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Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by obinna58(m): 5:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
Zooposki:Murdering kids is not an attribute of post partum depression, it’s a psychopathic insanity |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by ceeceeuwa: 5:18pm On May 10, 2023 |
Jashub:God forbid anything happens to her, won't she be replaced eventually?"Na person wey dey alive dey carry marriage for head!" 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Zooposki(f): 5:21pm On May 10, 2023 |
obinna58: LoL. The baby does not let her sleep at night and the other kids will not let her sleep during the day. Oga, she says she just needs someone to hold the baby during the day while she naps. When I tell Nigerian women that most Nigerian men hate them, they think I'm lying. The hate is subtle. Women, be wise and open your eyes. This same men travel to Obodo Oyinbo and do most of the housework for their foreign counterpart even though they have a job. Nigerian women, shine ya eyes. Don't let these men use you as a mule. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Zooposki(f): 5:24pm On May 10, 2023 |
obinna58: Dey there make pant wear you. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by owunabastard: 5:27pm On May 10, 2023 |
Your husband should understand, maybe he is thinking of extra mouth to feed. The only way he will understand is whenever he is around, make sure you involve him on running errands with you |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by DrDunamis(m): 5:27pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: Try dey calm down, small small. Just this minor thing and you start questioning one of the most important choices in your life? It tells much about your character personally. But I'm not here to cause darkness but to shine light. Have you suggested a younger sibling of yours or his, or a cousin instead of a complete stranger? Have you asked him softly to help you see his reason for having said no about your requests? |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Jashub: 5:30pm On May 10, 2023 |
cococandy:And you sound like all the other whores filling my mentions with stupidity 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Efinem006(m): 5:30pm On May 10, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:But you didn't advise her, rather you trying to poison her mind which is bad |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Jashub: 5:31pm On May 10, 2023 |
SLOVFO:A man can do exactly that ...or haven't you heard of single fathers who nursed their own kids after their wives died ? Mtchww |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Xerona: 5:34pm On May 10, 2023 |
Oju4190:you're getting it all wrong .. trust me i really try my best its not been easy.. most especially as it affects my health |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 10, 2023 |
Efinem006:The husband is bullying her , what type of man wants his wife to be so stressed out? He no try 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by graceilina: 5:37pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona:try to manage yourself. It's not everything that u must do. Do d little u can and leave the rest. One after d other. Do it small small. Some days, choose not to do nothing 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Ladiesdoctor(m): 5:39pm On May 10, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Your name suggested your kind of person. A decent man will surely steer off your path. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 10, 2023 |
Ladiesdoctor:No decent man will damn the doctor's advise putting his wife's health at risk. May God take your type far away from every woman on earth |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 5:42pm On May 10, 2023 |
Bringbackmandat:another angle but it's a two edged sword. Does the husband stop her from visiting his people ? There's no sane Nigerian man who's capable who will want his wife to suffer like this. If you're married or have married sisters, you'll know what I'm talking about, this calls for a family meeting before this lady drops dead due to lack of sleep and proper rest |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: 5 2 and 3 plus you. You don't have need for house help na or you want to sit in palour and cross legs. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by DrAda(f): 5:43pm On May 10, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Very wicked indeed 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by stephenponti(m): 5:44pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: The man is not ready to have u accuse him of sleeping with the house help. Bc that's what most women do. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by zakkxx: 5:51pm On May 10, 2023 |
Madam manage, live your husband alone. If u bring another fresh woman she go collect ur husband oo! Be wise ooo!! Employ old woman if u feel is very necessary. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by girlygirlyMain: 5:58pm On May 10, 2023 |
Listen to him! Get a help that resumes in the morning and goes towards evening. Get a washing machine and dishwasher too if necessary. Buy take out food sometimes. Go easy on yourself. Be flexible |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by sharone21(f): 5:58pm On May 10, 2023 |
komzy589: Be careful madam when a typical Nigerian man compliments u as a wife material. They want women to die early but are not ready to work as men without dragging women along 50:50 income formula saying men will be overstressed. My mum worked similarly 8-5:30pm, leaving home almost 6am daily and while she wàs pregnant( we are 6 kids) had 2 or 3 maids at once. This did not stop my dad from doing house chores and compound cleaning.... Dad travels as a rare Professional in his field and mum too travels and may stay up to 1 month leaving my dad with 5 daughters and 2 or 3 females extra. We do ask our mum why she never for once felt agitated leaving my dad alone with 'many women'( lol) and my mum would respond that: your dad is a HONORABLE MAN.....He may have his faults but it is a NO NO for him to have anything to do wrongly with anyoñe under his care. And this man is someone his daughter's will DIE for if need be. I thank God my brother is walking in his footsteps( though big). Men these days need mentors from elderly men who succeeded in their marriages. I know Pastor Taiwo Odukoya used to run something strictly for men in his Fountain of life church. Women, marry men u love but he MUST love u MORE so that where he needs to make sacrifices for u, he will do it effortlessly.... Men marry when u are READY for the hassles of marriage... Let your husband get his own female relative to help u. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by SLOVFO(m): 5:58pm On May 10, 2023 |
Jashub:Well, there's always an exception to the rule. But majority of men can't do that. And that just an aspect of an area where women excel well. There are countless others too. Have ever wondered why women get good divorce settlement in the western world? It get why.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Gentlevip: 6:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
I swear today's women are lazy and problematic Our mothers and grandmother's had more children more responsibility, yet they stood by it. Nothing like my head, this husband sef, I Doo all the house and market bla bla bla They became blessed and even healthier. Hardwork is the key. Not selfish pamper When una bring house help and the thing that is feared happen una go start blame devil. Abeg make I commot from these ajebo self centered complains 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Kelechi009: 6:03pm On May 10, 2023 |
sharone21: You look like a wife material to me though, Would you get to married & we share 50:50 like a good woman that you are 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by LugardD1: 6:09pm On May 10, 2023 |
Dey play.... bills too much this days, my guy know waiting him dey avoid, also safety of his kids. Pray over it. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Nobody: 6:10pm On May 10, 2023 |
Zooposki: Then stop praying for marriage and join the convent stupid and mule |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Aguiyimba(m): 6:10pm On May 10, 2023 |
[quote author=IyaebeTheGreat post=123052560] And that's enough reason not to follow doctor's advise over his wife's health? It mustn't be a live-in houshelp but she definitely needs one[/quot His home, his decision. |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by GoodCane: 6:11pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: Your husband will soon replace you soon. Keep becoming a parasite to him. If you have sense you Will invite your mother over. Nag too much and get replaced ASAP! |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by Malawian(m): 6:12pm On May 10, 2023 |
Bring your younger one to come spend holidays with you. A holiday that never ends. Xerona: |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by kwasoly(m): 6:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
Xerona: Don't you have brothers and sisters? If you know the danger involved in keeping house help you will understand what your man is avoiding. Be wise woman |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by onlyboyson(m): 6:24pm On May 10, 2023 |
madam relax buy washing machine and do other chores |
Re: My Husband Doesn't Want Us To Get A House Help by DollarSigns(m): 6:29pm On May 10, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Who be your kolos plug ni🤔, e hit |
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