Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive.

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?

pansophist:
Between a bank and a customer, it is the bank that has the responsibility to safe guard it's money, and same dynamics apply to sex. Hakimi safeguarded his asset via his mum since he is the primary looser.

So for hookup culture to end, it's women that can single-handedly end it. Women suffer the most in hookup culture, not men. You can tell men not to engage in hook up, but one method is far effective than the other.

pansophist:

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So for hookup culture to end, it's women that can single-handedly end it. Women suffer the most in hookup culture, not men. You can tell men not to engage in hook up, but one method is far effective than the other.

Hamachi:
Why bring this into this discussion? Any small thing, they use Hakimi as an example

advanceDNA:


This hakimi matter still dey vex/trigger una??U guys should have gotten over this Hakimi thing by now...

IyaTola:
Of you stop patronizing them, watch how it will die a natural death. As long as there are buyers, there would be market.

Dshocker:


In aboard, you must work in other to pay your bills, nobody is ready to shoulder or accommodate you, not even your siblings.

Everybody is busy and occupied with work, both male and female.

The girls over there are earning pretty well that they can afford their basic life necessity, so using money to woo them will not work, unlike here where there is no source of income, that is why Nigerian girls has to compromise by selling their body.

Places like Canada or England, do you think you can afford to pay the services of a prostitute?.... When you can barely save more than $2,000 in a month.

You can ask new migrants whatsup with their sex life.... Some stay as much as 1-3yrs without sex.

More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay.

Edeyoung:



Can you stop patronising water, if stop patronising them gradually we men will turn gay


They are somethings you can just tackle like that when its a natural calling , we can tackle it from the clothes they wear , government laws

DeeBaDan:




I have seen babes earning 250k per month doing runs. This one isn't story. I won't go into details but live I have witnessed it

IyaTola:

Meaning you don't have self control if the clothes a lady wears turns you on.

GeneralPula:
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault!
You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations.

You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is..

Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way..

Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc..

The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is..

IyaTola:
My point is, the men here criticising hookup ladies should focus on the men who patronise this ladies, not trade itself. The ladies aren't fvcking themselves nor paying ghosts to fvck these ladies. Men like you are the ones paying whether she has a disease or not.

Blaming ladies without blaming the men patronising them comes across as envy. It's not the ladies fault that pussy commands a higher price in the sexual market than pen!s.

zed7:
Greed and laziness is the cause of almost every Nigerian girl becoming a hooker. This has not been helped by the ease of making quick and illegal money by Nigerian men.

Imagine paying 100k for a round of sex with a bleached and worn out hooker, surely only men with illegal wealth do that.

advanceDNA:


U are still stuck in the 90s or u just like to create excuse for these girls....this is 2023... prostitutioń has gone beyond doing it for survival or for bills....its now a thing of class for many of them cos they get to roll with big men.....its no longer a thing of they dont have choice ....greed is just the drive...

Girls making 40-60k per night...does that sound like broke girls suffering to you? ...u see them with iphone 12 and 13....do they look hungry, strugglung to pay bills to you??..... they are happy doing it....

GeneralPula:
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault!
You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations.

You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is..

Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way..

Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc..

The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is..