₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
@IyaTola:

It would be helpful to differentiate between what occurs in Nigeria: prostitution aka exchange of sex for money

And what occurs in the West: causal sex aka one night stand which is actually the hookup culture.

For Nigeria: prostitution is caused majorly by greed, unresourcefulness, laziness etc. on the part of the men & women. A few women/young girls are victims of trafficking and kidnapping for prostitution.

For the West: hookup is majorly caused by feminism which taught women that they are free to sexually explore aka sleep around. Now, feminism claims that men have been promiscuous of ages and applauded. Instead of holding the men accountable, they strangely preferred to 'join' the men and rather insust that they are not slut shamed. Because of free sex, men wonder why they should buy the cow when they can get the milk for free.

In all of the above, there are young men and women in Nigeria & the West who have decided (due to religion, morals, upbringing or personal determination) to apply sexual restraint and shun instant gratification. To them I say kudos and may God/life lead you to similar partners who have reserved themselves.

Hassanmaye:
What! It must be Lagos

Gerrard59:
One naive nairalander go read this and think he is innocent. Not knowing this is Nairaland's biggest patron of sex workers.

Dshocker:
There are, but very expensive, you might have to spend about 30%-100% of your salary to get one

DonroxyII:
I think Poverty & Bigger Life than One's Economic Means !

Gerrard59:
That is not true.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.

as if women don't have urge for sex whereas they crave for it more. Sex is the greatest weapon a woman has over a Man this is why they monetize it.

Gerrard59:
One naive nairalander go read this and think he is innocent. Not knowing this is Nairaland's biggest patron of sex workers.

Divoc19:
You're right and Social Media promote it

DrFunmisticGlow:
red pill/incel vomit.

kay29000:
That's just an excuse. Is she the first girl to be out of job? She did it cos she probably was already doing it before she got that job, and was probably doing it on the side when she had the job...i know female bankers that are into hookup. It is not always about poverty...it is most times because the girl is lazy.

manny4u:
Well, you are right. It is just difficult to make excuses for them.

kay29000:
You're very accurate. I'm amazed when i see some girls in their 20s i know are into runs calling themselves olosho on whatsapp statuses and laughing about it...they're not ashamed about it anymore. Theyre very open.

They love it...they love every bit of it, from hanging with Yahoo boys and older men that spend lazishly on them, to have wild sex with these men.

africandictator:
Females love sex more than men, and realising they can get sex and be paid for it is thrilling . Its a win win for them. if you are doing hook up, please continue, just make sure you carry out routine stds tests, avoid anal sex and stay off drugs so you don't get an addiction and go astray. Importantly eat healthy, get proper hygiene and save because your bodies would not always be attractive for ever and health over wealth!!!

DonroxyII:
Of course, The World is now Globalised With Global Social medias ...

Big Ballers are even Importing Girls from Brazil, Caribbean as Dem Dey Import Commodities Dem no dey run local any more ......

Humanities is Now One Community, Is the World not Sweeter ...

Anyway, E Better Pass Wars & Destructions as Has Been Happening from Eon Times !

Present Generations are Better than Past Generations & Future Generations Shall be Better than Present Generations .. That's the Law!

myami:
can men get paid for sex? We do all the work

IyaTola:
Yes, men get paid for sex. Visit Lekki and find out.

myami:
you get connect?

IyaTola:
Yes but you have to belong to the sect.

myami:
do you know any i can join?

IyaTola:
Yes, WHGR

myami:
how can i get free sex?

DonroxyII:
How old are you & What's your Gender ?

myami:
male and sexually active. Link me up

DonroxyII:
So What's it Mama ?

myami:
link?

QuinModah:

myami:
male and sexually active. Link me up

Okoroemekah:
social media Internet is the cause 100%,you don't do what you don't learn.when we are teenagers in the late 80s the only naked woman you can ever see is if you peep in the bathroom or bedroom.how many people has tv talkmore or VCR to watch blue film.can you afford lolly magazine or porn magazines? Social media has given women unprecedented freedom of access and exposure not see since the beginning of mankind.a young girl in mbano imo state can take videos of her pvssy and advertise online an a man in osaka Japan will see it in seconds another young girl in enugu living with her parents can post her nude self and contact for any man to patronise her.any young girl or boy with a smart phone has access to millions if not billions of sexual pictures and videos in the palm of their hands.you cannot be exposed to such contents and expected not to be affected by the radiation of lust.