Op say na I'm babe teach am clubbing.
Me thinking about the other guys she also teach and the person wey teach am

Club dey and Club dey.

Majority of night clubs in Naija big cities are populated by Ashewos and so if you don't mind your wife being propositioned or asked how much by punters then don't take her to the club.

No go take your wife to the one where dem dey dance naked or where they have live sex on stage.

There are some places reserved for randy men and no be every where husband go na im wife must follow am go.

Houseofglam7:
Two adults are doing what rocks their boats without goring anyone’s horse and random peeps are convulsing over it. Yikes 😬

we wouldn't have convulse if she kept it to herself, and didn't post it here

is clubbing meant for only those that know how to dance?

RevenuesBoost:



You're so real
I love you

Girl, I so wanna go clubbing but hubby is not a good dancer... so I wouldn't want guys flocking around me cz they don't stay away when they sight a lady dancing alone (talking from my first and last time I went 🤣). Hubby will oblige but I don't want some crazy fellas coming to perch😂.... Unless I find the club that restricts "perchers"

OdefaGirl:



You guys know how to mess people up.... Very sickening

The truth is a bitter pill

Kobojunkie:
1. Wait a minute, so you are telling me that when you and your wife want to socialize, you go to an amusement park? And you are OK with your 16-year-old kid frequenting the adult section of the same amusement park in your absence?

Tell me what's bad in that, at least, I'm guaranteed of no incessant dressings.... Can you compare it with what you find in clubs?

Wawelexy:



The truth is a bitter pill

If at all there's "any" truth in your assumption

When the children start coming, no be person go advise una.

Well said

RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

dreamxhaser:
■ Have you been to a clubhouse before Do you know the amount of bad stuffs going on there.
We dey tell una from experience, una no wan hear Continue

A lot of good things also happen at clubhouses. For one, business deals are made, and people are able to connect and network with others in their fields. I think there is this close-minded approach to reviewing clubbing that is prevalent here.

Wawelexy:
Tell me what's bad in that, at least, I'm guaranteed of no incessant dressings.... Can you compare it with what you find in clubs?

So the couple in the OP are not decently dressed enough for you?
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bigiyaro:
you are right, it's the character and behavior of the person that matters, and that is why you will never find oyedepo clubbing. So am telling you that fonicators and drunks often go to the club cos that is the character and behavior of a fonicator/drunk.

and in churches you still thieves, cheaters and those who abort

the problem with most africans, we find clubing as bad black becoz we have never been to a good club and we think every club is the same,

RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️

When I was still a bachelor living in Allen Avenue, I once witnessed a married man that brought his wife to Ocean Blue strip club on Opebi...lol. the woman hear nwiiii that night....when the whole environment don charge and men do high...they were fun seekers too.

Hmmm! So that your Saint Obi looking woman spent her single years in a club?

You married a virtuous woman!

RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

It is so sweet to be on the defensive side but worst to be defensive of a tale one knows within one that the situation is similar to catching a king cobra with bare hands

I think this ones are newly or just got married make una no worry when kids and other family challenges come knocking for their various attentions una go know the real meaning of essential life style! all these GenZ kids sef!

Wawelexy:



But she won't be able to play the victim card on her hubby if she's been caught, but she can turn it against her husband if issues arises as a result of clubbing... Ladies do this alot

Trying to know that, human being is extremely hard to stop character wise.

It's called grooming, your new wife is so lucky...

WAPINATION:
I think this ones are newly or just got married make una no worry when kids and other family challenges come knocking for their various attentions una go know the real meaning of essential life style! all these GenZ kids sef!

There are people here who have been married 20 years or more who still frequent Jazz clubs and the rest. It is a matter of your culture of choice and not your generation.

macphilip:
is clubbing meant for only those that know how to dance?

Na wa oo! When I dey do my own clubbing, na mostly to go people watch na im be my own.

I FOR LIKE FVCK HER

Kobojunkie:
1. Sometimes the way you folks talk of your partners, it leads me to wonder if you even consider them as equally capable adults such as yourselves. Can an adult be cajoled into doing what he/she does not already want to or desire to do — without a gun to the head of course?

2 From the way you talk, I can tell you have never in fact been clubbing at all in your life. I used to do it a lot in my young years and I never picked up any thing I didn't want to pick up, why? because of the person I am. Everyone is like that. We only pick up what we already have and loose disciple. And these things you can pick up pretty much anywhere really. So, if you want to shackle a person because you are afraid the person does not have the same disciplines you have then it is better you don't even engage that person at all because whether the person clubs or does not, he/she is bound to pick up that which he or she already have loose ideas of.

