werey is busy blaming men as usual, as if women don't have urge for sex whereas they crave for it more. Sex is the greatest weapon a woman has over a Man this is why they monetize it. And of course you gave her the perfect answer.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Gerrard59(m): 4:35am On May 10, 2023
poweredcom:


Inmessage app , tinder , badoo ,michat , codedruns and some new ones can list even ur babe there

Many university gals list themself to do runs and later delete themself off these app , that does not mean they wont do runs again o , cos a hoe is a hoe.

I am done with an average nigerian girl , they have notin to offer and they feel they can eat their cake and have it ...

Ashewo na ashewo

One naive nairalander go read this and think he is innocent. Not knowing this is Nairaland's biggest patron of sex workers.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Gerrard59(m): 4:36am On May 10, 2023
G00DHardDick:


Upper cut plus fatality!!! You finished the werey.

I was actually waiting for the iyatola Abi wetin dem dey call her to reply you but as expected she cowardly Ran away. Instead of advising her gender to be useful, werey is busy blaming men as usual, as if women don't have urge for sex whereas they crave for it more. Sex is the greatest weapon a woman has over a Man this is why they monetize it. And of course you gave her the perfect answer.

That is not true.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by QuinModah(f): 4:47am On May 10, 2023
DonroxyII:
I think Poverty & Bigger Life than One's Economic Means !
No it not.
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by QuinModah(f): 4:53am On May 10, 2023
grin
Gerrard59:


One naive nairalander go read this and think he is innocent. Not knowing this is Nairaland's biggest patron of sex workers.
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Snakedoctor1: 6:23am On May 10, 2023
[quote author=IyaTola post=122989035][/quote]

It's not an academic writing but you should have given 'hook up' some kind of definition.
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Realguyman1(m): 6:28am On May 10, 2023
yemmit90:


How old are you? Either you are still very young or lack comprehensive skill.

Girls goes into prostitution because of needs, which is mostly caused by inadequacy or poverty. It later becomes habit or greed when they have made it big in their trade and still continue. Example is an escort who worth millions but still selling her body and pride for more money.

I will say it again, girls from rich homes hardly engage in hookup, their parents, siblings and other rich uncles get them whatever they want on a platter of gold. They may get few boyfriends but will never sleep around for money. The highest thing a typical Nigerian prostitution can buy is high end I-phone or car, which can be easily acquire by rich kids through their parents or relatives, so tell me why would such Girls have to sell their body for money?

If you disagreed with this, then search within your environment and tell us example of rich men(not average civil servants) kids who are into prostitution.

Story. Na greed make them dey do am jor. U fit manage give the poverty excuse to the girls of early 2000s downwards, but not this modern girls of nowadays.

Many of this girls doing prostitution this modern days just want to belong to the high class and not because of any yeye poverty. I have seen many girls who's parents are poor but they join hands together with their parents to make sure that they succeed in life through the right hustling without going into prostitution. Are those ones not human beings too?

Material things like iphones, hair and clothes is what makes most of them venture into prostitution.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by nony43(m): 7:24am On May 10, 2023
Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?






Your first paragraph is a lie
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:25am On May 10, 2023
[quote author=IyaTola post=122989035][/quote]red pill/incel vomit.

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by nony43(m): 7:33am On May 10, 2023
Dshocker:


In aboard, you must work in other to pay your bills, nobody is ready to shoulder or accommodate you, not even your siblings.

Everybody is busy and occupied with work, both male and female.

The girls over there are earning pretty well that they can afford their basic life necessity, so using money to woo them will not work, unlike here where there is no source of income, that is why Nigerian girls has to compromise by selling their body.

Places like Canada or England, do you think you can afford to pay the services of a prostitute?.... When you can barely save more than $2,000 in a month.

You can ask new migrants whatsup with their sex life.... Some stay as much as 1-3yrs without sex.

More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay.






Are trying to insinuate that there are no prostitutes in abroad? Especially England and Canada?
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Savvvy(m): 8:31am On May 10, 2023
[quote author=GeneralPula post=122991678]The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault!
You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations.

You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is..

Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way..

Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc..

The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is.. [you are very true. Imagine someone wants to eat a particular food or meal he or she craves for but the food is not available. The person would simply move on. So it is with hook up girls. Though one could say that we need to exercise self control but it's not easy in today's world where everywhere u turn to it's immorality all around. ]

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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by africandictator(m): 8:33am On May 10, 2023
Females love sex more than men, and realising they can get sex and be paid for it is thrilling . Its a win win for them. if you are doing hook up, please continue, just make sure you carry out routine stds tests, avoid anal sex and stay off drugs so you don't get an addiction and go astray. Importantly eat healthy, get proper hygiene and save because your bodies would not always be attractive for ever and health over wealth!!!
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Dshocker(m): 8:38am On May 10, 2023
nony43:







Are trying to insinuate that there are no prostitutes in abroad? Especially England and Canada?

There are, but very expensive, you might have to spend about 30%-100% of your salary to get one
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by waxxydude: 8:39am On May 10, 2023
Dshocker:


In aboard, you must work in other to pay your bills, nobody is ready to shoulder or accommodate you, not even your siblings.

Everybody is busy and occupied with work, both male and female.

The girls over there are earning pretty well that they can afford their basic life necessity, so using money to woo them will not work, unlike here where there is no source of income, that is why Nigerian girls has to compromise by selling their body.

Places like Canada or England, do you think you can afford to pay the services of a prostitute?.... When you can barely save more than $2,000 in a month.

You can ask new migrants whatsup with their sex life.... Some stay as much as 1-3yrs without sex.

More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay.
Folks like you infuriate me to my bones. The US has a website called onlyfans where girls show off their bodies for a lil fee a month. Girls have sex for gas and weird things like drugs or weed. There's a whole billion $ pornography industry. Hot Miami summers where girls go to Miami and do strange things for the sake of it, hookups, even Sugar daddies and so on. How do you think most of these cultures creeped into Nigeria? You don't think just open mouth and say stupid things just for likes. ALL OVER THE WORLD THERE ARE WOMEN WHO WILL HAVE SEX FOR MONEY OR MATERIAL THINGS. Imagine saying women opening legs in "developed" countries only means they are in love with you. You're the only one that went to yankee🤔. Black man, backwater way of thinking😂
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DonroxyII: 8:40am On May 10, 2023
QuinModah:
No it not.
So What's it Mama ?
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by waxxydude: 8:41am On May 10, 2023
oyaaa:
Tell me the developed country that girls don’t open legs anyhow
See this thing is everywhere not just Nigeria
Even with the 250k per month the greedy ones will still practice prostitution to earn more. Poverty isn’t fully the reason for this. It’s just laziness and greed
Babes on nowadays don’t wanna do hard work and they see this as an easy way out. That’s just the truth
That guy is incredibly stupid jare. Just open mouth spewing trash.
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by waxxydude: 8:51am On May 10, 2023
texazzpete:


When they say go to school, you people won’t go.
Imagine claiming that Prostitution - widely regarded as the world’s oldest profession - is a new thing.
Hahaha bro too many funny comments here
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Revolva(m): 9:02am On May 10, 2023
COMPAQ:


I would estimate like 30 - 40% of codedruns is fake though. i.e peeps just trying to scam.

Naaa many of them are real .....the platform have strict rulkes on fraudsters ooo ,

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