3. So are you saying it is OK for a man can go clubbing with his side chicks but not his own wife? It is ok for a man to pick up on the vices you listed but not his wife? Or what exactly am I reading here?

I said what I said and its clearly up there for you to see and don't put words into my mouth. I can't start to tell you how much I clubbed before getting married. Its my clubbing and with style.
Clubbing is not for married peeps. Have u been to a clubs where naked girls dance? I know u havent. I can refer some for you if you are in Lagos.
People making it out at odd places and prostitutes half naked galivanting everywhere looking for clients, even the gigolos are not left out. People basically trying to hook up and have quick s#x. Peeps openly using banned substances and trying to mix up. Is that the type of environment you would like to expose you wife or husband to? You may be going to beer parlour joints but don't mistake it here for clubs.They are two different things. you claim to have good morals as if everyone else doesn't. It will only take the right person to introduce you to cocaine abuse if you can afford it, it will only take the right person to seduce your wife right in the club and have sex under your nose without your knowledge. It only takes the right person to make you go out of your ways to do things, good morals or not, strong willed or not. It always takes the right person. Basically avoid temptations in places you know they abound. There are other places to catch real fun with your spouse apart from clubs and mind you, there is no such thing as a good club. clubs attracts men and women of easy virtues in droves.
I wish I met someone like you those years, I for dabaru your life pata pata and by now you will be a real junkie instead of naira land kobo junkie. No jokes! Some never recovered till now.

dangermouse:
■ I said what I said and its clearly up there for you to see and don't put words into my mouth. I can't start to tell you how much I clubbed before getting married. Its my clubbing and with style.
Clubbing is not for married peeps. Have been to a club where naked girls dance? I know u havent. I can refer some for you if you are in Lagos.
People making it out at IDD places and prostitutes half naked everywhere. People basically trying to hook up and have quick s#x. Peeps openly using banned banned substances and trying to mix up. Is that the type of environment you would like to expose you wife or husband to? You may be going to joints but don't mistake it here for clubs.They are two different things.

Spare me the close-minded narratives abeg!

So those of us who never stopped clubbing, continuing to this day are what? Out there looking for quick sex, drugs, prostitutes, and ne'er do wells?

Wawelexy:
She will go without you whenever you not around to go with her, maybe due to work or any other more important things.... They will bang the hell out of her kitten before you come back... Club life ain't for married couples....

She comes from the club, and to it she'll always be

ZIMDRILL:


and in churches you still thieves, cheaters and those who abort

the problem with most africans, we find clubing as bad black becoz we have never been to a good club and we think every club is the same,

I don't do religion, am not judging anybody, the thing is, just as Islam is synonymous with suicide bombing, clubbing, smoking, drinking and fonicating, all these also go hand in hand.

bigiyaro:
I don't do religion, am not judging anybody, the thing is, just as Islam is synonymous with suicide bombing, clubbing, smoking, drinking and fonicating, all these also go hand in hand.

What exactly is wrong with drinking? Smoking? As for fornicating, these things happens pretty much everywhere so why blacklist clubs?

@RevenuesBoost
its exciting but I wouldn't take my wife there. its additive and please try not to go there often same as your man.

Exc2000:
Marry your best friend

You said it all👍

Kobojunkie:
Spare me the close-minded narratives abeg!

So those of us who never stopped clubbing, continuing to this day are what? Out there looking for quick sex, drugs, prostitutes, and ne'er do wells?

You married? I guess no.

So what is your reason deep down for clubbing?

Be truthful here.

blaise26abj:


Nice . I saw couples in clubs when I was single . I once saw a lady dancing so hard and the guy beside her was just slumped in the chair . I asked him why he wasn’t dancing with the babe , he said she is his wife and she really wanted to go out but he is tired and will just relax . I loved it .

It doesn’t even have to be clubbing . It could be a fish spot or a late night movie or a PS gaming night at home with alcohol and orishirishi after the kids are in bed .

PS - seems you both don’t have kids yet . It becomes harder to find that couple’s time once they show face 🤣🤣🤣. Even to smash na strategic maneuvering 🥹🥹🥹

That's my point!
A day or two to relax from the week's stress.